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>>17848949
lol you fucking idiot a degree doesnt mean shit anymore. You are literally wasting your time and (parents) resources trying to go to college. It's likely you were pressured and manipulated into going in the first place.You are even guaranteed a fucking job when you get out and you will be paying that shit off for the next fucking 20 years. Welcome to indentured servitude.

>>17848949
Im a jack of all trades, I have like 20+ hobbies which im interested in and could use some of them as carreers but I just chose biochemistry because it was my biggest interest. You can choose one think and quench your thirst for other things.

>>17848957
I don't pay anything, free college here

>>17848925
Use condom
Realize your fantasies
??
Profit!

What do you want to know?

Realize sex is shit.

And you really long for love and someone that adores you, wants to be with you.


Dont do it, its a big mistike. Your dick and society has fooled you.

Source: ive been through your position.

>>17848992
Well offcourse i mean, sex is good. But shit compared to real love. Being wanted, bond together :)

>>17848871
i'd say give her a few weeks for the pills to kick in and see if she chills out

if she was prescribed anti-deps the docs think she really needs it, so there you have it

yes depression makes people irritable etc

poke around here - nami.org

good luck !

Borderline personality disorder isn't something triggered by depression. It's classified as a personality disorder which is distinctly different from a mental illness. Medication can't fix BPD, anyone who has any credibility would tell you that. Do you live in a state where only MDs can prescribe drugs? I'm assuming this doctor wasn't a psychiatrist. He is just a pill pusher. My girlfriend was prescribed Lexapro by her doctor because she gets a little moody around her time of the month.

I'm rambling, but point being medication doesn't and cannot fix personality disorders. A lot of people even believe that personality disorders can never be cured, only managed

>>17848904
That's fucked
How is she on lexipro

No
Ppl bug u and you meet some shady ass ppl

Just get a job delivering pizza if you need the cash

I did it because my friend got me into it working with him and I mostly did it for the rush

You're not gonna make anywhere near that unless for some strange reason your town has a lot of smokers, and suppliers, but very few street level dealers. Being a drug dealer pays fuck all, and you have to deal with idiots who constantly wanna match, get freebies, get special deals, and if you deal with minorities you will eventually get robbed, guaranteed.

Just get a job instead of risking your life and future for chump change.

The problem with being a dealer, is that there's just so many of them.

At my current moment, I've got 3 reliable, good dealers I can go to for any amount of weed.

And, I consistently jump between two of them depending on how involved I want to be in the transaction.

It's like, pizza hut, dominos, and papa johns all on speed dial, ya know?

You gotta have a lot of different clients, because we jump around, and you gotta have consistently good product at standard/low pricing.

If you don't deliver, your business will be shit.

If you don't always have product at the demand of your customer, your business will be shit.

And if you aren't able to occassionally offer a variety, or a discount, your business will always be shit.

I'm fine paying 80 for a sev of good, but when you let me know it's 70 this time around, you best bet I'm gonna come back more often than if it was always the 80.

you dont, you absolute moron. your friends are your friends, the person you want to sleep with is not your friend, they are your (potential) lover. lovers are not friends, there is an inherent exclusivity.

>>17848827
But how am I supposed to feel comfortable with someone I'm not comfortable with?

Yea don't be friends. Just be up front
>I'm romantically interested in you, but I want to postpone a sexual relationship until we know each other really well.

My dick would be diamonds if a girl said this to me. But if a girl said that and we were still together with no sex after 4 - 6 months I'd assume she was using me as her beta bux and was fucking a chad.

With relationships you gotta tell people what you want

>>17848801
Just tell her. But to be honest, if there's something there then you both should feel acceptable of each other's feeling towards sexualized satisfaction.

Thats like a common kink for nigresses. Being dominated by white dudes and have the hope one would pick them up. According to them, being with a white guy elevate their status

>>17848801
She's probably only into you for this specific reason like girls crave the bbc
Especially if she would say that shit this early in the relationship, she's been thinking about this for a while op

This is a fantasy of mine so I suggest you use a plantation accent, put a leash on her while commanding her to do chores around the house while giving her intermittent white master cock sessions
Give her a slave name while you're at it
Watch 12 years a slave to get an idea of how to treat her

>>17848740
Yea they'll send you a check or sometimes they make you pick it up

yes, you worked those hours even if you were shit at them
you'll get your check either 2 weeks from now or the end of the month

>>17848744
>>17848749
Okay cool I wasn't sure if they were required to pay you or not. Anyway don't work shit jobs, they're more trouble then they're worth

Some people don't want to live.

Can't expect them to keep going about their shitty lives just to please you all.

Well...
At least your brother gave life his best shot

>>17848734
I agree. It's his life.

Going to med school in a country where you are fluent in the language would be a great idea. Idk man, not much else I can tell you. What did you think would happen?

Also, if you don't plan on staying in Norway and practicing medicine and paying taxes in exchange for your subsidized or even free education you are a carpet bagger who deserves to fail.

>>17848695
Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done! Now if you know what you’re worth then go out and get what you’re worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain’t you! You’re better than that!

>>17848714
Wasn't my choice to study here. My parents moved here so I had to come with as a minor. They don't make that much money to send me abroad to study so this really was the best option. I got good grades in Norwegian highschool but the difficulty leap in language and how much I had to read was way too large. Just felt I was kinda doomed to screw up from the start. I plan on working and living here and am trying my hardest, just frustrated it's still not enough

>>17848689
Ur dun I'm sorry
If he's telling you now he's been thinking it for a bit

Just end it before he does you'll save yourself some heart ache

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>>17848689
His love should be shown through actions, not words.

>>17848840

He doesn't really use words at all. I hope so

>>17848835

He says he doesn't know 100% though

Tell her that the Feng Shui is off.

>>17848690
I guess that's it but I feel like there's more to it, the last couple of nights I've been going over there and I feel it might drag over to my house

>>17848687
Try going slower
Build it up
Kiss her, tease her, play with her

I mean really fucking slow like you'll fuck her in an hour up until then no D in the V besides dickhead to clit rubbing

The real modern man would welcome a challege.

>>17848694
There is a difference between a challenge that one struggles with to overcome and become a better self and a challenge that provides nothing of worth whatsoever.

Try /r9k/

>>17848674
I think you should get a second opinion
From a dr
Not some guy that browses 4chin

It's autism.

>>17848674
You fukin crazy nigga lmao

3 months

1 month before men start slapping you on the ass.

6 months solid training and diet, low bodyfat

You don't need to be "big" these days. Most girls, especially younger ones like the ottermode look best

But, as implied by your OP pic, if you are ugly you might as well not bother

Face > EVERYTHING

>>17848623
Who the fuck cares?

You're obviously not looking hard enough.

Stand up.

When i was 7 I was going to be Harry Potter for christmas. I took halloween pictures with my sister and I had a broom that came with my costume. I went inside to eat and put the broom in a closet while eating dinner. When I went back to the closet the broom was gone, and never seen again. I lived in that house for another 6 years and we never saw that broom.