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So about a month ago this girl started working as a vendor at the same place where I'm a vendor. We really hit it off but I never got her phone number. Yesterday I heard that she had been waiting to start EMT training and quit.
Would it be inappropriate for me to ask her boss for her contact info?
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>>17690461
Stalk her on fb like a normal person
If you know a friend of hers then you can ask for the number, but boss is oddly more creepy
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>>17690463
I tried but I can't find her. I think maybe she's one of those people that doesn't use her real name on FB?
I felt the same way about the boss thing but I have no idea how else to contact her. I was thinking of maybe saying I lent her something and she quit before I could get her info but idk.
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>>17690471
The problem is you can say whatever you like to get the number from the boss, but I think she will think it's weird when you contact her and you say how you got it
Unless you are just super upfront. Say
Hey this is David from the dildo stall I got your number from boss because straight up i think you are the one for me can you have my babies meet me at the subway and I'll insert my forearm into your female pee hole
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Hey /adv/
I'm graduating soon from a very preppy university. I'm not preppy-- I tried so hard to fit in and make friends, but I never could really form close friendships or relationships with anyone I met.
I feel insecure just about myself as a person. I'm trying. I take care of my appearance and work to figure out what I like and pursue it, but I just don't know anyone else like me, in a very bad way. I'm worried I won't be able to find close friendship or love after I graduate and move away. Any advice at all would be much appreciated. I'll list some stuff that both makes me happy, but I'm also often insecure about.
>21y. o. virgin girl; not Christian, just shy.
>bi
>multiple tattoos
>very big loner, I do all my hobbies alone (hike, and write bad poems)
>don't really drink much because all the times I drink, I don't say no to guys who touch me and then feel skeevy for very long time.
Just, it would be nice to hear from someone who could give me an outside perspective. Does it get better? How do I make it better? I'm painfully insecure and awkward and feel like a charity case to even talk to. It's not really a nice feeling.
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I know what you're going through, at least to an extent, difference being I went the extra mile of fuck-up and dropped out.
If you want a totally honest thought? Yeah. It does get better. I mean you can come to that conclusion yourself, just think about it: You're in a place you don't like and the day you get to bounce is coming quick.
Man, you're twenty-fuckin'-one. I'm not old enough to wave a cane at you but even I know that gives you a shitton of time to get the engine started. If you keep yourself healthy and dont waltz in front of cars, youll have at least another fifty on your timer. You cant honestly believe you wont make something work until then, right?
Really, the big offender I find is just that you dont enjoy the community your college harbors, that presumably being the thing that eats up most your day its not exactly out of left field to think thats all there is.
First thing I did when I jumped ship from my school is crash at some card shop. I didnt talk to anyone for nearly a week just because I was mostly described as abrasive in class. Hardly a trait you wanna advertise.
After that, I just really wanted to know how shit worked and asked questions. /That's/ where the ball starts rolling. If you can't do it now, do it when you graduate, but go to a gathering ground where people share your interests. Its just not possible you wont find a kindred spirit, at least one, that you can forge a friendship with.
This is discounting the possibility of you being a psycho killer. In which case all your possible friends are in prison or Mexico.
Pic unrelated. Have a laugh, those also help. Only way to go now is up.
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>>17690593
Hey anon, thank you so much! That makes me really happy to read. And it's smart-- I hadn't thought of finding a place like that here, but surely it must exist. And I'll make sure to get that Bachelor's degree at the end of this year. Hugs!
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>>17690455
Are you fat?
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Waking up in the middle of the night usually 5 am in cold sweat and fast pounding heart beats. Its really fucking me up because i cant get a full nights rest. I usually drink water and piss and get cozy again and sleep within 20-30 mins but its giving me bad anxiety in the morning and giving me dark circles too.
What is causing this? Im 20 and have never had anxiety attacks but it must be a recent thing.
I did acid months back, does that have anything to do with it?
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>>17690453
How is everything else in your life? I had a similar thing happen after a break up with my ex, weeks and weeks went by where I woke up around 3-5am every morning even if during the day I felt reasonably fine. It went away with time. Try to determine any stressors in your life and try to minimise their impact. Getting into an exercise routine could help too.
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>>17690473
I am full of worries and behind in my assignments. Probably a contributing factor fuck
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When I was really overworked in school I would wake up in the middle of the night with cold sweats and I was the same age.
Something else that can happen is some medication like aspirin can lower your blood pressure enough to make your heart race if you take it before bed which can wake up but that sounds unlikely here.
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I want to break up with my girlfriend but I'm afraid of being alone.
The relationship is pretty fucked, we've cheated on each other in the past and worked through it, and nothing of the sort has ever happened again. As far as trust goes we both trust one another and are honest with each other and communicate well when it comes to stuff like that. My girlfriend is actually addicted to sex, we can't go one night without having sex, she'll literally cry if she doesn't get it, and I'm just fucking drained, she wants to fuck like 3 times a day everyday, and if I don't fuck her she equates it to me thinking she's ugly, she says she feels unsatisfied and inadequate, then accuses me of thinking she's ugly. She's very manipulative, cries every time things don't go her way, one time on her birthday she wanted some special drink and when we got to the place they were out. She blamed me and cried the whole way home then when we got home I figured she just wanted to go to bed, then she starts crying because I haven't tried to fuck her yet? She's sitting there in bed crying and I'm holding her and she expects me to try to fuck her? I don't get it. Sex is overrated, especially when it's so frequent and with the same person, it gets old fast. Anyways I don't want to leave her because we have a lot going on together, I've abandoned all of my friends to be with her and she's done the same, and I don't want to be alone. When I'm with her I'm always on thin ice trying to say and do the right things to not upset her, I give her everything and I've shared things with her I've never shared with anyone before, I love her but I know I'll be much much much happier with someone else. But I'm afraid of the journey to find someone else, I'm also very picky about women I want to meet my soulmate essentially. I can't even express myself around my girlfriend without her talking me down or patronizing me
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And to top it all off she's aware of how shitty she is and she always tells me how she tries so hard to be good to me and treat me well and reciprocate what I give to her, she tells me every time we talk about her being a shitty girlfriend and everytime it's the same story. I want to believe that she's trying but there's no indication or action of that at all, I just don't know what to do. I know anyone from an objective stand point would leave her and I never thought I'd start with someone like her.
What do?
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>>17690394
Start** is supposed to be stay**
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Do more advanced shit with her
Have you tried discovering your fetishes ?
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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>How to go about subtly establishing some physical/emotional intimacy during group activity, in between first and second date.
I really like this girl I went on a date with last weekend, and she feels the same way. That date was easily one of the best I've been on, feeling seems mutual. We crossed the touch barrier comfortably, but didn't kiss. Too busy this weekend for a second date, but I will see her during a get-together at my place of a few people, mostly mutual friends, but she is also bringing her best friend.
I was thinking at the end of the night, assuming she's last to walk out the door, I can lightly grab her elbow and say something along the lines of, "Hey..I'm really glad you came", then wing the rest of that interaction, but the point would be to establish more 1-on-1 intimacy, which would normally happen on the 2nd date.
Is this too out of place? I want to work with the momentum of the end of our last date while I have it, especially given that she's dating/dated other guys.
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Had a dream where I got to touch the butt of a girl I like
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Now I want her butt.
Uhhhhh
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So my first gf was really weird with consent and all of that stuff. It reached a point where I never initiated anything anymore, because while she would never turn me down it felt very wrong.
Anyways fast forward some years and I'm trying to break out of my shell somewhat. I still have a lot of problems knowing when its appropriate to escalate things and I guess I come off as if I'm just being friendly I guess. Not really sure how to proceed here since this isn't something I feel like you can just learn through trial and error, like learning to get over rejection.
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Do you have to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend about things you did before you started dating. There are things that i know she would break up with me over that i hope she never finds out. Am i morally obligated to tell her these things?
For example, i messed around with a guy before. It turns out i didnt like it and I'm not even bi, just a confused kid, but she's very homophobic and would leave me.
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lol imho you don't have to tell her that. experimenting like that is probably healthy anyway.
imagine my situation.. a little over a yr ago i had a fairly serious period of mental illness. i had to go to hospital for a bit and take meds for a while. i am basically100% it will never happen again and will spot it before it even get that bad again but that shit still happened. i feel like i will orbably have to tell her one day. my darkest secret.. feels bad man
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>Do you have to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend about things you did before you started dating.
You don't HAVE to do shit but if you want to have any chance of a functional relationship, there is no way around it. You'll feel better since you have no silly secret to keep. She will feel better due you trusting her, besides it'd gives her a bigger basis to assess you (no pun). If her homophobia is stronger than her feelings for you, well it's better for both of you to stop wasting time and quit it.
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My girlfriend lost her virginity at 16. I lost mine at 21. We were both each others 2nd sexual partners. I've had sex with 5 other women in the 3 years we've been together.
Give me one good reason why I shouldn't cheat on her again.
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How does the age thing and the cheating thing correlate? Or is it just useless information. Either way if you don't feel bad about cheating already what do you think we can say to make you feel any different.
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>>17690170
missed time.
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It's a health risk for your gf
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>Met guy at my college
>We hang out a bit between classes
>99% sure he is gay, but don't really care, chill dude, doesn't get on my nerves
>sitting in hallway outside class yesterday
>he comes and sits down next to me
>talks about some shit going on in his life
>just let him ramble and do his thing
>he leans back against the wall
>falls asleep and slumps onto my shoulder
>wake him up a few minutes later because class is starting
>he apologizes, tell him its no big deal
He asked for my number, and I gave it to him. But not sure what to make of this situation. I don't know if he is trying to get close to me, or wants to ask me out or what. I've never considered fucking a dude before, and he seems like a good as start as any, because I'm horny as fuck, and don't really care anymore, just need to be in bed with a non repulsive warm body at this point and he fits the bill. Probably like 5'9'' ish, 150 lbs, casper skin color, doesn't seem to have hair on him aside from his head.
While I do like him physically, and can tolerate him personality wise. This dude has some issues, like he tries to hide it, but I can clearly tell he used to be a cutter. He also said he attempted suicide in the past.
So, first gay experience. Go all the way and fuck the depressed/suicidal, but kind of attractive gay dude, or wait to bang some cross-dresser? Do I even fuck him if I'm not 100% sure I'll like banging a dude, or no?
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>>17690092
>MFW I get to unironically call OP a fagot for the first time.
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>>17690114
Am I actually a faggot though if I haven't had another dude touch my dick yet? Interesting.
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>>17690092
You get this one life. Try everything.
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First off, I'm 28 and not sexually inexperienced/a virgin/autist/whatever.
I only find my nipples to be erogenous. My vagina doesn't feel like a sexual organ to me at all. Being eaten out feels no more sexual than if someone was licking my arm.
I can get close to orgasm from nipple/breast play though. wtf?
is this normal? will guys find this creepy?
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>>17689997
>is this normal?
Depends, to some it might be.
>will guys find this creepy?
No.
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>will guys find this creepy?
No guy will ever find you enjoying him playing with your tits "weird"
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I've never heard of this before.
I have sexual anhedonia, and don't enjoy orgasm. From experience, it's pretty bad for both partners psychologically if you're not open about it.
I have mommy issues.
Based on the fact that when I was a kid, for Christmas me and my brother were allowed to buy a gamecube, is it safe to say I had a crazy mom? She did use a 10% off coupon she had.
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>>17689934
I don't know what this is asking. You just have regular issues - like you don't make any sense and give no details.
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>>17689934
wtf
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>>17689964
im with this guy, the only issues i see here are coherence issues
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I rarely frequent this board, but I have a bit of a puzzling situation.
>recently married
>we were both virgins
>wife is 25; i'm 26
>both fit, fulltime jobs, 8/10's, religious
We've been married for three months now, and we're getting into the swing of sex. The first few weeks was painful for her, but now she enjoys me. I'm 6" girth 7" long and last a long time... which is the problem. She gets off after ~10 minutes, but it'll take me a solid hour sometimes. She's screaming and moaning, but she's burnt out after ~30 minutes and can't go anymore.
Tonight ended in her crying because she thinks she's not good enough to get me off and runs out of stamina. She told me she'd rather me orgasm than herself, because she likes to see how happy I am throughout the day afterward. I've tried time and time to cum within a few minutes, but I can't. It takes me a long time, even though I'm rock solid. Have any of you been in this situation before? What do I do?
>tl;dr I last too long in bed and wife runs out of energy
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>>17689889
Why not jerk off to the point of cumming before sex? Or jerk off during sex or something?
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>>17689889
head.
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>>17689889
Circumcised?
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First time posting here, needon't advice on what to do.
I'm married, 7 years, 4 months ago had 1st baby, thought everything was ok, Husband kept egging on losing weight, been overweight the entire marriage, have lost a lot of weight, was waiting to start a diet because I'm breastfeeding and didn't want milk to dry. I was the bread winner, lost my job due that my boss said I was wasting time pumping and she didn't also like the fact. Husband had to get a full time job (he was working part time only since he was on college but took a break for baby, won't go back until spring 2017) it's been only a month. I stay home, clean, cook, take care of all of his needs. Again just been a month since he worked full time. Today he came home, made him a snack while I fed the babyear told him as soon as I was done I'll finish on dinner. Ok. He took the baby rock him to sleep. Cooked and clean the kitchen go back in room babyou is awake. Eat dinner. Baby seems annoyed and in pain, notice rash on neck (he's theething) ask Husband if he can grab rash cream from the bathroom, say no you go get it, I said ok then hold the baby, says no you take him, which i reply, you're a parent too, yells that I'm a lazy fuck. what. I put the baby down and get the cream, come back to the room and he goes off on me saying he's getting tired of me saying he's not a good dad that doesn't help and then says you gotta quit saying that shit if you want to last. Again what. I politely told him that it seems that every time I ask him for help with the baby he always says no. Goes off again that's what I'm supposed to do since I'm housewife that he's tired and goes to work and he comes off and has nothing to look forward to that I nag too much that I'm fat and disgusting and that 70% of the time he don't want to come home that I'm a fucking fat ass bitch that I can't just leave him alone and just lose the fucking weight because he's tired of looking at me and that he doest wanna go out and fuck other women
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>>17689875
Well lose some weight, femanon
Improves your health, makes you more self-confident and attractive.
Not hard. Just quit eating as much.
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Maybe it's not necessarily the weight that's the real issue. After seven years, maybe it's the monotony of it all. Maybe you guys need a vacation. Do you have parents or relatives that are willing to watch the baby while you take a small trip somewhere and refresh?
Also, you may not feel like you said anything bad, but it seems he's taking it that way and that it's been building up by the way he blew up. Think about how you're saying things and if it's even worth arguing over who does what if it's nitpicky things. Maybe he really is the asshole in this case, but does it really matter in the end? When he said that shit to you, he was trying to hurt you because you hurt him in some way. Doesn't make it right, but that's probably why.
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>>17689881
Fuck off. That's not the problem.
>>17689875
Honestly, you're both financially stressed the fuck out, and you're going to get pissed off at each other for stupid shit until you're more financially stable. He acted irrationally as all hell and was rude, but the underlying problem is clearly stress. Just talk to him about it, try and be reasonable, and try and get in a better financial situation as soon as you can. Have some time apart if that's what's best.
There's no way you haven't scolded him for being a lazy parent before. That's going to hurt him, stress him out, and build up into explosions like you just went through. Plus the sleep deprivation having a kid, finances, shitty work-life balance. Wew, you're actually doing pretty well, all things considered.
Pretty shitty, but you're going through a rough patch. Just ride it out, be open, don't let shit bottle up (and don't let his shit bottle up), and remember that you've loved each other for 7 years and still do.
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I am currently going to college for a CS degree and I am in my second year. I have a very strong interest in computer science and have taught myself over the years. I never really was that interested in school and just did not really care, but when it came to learning to program in my free time, I fell in love.
Yet here I am in college now and I absolutely hate CS in the classroom. The classes are incredibly boring, doing nothing no name projects where it is hard to see the benefit other that this really neat specific thing that seems like only C++ can do.
I was never really that interested in math and I have to take so much of it! From what I have heard from many people who have graduated with CS majors and got CS jobs say they barely ever need to use half of the complex math that you are taught, so going into math classes seem like a waste of my time when I could be doing something more beneficial and interesting
I have just lost complete interesting going to college for CS when I could just teach myself. I know there is a lot of networking opportunities that you can get from college, but that just feels like a waste when I am going to school and hating every single minute.
Should I strive through the rest of these first few CS classes, or do they stay pretty much the same in terms of cool projects or find another major I can go into?
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That picture looks familiar, where's it from?
CS major here. I took time off from college because I wasn't sure about it. And, I find the math classes stupid because they probably won't be used, just like you.
The few people I know who got CS degrees all have the financial means to live on their own. I went back to college after trying out life without it. I fucking hate it dude, I'm in it right now, around halfway through.
Still, for me personally, it's the best path I've found so far.
So, hopefully that helps you out.
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>>17689828
The pic is from an episode of Powerpuff Girls. I think it's from that episode where they have that giant power rangers like robot.
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>>17689828
So you recommend to stick with it?
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why am i a second option to most guys? the first option that guys usually like are retarded and they realize im the nicer person but theyre still not satisfied.
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>>17689267
can't say without a picture. also you can be my first option anon. :^)
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why am i never an option to most girls
oh wait i already know
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>>17689267
don't worry anon your my first option
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Say it!
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I think I saw her yesterday, but she was busy talking on the phone.
But I think she shifted her eyes towards me, and kind had half a smile. So I don't know.
Just wish I could talk to her again in person. So annoying only being able to text. And I'm always the one initiating. But it seems like she likes talking when ever we do.
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>>17687931
Fuck um all.
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Pretty sure I've developed ptosis because my glasses don't sit on my face properly. My eyelid droops to where the frame slants over my eye. Thankfully it isn't too major (eyelid only covers the very top of my pupil) so surgery might not be needed, and hopefully getting my glasses fixed or getting new ones will be enough for this to clear itself up without outside help. My glasses have had this slanting issue for a few years though and I never really thought about it, so maybe it's been like this too long for it to heal up by itself. I don't know. I just don't want someone to be potentially operating near my eye, really.
I'm gonna go to the doctor about it, I just wanted to get this off my chest, that's all.