A guy in my circle of friends always kisses me on the cheek (not an air-kiss, instead he presses his lips directly to my cheek) when we say goodbye. He didn't start doing this after a few encounters and I've never seen him do it to anyone else. Also, he stares at me quite a lot and he doesn't look away when his look catches mine.
Am I right to feel a little creeped or weirded out by this? Also, don't call me superficial, he's not unattractive-looking, it's just the behavior that I find a bit weird.
>>17725707
He's probably attracted to you. If it makes you uncomfortable, just tell him and ask him nicely to stop.
>>17725707
Too late, you let him creep his way in. Only way to end it is by creating a big scene.
The best you can do is have a spaced out look next time he does it, then put on a very disgusted/uncomfortable puzzled face and then vaguely say sorry and walk away. Then next time he goes for it he'll already be hesitant which gives you a chance to stop it without completely blindsiding him.
Entirely your fault. You allowed it the first time without telling that autist to fuck off with that shit.
Sit him down and let him know that knock it off or the friendship is over.
>Meet girl on fetish site
>Says she's 18
>Profile says she's 18
>Meet up
>Do bondage
>Make her cry
>Leave welts and bruises on her ass and breasts
>Sex her without a condom... a lot
>In the morning says she has to go home
>Has a project due tomorrow
>Cue alarm bells going off
>Ask her about being a senior in high school
>Turns out she's a sophomore
>She's 16 not 18
Am ded?
Cut all contact and make sure you save any and all evidence that shows she was pretending to be 18. You should be fine.
It completely depends on where you live, if you're in the U.S., it depends.
Look up your local age of consent laws.
Be sure to look up exceptions as well, for example, if you're 19 and you bone a 17 year old and the age of consent is 18, most places you won't get in trouble because there will be some clause where "as long as the parties are within 3 years of each other, you're fine." or some shit.
Destroy phone
Cut off all contact with her and delete your account from fetish site
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now and we're both having the time of our lives, but I keep tripping up on the thought of money. We're both 18 (I'm newly turned - a couple days old) and financially I'm completely poor. I can't find work anywhere, I've tried almost hundreds of places in (London, UK) and I just can't get a job anywhere. Supermarkets, cafes, shops, you name it and I've applied to no luck, not even with an email to tell me I didn't get the chance of an interview.
My girlfriend doesn't have a job but has a regular allowance from her parents even though she doesn't do anything to earn it. She buys loads of expensive goods which of course I have absolutely no problem with, but she's used to it and I can't afford good gifts. She always wants to go out for dinner and I can't afford >£10 every couple days.
It's severely frustrating. I used to collect action figures which are incredibly dear to my heart. Should I sell them because I'm in such a dire situation? I never really ask my parents for money because it's shitty but I feel like I should ask my father for a loan so I can treat her.
I don't want to come across as feeling sorry for myself, but it's so goddamn annoying I wake up early in the morning and can't sleep thick with worry that I can't pay for anything.
What should I do?
I was in the same situation as you, applied to a bunch of minimum wage jobs and got nothing. You know what I did to get me a bunch of offers and get a job within a week? I lied. Sorry but it is the truth. Made up my experience and suddenly I was being offered jobs. Then when I got a job at a gas station, I made the excuse that the cash register was completely different and had a nice one week grace period.
Also tailor the cover letter for each job anon and use the words in the job description in your skills.
>>17725646
Tell her that you want to lower the amount of days you go out for food cause you don't have money coming in like that.
also look up staffing agencies, recruitment agencies or sales/marketing agencies like http://unjobs.org/vacancies/1343070570627
They;'ll hire anyone as long as you're not a druggie/clinically retarded, and for the most part it's better than working some minimum wage shitheap.
>>17725646
>>17725671
I would second this. But don't go out for food at all. If you can't afford it dont do it. Its not going to help yo at all. Just eat at home..
Also TELL UR GF HOW U FEEL. Not that U just dont want to go out
People who have attempted suicide,
What did you do on your "last day"?
Also what happened that made you still be here (not sure how to phrase that, Not trying to be rude)?
Anon don't do it, there is a lot to live for man. Seriously think about what you are going to do and how many lives it will affect.
I've never really understood how someone "attempts" suicide.
There are so many fool proof ways to guarantee success that it seems to me the only reason you could somehow "mess it up" is if you weren't truly all that serious about getting as dead as possible and just wanted some sort of attention or validation/expression for how incommunicable your pain is.
Pic related.
>>17725652
>I've never really understood how someone "attempts" suicide.
Me either really, But If I had to guess either....
1. Attention
2. Genuinely don't know that pills aren't reliable and watch too much ID channel
So I've been friends with this girl for a minute. Pretty sure I was friendzoned for a while there. But anyway we finally went on our first date Sunday night.
After the haunted house, I took her to the park and we started just hanging out and having deep conversations. There, we just made out for a while. She got cold and we got back to my car to make out a little more. It's uncomfortable to makeout with a girl over the console of a car so I told her to head to the backseat with me. From there I just held her and caressed her and that's when she suddenly stopped. I could tell she was starting to feel uncomfortable.
It was an awkward ride home but she later revealed to me that where we were reminded her of a traumatic event in her life, because she just had a flashback she couldn't shake off.
What should I do guys? I gave her space for a day and we haven't talked since the date.
Pic related
>>17725589
Damaged goods like her is really going to put a strain on you. I sound like an asshole but it is the truth. Girls like this require you to walk on egg shells because the slightest thing can lead to her getting uncomfortable and be a trigger to her past.
Go on a date with her, see if you can get laid and if not move on. You don't have to subject yourself to this and feel guilty about finding a girl who doesn't have these problems. Harsh but had to be said.
>>17725589
Sounds like she just wants to drop it and you should too.
Just text her either witha silly trivia remark or "hey theres a *thing* happening on a *day*, I'll pick you up at *time*
>>17725608
Not op but do I usually see you comment in these type of threads?
However, this guy is right basically. Truthfully if she let's you fuck so soon there are other problems she's likely to have, she'll probably tell you some of them so your 'hero' instincts will kick in. Might be best just to move on in the long run, or if you're willing to deal with potential heartbreak, take a gamble.
I am currently in the process of selling many expensive things and I don't know how to ask for the money. I have to sell one of my racing bicycle for around 3000$. Do I ask for cash or a cheque (check)? How can I know if the check is authentic/good?
Always cash.
Have a friend watch over your thing while you count it.
Cash, meet in a secure public place during the day, have a friend or friends with you to witness the transaction.
Ideally, meet at the bank and have them deposit the money directly into your account. You don't want to get robbed on your way home by their goons.
>>17725543
>>17725535
Ok good and what about cars? I have one worth 26 000$, I can't just ask him for cash
i've realised that i'm a passive contrarian with no opinions of my own and that i've established a personality that's founded on 'i'm different from and more intelligent than everyone else'
it's like i've built a house on sand that's now collapsed and i need to gather up all the salvageable bricks and rebuild on concrete
i'm think starting to see what i find interesting with clear eyes and it happens to be that i'm more interested in myself and my own thoughts than the people around me. i'm completely passive in conversations to the point where i seem to be sucking any energy out of the room
i think my actions at the moment reflect those of someone with schizoid personality disorder
my question is should i force myself to be interested in others and sharing my superficial thoughts and ideas or should i just let life go by and let my interests and desire to connect form naturally on this new slate?
>'i'm different from and more intelligent than everyone else'
More like I am too much of a recluse and an anti social twat that I can't communicate my thoughts properly to other people, therefore to safeguard my fragile ego I will pretend I am on a higher intellectual path than them.
See a therapist because that isn't healthy in the least. Also the fact that you describe your thoughts as superficial shows low esteem.
>>17725541
This. Google "special snowflake syndrome".
>>17725541
>More like I am too much of a recluse and an anti social twat that I can't communicate my thoughts properly to other people, therefore to safeguard my fragile ego I will pretend I am on a higher intellectual path than them.
that actually sounds spot on
would getting a therapist actually work, i thought this was something that i should fix on my own merits?
i can't tell if that feeling is just some remains of my ego in its former state
Why is Skype always banning my accounts? Thats my 4th account now and it got banned again for no reason. I contacted the support but got no answer from it. I only chat with a girl, nothing else.
Why are they doing that?
Either you broke the rule or a security breach.
>>17725520
Stop stalking the poor girl so that she doesn't have to report you over and over again.
>>17725550
How? I only chat
>>17725562
We're friends and talk daily.
1. I'm explicitly forbidden to drink on my meds, and for a full week after quitting them in january.
2. The situation, however, has newly changed and I no longer feel the need for my meds.
3. I quit them on tuesday, intending to drink this friday.
4. The situation, however, changed only today.
5. So if I tell my family, they'll either think I'm drinking on my meds half-life, or know for sure that I've been off them for longer than I've implied, therefore lying to them.
What's the smoothest course of action to explain them that I've made the desicion to no longer require medication, and allow myself whiskey, in such a brief notice? Hiding the drinking is literally impossible with my scent-hypersensitive sister in the house. She could smell whether I'm on my meds or not if she tried, not to speak of alcohol.
What were your meds for, anxiety and paranoia?
Just take the fucking meds until the end of the week you twit. Jesus.
>>17725472
antabuse. It's meant to keep me from drinking.
And I'm not fucking kidding about her sense of smell. It's absurd.
>>17725484
It takes two weeks for antabuse to leave your system. People have literally died from drinking while on it.
So a girl i know from college started hitting on me. She's really attractive but she said she "lives polyamourosly" and she's actually seeing two other guys atm.
Nothing for me, but whatever, i started fucking her because why the fuck not. While i get to know her better i realize that she would be really good girlfriend material. She's sweet, intelligent and interested enough to have real conversations about real issues, and damn that sex drive. Attractive as well as i mentioned. The more often i see her and fuck her, the more i feel myself falling for her. But i can't stop either.
Help! What the fuck do i do?
pic related, she has a really nice ass
You gotta stop that shit man. She was up front about the polyamory thing. Just be happy you're getting guiltless no-strings pussy and leave it at that. If you bring emotions into it, it will end badly.
>>17725439
Stop? You're effectively a cuck right now. The only upgrade you've got going now is to be an official cuck. Whores like that don't just settle down one day out of the blue. If you're lucky, she'll make you the main man while still fucking the other two betas.
I don't know why I even bother though. You're obviously a little beta faggot for even considering this whole arrangement from the get go.
You can fuck her but don't expect to get a relationship from this. Keep it casual
Is it possible to get a dog pregnant?
I'm asking for a friend
Obviously. Where do you think puppers come from ya dingus?
>>17725441
No.. I mean, can humans get dogs pregnant?
>>17725495
Delete this thread you faggot.
Hey /adv/ I do not have many hobbies so I was wondering what kind of hobbies do you guys have?I'm hoping I could find something that peaks my interest.
>>17725393
I play video games, and when I'm not doing that I'm usually watching sports.
>>17725397
You are me then. I usually watch soccer (Premier League, La Liga) or hockey.
The word is "piqued."
Hi guys I was curious of how I could go about hiding my self harm marks, I'm not really interested in people telling me that I shouldn't do it, the problem I have with the regular just using sweat bands or long shirts is that I need to be in short sleeves for sports related activities and my marks stretch from the base of my wrist to about two thirds the way to my elbow, like how do I cover that without it looking suspicious?
>>17725336
I don't cover my scars. Why do you feel you need to? It's not their concern
>>17725345
I don't want people to mention it or judge me, I don't want to worry about it during the day, I want to get on with it in my private time when I'm feeling low and not worry about how it'll effect me during the day
>>17725358
>I want to be able to do something stupid without consequences
Why is it so hard for me to cry but so easy to get pushed to the brink of suicide?
I can't cry to save my life. I remember crying a lot when i was younger if I got sad but I just can't anymore.
Is there a name for this problem?
Just find the feels thread. I was in the same situation yesterday.
If you can't find it there is surely some saved threads somewhere (on some other website)
>>17725309
I dont always have 4chan with me m8. Im talking about when something happens to me and i'm just by myself. Like yesterday I got in a fight with my wife and things have been going bad netween us for like a month and I felt like I wanted to cry but I couldn't. I wad totally okay with killing myself but I couldnt cry.
I'd also like to know this.
I used to cry quite a lot as a kid, but now I haven't cried in years. I don't know how that came to be, I'm still pretty much a wuss and I can get really emotional sometimes but I never, ever cry.
Not even when my father died, or when my gf broke up with me could I shed a single tear. Not even with the most depressing music nor with a bottle of whisky.
Just tried talking issues out with my girlfriend. I thought the conversation would end in a break up because I very badly wanted all of the issues I was bringing up to be resolved and she's adamantly stood against them. Not only did most of them not get resolved, but I couldn't go through with it and at this point I'm not sure if I want to stay in the relationship or not. How the fuck do I do this?
>>17725214
This thread isn't something we can answer without more details of what you wanted fixed.
Were these rational and well thought out issues? Like washing dishes that have been used? Or were they issues like "I don't want you to have any friends and go out without me?"
Changes the ballgame.
>>17725242
It's the latter. They're very big issues of her being controlling, but I wouldn't exactly say she's in the wrong. As an example, she doesn't want me hanging out with a childhood friend who's been cheating on his fiance. I feel as though if I were around to be a positive influence and call him out on his shitty behavior he could change, she feels I should just cut him out of my life and forbids me from hanging out with him.
There are more issues like that that deal with her controlling nature and I try to be understanding because she has high anxiety and PTSD but it can be overwhelming
>>17725252
Her anxiety and PTSD aren't reasons that she should be able to control your life.
You need to tell her frankly, "Look, I'm going to do what I want to do, and hang out with who I want to. If you have a problem with it, there's the door."