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So I am trying to get my girlfriend on welfare that's entitled to students studying full time.

She's STEM, spends a ton of time studying can't afford to waste time working

Her and I need proof we've lived together for a year to get a payment to her.

I had my address and her address being the same over a year ago but welfare is claiming that we could have been room mates.

I have no join bank or statement to prove it, that's what they want.

Considering going on fiverr and getting a fake?

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While somebody else drives you?
I was hitching a ride with Uber and we pulled up at a traffic light next to some SUV. I could hear a couple having sex very loudly in the back, it was loud enough that you could hear it through two closed doors and even my driver heard it.
The guy who was driving that SUV just wore a straight face the entire time, glanced over at me, then drove off.

I honestly can't even imagine driving people while they're literally fucking in my backseat, is this normal or socially accepted somehow?

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Can i learn to love someone?

There's a girl who really loves me and i honestly love everything about her. We get along so well, we can talk for hours about anything, we are both musicians and jam together and show each other cool songs. She is in love with me and i love everything about her. I'm just not certain I love her, but she is everything I want in a girl. I don't know what's holding me back. Should i try anyways and see what happens?

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Holy shit. I'm really lonely.

I'm drinking alone on Halloween. No friends. Room mates went out to party -- no invite. No one's responding to my Facebook messages. No one's responding to my text messages.

Why should I even bother anymore?

I'm one step from hanging myself, especially if life's going to be like this forever.

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How do I work up the balls to kill myself? Been thinking about it for awhile but I can never even go out and buy the buckshot (or slugs, whichever would make less of a mess)

I'm really fucking tired of hating myself, feeling mediocre in comparison to others, and constantly being paranoid and feeling hopeless about my future. Genuinely convinced that I can't be made to feel comfortable in my own skin so not existing kind of seems to be the only option. Kind of ironic for someone so good at quitting can't yet manage to make the big quit but hopefully we'll get there. Any advice would be appreciated!

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I don't know if this belongs here, or on /an/, but here I go.
A few weeks ago my mom and I adopted a dog from the pound; a young Japanese Chin. She lives with me and loves her new life. She had clearly never had a yard, and flinched like she had been severely beaten. She had apparently been roaming her neighborhood for about a month and was super skinny and had a bunch of ticks.
Shes always happy and really brightened up the house. My nine year old pekingese is even cool with her.
Anyway, last week, while I was sick in bed, she got to a kitten I had been bottle feeding for almost a month and killed him. She just chewed him; like grooming but way too hard. I saw no breaks in his skin, but there was blood everywhere.
Its been days now and I can't move on. My family wants me to keep her and they've all moved on and are loving on her like it never happened. The dog adores me, but all I can see is her white happy face covered in my kitten's blood.
I know a lot of blame lies with me. I knew the kitten was getting more mobile and should have secured him better. But I was sick and didn't know I had a killer in my house.
What do I /adv/? My antidepressants aren't holding up to this...

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>Gf broke up with me Friday
>Finally decided to man up and ask boss for promotion
>At home wait for spoopy game to download (outlast 2)
How is your Halloween going?

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(40, m) been married a year to my wife (40), after a two-year relationship. Before marriage, the sex was great, full of passion, kinky etc, but I shit you not, since our honeymoon, our sex life has turned to shit entirely. We've both had failed marriages in the past, FWIW.

She will always look weirdly distant when we're in bed together - when I make an move, she'll sort of get into it, smile a bit and stuff, but will often say "stop, I can't do this" if I attempt to undress her or whatever. She'll then roll over and pretend to be asleep. When she does let me strip her clothes off, she'll just kind of lie back and let me do my thing, won't make eye contact, it's so depressing. What the fuck caused this? It literally seemed to start like the moment we came back from our honeymoon.

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Hey /adv/ I graduated college and got a nice paying job, but this required me moving far away from my friends that I've had for 6 to 8 years. Also my SO and I mutually decided long distance isn't what we wanted. We all said we'd keep in touch. That was 2 months ago. Contact is dwindling to none. Each day I come home to an empty apartment, and I'm greeted by silence. I'd often wished I had the time and money to do the things I wanted to do, but now I just want to have friends. Actually I just want contact with another person, no mater how small. I haven't posted on /adv/ in years, and I know this isn't actually advice seeking, but can someone acknowledge my existance? It'll help me get though another month of hiding crushing loneliness, hopefully long enough to find a set of friends. Sorry for the pity party.

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I added a grill on Fb after meeting her at a Halloween party, and I think we hit it off.

She just liked a sexy pic of me with a heart.

Oh god, how do I not fuck this up? I always fuck things up. Last girl I tried to get with, I made the mistake of letting her get to know me.

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Hey /adv/, I've been talking to this girl online for a few days now, and I just blocked her a few minutes ago.
I really enjoyed chatting with her and she sent me some pictures of her face that were really cute, but about yesterday she started talking about all these mental illnesses she had and how depressed and lonely she was and shit.
Anyways, that sort of shit really bums me out, and recently, her self-harm and depression has been at the core of our conversations. After she sent me a pic of her cutting herself I just got really depressed and I blocked her.
I just came to ask what experience you've had with depressed people in the past.
>how do you deal with it?
>does it depress you to be around depressing people?
>Is it worth talking or hanging around depressed people if they make you feel bad?

I feel really guilty about blocking her, she was cute, but I just need some affirmation that I made the right decision.

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/adv/, I'm a fucking creep. I have a foot fetish, and since I was 14 I've taken creepshots/video of the feet of female acquaintances whenever the opportunity presented itself. I've become extremely good at it, and in addition to that, I've also been collecting pictures/videos from facebook as well.

Now I'm 21 years old, I'm still doing it, and I just checked how big it actually is for the first time today. The collection is 130GB large, spread out over 137,070 files in 689 folders.

I'm aware this is a problem. I'm wondering what to do with it. My brain says fucking delete it but my dick is telling me to keep the trove and continue adding to it. Surely I can't keep this up forever - if someone ever found it that would be the end of my life, and statistically I'll have to be caught taking video someday (though I take every precaution and have never been caught/looked at suspiciously over the 7 years).

How can I get my brain to that point? How do I part with something that's objectively horrifying but that's taken a shitload of effort and time to cultivate, and that's not recoverable once gone?

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Does the USA actually investigate marriages for immigration reasons?

I've been seeing this girl for a while now, and she's coming up on the end of her schooling. We were thinking of getting hitched since she's here on a student visa, and it would simplify things greatly if she didn't have to worry about getting booted out of the country..

In all honesty, neither of us really have any interest in marriage, so it really would be just for the immigration rights. On top of that, it doesn't look like a very "normal" marriage style relationship. We don't live together, and won't live together likely until well after. We live like 6 hours away from each other, so we mostly spend weekends together.

So, are we just inviting trouble on ourselves, or is investigation of things like this something that only really happens in the movies?

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>seeing this girl
>she's mentally unstable
>she wants to be bf and gf, i don't
>we fuck, she says she's on the pill, she isn't, she gets pregnant
>she tries to blackmail me into a relationship with it, saying she won't get rid of it
>i say let's get together but you have to go to the clinic asap to get rid of it, we're not ready
>she agrees
>she takes a mifepristone pill (abortion pill)
>dump her as soon as she takes it
>she's now threatening to kill herself and refuses to come out of her room

who's in the wrong here and what do i do

i have no interest in perusing a relationship with her, i only did that to force her to take the pill and get rid of it.

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If one can't even answer the question "who am I?", how can one possibly live with any direction and not be nothing?