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Does anyone have experience as a bank teller?
I have a friend offering me a job as one.
I'd love to get out of the food industry, and the pay is better, but I fear working with other peoples money and I have almost 0 knowledge of anything finance or economic related. I don't want to accept then blow it and give her a bad image in the company and be out of a job myself. I realize Tellers are technically "entry level" positions, but its still a step up for me.
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>>17506543

Take it. It's basically like being at a cash register.
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>>17506565

P.S. I never worked as one, thankfully. It's a shit job, but you would be a cretin not to take it to get out of fast food. >>17506565
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>>17506543
Former teller at a credit union.

It's not a bad job. Started out at $13 an hour. It's easy stuff just make sure you balance a few times a day so if you're off you can catch it. I always balanced in the end but clerical errors happen and can slow you down as you are trying to leave. We also had cash dispense machines so it was rare for anyone to not balance. Make sure you do your due diligence on checks, if it looks off show your manager and they will either sign off on it or tell you to put in on hold. Don't let members run over you, doesn't matter if they are someones mom, if they aren't on the account they get ZERO info about said account.

Honestly the worst part about the job is the members, which is why I'm back in school. Fuck customer service. Dealing with poor broke assholes really got to me , but you've waited tables so I'm sure you can handle it.

Also at least double count any money given or handed out by you.

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I think my friend with benefits is starting to lose interest in me because I don't really orgasm when we're together. We have sex almost once a week since May and I've only came twice. I think it's hurting his ego because he knows how easy I come from masturbating and we openly talk about our past sexual relationships so he knows this is my first time having such a problem.

I, honestly, really enjoy being with him and the sex feels amazing. I just feel high anxiety when I'm with him, so I just focus on getting him to come.

When we sexted he told me he just wishes he could get me to come more. I told him I appreciate that he cares. He replied "I just want you to get as much out of it as I do." I told him I feel like he's sexually matured me to not associate great sex with an orgasm and he said, "Glad I could do that, at least." I feel really bad about it. What can I do?

Tldr; what can I do to try and relax during sex?
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I love my bf's dick inside me, but I find it really hard to cum unless I'm on top of him, like riding so I can rub my clit on him too. But when he's on top of me, I just rub myself while he's inside me. He loves it, I love it because I'm getting the penetration too and we both get off. It's all about having fun and feeling good and being connected... Maybe try and focus on exactly WHAT you're feeling down there, instead of him, focus on what moves get you going... I'm sure he'll be able to work with whatever you're doing =) good luck!
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>>17506566
I'm usually on top and I do touch myself even that was a hassle to orgasm those two times. What's weird is I can usually go hands free to orgasm.

I feel like sex with me is a chore :/
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>>17506590
Would you feel better if you blindfolded him? (Just wondering if it's a body image issue?)

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I'm 23 years old and I have to make a resume. I'm studying I.T. and I want a job in that area.
My only ""work"" experience so far has been one year working in some tiny shop that belonged to some friend of my family, and after that giving classes at home to some teens about high scool level math, physics and English. Both of these seem completely unrelated to I.T., especially the first one.
But should I include both of those? Should I write them as "work experience"? Or under some other title and put no work experience part?
And if I should write the shop part, what's the proper way to word it?
And will the employers check on that? Because the few other people that worked in that shop are pretty crazy and Idk if they will speak a good word of me.
But otherwise I'm worried about leaving the work experience thing blank...

Also, is a photo of me totally necessary? And I'm gonna be sending my resume by email to some job offer sites, should I send it as a MS Word .doc file?
Thanks!
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>>17506464
Put down whatever you did in the last few years, then try to spin them as things that contributed towards developing skills that are relevant, like teamwork or whatever. There are also non-job-specific qualities that you may be able to show off, like ambition, positivity etc.

>And will the employers check on that?
They may or may not. If you leave a conspicuous gap, they may question you about it anyway. They're most likely going to ask for references either way.

>Also, is a photo of me totally necessary?
Not at all. Actually, I'm pretty sure most people don't put photos in their resumes.

>And I'm gonna be sending my resume by email to some job offer sites, should I send it as a MS Word .doc file?
No, because recruiters are scumbags. PDF only.
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>>17506547
Thanks!!
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>But should I include both of those? Should I write them as "work experience"? Or under some other title and put no work experience part?
Put them under "volunteer work" or "freelancing" or something like that.

>And if I should write the shop part, what's the proper way to word it?
I don't know how you should word your work experience, it's you who did it. Just list the basic idea of what you did, and maybe the occasional achievement.

>Idk if they will speak a good word of me.
Have you considered asking them during your exit interview?

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Had sex with a long time friend last night. We've been really close and we both want to be together. But...after we were done, I fucking said that I loved him. He smiled and told me he loved me too, but as soon as he was about to leave, he said, "you shouldn't have told me that"

FUCK.
He was a bit strange before that though. He bluntly said he was bothered about how horny and how good my blowjob was. Bothered. Yeah.

He also wouldn't look in my eyes...
I feel horrible, /adv/.
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>>17506452
>be a slut
>regret it
divine justice.
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>>17506452
What do you want advice on? This is just a shitty story. Do you want to maintain a friendship with him?
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Obviously you need to talk to him. It sounds like you're entirely not on the same wavelength, even if he wasn't lying about reciprocating the love...

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So it's been about three weeks since this girl broke up with me. She said she needed space and time to grow as a person, because she realized in being with me, that she was falling into old habits that wouldn't have been good for me. She loves, respects, and values me too much to mistreat me and wants to be a better person before dating me again. I gave her space, but at the behest of friends, I wrote her a letter saying I wanted her back and I should be the judge of whether or not she's a good girlfriend. This lead to our first and only fight, but we resolved it and she told me she just needs time to get her shit together, and while there's no guarantee that we will get back together, she still loves me and has feelings for me.

It's been about a week since that conversation, and I've been trying really hard to just keep on going with my life, doing new things and shit, but I can't stop thinking about her. I've never loved another person like this and I was in a 4 year relationship before this. How do I play this situation for the long term benefit of the relationship? How do I respect her space to let her grow, but also nurse things so that we get back together? We talk every day still, and I just try to keep it light or talk about things not pertaining to us.
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>>17506450
if someone rejects you, you cut contact and move on.
There no point in insisting and wasting time with an ex.
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>>17506465
But that is not what I want.
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Ok, I'm going to translate what she said

"While being with you wasn't horrible I feel like I am missing something from my life. I'm not content with how my life is right now and I suspect it's because of you. This relationship is not working out perfectly so I'm going to try something else for a while and if it doesn't work out I'll come back to you. If it does you can fuck off."

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Im a piece of shit with no social skills, i hate myself, have nothing to talk about, am boring and cant hold a conversation at all. How do i go about fixing this?
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RSDNATION.COM
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>>17506431
Stop beating yourself up over it, get a hobby, join a club focusing on the hobby, talk with other clubgoers about your hobby.
A particular hobby you could try is improv.
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Go on omegle.com and chat with random strangers. Don't quit every person, force yourself to talk and get to know them. Do this everyday until you see results in real life.

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Please help me with basic social skills, sorry /adv/ i'm a pathetic autist

I hung out with this girl in a group of friends once, we wave to each other on campus (we're both female). Now she texted me asking to hangout, but basically said "i dunno lol" when I asked where.

wat are good activities or places for friends? thank you
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I usually just take new people in my friends group to go vandalize an abandoned factory with us all.
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Do you drink somthing, like beer or coffee? Eat food? Participate in an activity of some sort, such as vandalism?

Maybe something related to one of those interests?
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>>17506438
i don't want it to seem like a date. sorry i know this is spoonfeeding. is getting food with friends normal

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Have you ever considered going to church only to meet women?

I'm thinking about doing exactly that.
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>>17506379
Absolutely not, those chicks are fucked in the head 10 ways from Sunday. Especially Catholic girls.
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>>17506387
>Atheists actually believe this
Topkek
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Nope.

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Before and while I'm masturbating and am hot and horny and tugging at my meat, I am so fucking hungry for cum, but after I cum I've lost interest in eating my own cum.

Do any of you have this problem, and have any of you tried to refrigerate your own cum or someone else's cum to consume later when you're hungry again?

Does the cum basically stay cock fresh? And for how long? And if I want it to be body temperature warm as if it just came out of my penis, how long should I microwave it?

I want cum to eat while I'm masturbating not after.

>Keeping cum fresh to eat general
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>>17506347
Whatever happened to that fellow years ago on /b/ who was saving up his cum in gallon jugs and had dates written on them and supposedly he was eventually going to do something with it, most speculated he was going to gulp it down. This was years back, when I used to frequent /b/ before I matured to /pol/ and /hm/ and /v/ and /tv/ and /mu/ and /lit/ and /y/ and then when lgbt/ was created, /lgbt/.
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>>17506353
Rofl, no way!! Dude, that's crazy. So curious what the heck he did with them
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>>17506347
Yummy and weird, lulz.

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Can any religious anons or ones that are knowledgeable tell me if I can kill myself without going to hell or being punished? That's the only thing stopping me really
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Don't do it ......I made that mistake and I believe I'm being punished for it right now.....have you ever heard of the mandela effect? That's how ppl are explaining it to me and I don't think so
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>>17506320
If your idea of getting religious advice consists of asking here, you may want to consider talking to a proper priest.
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Depends on the religion, idiot. In catholicism and orthodoxism you can't.

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How to leave the best first impression possible on a girl? Being a beta faggot that is
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>>17506314
Cum on her face
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>>17506316
God damnit pegasus
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>>17506314
It depends on the girl, dumbass.

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i know there are jobs in computer networking but im still wondering if pursuing a career in networking is a good idea. ive heard that there is a lot of outsourcing in IT and dont want to waste a bunch of time getting a diploma only to find out the jobs are in africa.

does anyone have any experience with this?
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There is a lot of outsourcing in IT. I live in Romania and the field is booming here to the point where employees are hiring even people without any kind of degree or experience as long as they can write 50 lines of code. This doesn't mean you won't find IT jobs in your country, the field is still growing everywhere, but there may not be as many as you'd like. I heard in the West the demand for workforce is lower than the supply in IT, don't know how accurate it is.

This being said you should go for a degree in this field only if you like it. If you don't you'll hate studying, you'll do only bad or average in uni and you won't be good enough to get hired on a decent position.
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>>17506580
i enjoy working with computers but all i really want out of it is a stable job with decent pay and daytime hours really
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>>17506637
Well it's a decent field for that. You should try to learn what it entitles and be sure you won't hate it before making any big decisions though, I wasted 4 years of my life because I haven't done that (different field though).

You should also consider looking into actuarial sciences and mathematics, they're amazing fields considering your desires.

Why do normies tell me I am not entitled to a gf?
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>>17506250
That's like the weirdest pepe I've ever seen.
As to your question... idk, not enough detail or information here, sorry.
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you're not
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>>17506255

But I want a gf. It's easy for you but not for me normie.

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Im an 18 y/o female highschool student and i have very low self esteem, and i have a problem (at least i think its a problem) with staring at people. I feel guilty when an attractive guy catches me looking at them because they probably think its gross and weird and dont want me looking at them. I usually avoid eye contact with people because it makes me uncomfortable and i just feel like a creep. Is this all in my head? can other people in the room tell when im staring at someone else? Does that look awkward? Do you get angry when ugly people look at you? I know these questions seem kind of foolish but i think i have a tendency to over analyze things, idk i feel really pathetic and gross and ugly. Any comments are appreciated
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We all look at each other. No worries, anon.
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>>17506230
Come to /fit/, search the catalog for "plg" and come shit post with us there.

Only because you're a girl though, nobody else is invited.
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>>17506230
Most time its instinctual for someone to catch you looking. Just when you just stare, they just don't really care. They would be more happy if you walked up to them and talked because most guys are shy and have low standards.

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How exactly do you flirt? I've mostly become normie over the years, but this is the one normie thing that still eludes me.


Also semi-related, I've got a crush on a friend of mine, but I've never really felt like she's shown much interest in me. Should I try asking her out on a casual date anyway? I'd almost certainly try flirting with her a bit in the future, in any case

pic unrelated
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Bump for a similar problem
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>>17506173
Make sexual jokes to create sexual tension
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>>17506173
Watch others do it. Check out movie scenes with characters making their SO's jealous, late night talk show hosts (except Conan, he plays up being a loser) etc.

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