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>>17870061

you literally can't.

fun fact though, they dont necessarily ditch you cuz a better guy appears. I've dropped a lot of guys simply because the next day i wasn't interested.

>>17870061
ok cupid is shit , try tinder , dont text loads , appear you have a life , text just a few in the evening after "work"

>>17870067
It's a journey, fuck. Dating, then eventually getting into a relationship, and holding on to that long term.

It's amazing really

>>17870060

what are you good at? what are things you like. what's something 'big' that you did? what's something 'small' that you did?

>>17870078
I really like animals, it's why I'm finishing up my vet tech degree and working in a clinic right now.

I feel like there used to be a lot of things I liked, such as games, but over time a lot of stuff I enjoyed isn't "fun" anymore. Which makes me feel worse. Something "big" I did was move out of my home town all on my own, trying to live on my own and make it. It's hard being by yourself though.

Something small? I mean I felt pretty crappy but I still got out of bed and went to work.

>>17870099

there you go. there's your worth. you are a savior to all the animals. and a hero to all the families that have you fix em up. sure theres the down side of getting animals fixed, but you're already helping animals get better and will continue to do so when you get your degree.

>>17870041

>go to one bbq
>WOW IM BETTER THAN THIS

this is you. you can improve yourself while still enjoying yourself.

you want to be a better person? don't act like you're a better person than your friends just because they like to hang out together.

>dont know if in eed friends to do that

depends on how you want to work on yourself.

>>17870041
What's the point improving yourself if you've got no one to spend that life with? Not that I'm saying you need other people to be happy, but do you really think being a hermit is better than having friends, even if it's just a few?

>>17870041
Cool blog post

>>17870031
Are you considering getting a motorcycle just to pick up woman? That's beta as fuck. If you want one just get one.

Some will like it, some won't.

/thread

>>17870031
people are cohesive.

i find em sexy, but id be nervous about riding one. i think id have trouble dating a guy who ONLY has a motorcycle cuz id be nervous about having to ride with him all the time.

It's definitely a red flag for me, mainly for safety reasons:

"According to the U.S. National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA), in 2006, 13.10 cars out of 100,000 ended up in fatal crashes. The rate for motorcycles is 72.34 per 100,000 registered motorcycles. Motorcycles also have a higher fatality rate per unit of distance travelled when compared with automobiles."

>>17870028
Call the fucking doctor!

>>17870038
seems not so bad from these googled symptoms

Less frequently occurring symptoms and signs include:

mild jaundice (a yellowish tint to skin)
neck stiffness
sensitivity to light/FONT
cough
shortness of breath
chest pain
rapid and/or irregular heart rate
nosebleeds
hives

>>17870028
That doesn't sound like mono to me but it's a very misdiagnosed one, slippery bitch

The frequency of weight loss and light sensitivity is at high frequencies

Either way you won't die, just wait for the test results and watch friends or something

No. I mean maybe when i alr like someone, but as a charm point, or a way to get attention? No.

No. I find guys who show me tricks are attention whores.

>>17870006
It won't get you girls that you wouldn't get otherwise, it might be some extra cool thing you can do, but if the girl isn't interested it won't change her mind. I do magic tricks sometimes and I got called a dork by a girl if that matters, but every girl that's used the word dork has wanted to fuck me

yes.
part of love is putting other people before yourself.
is it an achievable goal? yup. the hard part is just finding a person.

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>>17869971
Yes. Its called "having kids".

>>17870491
True, but I was thinking more along the lines of romance.

I can't tell if the post is troll just gonna guess not lol take acid read books learn about philosophy I suggest watching the philosophy vids on the YouTube channel The School of life they are all good my favs are the eastern philosophy vids specifly the one about Lao Tzu and the Western one about Albert Camus make meaning because sorry to break it to you there isn't any intrinsic kind you have to try to have a happy fulfilling life it doesn't just happen and if you're not happy 24/7 that's OK no one normal is happy all the time emotions are like waves they come and go always

>>17869959
What happened, if you don't mind reposting?

>>17869983
My bad I read the post wrong the first time it's not troll

>>17869952
Hang out with your friends a lot more and yeah idk just no matter what you do don't go back to the relationship

>>17869956

but why is it so tempting to? Why do I feel so helpless without them?

I know what's better for me but I just cried the River Nile over them

>>17869968
I think I know how you feel anon, my ex wasn't abusive but she was a massive cheating whore, I was away working abroad for 3 months and came back to find she had banged around 50 people (not exaggerating and includes 4 of my friends) and literally became a prostitute. I dumped her that day of course.

Despite all that I still loved her, I didn't want to get back together but I always wished I could rewind time and try and stop it from happening so we could still be together.

I still loved her, but with time what I came to realise is that what I loved was not her, what I loved was my image of her which was actually completely different to who she actually is.

Honestly there is no quick solution, there is only one tried and true method. Block communication and get rid of any items that remind you of her. Then you just have to man it out and try to forget about her.

In fact I'm in a new relationship but I still think about what could have been but it no longer depresses me.

To be fair one thing that did make me feel better was insulting the shit out of her. This is about a year and a half after breaking up with her, I read in the news about an outbreak of stds in the area she lived. It gave me a good chuckle linking her the news article asking if it was her and that I was thinking of finding out what her going rate is but not anymore. She blocked me after that and it actually felt great.

>>17869947
Study for the final pass that shit get it over with if your GF bitches about it break up with her cuz she obviously doesn't understand that school is more important than seeing your NOT dieing tard GF in the hospital

You can take your books or laptop to the hospital right?

>>17869964
Im too anxious to study right now, this night (23:11 here) is pretty much wasted. Gonna start cramming tomorrow to pass it.
>>17869966
I could but it would be too noisy.

Just texted her mom, if everything is fine I will try to calm myself.

The only guess I can make is because you're getting too sexual too quickly, have too much of a history of this, and just attract/are attracted to girls who do this.

>>17869933

>The only guess I can make is because you're getting too sexual too quickly

Dated a girl for 2 months before having sex and she did it

>have too much of a history of this

I'm 23 and I've been with 4 girls, I actively avoid girls if I don't think they're relationship material

>just attract/are attracted to girls who do this.

As I said I try and avoid girls that do it, as for attracting them I don't know what I do wrong.

Fuck them harder

>>17869897
The "right" choice is to tell your gf and prob end up breaking up

The RIGHT choice is to never tell her and keep living until you get bored of gf and dump her

Break up with your GF, tell her you cheated if she asks.

You suck, by the way.

>>17869897
Women are meant to be cheated.
Contrary to what most people think, they actually enjoy it.

>>17869895
Do you lift

>>17869917
Lift? Doesn't help.

>>17869920
DO
YOU
LIFT

have you looked into state run nursing homes?

>>17869906
they are probably not the greatest so you might want to visit often.

>>17869915
of course that's just one I went to in Oklahoma I'm basing this off of. This lady in a wheel chair was screaming her head off and no one was attending to her.

>>17869850
Trim it? Wth lol

have you tried using a comb on your asshole?

>>17869850
I always take a shower after I shit
For the same reasons