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>>17528602
Yes

>>17528602
>Are my fears warranted, or am I just dumb? ;_;
The world needs teachers, OP. Follow your dream.

Also, don't listen to the STEM autists who think their degree is the be-all and end-all of education. Some of the STEM guys I know genuinely think there's an "a" in the word "college", and are still pig-headed enough to think they're the next Da Vinci.

>>17528602
>everyone says an arts degree is inferior to a STEM degree
Who "everyone"? Some fuckboys on 4chan? The same ones who say other races are inferior to whites? Why even listen to them, anon? Never let them decide what is inferior and what is superior, arts is much better in my opinion, more creative and more job opportunities in social fields, especially with languages.
Why would you pursue a STEM degree if you dont care about math and you like English language?

i left her ass and went to my gfs house and kissed her right away. the tables have turned bitch and im the one whos doing the cucking now hows that nasty west virginia pussy taste you whore hahahah

so.. what sort of advice are you looking for?

>>17528633
should i keep doing this to tinder whores or just stay faithful?

>>17528590

O_O

I like this kind of joke posts. 10/10

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Thanks for the nice image.

You might try fork and toaster trick.

>i feel very bluebbaled now

Jerk off.

Not sure why you're drinking with your ex (especial without your current girlfriend but, whatever).

If you keep doing it you are an idiot, unless you ENJOY fucking up your life somehow. Then you're pretty smart because this seems like a good way to do it.

>>17528521
It was accidental, i was out drinking with my friends and she was out drinking with her friends and we end up drinking in the same place by coincidence

>>17528529

How sure are you that this "accidental meet up" won't happen again anytime soon?.

Because the bottom line is if you want a simple answer to the query "my question is if i fucked up passing on the chance", then the answer is no. You would have fucked up if you HAD done it. OBVIOUSLY.

You can't force correct your brain man. You need to just avoid it and isolate yourself and distract yourself from it little by little and keep on thinking about how fucked up it is and WAIT for your brain to change by itself. Keep acknowledging your problem though. Keep knowing it is a problem and as long as you do that eventually the chances are good that at some point your brain will tell you what you should do as far as keeping away, or focusing on other activities. Try and feel guilty. Turn that acknowledgement into guilt at how messed up you have become. It might motivate you to not watch it so much.

Add leechblock or stayfocusd or something like that to your browser and make it not allow you access to the control panel after you add all the porn to it

>>17528493

If you are truly an addict, seek professional help. I'm sure you can kick the habit on your own, though.

Get something that keep you occupied and out of the house. Harder to fap then. And when you come back, you'll be tired, so less likely to fap.

Bro I've been going through this for a year. It didn't work out for me at all and it's still left me trying to find some closure even after my ex betrayed me while we were "trying to work on ourselves"

>>17528482
As long as she tells you what's wrong, and works WITH you to fix it, of course it can be normal.

That's what everyone has to go through to make relationships work. It's why people say that relationships are work. It's just sometimes more work than what others go through. But everyone has to hash things out and fix things over the course of their lives together, because that's what happens when two humans come together. You're going to have problems.

If she actually wants to be with you, she'll be 100% honest about what's making her unhappy. Then you need to do everything you can to fix it. Likewise, if she does shit that makes you unhappy, she needs to fix that. But these are not solo activities. It requires both of you being committed to overcoming the problem.

Four years into my relationship, my girlfriend dropped the bomb on me what she was unhappy with our sex life. She was bored and confessed that she had never orgasmed, and that she secretly wanted me to go down on her. Well fuck, no problem, she should have just told me. After she did, we changed things up in bed and she's been a completely different person in terms of affection. She should have told me sooner. But whatever. You get the point? Problems have to be spoken about and fixed, ASAP.

The relationship is stronger as a result.

>>17528495
but the thing is she never told me she was unhappy.

this is my first time hearing about it. maybe im a little thick headed for not realising it.

arent couples supposed to go 'hey im not happy, lets work on this, this and that', instead of 'hey im not happy, lets break up'?

it's the thought oh her deciding that a break up instead of working things out could be a solution to her unhappiness that puts me on edge and makes me uncomfortable moving forward. how do we proceed with me feeling all this pressure and fear of her leaving?

>>17528420
yes

now go back to /r9k/

>Is this what women are really like?

Depends which women.

There are a lot of stuck up bitches, but usually the biggest common factor is their age.

The older they get usually the more calmed down they are. Guys I don't see this as the case. I don't see guys treat women like this and it's not just because they want pussy. I see guys treat women for the most part like a possible friend even if they're ugly and shit just not fuckable. I am familiar with the girls who won't even accept being in the same 10 foot circle with some motherfuckers.

yep, women are evil
it's been known for thousands of years

>>17528378

Did you do anything creepy towards the end? Otherwise, if I were you, I'd just wait.

Look man, you need to contain your needyness. She stayed over for 8 hours, which a sane person would never do If They didnt enjoy your company. She could at any time made up an excuse to leave, yet she did not. Worst case scenario she endjoyed your company. Just calm down And see What happens.

>>17528378
Are you tall? Handsome? Rich?

Anon, don't do it. Literally just tell your GF the truth, if she's the girl you need, she will laugh it off. And trust me, if she does, getting taught by the woman you adore will be an experience you don't want to miss out on. Man up and tell her, it's for the best.

Don't lie to your girl
Liars are faggots

>>17528365
No matter what, don't tell her you're a virgin. The moment she hears it she will cheat on you with some hot Chad or even worse laugh in your face and dump you on the spot and then tell all her friends.
There's a reason virginity after a certain age is a social stigma.
Most roastie whores won't even so much as look at you if you're a virgin.

The best thing you could do is dump her and save the money you would spend on that roastie to visit more escorts.
Women aren't worth your time and money anyway, unless you're really horny and want an escort.

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>>17528355
>this question
>that bag
>that shirt
>that tattoo

>>17528364
I'm really curious about where you are going with this.

>>17528355

It's normal, yes. Especially if you're pale and skinny so that the veins are close to the surface.

>>17528345
>not cleaning your dishes as you dirty them

You're both degenerates. Leaving dishes in the sink is just as terrible. Cook, eat, wash immediately after. It's not difficult.

>>17528350
I clean out the sink once or twice a day.

>>17528345
My mom does it too
Even worse, she leaves trash like egg shells and fruit peels and tissues inside the glasses/plates and just leave them there
I have been nagging her about it since I was 13

How much do you weigh?. How tall are you?.

I ask this because first thing that jumps to my mind is maybe you're small and have a defensive thing going on because you're insecure, or maybe you're big and the fact that you're ABLE to beat people up somehow gassed your head up to make you think that's what you SHOULD be thinking.

>>17528412
>>17528412

5'10"
165

I go to the gym a lot so I am small framed but muscular. I used to be realllly skinny I was 145lbs when I was in high school but for some reason I loved being skinny. Now that I think about it when I first started college I would walk around, see people and judge them really harshly for being fat or the least but chubby.

>>17528426

I see. Hmm. Interesting. It might be you going to the gym. What about your diet?. Are you on steroids?. You might have nutritionally changed something that gives you more testosterone in combination with the gym thing. Did you just start? or have you been going for a while?.

Since when have you been like this?. Has it ever remotely gotten you into a chance of a fight?.

>>17528271

This is why therapists exist. If you pay them, you can talk to them and they will help you. Mental healthcare isn't just for nutjobs, it also helps people who are struggling in their day to day life for whatever reason. Seek professional help, they can help you to help yourself.

Good luck.

>>17528277
I want to seek help, but I'm afraid to. There is a huge stigma about mental health in my family for some stupid reason and they just tell me to "suck it up" and "figure it out." I don't know where to go. They act like getting help will be the end of the world. It's incredibly frustrating. I know its out there but I need to know where to find it. I've read a dozen self help and therapy books the past two weeks but I think I need a professional right now. I've been crying on and off all day and I don't want anyone to see me in such a weak state.

>>17528309
Suck it up. You'll figure it out

>>17528257

My wife and I consciously avoided bringing politics up with him for the next few weeks, not wanting to make him feel uncomfortable. But things took a turn for the worse and became overtly disturbing. My wife was attending the dinner party of her colleague and a good friend of ours who happens to be a Muslim. I took my stepson with me when I went to pick her up, and he came into the house with me to say hello to our friend, who he's seen occasionally before and never had any issues with. Our friend's wife wears a hijab and out of the blue, my stepson asked her why she'd do that "when it promotes gender inequality". I was mortified. This is word-for-word the kind of attack on Islam I've seen on conservative subreddits. She explained to my stepson that she wore the hijab of her own volition and I apologized profusely.

Now the terrorism remark and the attack on the hijab taken individually could be seen as a misguided kid getting things wrong, but in combination and in such a short space of time, I see this as evidence that my stepson has quite ugly views on Islam, which he's never expressed before. I didn't confront him because I was afraid that, as a parent figure, any attempt of mine to alter his views would only strengthen them.

This board is for genuine problems and not bait you've copy-pasted from reddit, thanks.

>>17528259

Since then there's been a few more remarks. He's become more confident in expressing his support for Trump, and even more worryingly has made a few undeniably sexist and Islamophobic remarks. My wife and I are getting desperate. We never thought we'd have this problem, and we want him to turn into a good man that respects minorities and women. What's the best way to tackle this behavior?

TL;DR: My wife and I are increasingly concerned about her son, who seems to have adopted the views of Donald Trump. He seems to be becoming intolerant in multiple ways, and we want to prevent this.

Help?

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