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I wasn't really ever bullied. People tend to punch down and I hit my adult height early on.

There was however, this girl who was made fun of a lot especially when she wasn't around to listen back in 9-12th grade. She was nice to most people and generally pretty open. But a lot of the other women especially would try to make up rumors about how she had aids or herpes or had a teenage pregnancy and all sorts of shit. They were obviously pulling it out of their ass, but teenagers arent really known for being rational.

I still regret not standing up and saying something. Kind of wish I could apologize to her for that, but I don't even know where she went after highschool and pretty sure it would come off as extremely uncomfortable her her anyways. Whenever I see someone being picked on, I'm much more vocal about it.

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>>17851261
>had a feud with some jock in high school, we'd call each other a faggot when we walked past in the halls, etc
>eventually it escalated one day and he challenged me to fisticuffs
>I raised my fists and just froze, let him punch me

Dropped out of high school after that because I felt like an ashamed beta.

Now I'm a total NEET failure at life and he's probably doing quite well for himself since he was the athletic type.

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>>17851369
You dropped out because you lost a fight?

How did your parents react and what do they think now?

You won't make him fuck you that way roastie

>>17850577
Why? Right is nearing the point of going blimp mode. Just admit you like fatties. No shame in that, just means you have awful taste. Who wants a girl who gets wheezy from a set of stairs?

>>17850579
What?

>>17849382
call them both faggots for not being able to set aside each other's differences and that you're not going to curtail to either one of their demands

neither of them have the right to tell you who you can or cannot be friends with or be together with, and if they are going to be petty about it they should just fuck off

>>17849382
Your boyfriend is in the wrong. Sounds like your friend didn't do anything, but your boyfriend definitely let his own worries get the best of him, and he jumped to conclusions.

If I was the friend I would definitely have felt disrespected and I definitely would have done a similar thing.

this type of behavior is ALWAYS rooted in some sort of deep insecurity. he basically thinks he cannot trust you around another man because you will hop on their dick the second he turns his back.

you need to decide if thats true, and if it isn't you need to make it clear to him that if you didn't want to date him, you wouldn't be dating him. but stuff like this will push you away if he persists

>>17846144

I was prescribed Prozac for depression and after one dose I immediately knew it wasn't for me. I felt different, but not better. My libido disappeared and my genitals went numb and unresponsive. It took about a week before everything went back to normal.

Antidepressants will fuck you up if you don't know what you're doing. Unless you're desperate and nothing else works, I recommend almost anything else.

>>17846144
Take them with therapy, it's how they're designed to be used. Don't take them if you haven't even tried CBT, you can do it yourself to some degree, but you do need to see someone at least sometimes, because you can't always address healthy thoughts.

>>17846192
SSRI's are very mild medications, it's the opposite of what this guy's saying, side effects aren't that common, and they're quite mild when they do.

Plus, you're meant to take it for at least a few weeks before you get any signs, one dose giving you any side effects (bar like an allergic reaction or something) is just placebo.

I was depressed and here's something that's really useful to know.

Factually, a good exercise session is just as if not more effective than an antidepressant. Seriously they've done studies on this and that's what they concluded.

Getting your health under control will go a long way towards helping you cope with the depression.

I usually just search the catalog for similar topics and post my questions there. But nobody replied to my last one so I guess I'll move it here

I'm an emotionally crippled manchild. How do I grow up?

I have PTO for a doctor's appointment next week. My coworkers have to work extra to cover for me.

The doctor's office canceled the appointment and asked to reschedule like 3 weeks ago, but I never checked my voicemail until today.

Should I try to cancel the PTO?

Never did i say i didnt want to talk to you, you blocked me on everything the day after you called me crying hysterically. I asked you if you were okay because you were a mess and you couldnt even tell me you were okay, instead you blocked me on everything, i thought it was just a moment you were having or whatever, than you get back with your ex on sunday, then you still wont talk to me, i have to add you on something that you didnt block me yet than you just ignored me anyway until i had to blow you up for a response. and even when you gave me a response you had your ex there and you tried to spite me by saying you were having fun, and to never talk to you like that, when i was clearly coming from a place of confusion and i was lost. I never felt so alone in my life when you said that, i felt like a lost a big part of me from everything that was happening. It was honestly ridiculous looking back at it now, all those red flags that i saw when you were texting him, you telling you love him straight to my face with no regards how i would feel. imagine if i was talking to you and i knew you had crazy feelings for me and i told you right in your face that i love someone else. the first moment you said you have to comeover or else im going to have to go to steves because i have nowhere else to go, you remember that? i should of left you right then and there. And if not that, the first time you left me for him i should of never said a word to you, i should have never texted you never done anything. I dont blame you 100% tho, there are some things i would have done differently, and aswell as i knew what i was going into considering your depression and other problems.

>>17839373
You kept leading me on and on and on only to crush me in the end. And the fact that you told me you loved me and 2 days after that you blocked me on everything and clearly didnt give a shit, but when your ex calls you a whore you get back with him 2 days later. All you ever did was lead me on, you wasted my time and let myself get attatched to you. When i was messaging you on thanksgiving night i was worried sick about you and you wouldnt even talk to me. you wouldnt tell me anything, you just went and blocked me on everything, instead of just saying im okay or whatever. You just dont care about anyones feelings but yourself, your an incredibly selfish person, you have no idea how i felt at that time and you dont care even if you did know how i felt, because everything is about you and how you feel, you can say you cared for me, you loved me or whatever, but everything that you did, your actions they show you dont give a fuck. Everything that happened between us was a huge lie, You do not do what you do to someone you love/care about, and everytime you told me sorry, you didnt mean it at all because you would go and do it again, you would only say sorry to satisfy yourself so that someone wouldnt be mad at you. You dont have the right to keep things from people because your afraid they'll be mad at you or hurt them, thats not your decision at all, it was your decision when you did whatever would cause them hurt and you have to live with it and own up to it.

>>17839379
At the moment of writing this, i feel like im over you already but there is some residual feelings, I do cherish the fun times we had , staying up late and just having fun. The best part about you was that just being with you made me happy, whenever we would do shit together i would always have fun just being there with you. I felt that you could make any moment, anything i was doing better because i could share that experience with you, but things change. that was in the beginning and i wish my idea of you was true, but it wasnt, you were in love with your ex the entire time and you just made me feel like a second choice, for awhile i was really fucked up about it all and i was very lonely. I wish i met you at a different point in your life because i believe and i really do that if none of this bullshit happened we would be ok, I felt such a strong connection with you but now any future of us is absolutely ruined because of it all.

>>17853794
You should probably just prepare for the inevitable break-up.

inb4 jealous, nah, I've been there. If she's truly a trophy girlfriend that gets hit on constantly then it's likely she's high maintenance. You won't be able to deal with her shit.

>Should I fatten her up
Uh bro what are you on right now

No you don't try to make your girlfriend fatter and make her health worse what are going on about man

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Niggha get swole.
Aint no better deterrent than a 6'4" by 6'4" wall of muscle and roid rage

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>>17853737
Pic also related

lol owned by ur mom

>>17853737
Fuck her

find a different girl if sex life is important to you in relationships. there are plenty of girls who will agree with you and who you can form a relationship with.
she should also find a guy who doesn't enjoy sex rather then forcing you to be like her.

>>17853643
Hate to say it but this relationship is not gonna work. Just be glad it's only a 2 month relationship and you're not married with kids.

Seriously fuck me.

I have talked to her about sexually exploring herself. I told her that she can't know until she tries it. I think it was her upbringing and her shitty past relationships that caused her to become like this. She told me she used to be REALLY attracted to people when she was in middle school, like a raging nympho or something. She said she was attracted to their personalities, which is normal for a woman. She agrees with me that she needs to explore herself but she doesn't feel like doing it.We only talked about it last night, but I just don't want to have to let her go over something to stupid.

You're apparently incapable of reading the rules too, so I don't think your future looks too bright.

>>17853568
>Did I make the right choice?
>I'm sixteen years old and I just dropped out of high school.
no. no you did not.

Is there an age restriction on here or something? And if so it's not like I'm on here for trap hentai or whatever you people like, I'm just here for honest advice.

>>17853560
It's only worth it if you challenge your sexual game every time

Other wise might as well drink at a park

>>17853560
I go to the club to dance, if I wanted a club girl I'd go on tinder

Most just go to post up and look cool

Key is to get pretty drunk before

If you aren't going to dance or help get a friend laid it's definitely not worth it

>>17853560
Do molly and fuck girls
Just don't die

>>17853522
you can wear an odd jacket. I have a grey suit that I wear a blue jacket with. If you have a black shirt that would probably help.

>>17853542
>black shirt
Unless OP is a member of an emo band from the mid 2000s, he shouldn't take fashion advice from you.

>black on black
Unless you're an undertaker or on your way to meet one, never wear all black.

>>17853542
>black shirt to an all black suit
You need to stop

she probably hesitated to tell you because she knew you would react like this. no you don't need to worry. putting a man and a woman in a room together doesn't mean they're going to fuck.

it's not if x then y, people make decisions of their own. if she's going to cheat, she would cheat on you anyway some other time. if she isn't, she won't.

the only exception is if he is a rapist, and sexually assaults her. why is your relationship with her so shitty that you can't trust her?

>>17853455
I believe open and honest communication is the key to any relationship. Yes I understand you being upset that she didn't tell you until last minute but perhaps she did that bc she didn't want to upset you. Also if you trust your woman and she is a good person she will not do anything even if this stranger tries. Do not whine about it do not make it a bug deal jealousy is a huge turn off for most women and will only drive her further from you.

>>17853455
I have never heard of a company that will put opposite sex in the same room. She is pulling one over on you OP

>>17853327

it sucks but its life. if it means so much that you'd kill yourself over than why not dedicate yourself to campaigning against it?

>>17853327
Just remind yourself that you probably live in one of the most progressive countries in the world and that we've come so far promoting equality and women's rights! Hope that helps anon!

>>17853346
>*womens privilage
Fixed that for you

>>17853322
minoxidil is apparently proven to work at least to some extent
finasteride has great chances of completely halting hair loss as long as you take it but it has/can have severe side effects. studies showed 2%-5% probability side effects that stopped after getting off it; however a metastudy found these studies to be somewhat biased towards a positive outcome. some men who used finasteride also reported of lasting side effects after getting off it
you should prob see a dermatologist and ask them; use minoxidil and deliberate thoroughly whether you want to use finasteride

1. Shave it.
2. Wear it proud.
There is an option 3 of a hair transplant or hair products, but I don't recommend either.

>>17853367
Also, monoxidil was only proven for balding that starts at the top of your head, like the center out - not for receding hairlines. (I happen to work at a vitamin reseller and it's a popular product, also part of the reason I don't recommend it)

>>17853322
go bald