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Been with my boyfriend 4yrs now. We're both attractive. We're going out on NYE with my friends to a club. He wants us to flirt with other people all night, he thinks it would be fun to tease people knowing they can't have us. I find it a bit egotistical and don't like playing people.

I'm not really interested in flirting with random drunk men. It's pretty cringey behaviour I think for both of us. Am I just being uptight and unreasonable in saying no to this?

He makes it sound like it's all a bit of fun, but I just want to have fun with friends and I feel like they'll all be pitying me while he goes around trying it on with women.

I'm at the point where I don't want to go now, but I'm not going to let it ruin my night. But I feel like if his behaviour is really disrespectful, I will just leave the club and him.

Maybe throwing away 4yrs over that is pretty extreme, but I don't want to be the girl everyone feels sorry for and feeling sorry for myself. He's not really doing it for me in bed anymore, so maybe it is time to stop anyway.

Any advice would be appreciated. Please be harsh if I'm overreacting.

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My hair keeps falling out. Is that normal?

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I put in my two weeks at work today, and I have no idea what to look for next.

Can I get a job making chicken nuggets? Professionally.

I hear parapros make good money.

I got fired form my last job for stealing Mountain Dew, but maybe they'll take me back?

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Any mechanicfags here?

Alright listen, my car is fucking with me. It's a spirit, a ghost, a demon, a gremlin, whatever the fuck it is.

From a few months back this has been happening.

My car stops working. As in, all of a sudden, I go to use it, turn the key, etc, and the engine turns, does the starting up sound... ...Infinitely. It stays stuck on that fast starting sound, but the car won't actually start, won't do the fucking final "vrrroooooom" thing as it starts (fuck's sake m8, it's the best I can explain).

I give up and leave the car alone after 500 tries and messing with every nook and cranny.

And then one day I go eh, why not try again, I know it ain't gon work but whatever. And boy, the motherfucker starts. A little later/slower than usual, but it does. Without me messing with anything at all.

I seriously feel like this car laughs at me.

One thing I have noticed, though, is that it seems to go down more when it's cold outside, or humid from the rain.

Is there an actual gremlin on my car, or is there something I'm missing?

Battery's good, water levels are good, everything's working in order (supposedly).

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This morning at 4am I suddenly woke up feeling the most intense pain in my lower abdomen. I barely made it to the bathroom before collapsing to the floor and grasping the sink. I sat, frozen in pain for about 30 minutes in pain so bad I couldn't move. I started sweating profusely and vomited into the sink at one point. Then, after a half hour or so the pain subsided.

I felt "off" when i woke up and was really shakey. Around noon I felt the same type of pain but only a fraction as strong and only for a few minutes. Now all I feel is a weird soreness in my abdomen.

I have endometriosis but this pain was totally different. It was like all the vomit-inducing pain of the hours of endometrial pain compressed into 30 minutes. At first I thought it was a burst appendix, but now I think it might have been a burst cyst. Should I go to the hospital? Some sites say this can kill you, but I don't have insurance right now and can't afford it.

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So long story short I had anal sex with someone and a week later I felt a weird ball by my anus and come to find out it is Anal Fissures. Has anyone here had a past experience with them before? If so any advice to help me out? Thank you!!

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How the fuck does a person make peace with their own death?

I mean it's really been bothering me lately, to the point of keeping me up at night. One day no matter what I do I will die, the act of dying dosen't so much scare me, it's what comes after. Is there something waiting for us on the other side? No way of knowing, I can't seem to find peace in faith due to doubt, the idea that queit possibleky is nothing, that we are reduced to a state of absolute nothingness scares me on a level I cannot put in words. I almost don't care what it is, heaven, reincarnation, becoming energy and part of life or some new age shit. I can't accept that it all just stops, that dying is the end of it all, there has to be more after this, right? Or am I just trying to find some lie to tell to myself to bring myself peace? How the hell do I deal with all this? How does anyone deal with this?

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My 2004 V70XC starts, but then sputters and dies. Its got gas, the oil is good, and i've tried jumping it, but it doesn't stay on for more than a handful of seconds. Anyone know what might be the cause?

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How do I convince my parents to let a girl sleep over?
This is my only chance /b/. My family is Asian and my Asian parents are super strict. They won't let me sleep over at other houses and they will only let my guy friends sleep over if they trust them. I asked my girlfriend to sleep over, but my parents are super pissed that I even brought it up. I'm still in high school (18 though) and I can't go to a motel or anything. I'm not trying to fuck her, I just want to chill and play Mario kart and talk about life. She's coming over tomorrow, what the fuck do I do?
Any ideas?

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Going on a small group trip with the department of history of my university for a study tour for two weeks in France and Belgium. Most of the time we will be in hostels.

My issues isn't with staying in hostels, but when I know I have to get up early in the morning for something, it is an absolute bitch trying to get to sleep the night before. I get extremely hot, and my heart races. I don't feel panicky, but I get irritated at how hot the room seems to get and how my heart rate will increase to the point where I can't sleep, gradually making the issue worse. It's utter frustration. It only happens once in a while, and that is in a comfortable, controlled environment (my room)

I figured I'd bring ZzzQuil with me, and this lotion shit that smells great and makes you tired. But in case if those plans fail me, are there any good chemical sleep aids?

>I'm psyched for this trip, but I'm worried about getting lack of sleep and derailing the rest of the fun for me.

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PhD in mathematics. Princeton, Harvard, Stanford, and even MIT, you can go fuck yourselves. While you people fiddle around with your contest mathematics and autists like Evan O'Dorney, we're here doing real math and getting shit done. It's no wonder we're ranked 1 in the WORLD for applied math.

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/adv/ is there a good martial art to relieve built up anger? Or should i just see a therapist?

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I'm trying to lose weight and I have a habit of eating when I'm angry/frustrated which is happening alot because of my current situation. I've recently been able to resist that but I don't have that much willpower left.

What's something that
>Low calories
>Filling
>tastes good

Does it exist or should I keep trying to break my habit?

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How do I stop feeling so empty?

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>Friend keeps saying they're gonna kill themself
>Online friend that I don't know any personal details of so I can't call anyone
>Keep trying to tell them that I love them as a friend and that they're a great person and that I would miss them and trying to tell them to call the suicide prevention hotline or their family at least
>It's been 45 minutes and their status keeps switching from online to away every once in a while and they haven't responded
>Scared and don't know what to do

what do I do