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>>17901177
Why would you call a bf/gf creepy unless you weren't into them or didn't respect them that much? How often do you two have sex?

>>17901177
>I can't tell if my boyfriend is just uncomfortable with that level of intimacy or if I'm out of line for looking at him like that.
Case by case basis. I for example would love to have my gf gazing at me like that. I probably wouldn't help being quite affectionate with her afterwards. But it seems that he doesn't like it.

>>17901188
This.

>>17901188
He respects me very much. We are both open minded and have great conversations about the state of the world and obscure things like morality and human nature.
He has openly said things like "I've never respected someone as much as I respect you".
We have sex about 2-3 times a day, and he'll look in my eyes during that.

>>17901192
Okay

>>17901151

>3 days of solid porn
>healthy

porn itself isn't healthy at all. its a myth. porn doesn't exist in a natural and healthy world, we just have sex, and porn is not quite the same, and netiher is the sex culture we have now.

all that being siad, dont worry. hes with you for a reason. its not cheating if his porn itnerests are different from you. if anything id be concerned if his porn interests WAS girls like you, cuz it shows you're not special to him, he'd bang any girl like you

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>>17901167
This niggers right.

>>17901151
Masturbating is natural; porn is not. Also, being a housewife with a guy who you suspects is interested in other types of girls as well is a dangerous way to be; if you're financially beholden, he can cheat on you more easily.

>>17901006

what would you like to do? do you have any friends?

for my 18th birthday, i also had a going away party. of my 10 friends only two showed up.

but i was pretty grateful to know i had two friends who really cared.

>>17901006
I'm 24 and spending new years alone.

Whats the problem?

>>17901014

>what would you like to do?
I don't know. Stand on the side of the highway and show my cock to traffic? Just anything other than sitting here and moping
>do you have any friends?
Would I be making this shit thread if that was the case

>for my 18th birthday, i also had a going away party. of my 10 friends only two showed up.
but i was pretty grateful to know i had two friends who really cared.
Breaks my heart

>>17901016
You break my heart too

Spell right

Practice letting go. Too much anger is often a result of placing too much importance on every little thing. Nihilists almost never have anger issues. The next time something starts to piss you off, ask yourself what does it REALLY matter? What's the absolute worst thing that could come of this?

>>17901659
I was the asshole who told you to spell right but this post is on point

As in cutting your own neck?

It would probably deflect and tear it a lot before reaching your nervs. You'd need help or a device like the "saw" movies for that to work

Not really. Sounds like one of the most silly ways to off yourself but you probably just need some attention.

Spend some time trying to fix your life, it's easier than suicide imho.

Cutting through bone with a circular saw is not ideal sugar, you'll have to commit to that thing and really push through whatever limb you're going for. Also those things have a tendency to get stuck when cutting other things than wood. I think this is a very bad idea. t. Carpenter

Care to tell us what's bothering you?

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>>17900893
https://www.usa.gov/paying-for-medical

Eat a better diet.

>>17900893
This is why universal health systems are fairer.

Break up with her. You're not going to feel any happier with the way things are as time goes by. In fact, you'll probably just end up resenting her because you'll begin to feel trapped.
Man up and hurt some feelings. It happens to everyone. It's not your responsibility to make her happy. She owes it to herself to find happiness without external help, otherwise she's an emotional leech.

>>17900885
Im sorry to tell you but, it will be the same after dating for so long. Unless you want to get a new girl that sucked lots of cocks already..
i dont know about you but i prefer girls that didnt have other dudes cock in mouth

She will break... she might even commit suicide.

>>17900902
You're a fucking dink. If his relationship is already at this point after 3 years and he has no desire to put a ring on it, then it's time to abandon ship.
And if she kills herself, that's not his responsibility. People don't get into relationships with each other to prevent one another from offing themselves.

>>17900844
I live like a little boy, but there's a reason little boys live the way they do.

It's a nice, banal life.
I wouldn't have it any other way.

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>>17900844
im the same as you anon and im proud of myself but at the same time its a lonely life

>be like you
>massively isolated until the age of 24
>finally happen to meet some people that I really like irl
>realize that I'm incredibly stunted comparatively when it comes to life experience and now I have a retarded amount of catching up to do

You don't have to tackle the atrocities of outside life like a fucking moron. You don't have to get teen pregnant or get aids or addicted to drugs or kill yourself. Be level headed and experience the world now while you're young and better able to handle mistakes or you're just going to be a weird hollow autistic lonely fuck for the rest of your life and you will regret that about yourself at some point or another and might end up killing yourself for it anyway.

>>17900842
>Everyone says to lift or work out, and that doesn't work.
>Going out more and talking to others doesn't help, either.

So bettering yourself AND practicing don't work. There's no other way to do this, mate. You must be doing something wrong.

>>17900851
So, what do I do exactly? I'm lifting fine. People come to me more and girls check me out/talk to me all the time, but I still stutter and mumble. I can look at a customer straight in the face, but never a girl or some stranger outside work.

>>17900859

Then practice talking. Identify what the problem is there: Why can't you talk to girls?

>>17900822
therapy doesnt work. if you want real results take antidepressents and take each one of them till you find one that works for you. thats what im doing and its a life saver. also your behavior can sometimes last even when youre off them.

>>17900822
>lazy
>morbidly obese
>does not cook or clean
>does not care for children
>gold digging tendencies creeping to the surface
>nags, complains
you know what you must do, my son. its time for her to go, and for you to obtain a real woman.

>>17900883
Seconding this. Tell her to stop using PTSD as an excuse to be a shitcunt and pull her weight.

t. Trafficking survivor

>>17900723
eat less lol

>>17900726
I don't eat a lot, at all. Like I said, this is about fitness levels.

>>17900733
stop being retarded
do your online research and stop falling for tumblr memes and whatever they feed in mainstream media, it's literally all about food
i'm 161 and weight 39 kg, max workout i do is riding a bike half hour to work 5 times a week, maybe some walking when i go out with friends
i eat junk food, drink coffee, drink sugary carbonated drinks, eat meat when i have the opportunity, veggies, fruits. i don't count calories or follow what i eat. the only thing i do, is eat when i feel hunger and stop when i don't. just learn to listen to your body

>>17900717
There is really not much you can do beyond changing social circle. At job it's even harder, legally you can always try the sexual harassment angle but as a guy your chances to win aren't too good, and it generally might come off as overreaction. It sucks but hey, it could be worse, mate.

>>17900732

I guess I'm fucked then.

>>17900717

>be black
>white girl says hi to me
>convince myself shes hitting on me but dont actually do anything cuz i want to be 'normal'

you're like that ugly kid in highschool he insists hes really smart but just lazy.

Well, you're clearly lacking in fulfilling activities. Make no mistake, I myself jerk off around 2-3 times a day, and lots of times I'll lose a whole morning to it, but I have enough going on in my life that I don't feel bad about it at all.
Take some classes or something. Learn to dance. Take yoga. Build something that you have no idea how to build, and fucking finish it no matter how terrible it is.

>>17900994

2-3 times a day is way too often. How old are you, 13? If you're in your twenties, try to cum no more than once every 3-5 days. On the third day you'll enjoy it way more, as well. The extra energy makes going about your day easier, even waking up in the morning is easier if you aren't fapping daily.

I usually go for 4 days. It's also useful for when you're about to have sex, you can bust a huge nut either before sex or before penetration, and then you'll either stay hard or be able to get hard again almost immediately and last as long as you want. Also makes my erections way bigger and easier to maintain.

Playing guitar is easier when I don't jack off too much, as well. Some downsides are you can get too distracted by sex or get blueballs, which is why I feel like 3-5 days is perfect. The guys who say "90th day of nofap" are fucking retards. I notice after about a week of not cumming, your dick starts to shrivel up and your libido diminishes starting around the two week point. Also wet dreams.

Get off you ass and find something to do. I used to jerk off 4 times a day out of boredom. Jizz wouln't even come out. Getting a job changed all that.

>>17900643
>knows how to speak and write in English
>has access to Internet
>enough time and energy to bitch about stuff online
Your life sounds pretty good, faggot.

>>17900652
I had five teeth rot because i was a depressive piece of shit, it hurt so much i felt like i was getting stabbed
so this year i decided to finally take care of this shit, i took great care of my teeth and kept visiting the dentist, last week i was in pain and he told me i had a minor infection. I took the antibiotics like he said and thought it would go away but it didnt and now i am in extreme pain again
WHY
I DID WELL
I DID WHAT I WAS SUPPOSSED TO
WHY DOES THIS KEEP HAPPENNING?

>>17900669
It's best just to ask him again. You could probably even give emergency a try if it it's that bad. Till that, just pop a painkiller or drink yourself into sleep.

anyone?

>>17900588
>>17900666

666 lol

Just do it! Watch the news in the morning to keep up with current events and just talk. I know it sounds weird, but we can't write a script for you. YOu have to go out there and do it.

>>17900743
dem trips
anyway, not expecting a script.
the only thing i've been told is to turn my brain off and just talk