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What's your opinion of guy friends of your girlfriend?
>Usually text her once a day. Sometimes once every few days.
>Known the gf for awhile
>Invites her to events and such (group events where the guy is with a lot of other people)
Should I be worried?
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You should be worried that you have doubts about your girl.
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>>17504388
We're not going to sit her and hypothesize about the behavior of two people we don't know. That's pointless. Any opinions we could give you about that would be pulled completely out of our asses.
If you don't trust her then break up with her. Thats it.
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Trust issues or she's a whore. Or both. How could we know?
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It's been nearly a year since my crush died.
None of my friends knew her. I don't have anyone to mourn with. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one on the planet who remembers her.
How do I cope? A beautiful girl is gone and I don't even have anyone to confide in. It's been a year now and it still hurts.
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I'm sorry. What happened?
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>>17504406
Car crash.
Weird thing is, I didn't really know her that well. After she died, I learned more about her and developed the biggest crush. It sucks.
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>>17504445
It doesn't sound like you really knew her as a person then, so your crush is based around the idea of who you think she may have been. Seek professional help.
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>Dating girl for 3 weeks now
>Impossible to make plans with her, she doesn't respond to texts/calls for like 5-6 hours on end, even when I get the "read" mark
>No idea what the fuck she is doing, because she isn't that busy
>Another girl wants to date me, pretty much always replies instantly, and is considerate when making plans with her
I like the first girl a LOT, but fuck she is a pain in the ass to get a hold of or do anything with. We're sort of in this weird stage where we are deciding whether or not to get 100% serious, but we just recently had sex.
Second girl is not as physically attractive, but honestly seems a lot sweeter, and I'd actually be able to do things with her.
Is it okay to dump girl 1, for girl 2, simply because she actually talks to me, and I can do shit with her?
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>Is it okay to go for a girl that is there for me?
That's how I read your post, man. Of fucking course you are justified in choosing a girl who actually puts in the effort.
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>>17504360
My dad always said "dont put in the time if she cant put in a dime"
Meaning if she cant give you ten minutes of her time, drop her.
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>>17504360
ddue girl 1 is a fucking flake drop her...spent too much time before with a girl like that and it's fucks with your head.
never settle either...if girl 2 isn't what your looking for in a girl (even looks-wise) don't settle because she is the only one who seems to pay attention. get more hobbies/interests network more and get out and find what you want its not gonna wander in through the door.unfortunately in all the million and millions of girls out there only 2 seem interested you may be kinda boring....currently.
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I asked a girl I know out and she said no but then she said "We can still be friends." and I said "I'll pass but thanks." She got upset because I didn't want to be her friend and called me an asshole.
Am I an asshole?
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you're an ass for saying it and not just not talking to her anymore
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>>17504369
That seems like a bigger asshole move to me. Just stop talking for no reason with no closure? How is that better?
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your an ass for saying that, in that way. but not an ass for not wanting to be friends with her anymore after this.
shoulda done it slowly or expressed your feelings in a diferent way rather than saying ill pass.
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My girlfriend keeps talking about her sort-of ex? 2016-08-28 02:53:17 Post No.17504293
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My girlfriend keeps talking about her sort-of ex?
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A bit ago, my girlfriend, she was kind of in a relationship with an older guy, I think he was 19. Their relationship didn't extend much past kissing (and at one point 3rd base). She was pretty much entirely dependant emotionally on him. As far as I know she wasn't being taken advantage of, but I can't be completelt sure. We've been dating for about 3 months now, and she talks about him a lot. He just left for college and has completely cut her off. She gets really sad about it, and is still very close with his younger sister. Today, my girlfriend was at the younger sisters house, and took one of his hoodies. This worries me a little, I mean how else am i supposed to feel when she keeps talking about her past relationships? She loves me a lot, and I really like her, I'm just confused as to how to handle this.
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>>17504293
Shes not over him.
Dump her. This will not go away.
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>>17504293
>She was pretty much entirely dependant emotionally on him
>Their relationship didn't extend much past kissing
Unrelated to my advice, but homie do you really believe this?
She's definitely not over him. It has nothing to do with you, but you need to dump her. Nothing good will come out of being someone who's not entirely there.
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>>17504314
Honestly, I don't really believe her. I've heard the rumors, everyone says they had sex. I would literally crush her if i dumped her, she has next to no friends, and everyone looks at her like a slut. I love her, and she says and acts like she loves me too, but i just can't see myself letting go of how worried i am about her talking about her ex so much.
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>going to school for sculpting at the top art school in the country
>disappointed father, mom, but supported by everyone else
>hardly any debt, though
Why's it so bad? I don't plan on being rich, just to have a career as a sculptor. I don't plan on marriage nor do I plan on kids.
What do you guys think?
>inb4 some stem elitist tries to act superior
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>>17504289
Because you're not following the norm of 'make money > get house > get wife > have kids.' And in a sense, they probably want to live through you. But as long as you're happy, it doesn't matter what they think.
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Your life - do what you want
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>>17504289
as long as you are happy I'll be happy for you too
I'm okay with my life as it is, but I'm getting bored. I wanna change some shit that I do and perhaps get into some exciting hijinks as a result, but I'm unimaginative as fuck. I'd also prefer not to do shit that's super common. Some possibly relevant info about me:
>22
>male
>plain attire
>always do my hair the same way
>have been dating a girl for a year and a half
>last semester of college
>far from rich, but I have room to spend some money
>computer engineering student
>code a lot
>free time on weekends generally
>current hobbies include coding, walking, playing piano, hanging out with friends (lel as if that counts)
>don't play video games
What can I do to spice up my life? Preferably nothing extremely dangerous or illegal. Pic possibly related.
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>>17504282
You say you like walking. Have you thought about taking up hiking/backpacking? Take a look at /out/, it's really fun.
Sometimes I like to fill up my gas tank and just drive in a random direction. It satiates that urge to explore, and you'll find some awesome places along the way.
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>>17504291
That sounds like a good idea phamalam. I go on road trips occasionally, but I never go too far, and they're never longer than a few days. Perhaps I could hit the road during autumn break or something. And hiking might be cool, especially with the terrible heat beginning to die down.
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>>17504282
Wait for college to end. Shit will get hektik quick.
Cars are neat, try that. All the cool shit from the 90's is super cheap these days and stuff from 96 and back doesn't have to emissions test.
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A while ago I posted about considering leaving my religion and how to do it.
I became convinced enough to leave. The thing is...I don't think they're aware I've left yet???
I haven't attended in 5 weeks (if not 6) and people still think I'm there and have started messaging me and texting me. For now, I've just been avoiding these. It's utterly confusing and while I feel like we should "rip off the band-aid" I'm not interested in meeting with these people and having a conversation that is almost certainly going to be one-sidedly emotional and entirely unreasonable. Long and short of it is, while I have my reasons for leaving, I don't feel like I should have to give them a reason at all. It's something I have control over, so I should only have to answer to myself.
Some people have also left, and they met with members to discuss it/sent a letter detailing it, but their experiences have told me of a severe fallout and shitstorm afterwards. People start hating them, calling them an enemy, start airing out dirty laundry within the community, some have even filed lawsuits, and it's just not something I need, especially since again, a family member of mine is still in the religion.
For all intents and purposes, I'd like to just disappear. When people ask each other about me, I'd like the conversation to go "Oh him? He left" "Oh" and nothing else. My interaction with this community is over.
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just 'ghost' - don't reply, for sure don't meet with them, just go do other stuff.
Mormon?
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>>17504278
This here.
Keep in contact with the people that matter and don't bother responding to the rest. If you don't give them ammunition, they have nothing to use against you. Don't JADE (justify, argue, defend, explain) because nothing you say will be acceptable.
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>>17504278
Damn, I didn't save the old thread, but a lot of people thought I was. Naw, just a different kinda cult except it used the Bible.
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So I've never ever had trouble finding a job.
>I have always passed and aced interviews. >I'm an excellent writer.
>I have great customer service and speaking skills.
>College educated and applying to entry level jobs that only require a HS Diploma.
I moved to a new area thinking I wouldn't have any trouble for the above reasons. Since moving I haven't gotten any e-mail responses to any ads I've been replying to on Craigslist. I'm mostly applying to Administrative Assistant/Receptionist positions at Law Offices because I want to go to Law School in a few years.
I have no idea what I'm doing wrong and honestly feel over-qualified, but am not getting any responses.
Theory:
>Not getting responses because I'm a male applying for positions typically given to females.
Advice?
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>craigslist
I see your problem there
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>>17504272
Should I go into random law offices with my resume? I feel like most of them will think I'm annoying and I'll have my resume thrown in the trash by the current receptionist.
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>>17504284
I would seriously never consider applying for a job on craigslist, unless it was some weird-ass shit.
Does anyone know a way to make suicidal thoughts go away quickly?
All of a sudden, something will set me off, then I'll have a desire to hang myself. It's not the committing suicide itself that I'm worried about, but rather I quickly get depressed afterwards.
Note that I've only been diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder.
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>>17504204
>Note that I've only been diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder
Nice meme, but ''depression'' been proven to be a big myth invented by grown babies who cant take anything in life.
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>>17504210
How so?
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>>17504210
>been proven to be a big myth
Gonna need a citation on that.
>Also, guy who never had depression.
OP want to talk about it? Hit me on e-mail on [email protected] to chat, I'm going to sleep soon, but have a half an hour to talk, if you'd be willing to.
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I need help figuring out if theres a way to get rid of added sound effects to music clips. I took the infinate warfare trailer and turned it into an mp3 but i want to erase the gun fire, crashing noises and talking. Could anyone advise me as to how to do that or point me to an app that does? Im using an android device.
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>>17504203
You need help figuring out how to stop being a fucking retard.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-igKvOAUV0
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>>17504235
Its not the same fucking song you inbred deaf piece of shit did you even compare it? No, you fucking didnt.
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>>17504346
My bad, I didn't feel like listening to shit for someone else.
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So I'm dating my best friend's ex, and I have been for a couple years now.
He and I are no longer on speaking terms.
He fucked her over on multiple occasions.
Is this acceptable given the circumstances?
I have no regrets, but I know there are many people who dislike me because of this despite not knowing the whole story.
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If you truly have no regrets, why are you asking us?
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If he was a dick and fucked her over and was generally a dick over all, then yeah, I'd have no qualms about it.
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>>17504170
I don't think I'm in the wrong. Doesn't necessarily meant that's the case though. I just wanted some insight from others.
>>17504175
He randomly decided to move across the country right after they began living together. They only dated a year. While she was here pining over him, he was fucking around, so I told her.
It's fucked up, but I had really grown to care for her, and I was sick of seeing her so upset all the time.
We were best friends for 7 years though. I don't think I'll ever find anyone I can relate to on that level again. Sometimes I want to talk, but he blocked me on everything.
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You guys are alright.
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thanks man I love you
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Thanks m8
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2016-08-28 02:24:00
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>>17504150
A girl called me perfect today while I was totally myself
Moral of the story : keeping it real goes a long way and fuck the haters
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I'm fucking afraid /adv/. Today my gf who I live with under permission from her grandmother asked her pregnant sister for her DVD player. The sister did what she usually does and started a fight about irrelevant things. She started screaming about how I shouldn't live here and mooch off of the grandmother when in reality I give her a large portion of my paycheck a month. She holds over our head the fact that she's underaged and can call the cops but the romeo and juliet law in Florida allows it since she has permission and she's 16 (I'm 18). She gets in my gf's face and my gf starts to beat her in the back of the head. Enraged, her sister's husband runs up to me and beats the shit out of me despite me trying my best to keep out of it and wait till it blew over. Now I'm afraid cops are going to be called, and because she's a pregnant woman her side will automatically be taken. I'm running out of characters so if there's holes in this story or I didn't explain something just ask and I'll clarify
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>I live with my 16 year old girlfriend's family
>Florida
gross
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From what you've told us, there's no reason for you to be worried about police. Worst that can happen to you is grandma tells you to leave. Also, this story reeks of Florida, so nobody judge op too harshly, he's a product of his environment
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>>17504102
Florida fucking sucks and the only positive thing about it in my eyes is that most people here share my political views, but even then, how long can you handle just being around people who think the same as you. As for the police, I have no proof of the husband beating me and I don't know enough about the romeo and juliet law to be confident in it. I'm scared of the grandma telling the police she doesn't want me here because 3 of the 4 girls who live there bully her and she's sick of them and I'm afraid that anger will extend to me somehow and she outright told me that she didn't want me here because she's afraid of the police too because she is sensitive to confrontation but since I pull my weight and pitch in she's okay with it.
I am living on my own with disability, and I recently left my friends who were doing shady things. I don't have enough money for most online meetups, except for two I can attend next month. This month, I can count the amount of friendly conversations I have had on one hand. This is causing me to feel a lot of hopelessness and grief. I am using the govt for employment training, but a job could be many months ahead.
Any advice is appreciated, thank you.
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>>17504061
What disability?
Do you get NEETbucks for it or do you work? If so, income / education?
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>>17504323
disability is NEETbucks
I'm in a govt job training program, and I also found someone to give me a job reference, back when I was around people
it's not too desperate a situation, just the loneliness aspect is kinda sick
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>>17504331
I dunno man, being broke and having no friends as a result is pretty normal. Not having money to drive somewhere is pretty much a social life killer.
I asked "what disability" because you pretty much need to work on the money thing.