I suffered too much from being born ugly.
I'm tired of people telling me that it's going to be better. It's been 7 years, I'm 22 now and still look like a kid, with zits all over my face. 'It's a blessing to look young', 'you'll look better when you're older'.
All that pile of bullshit that's been fed to me.
to me, looks matter. They matter more than anything you could come up with.
I want to have good-looking, tall kids. This is all I ever want. I don't wish the riches, I don't want plastic bimbos, nor do I want a boat or sports cars. I want a large family full of handsome men and women.
Why the fuck are there so many ugly people out there plagued with the same fate as me?
The differences in status are so obvious among people, it's flabbergasting. A quick glance at a man will tell you if he's a classy businessman earning several thousands a month, or a gutter trash pushing carts at Walmart.
How do I obtain this, /adv/? How do I birth good looking kids? It's too late for me, but I at least want my kids to have what i never had the chance to. I'm obsessed with this to the point it's all I ever think about. Looking at people in the street, juding their faces, their build, their morphology. It's my main concern now.
lift heavy, eat big it will raise ur test and hgh levels, in the mean time just own it, grow facial hair too
>young face/baby face
If you can grow a proper beard or style your facial hair
Second thing is not to be ashamed of it, it's actually more offputting that your baby face/uglyness.
>>17816685
4chan /fit/
is it "trendier" to cry hysterically in front of your gf, or have a panic attack in front of her?
Why?
>>17816699
Currently involved in a love triangle of sorts, when she told me, I vomited and started crying like a baby, while he supposedly had a panic attack.
Who's going to come out on top?
>>17816707
Whichever guy she leaves both of you for.
What does this mean? Any reason to worry about?
Ask /int/ maybe? Lots of Arabs there
>>17816672
Looks scary. W-will daddy protect me from the scary brown people thousands of miles away? W-we probably should bomb their countries and send out drones to be sure.
There is no god but Allah
Then a part of the quran is being quoted
https://quran.com/89/27-30
No reason to panic just because there are some arabic letters on a black background lul
What the fuck /adv/ I think I'm insane.
Today I realized that I harm myself in all sorts of ways and that I utterly ruined my life because...because...I like it.
I like suffering more than being pleased.
Here are some examples:
-I purposefully stopped going out or anyway interacting with my circles of friends and when eventually out ties got definitively broken I actually enjoyed the fucking regret
-i enrolled in a top uni but i purposefully didn't study anything until I eventually dropped out and I enjoyed the regret and the disappointment of the people close to me.
-I had several occasione in my life to build a relationship with a girl but I incredibly enjoyed misbehaving until she left me alone, happily wallowing in my regret
-Whenever I buy something I like it's just a matter of time before I either break it or trash it (ex. I bought overwatch but then I sent blizz a mail to cancel my data and then I lost my account and felt good about it)
-I purposefully stopped learning or using useful Skills(driving, programming) and other things I enjoyed learning in the past just to feel that sweet regret
-I stopped trying to improve myself completely just for feeling regretful about it.
-I knew that something is wrong with me but I avoided going to a psych to maximize the damage
And That's it. My life is in shambles now, no turning back.
What I am asking you is..why did I do that? Why do I enjoy harming myself, self sabotaging myself so much? I want to know before going to the looney bin and never going back
I knew that I could change at any moment...but I didn't..because deep down I enjoyed my struggles and my misery
>>17816666
You feel like you deserve to suffer. I'm the same way. I feel unworthy of happiness because I know deep down what a lazy good for nothing piece of shit I am, so I actively seek out a lifestyle that makes me feel horrible constantly.
I don't have an answer for that but I'm kinda in the same boat , mainly the college thing. Got in and already my first semester I have no motivation and just wait till I get to the point of having to drop out. Maybe I don't like to harm myself like how you mean by doing not so great decisions but it certainly something I can't help but do either.
I know nothing about cars but need advice. What is a good car that can be gotten for up to 5k euros used (in southern europe)? Not asking for anything special just not generic A-class normiecar.
>>17816657
grab anything JDM, and if you dont know what JDM is oh boy do you have some googling to do my man.
What I can say is if you dont look back after you park it you've bought the wrong car, you will spend a good couple of years of your life in a car so make sure you enjoy that time in something that is enjoyable to drive.
>>17816657
A used smart.
>>17816678
Is a Mazda RX-7 FC cupe any good?
Repost of my thread. (Broke english)
So, what are some signs that may be present if a shy girl is genuinely interested, but is for what ever reason, unwilling or unable to go further with a relationship?
>>17816580
She might tell you about it. Or you can gossip with people that know her.
One of those options is kinda douchy. Guess which one?
>>17816595
Obviously the gossip one.
But yea, a shy girl out right saying shes interested is unlikely.
I have a few signs of what she does to me that could hint at genuine interest. But who knows really
>>17816601
Here's a serious answer: Unless she tells you, assume she is not interested.
Don't go around looking for "reasons". She just isn't into you as much as you are into her. That's fine. It happens.
Better luck next time.
Lost two gf's due to me pushing noodle, one recently. I CAN get it up, but it never stays up for more than 5 minutes. $30 a pill costs too much (someway to find cheaper?)
Wat do. Help a /b/ro out?
>>17816578
How old are you? Does it happen only when tying to have sex or is it an issue when you masturbate too? How's your porn habits? There are plenty of things that could be causing this from psychological to physiological causes.
>>17816586
but honestly, I rarely fap with a full mast, and I'm mostly semihard. I'm a full on ravid pornhound, and I even write adult stories for pocket change.
I'm 27. And yeah, mostly during sex.
I got a parking ticket today. Never got one before and I live in MN. Can I just ignore it or should I just give up and pay?
If you don't pay the rate goes up
Eventually they'll find a way to get their money
>>17816543
In most states if you pay within a couple of days it's half-price. Do it.
>>17816548
Rate meaning?
My boyfriend is into BDSM and asked me if I would like to be active as the dominant part. I want to try it so he ordered a crop and handcuffs, etc. He told me that I can just do it how I like and feel comfortable. I don't really know how to start with it. Should I just handcuff him and then give him 10 spanks or should there be more of a scenario? Like punishing him for a "reason". Is there any way to make it more fun for both of us? Also beside that what else could I do with him? I'm happy about any advices.
Honestly it's your call on how you wanna act out scenarios, but maybe talk with him on what kinds of things he would like you to do? Like if he wants to get cuffed and swatted 10 times, vary it up and cuff him, tease him a bit, then adjust your whipping accordingly.
As cheesy as it sounds, porn could be your friend for ideas. There are plenty of cringey and extreme scenes out there, but weed through them and see if any tickle your fancy. Ask your boyfriend to watch with you if you want, and gauge his responses to certain things.
Good luck.
>>17816528
Thank you very much. Watching porn could be a solution. I might give that a try.
>>17816521
Basically this: >>17816528
I am not big into pain or humiliation, but one of the things that my boyfriend and I enjoy more when I take the charge in the bedroom is teasing.
We both really like when I tie him up and then spend a lot of time turning him on till he begs me to make him come.
Another thing I like is giving him the permission to come. It's such a small things but it turns him on so much.
Well /adv/, I have to be honest, my game's pretty good if I date girls and hang out with them - but my texting skills are rubbish. So I'm outta ideas what to do with a girl I've fallen for, and hope you can help me. It goes like this:
>Meet girl on tinder
>We text from time to time, not lots, after about three weeks she writes me that she's out clubbing and if I wanna meet up
>Meet up, have fun, take her home, don't fuck but cuddle and kiss and get sort of emotionally close
>Meet up one week later, in that week she already was pretty weird in whatsapp, like seemingly doging questions about another date, or even smalltalk
>The second date happens anyway, she seems to have a really good time, we kiss a lot, go for a walk at night after a concert, I take her home, have great sex, the intimate sort with lots of cuddling and foreplay, breakfast together in the morning, she seems really into me like hugging me for long periods, we talk about going to the movies next time.
After that we went back to the horrible texting, she's dodging me, canceled our movie date and now doesn't even react to me asking her when she wants to do the date instead.
She's a really shy sort of girl, so idk if it stems from there, but all the affection she had for me one week, and then not a single bit in the next? I can't really believe that shit. So what should I do now text-wise? Just accept that she doesn't want me anymore and stop writing? Text her another date all alpha-like "Okay hey, then just meet up on wednesday 'cause I'm free there?" or carefully approach her about being so flaky with me and why she acts that way when she was so affectionate on our dates?
>>17816456
Don't text her for a few days and ask again casually
Like oh I'm at this party or I'm at this bar if you wanna swing through
>>17816456
She's probably not single desu. You're the other man.
>>17816463
Probably a good idea but not really practically in our case because she's lives in a pretty rural place with my hometown as the central hub of that rural area, so if we wanna do something she has to drive like an hour by car or longer by train to hang with me. Not really good for something spontaneous.
Dropped out of college and left 3 jobs. wtf is wrong with me?
Some people can just stick with things for years. I can't fucking finish anything!
You finished the post.
Why can't you stick with something?
>>17816445
I could just stay in. but it wouldn't be right. There's a social aspect to it and my common thought is "I don't like these people"
>>17816450
Is you not liking them more important than getting shit done?
are there any rituals or charms i could use to make it snow?
Go to /x/
Let it go.
>>17816422
>summon a credit card
>book a flight to some country with snow
>pretend to be white in the line so your anus will be spared
>profit
Got invited to a party this weekend, but the only person I'll know there is the host. I'm going to ask the host if I can bring a friend along, and won't go to the party if I can't. What's the most polite way to say that?
>>17816421
>"Hey, is it okay if I bring a friend along?"
It's not a big deal, most people don't mind at all if there's more people at their party. Just leave out the part of not coming if you can't, that's the only rude bit.
>>17816431
What do I do if they say I can't bring a friend along? I feel like by asking, I'm creating the expectation that I'll be there.
>>17816436
It doesn't matter
And in all likeliness they'll say ya
This is not an issue just ask
My fiance and I have been together for a while now, we're thinking about getting married late next year.
She's great, I lover her, theres just one slight problem. We both want kids, of that we're sure. However she is Asian (Chinese) and I am white.
to be honest I'm not exactly excited about raising a halfie, they seem to be discriminated against, have identity issues and such.
So, one alternative I've thought about is to use a white surrogate mother. I wouldn't want to adopt since the child wouldn't really be mine then.
So how do I break the ice about us using a surrogate mother? anyone have any similar experiences?
>>17816404
Don't do it. A halfie is fine.
What the fuck.
>>17816404
Basically you want to tell your future wife that while you want to marry her you don't want her to have your children? Wow, good luck, you're gonna need it.
Topic of issue: I strongly believe my co-worker may be allegedly dosing me with drugs.
I work the grill at my workplace, and its usually a good graveyard shift filled with drunk customers looking for a nice juicy burger. However, i've started to notice every time my coworker passes by the grill i smell a distinct odor followed by lethargy and tiredness. This doesn't occur all the time, but when it does it usually only lasts about 30 minutes ( the tired sensation). I'd also like to mention i do become hyper instead of lethargic, but more so lethargic when my coworker coincidentally passes by, following a very strange burning odor. Now you may be asking why i strongly believe this may be occurring?
Simply put, this guy hates me. Evidence: i piss this guy off, lol. He also knows i'll be joining a college nursing program and will be required to pass a urine test next month. This coworker occasionally gets this facial twitches ( which is associated with drug use). I have witnessed another coworker smoke weed ( which is a gateway drug, no offense ). Other coworkers have also displayed symptoms of drug use such as speaking slow and droopy eyes.
So this begs the question: how do i proceed? Do i speak to my doctor? Do i talk to Hr? If i spoke to my doctor i wouldn't know where to begin without sounding crazy. If i speak to HR, and told there is a rule you must follow and that is 'follow the chain of command' But how do you follow the chain of command when your managers are friends with the coworker that may be allegedly dosing me with drugs? I assume i should first start with an accurate, cheap drug test to confirm my suspicious, or paranoia and then begin a course of action. What do you guys think?
There is no such drug that can get you high simply by another human passing you. You sound like a legitimate fucking crazy person.
>>17816377
Get a drug test thing then you paranoid fuck
Take care of yourself man, you sound like my uncle before he started seeing fbi surveillance vans everywhere
>>17816377
You may simply be allergic to the person's cologne/aftershave/shampoo/something. You can test it by deliberately going near him when he doesn't expect it, so he won't be doing anything deliberate, and see if just the smell he carries around with him is affecting you.