I rarely use mayo, so what's in the fridge has been there for like a year. It's approaching its best by date, but I assume that as long as it looks and smells normal, it's fine, right?
Googling this sort of thing gives me mixed answers, which I assume is because any official source would tell you to toss it at that date to cover their own ass even if it was fine.
>>17853246
Eat half of it in one go, probably with bread.
If you feel okay in the next 12h, eat the remains.
Bon appetit.
Best by dates are usually much sooner than when it actually starts to degrade, give it a fookin shot, mate
>>17853246
How expensive is mayo in your country? Because it might turn out that toilet paper you spend on your diarrhoea will cost you more than buying a new fucking jar of mayo.
If you still wanna gamble I'd say it's fine if it was closed and refrigerated. Also as previous anon said, best before dates are always too soon just for the extra bit of safety in court when someone dies after eating spoiled mayo
For a little over a year or so i developed a sex addiction / fetish and it hasn't gone away. For some reason i have a fetish for black guys and i hate that i have it. I don't understand why i have this fetish and i really do feel embarrassed and ashamed by it. I want to overcome my fetish but i don't know how or what to do. I would like to understand why i have a fetish for black men so i can better get rid of this lame ass fetish. Again i hate that i have this and i'm ashamed, its self-destructive but i'm weak willed and act on my fetish often. I just need some help to overcome. Will give more info if needed.
Lmao coal burner
>>17853176
mmmm, that's some tasty bait.
bait
said more shit about how liking black people is wrong than actually describing the problem or seeking advice
bait
I want some entry tier philosophy literature recommendations to try to restructure my values and beliefs.
I can't quite explain my problem sufficiently, it just feels like I'm lost when it comes to my beliefs, I can't even figure myself out or answer questions like what defines me as a person, what are my values etc.
Sorry if my post was somewhat incoherent, english isn't my native language.
I don't know, maybe you could check out some short podcasts like ethics bites and philosophy bites? Google them, each is like 15min long. You can always google more about the subject.
Also, I think it's okay if you don't have firm beliefs and opinions on every topic. To me, it's about being more knowledgeable and understanding where different sides come from. Hope it makes sense
>>17853232
Alright thanks. It's just that I get confused about certain things, I can hardly tell "right" from "wrong" in some instances, it all just seems so gray.
>>17853266
It is gray
what do you spend most of ur time thinking about/talking about
different subjects
do any of you have no interests at all? WHY
but mainly what are ur interests and why.
cooking, skincare and art
I'm currently going to culinary school and I want to be a menu designer mostly because food is a really important way to stay connected to my culture in diaspora and because making someone food and seeing their face light up when it's really good is what I fucking live for
I love skincare, but I read about it more than I really talk about it. I don't really know anyone irl who cares about it and acne is a sore spot for a lot of folks so I don't want to come across preachy. *(esp considering most of my peers can't afford expensive skincare products/treatments)
I'm an artist and I'm lucky to have artist friends who I get along really well with and can collab with.
as a kid with a learning disability, writing and drawing was something I could excel at pretty easily, and now I only really do visual art and a little poetry and it makes me happy and is straight up really good for my mental health
>>17853133
Nothing. I spend most of my free time on 4chan waiting for work to start again.
VR
Music
Social Psych
>>17853469
Do you mean like the design on menus or creating a menu and cooking it lol
>>17853510
I feel you on that
I think I should stop coming here
Already got it all. At least, the basic.
I have paid my house, my car, my private pension. Got the opportunity to raise half a million, it´s sitting there on the bank. That was the plan, and it was a success.
Raised two kids, always loving and caring, they are two nice human beings.
Now I´m bored to death, cause I lack all those "life challenges", I´m sick and tired of it all, barely have friends (and desu they are/were all co-workers), and I have no doubt I´m nobodies favorite.
Not a cranky guy, I´m usually quiet and pleasant and all. Very few would have reasons to dislike me. Yet, I´m not even close to 40, feels like life has nothing to offer anymore, and I´m terribly alone and sad.
>>17853125
Do you have any hobbies or interests anon? Why not find new interests, set new goals and create new challenges if that is what drives you.
>>17853125
Get a hobby that's easy to learn, but difficult to master. It gives you something to work towards. Even better if it's a sociable hobby where you can meet people and potentially befriend them. Do something you actually want to do, instead of working from a goal to goal. Human life is boring for most parts, that's why people do things that don't really count towards it for fun. Damn, go scuba diving or something.
>>17853150
I used to have. Several, actually. But got tired of doing my things alone. There are stuff that we do together, but usually the stuff I end up choosing as hobby, even when we get enthusiastic together, I end up doing alone.
>make house benefits claim online
>website says I can get £65 a week
>I need to go present some documents to the council
>go outside the council
>gut feeling says don't do it
>I came back home
Why do I feel that this will buy me some time to unJUST myself but will come back somehow in the future to bite me in the ass? (fucking up work opportunities or something else I might need).
Can it fuck you up in the future?
get a job
How the fuck will a housing benefit fuck you over in the future you mongoloid?
>>17853007
Considering about it because it will buy me some time to actually start my self employment gig earlier than if I spend time on an unrelated job and eventually have a better paid and fun job.
I do work now but on this gig which only just now starting so I need the time and energy for it.
Is it a bad idea to go to college to get a college loan just to use the extra free time and money to start a business
Any job I can get right now is about minimum wage and would require me to work more than going to school for the minimum amount of time
Extra benefit would be to take relevant classes
>>17853000
Student loans don't work that way my man.
They go directly to the university and you just foot the bill later. Unless you mean private loans, which are harder to get.
>>17853000
We get this a lot, it's fraud and as the above poster said you'll get only what remains after tuition is paid.
Fucking idiots I swear, if you "thought" about this idea as much as your business you're doomed to fail. Who am I kidding you were going to fail anyway.
>>17853008
>>17853005
I was asking because my friend has been his FASFA money for a couple years to fund his dropshipping buisness and has been making a decent amount of money
So he's gonna get caught then?
Guys, what's some genuine good first date ideas?
Amusement park. Physiologically speaking, fear and attraction share a lot of the same characteristics (elevated heart rate, sweating, shortness of breath, etc.)
Being in a scary situation with someone, like say being on a rollercoaster, can cause the two feelings to be confused or mixed - even if she might not be that into you, her body's physiological response could trick her into thinking she is.
I lack experience so I'm just going to tell you what you should avoid so you don't repeat my mistake. Cinema and crowded restaurants.
No I'm not a complete idiot, I'm just unlucky.
I am kinda planning a first date as well, and my idea is basically to take her ice skating, then to a nice restaurant for dinner after
Not at the prospect of being "stable partners" but as potential fuck mates.
It's always the sports coach, the fitness instructor/personal trainer , the nature guide, the musician, the diving instructor, the yoga instructor or others that seem like the "fuckable" archetype of man. Not the blue collar welder or the white collar lawyer but something else entirely.
If I want to live a life surrounded by women who actually want me what's the best way to get out of the System?
>inb4 don't revolve your life around women
>millennia of society disagree with you and I want to get my dick wet
>>17852942
you have a flawed worldview.
>>17852942
What are you talking about? In my experience, blue collar guys are among the most fetishized. The hot greasy mechanic, the burly construction worker; all of those archetypes of hypermasculinity get basic bitches panties soaked. Maybe you're going after the wrong girls?
>>17852944
How do I end my porn addiction forever?
Be the type of person that doesn't need to watch porn. There are no shortcuts.
>>17852914
In the beginning you should avoid temptation get rid of anything that can be used for porn or put parental blocks on your computer after you get used to it youll be able to rely solely on willpower
>>17852914
That picture makes me really sad.
Poor girl.
I'm about to fail college for the 2nd time. I don't know whats next for me.
The college is not for you try something new and exciting. I dont know about your country but in mine there are lots of alternatives! Its not over yet Anon
Generally higher salaries and job prospects for the rest of your life.
Wait, you said, "fail."
The opposite, then.
>>17852818
Burgeristan.
I've been trying to find a black girl to hook up with in my hometown while I'm back for winter break, is tinder the best app to use?
If you want to get mugged by her bf when you meet sure. Also trannies, never any shortage of black trannies on tinder.
>>17852805
have you tried BlackTinder?
Are there actually a good amount of black people where you live though?
Hey /advice hope you will listen to my story.
All my life I have lived in a rich white neighborhood and been the only sort of ethnic kid (I am half Iranian). Everyone hated me and I had no friends. Over the years I have really tried to improve myself I had self-esteem issues anxiety all that shit. Now in college I am popular with everyone and people genuinely likes my personality. Elected as tutor and committee leader for different stuff best friends with the prettiest girl in school we go clubbing every Thursday never pays for anything. I lost 15 kg recently and I look a lot better not perfect but I look fine. I feel so lonely I do have close friends but in the end I feel like no one wants or can relate to me. I have always been a bit weird and creative so growing up in a conform white rich suburb forced me to work around it and made me able to market myself to these rich kids in a more relatable way. But every time we go out my friends hook up with cute guys and here I am feeling so lonely. Feeling like I am in the wrong place. I don’t know what to do because I can’t leave this area until I finish next year, and it’s just so unbearable being this lonely all the time. It’s so conflicting because I have everything my life is really good but I am so depressed and lonely. I always get the “damn Anon you are the perfect gf or you have such a great body why don’t you hook up with more people we don’t get that”. I haven’t been with someone for like 4 years… We are on a study break right now and I am writing this exam assignment. But I just spend the days loathing staring at my screen laying in my bed looking up in the celling. I went to my psychologist who helped me a lot with my anxiety before and she basically told me just to wait… thank you
well i can relate up up until the time skip to college.
One thing you failed is how you acted. I also was in a rich white neighborhood (im half Anonish), however, i didn't market myself to get with them. After years i just invited myself to where people with my interest lived. People like me. I didnt suck dicks just to get friends in the "white" neighborhood
>>17852803
If you are in Irvine just leave.
>>17852945
i am a europoor
How true is this?
Does the male average is really 3?
Does this mean a 6-7 male is on the top 10% male percentile?
Also, it seems males mature later than females.
http://www.counselheal.com/articles/5709/20130611/men-mature-11-years-later-women-study.htm
What advice could you possibly want from this thinly veiled r9k post
>>17852799
I want female opinions.
Fuck off
The last 2 doctors I spoke to wanted to send me back to the mental hospital. I said no to the first one, but this time I've been given 7 days to 'volunteer' or I'll be forced into treatment.
I'm scared to death /adv/
>>17852794
Enjoi your last 7 days
What did you tell them?
>>17852851
Didn't even say anything bad. It just because I have a 'history' of suicidal shit.