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Where to find a qt white racist bf who's willing to date a niggress?
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>>17900215

This is fetish thing, right? Don't confuse a fetish with a way of living.

Also, I'm like 95% sure you are not an actual black woman. But in the slight chance you are, I just say "people are more than the color of their skin"
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>>17900215
this guy right here, desu.

My hate for negro's has nothing on my love for black pussy, though
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stop telling lies and do something constructive with your time

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>Be me
>kicked out by parents
>lives with girlfriend and her family
>works as a tutor
>only makes $200 a month
>struggling with debt
>trying to make it through college
>no financial aid
>struggling with depression
>thinks about suicide daily
>girlfriend almost caught me looking up how to kill myself
>no family, few friends, feels trapped

How do I keep my mind off bad thoughts? and also what advice would you have to try to get help? or best way to find a job? I've been having and insanely hard time finding another job.
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Make a go fund me
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Sell your tutoring services better
200 a month is garbage
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smoke weed ma nigga

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Has any of guys gotten fucked over because you were thinking with the wrong head?
Like sending nude pics or something else and then regretting it later.
This kind of shit always happens to me because I'm too innocent and always trust on all my female friends.
All I want to know is if you guys ever done this so I don't feel like I'm the only faggot who does this kind of shit.

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Yeah. I was hanging out with this borderline, histrionic chick who was pretty attractive and sexual. I sent her a dick pick once when she asked (she had been nagging about it for a while), and we later had a falling out. I'm beyond thankful she didn't do anything with it, considering I had her on facebook considering I knew the sort of fucked shit she did with other guys.

It woke me up when I began thinking of the shit it could have caused, and decided sending it is just not worth the hassle unless its in a well developed relationship.
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>>17900153
The chick I sent my nude pic to was also begging for it but then she started to say some weird sarcastic stuff that got me spooked.
She showed it to some girls but she said she only did it because she didn't believe it was a real picture and neither did the girls. I think she was lying but I never met any of those girls again so I kind of stopped caring about it.
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>>17900163
>then she started to say some weird sarcastic stuff that got me spooked.
I was 19 and stupid horny. She wasn't just saying weird shit, I knew the fucked up shit she did and ignored it. This shit is definitely going to ruin some careers in the future, it was a lot harder when they were just Polaroids.

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>Ex Carpenter/Tile Setter
>10+ years experience
>Become full time engineering student
>Go to school in really affluent area near Silicon Valley
>Rent about 4-600 to share a room
>Paid off truck
>About 3k saved up
>Buying enclosed cargo trailer to live out of

Here is the dilemma

>$300 for hitch installation
>6x12 cargo trailer is $3600
>6x14 cargo trailer is $4700
>4-5 years of schooling

Should I just spend the extra money to get the larger vehicle?
What are some flaws in this plan?
What else should I consider?
Anyone else ever do a tiny home project?
Is 2k a good amount for a down payment (for either)?

Any other general advice is welcomed
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>>17900102
why don't you just rent a cheap room instead of having to jump through hoops of the off-grid lifestyle?

I mean, as great as it sounds on paper, showering at the gym, shitting at the gas station, it really makes life an everyday hassle that could simply be avoided if you just suffer with being broke for awhile to get yourself made up.

I mean, by all means if that's what you want to do, go ahead but I'd rather just pay for the room.
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>>17900109
>cheap room
>California

I like the idea of mobile living, but god damn being a full time student and trying to afford all that along with any type of decent commodities is gonna be difficult no matter which way you go.

I dont really have any advice but I do wish you luck in your endeavors OP.
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>>17900109
No privacy within my price range. I mean, full studios or rooms are well up into 1k at the very least where I'm at unless I want to commute

I hate dealing with roommates

Trying to minimize loans and debt

Work out and shower at the gym everyday already

I'd rather have a room but financially I have no help. I'm 2 years into school but still have quite a bit to go til I'm done

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20 yo male here, I feel like my hair's condition is very poor, it is splitting and falling out a lot, so what should I do?
I shower almost every morning, my hair gets very oily and ugly after sleeping, should I stop that ?
what are some most useful shampoos/hair serums/other shit in this situation?
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>>17900071
What temperature do you take showers in
How often do you shampoo an condition
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>>17900078
hot enough
everytime I shower
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You're gonna o bald, just accept it and start shaving your head, It's what I do and honestly it doesn't look half bad, way better than with pathetic strands clinging to your ravaged scalp

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I got okcupid this morning and I'm starting to get matches.

The thing is, I've never been on a date before, nor do I know how to initiate a conversation. I'm also kind of hesitant to message them. What if they accidently liked me or something...I know I spam liked a lot of people.
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Guy or girl? If guy, girls on those apps only go for like 20% of men, the rest rarely even get a reply. If a girl, good luck, cuz the potential for ruining your life with these apps is pretty high. Be careful.
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>>17900036
>the potential for ruining your life with these apps is pretty high
How so?
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I'm a guy, these girls have similar wholesome values as me apparently.

Only really interested in one so far, the other two I consider practice gf material. They're cute, but I can sense their mental defects right away.

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I'm a 27-year-old that is 5'1". I also happen to be a virgin. When this comes up in conversation with friends, I inevitbalty get a bunch of people trying to "fix me" or give me bullshit "self-improvement" tips on how to be a better person, as if I'm somehow a piece of shit for not having had sex. When I respectfully refuse this advice and tell them that I've given up and found other things to do, they get angry at me.

I lift weights, I do cardio, I eat healthy, I treat people nicely, and I like to take care of myself. I've simply given up because height is an immensely important factor in attractiveness, and I'm fine with that. The world doesn't owe me anything, but the converse also applies.

How can I get people to understand that I've accepted this? Every time, and I mean every time, I get called a "defeatist" or "loser" for just calling it quits and focusing on myself, and frankly, it's getting irritating. It's not like I go into a 20 minute rant about how all women are whores and that I'm a perfect being that deserves anything my heart desires.
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Your friends sound like jerks in a way, I'm sure your friends are nice though. (They are your friends after all)

Maybe tell them you don't care as much anymore and you'd rather focus on yourself and find the right girl instead of loose girls?
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Either you're assexual, or a defeatist/loser
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>>17900013
People have a need to feel "in control," so when they encounter a problem that they can't help or solve, it makes them feel weak and uncomfortable. Some people act like assholes when they feel weak or uncomfortable

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Femanon, 22yo here. I've only had sex with one guy (a few years ago) and he wasn't interested in anal, but I hear many other guys are. I find it completely repulsive that lots of guys are into this and expect it. I feel pessimistic about dating because I fear I'll be pressured into trying something so horribly painful. Why do guys coerce their girlfriends into this?
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Troll thread
Move along

Unrealistic fears
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>>17900004
No one "expects" you to have anal sex. Most guys wouldn't dump you if you said you weren't into it - a lot of my friends don't like it and all of them are in long term relationships.

Also - girls like anal sex too. I love it, and actually ask my boyfriend to fuck my ass fairly often. The idea that someone has to be coerced into it is ridiculous.
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i'm a girl who loves anal sex. but my best friend hates it and pretty much refuses to try it.

guess which one of us is happily married? it's not me :(

don't worry so much. you can make a guy happy without doing anal lol.

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How do I lucid dream?
What happens when you lucid dream?
I've been pretty bored since the beginning of the year. Can't afford drugs (nor do I want to run the risk of being a junky) and nothing else seems to really work for me. So the idea of lucid dreaming sounds rather seductive.

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Shameless self-bump.
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Melatonin supplements
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By "lucid dreaming" I'll just assume you want sex dreams on command, since that's exactly what you want.

This is what you do:

1) You drink a lot of fluids before going to bed and don't take a piss before sleeping

2)You sleep on your stomach so your dick is being pressed between the bed and your weight. When you need a piss while you're sleeping and pressure is against the dick in the dream it wil create a sexually pleasurable sensation

3) If you have a partucluar person you want to fuck in the dream, like an actress for a
example, watch several hours of movies/shows with her that day, so she remains in your subconscious

4) Obviously, refrain from jerking off so you have a lot of pent up sperm and sexual energy to relase

works about a third of the time

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I need help. I have been in a relationship with a great girl for 1.5 years. She's amazing besides the fact that we were both virgins when we got together. Her sex drive is extremely low and we haven't had normal penetrative sex yet. (The 3 times we tried I was too tired and just wanted to sleep.)

About 8 months ago I was sexting with another girl, I got pictures and everything. I ended up confessing to it and she confessed to doing it herself at the begining of the relationship. She seemed more interested than upset at me. I told her we both needed to stop and consider it cheating from now on. She resisted a bit, but she agreed because she said she doesnt want me to be texting other girls like that.

Since then I have been going on whisper and getting girls to send me nudes. It's basically replaced porn for me. I don't send them a pic or even give them a name. I basically just look for the slutty ones and ask for their age and then ask for pics.

I guess in my mind I cannot find the difference between this and porn. And the fact that it is impossible for me to get caught just adds to how hard it is to resist.

I recently quit for 2 weeks, but today I did it again when she was at work. I would never allow anything to progress beyond this, but I know what I'm doing is cheating in a lot of people's eyes.

I don't know if I should tell her about this again or what. It's just hard not to do it when I know I can't get caught and that I'm not doing anything physical.

I value my relationship, and I have tried several times to quit (longest one was 2 months). Now I just get depressed because I feel like I've fucked up too much and I don't deserve her. So I guess I'm just thinking why stop now, I already fucked everything up.
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I'd tell her. Your girlfriend seems not likely to fly off the handle about this and it seems like she'd understand. You're in a better position than most.

It seems that at its core you guys care about each other but are sexually mismatched, considering the fact that she admitted to do the same and was reluctant to consider it cheating.

I'd say the realistic worst-case scenario here is that you two have a mutual break-up and remain on at least semi-good terms.
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>>17900034
Why even risk the break up
Just stop and don't tell her
You didn't stick your dick in them
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>>17900067

Because there's clearly intimacy issues that he sought an outlet for. He's having difficulty quitting and it appears that quitting really isn't solving the problem. If the relationship is broken somehow, then it needs to be fixed.

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So I texted this girl from my uni that took a class with me and I've been into since the beginning of the semester. We were assigned to work in the same group for a class presentation thing and got along nicely. I made her laugh often, discussed important topics with her, and overall made her feel comfortable engaging with me. However, I didn't have to courage to ask her out. The semester ended, and since she's a senior, she graduated and left for her home country until the summer. This is the conversation we had. I have only one question that I need help answering: is she into me? Pls help my confused dumb ass out mangs.
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Doesn't matter
You already missed the prime opportunity to ask her out and now have nothing to lose
Just go for it
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>>17899978
Just ask her out. It looks neutral, she may or may not be interested. I've had conversations similar and got both.
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part 2 mis amigos.

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When I see attractive men, think about gay sex or watch gay porn my chest feels funny, i blush a little and I feel like I really want to do lewd things with a guy.

but none of those things give me a boner.

am i gay or not?
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>>17899922
That would make you at the very least bisexual. Embrace.
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>>17899922
You're gay son
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>When I see attractive men
>am i gay

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I've been mastering the art of fighting depression. Still, one thing I haven't been able to combat is the feeling of meangingless. Do you guys have any advice for that?
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This is how I feel about the subject
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>>17899917
True. Climbing a tree and being excited by a squirrel doesn't seem like something a depressed person could necessarily do. That's why so many people become existential in depressed states. Is the goal to climb the tree lookimg for the squirrel anyway?
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>>17899933

does the depression cause meaninglessness or does the meaninglessness cause depression?

in the OP you imply that meaninglessness caused the depression, that fighting that will end depression.

but hten here:
>>17899933

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how do I get a boyfriend?

it seems like no matter how much I show interest, nothing comes out of it. Im extremely shy because I have a low self esteem so by showing interest in someone, I usually just show them extra kindness/praise. is this too subtle?

for instance, the last guy I liked was being teased of for his height (around 5'7) by his male friends. I said I agreed with him & thought that he was tall.
or another time I praised him on his ability to shoot and another time on his knowledge of history.
is saying stuff like this too weird? I feel like i don't know how to flirt and when I try to i just say things that any nice/kind person would say. please help.
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sweetheart, there's nothing wrong with you. but if you want this guy, you're gonna ask if he's single and if he'd be willing to go out on a date with you. if you get shut down, or he isn't single, just brush it off, write a long ass vent rant on /adv/ and live to see another day.
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>>17899896
>because I have a low self esteem
this is extremely unattractive, i advise you to sort this out before proceeding
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blowjobs and anal /thread

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This seems about as good a place as any to post this. Yesterday, I noticed that my vision was blurry in my right eye. To be more precise, it's perfectly fine up close, and blurry at distances roughly greater than arm's length. Now, to my limited knowledge about vision problems, they don't typically just show up overnight, they're longer, more drawn out things, but I swear this shit snuck up on me.

Now for context on my issue. You see, I'm a povertyfag, and I know that I should schedule an appointment with an optometrist ASAP, but the issue is that I really, really do not have the money for it. Given that, I'm still right in assuming I should schedule an appointment anyways, right? The last thing I fucking need is to be going blind in one eye.

Picture unrelated.
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>>17899864
What exactly are you asking?
Go see a doctor we cant help you with that.

I've almost went blind before, they caught it and now I'm alright but still legally blind.
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>>17899870
Basically, I'm poor as fuck, and am I right in assuming I should see a doctor ASAP. More or less just looking for confirmation, because I really don't have the money for this shit.
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Probably nothing permanent but I'd SEE a dr

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