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To put it simply, I feel like Ihave zero motivation. I WANT to do things, but I don't them, and even if i get started. Nothing
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How often do you jack off?
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>>17850611
>PORN IS A SIN IT MAKES YOUR BRAIN DUMB STOP JERKING YOUR WEINER OFF TODAY AND HAVE THE DREAM LIFE YOU ALWAYS WANTED
/adv/ in a nutshell
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>>17850587
Motivation is bullshit and leads to nothing without action.
You need discipline. Start marking things on your calendar for every day of the week and actually do them. Keep it up and theres your discipline.
Motivation is for Instagram fags.
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/Adv/
Is it exteremly beta to ask a for a girls number over instagram/social media? We had a very cool interaction and i didnt get a chance to get her number. Would it be weird? Just something simple like "i didnt get a chance to get your number, i'd like to take you out some time"
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nah, go for it
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>>17850585
You're the man. If it works out i will never forget you
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>>17850597
no guarantees if you're autistic about it though
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>grow up constantly picked on for being weak
>develop severe psychological problems from losing all friends, isolation and my father threatening to abandon my family if I don't listen
>eventually start fighting everyone around me
>keep getting picked on for being weak, until that side comes out and I snap
>years go by, I'm now in my mid 20's
>still get shit from people, then I snap and scare everyone away from me
>women are scared of me now when they used to mock me for being weak
>I grow angrier every day and now I snap at the smallest thing someone says to me and have to control myself from punching them in the face
I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm spiralling into hell. it's like "this is what you wanted, now you don't" to the world. they wanted me to be tougher, instead I'm spiralling into chaos and it's either people see me as weak, or they see that psychotic side come out and they run in fear. I get angrier that people become afraid and feel so fucked and lost in darkness. I don't know what the fuck to do. I've seen tons of therapists, nobody can help me. I've prayed to god and that helps, but sometimes this still takes over and I just spiral into self-destruction
>inb4 kill yourself
trust me you don't know how much that thought crosses my mind
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You move away from your family? You need to
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>>17850573
I did a long time ago. it's a complicated relationship, they love me but my father always threatens to leave if I don't listen. that puts pressure on me to not be myself and just make everyone happy, in turn making me wants to make other people around me happy, and then see that society values strength and sometimes violence, so I turned towards that full force. instead people are afraid now, and that makes me even more mad because I think "you stupid fucks, I did this because you pushed me in that direction and now you regret it? you little fucking ass holes" and I my temper flares now whenever anyone starts messing with me. i've been in over 10 fights now and the thing is, the more fights you get into, the more that becomes your first instinct anytime confrontation happens. no talk, just punch them in the face.
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>>17850573
This.
You need a fresh start. You are an adult and can reinvent yourself. You are 100% capable of it too, but you have to want it. Quit telling yourself what you can't do and just start doing it.
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Is it a waste of your 20s to be responsible? 2016-12-13 01:52:18 Post No.17850554
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Is it a waste of your 20s to be responsible?
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Going out once or twice a month, going to the gym or playing a sport at the expense of concerts and happy hours, putting extra time at the office to learn as much as I can on the job
OR
fuck sluts, party, drug it up, do the bare minimum at your job not to get fired, and then "settle" down in your 30s?
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>>17850554
There's this thing called balance. Get all your important shit done every week and then don't be afraid to have fun. No need to be a man of extremes.
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>>17850554
Work first, and your free time is your time to do whatever the fuck makes you feel great.
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yeah definitely zero regrets about not being a diseased druggie slut working a minimum wage job in my 30s
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>balding at 19
>enlarged prostate symptoms (urinary retention, blockage, having to pee 15 times a day, literal pain in prostate)
>get sent to urologist (after a 4 month wait cause lol bureaucracy)
>"Nah u too young bro lol just dont think about it"
wtf do I do, I literally cant get help for this medical problem because they think its impossible for someone my age. this is fucking up my life
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adding one more thing, I went to a walk in clinic once when I was 14 (around the time these symptoms started) and the doctor there checked my prostate for some reason, and he found that my prostate was really large for my age, like the size of a middle aged man
even with this story, doctors refuse to believe that I have it just because its so uncommon
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maybe you jerk off too much and have anxiety related polyuria
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>>17850524
thats what the dermatologist tried to tell me, but nah, its definitely BPH
fuck doctors. I told the derm that I think male pattern baldness is increasing in industrialized countries due to the lifestyle and diet increasing DHT levels at earlier and earlier ages, and he was like "no thats unlikely" then I found an empirical study that proved exactly that is happening. doctors suck
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anyone have any experience with starting a new life on a new continent? i have the opportunity with my work to relocate to Europe next year, for what would be 2-3 years. has anyone here done anything like this? how did it turn out for you? it feels like there's a thousand things to consider and I don't even really know where to start except with a vague sense of adventure.
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>>17850483
What kind of work will you be doing? What country? Sorta matters.
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>>17850490
Germany, automotive corporate stuff
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>>17850492
>automotive corporate stuff
I have no advice at all for moving to a new continent but I'm curious about what "automotive corporate stuff" is, lol.
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>21
>enlisted when I was 17, 3 months before my 18 birthday and still in my junior year of high school.
>went to basic, graduated
>came back home to finish my senior year of high school.
>while finishing my last year of high school I had friends teachers and other people tell me the "dangers" of being in the army.
>Basically plagued me with fear
>pussied out, my CO granted it. Left the army just a couple of weeks before turning 19.
>told me he hopes that someday I'll re-enlist.
Is there a way to re-enlist? I don't care if I have to go through BCT again.
I seriously regret leaving just because of what pussy hipsters said to me.
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>>17850465
Fuckin' random ass Specialist, here.
Prior enlisted recruiters are a thing. Go to your local recruitment office and ask about it. Be professional and respectful. You dun goofed, you were young and listened to the jackasses that hate the military and have no understanding of it.
Come back to the fold, Private. Don't quit this time. Use this experience to teach others when you get higher up.
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>>17850933
Oh,and one more thing. Go Active.
I've spoken with Guard and Reserve. Yes they're Soldiers. But they're not quite the same. Living a nice civilian life and doing drill a weekend or so every month is definitely not the same as living it 24/7.
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>>17850465
Recruiters will suck your dick.
How's Basic by the way?
I'm going in a few months.
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I'm ugly as fuck: thread for ugly fuckers 2016-12-13 01:10:38 Post No.17850413
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I'm ugly as fuck: thread for ugly fuckers
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I lost 30 kg, I fixed my hair, I periodically use lenses (and my glasses are not that bad I swear), fixed clothing, I go swimming and planning on going to the gym (my body is not fit yet but I'm 1,82 x 82 kg, so normal), quite social (I have friends), no problems in talking with girls, considered quite above average in intelligence but I never realised that...
...I'm fucking ugly.
I'm 23 y.o and never a girl showed interest in me, actually I had more "girlfriend" at 8 lol.
It's hard to face actually but in the end there is little I can do but constantly improving myself and getting better.
Then, I'll survive also alone after all.
Perhaps.
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>>17850413
Post pic
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>>17850413
post a pic. we'll be the judges here.
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How many girls have you actually asked out?
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I've been recently dealing with a psycho ex girlfriend who's now convinced, from reading shit on Tumblr, that I "coerced" her into consenting to doing sexual acts and thus sexually assaulted her. She claims that I "abused" her and "forced" her into them, when all I did was ask and she complied. And now she's telling people when she did them, she was not legal age. What's she's not telling people is that she is lying about her age and that she did consent. And of course everyone on there takes her side because women can do no wrong and all men are bestial rapists. I still have the texts from back then that shows she's lying,she consented,said she was legal. I can't let this go unchecked any longer because I fear with each passing day eventually the cops will show up at my house. I don't know what to do. Should I go to the cops before she does? Get a Lawyer? What's the least messy way of dealing with this?
tldr; crazy ex decides to pull the "I consented back then, but I regret it now, so I'll just say he sexually assaulted me" act and I need a way of countering that and proving I'm innocent and she is a lying manipulative bitch.
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>>17850330
She's not gonna call the cops stop being such a pussy and ignore her
She has no bounds
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>>17850340
This. Keep those texts though.
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>>17851715
THIS. ALL MY THIS.
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Being pretty badly bullied at work by one of the managers who today dragged me into a meeting to badmouth me and then demand that I work unpaid overtime because of a system issue that was not my fault.
They keep talking about me behind my back and making rude comments to me.
I'm feeling really low and just finished throwing up and still can't eat.
Please help
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Get a new job.
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Secretly record them fucking you over and send it to his boss, not only will you feel better by getting rid of a dick, but other people will appreciate you exposing this dick of a manager.
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>>17851092
Do it!
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>It will get better
when?
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>>17850323
Well, what's wrong now?
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>>17850327
Nothing and everything. Like the first moment everything is okay but then i completely crash, i feel completely empty, hopeless and like shit for a short time and then everything is back to normal again.
And this goes on and on and on. It's just really strange how the exact same things can be so completely different.
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I feel you.
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Okay, so I noticed my hair started thinning a few months ago.
Since then I cut down on washing my hair to once every 2-3 days, tried coconut oil treatments noticed hair falling out when I rinsed it off and that made me stop doing it.
I started taking biotin 10,000MCG a day, and I ordered some hair growth foam and an herbal hair supplement that got good reviews.
Any advice? I noticed my hairline was receding but I've always had a widows peak since I was a kid, so I feel like I'm mostly making myself paranoid which is causing stress related hair loss.
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how old are you?
do you eat properly?
have you used steroids in your life?
reduce stress as much as possible
try 6 months with use of a good conditioner, dont buy cheap hairproducts, they are mostly a scam.
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>>17850287
Serious question, what do you actually look like?
If you can pull of being bald, go bald. Just embrace it, it's a lot better than those guys who pathetically attempt to turn the thinning tide..
Go bald, not even joking
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>>17850326
I would do that but I'm only 22. Thinning hair in my age is super rare, I want to square away the problem early on.
>>17850318
>22
>Yes. Mostly chicken, lots of fruits and vegetables, very little sweets. I drink lots of water and avoid junk food.
>No I don't use steroids and never have.
>I'm trying to be less stressed. I went through a bad breakup in May and it took me a month or two to get over it. In that time I was doing no contact with my ex and the stress of not talking to her was making me go nuts. I ended up hooking up with a few women and it helped a lot.
6 months? alright. Right now I use Trader Joe's tea tree tingle conditioner, which doesn't have harsh chemicals and shit. Seems to work pretty well, but I just ordered a biotin+collagen conditioner I heard is good for thickening hair.
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Is 6+ years too long to get a bachelors degree? Currently I'm just getting a general education degree which is two years, while I decided on a final career. I was looking at Electrical engineering, but no matter what I chose it's gonna be 4 years, in total it's gonna be 6 years, which seems kinda long. Is that too long to get into a field
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For a single degree? I think so. For two? More reasonable, though I can't see how the two you're thinking of doing build on each other
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If its worth it to you then it's not too long. Don't slack. I know a girl doing 6 years bachelors degree right now, but she's double majoring and works hard as fuck. A lot of people have to do 5 years bachelors so 6 is not long, considering it is an electrical engineering degree.
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Most engineers take a long time because it's a hard major and a high unit one
>I'm an engineering major
How do I condition my gf into being my cock slave without her realizing what's happening
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You don't, real life isn't a bdsm fapfic.
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>>17850303
that's boring tho
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>>17850334
welcome to the real world.
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I was banned and I think I accidentally triggered ban evasion since I had been experiencing internet issues and had been turning my modem on and off a lot.
I posted from a laptop not realising I had been banned still and the post went through which then quickly triggered the evasion.
I go to the ban appeal page to see how much longer my ban is and not it says I am not banned. I am not sure if this is true or if I just triggered the evasion again. I do not want to get perma banned but I don't know how to find out my ban length and when it is say to post again. I don't know how else to reach the mods as the ban appeal says I am not banned. I am afraid of this post triggered another evasion and I want to avoid that.
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It literally takes less time and effort to evade a ban than it did to make this post.
L2reset your ip
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>>17850282
I am not trying to evade it, I don't mind waiting. I just don't want to get perma'd.
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>>17850305
>sucking mod cock this hard
We're all very impressed.