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Do 18 year old female virgins even exist? Very ugly girls excluded obviously
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>>17902623
Do you need advice? This sound more like a question for a sociologist or something.
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>>17902623
Christians.
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I'll preface this by letting you know me and my ex broke up 3 and a half years ago. It was a messy relationship, both controlling, attention seeking immature individuals. The breakup was no less messy.
In those 3 and a half years i've spoken to her in passing once, until 3 days ago. I was out with a few friends and she approached me asking if we could talk outside (we were both fairly drunk) and she went into a rant about how she misses me, how she still has feelings for me and how she feels there is still a future for us.
We end up kissing, I walk her home holding hands ect because I realised in that moment I feel the same way. The next morning she texts me saying she meant want she said but she needs to work on herself and "just be friends".
I havent replied to the text of course. But my head is completely fucked up. I was over her, past it, enjoying my life, and in one night shes completely reversed all of that and now she isnt even sticking by what she said?
Wat do plz help
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>>17902607
bitch be cray, yo
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Bitch is crazy.
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Tell her we can be friends if there's benefits in it. Be a fucking man and get what you want. Stop making her make all the decision!
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My life is full of addiction to vice. Drinking, smoking, eating crap food, sitting on the computer all day. I spent a lot of time as a child in this kind of state, playing videogames all day.
I'm planning on getting involved in education/a club/politics to keep me motivated away from these vices.
What else can I do to stay motivated to live healthy and be productive?
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Gym set a goal and a diet to meet that goal this will help you stoo eating crap food anf make you feel healthier so you have more energy do things beside sitting all day, honestly most of motivation comes from setting achievable goals
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>>17902465
I'm going to a jc to try and get better employment opportunities while taking an active role in my career.
Things suck man. But hey I'm trying.
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>>17902465
Do you like multiplayer games where you have to sit in a queue while waiting for the next match (Starcraft, League of Legends, Call of Duty, MobA's, Overwatch, etc.)?
Do push-ups/sit-ups/squats while waiting for the next match to start.
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Why do people eat pussy even though it tastes like shit?
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>>17902446
Why do people suck dick even though it tastes like shit?
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Why do some guys want to have gay sex with women.
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>>17902446
Well, first - it shouldn't taste SO bad. Mine doesn't taste bad at all.
In general, anyway, it is important to please your partner. Even if you don't love the taste, you put up with it.
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>2 months shy of 24, virgin
> had a total of 4 dates in my life, have one on friday with a girl I don't particularly like but she asked me out for a second date and she's good-looking, so what the hell
How do you get over the regret of having spent your life with useless shit like video games instead of dating/women/close friends? I try to change but I feel like it's not even worth it at this point. Everybody else has already had the time of their lives at my age and learned from relationships and having sex and I haven't even begun. I feel like I'm eight years late to the party and everyone has already left.
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>>17902312
I'm 5 months shy of turning 25 years old and being a virgin. I've never been on a date with a women, this shit hurts my soul man... I want know what to do at this point. I've been told I'm very handsome my entire life, girls have liked me and etc. Even got close to losing my virginity when I was 18. I'm not a NEET guy, I have a job and a great social life. This dating thing is like the missing puzzle of my life.....
I feel myself getting bitter and just numb to dating & relationships. At this point I'm not even trying to think about it at all, I wish I could chemically castrate myself.
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bump again
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and bump a last time
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My boyfriend is actually kind of a redneck/bogan 2016-12-29 12:16:11 Post No.17902308
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My boyfriend is actually kind of a redneck/bogan
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I met my boyfriend at a gig in our town, it's only a medium sized town, mostly working class so it was pretty small and intimate enough that we spent a long time talking as well.
Anyway we both hit it off from there and to be honest the vibe I got from him was that he was a gentle soul, he's really well-read and he gets along with my friends well (they're all very "artsy" and can be a bit much, maybe too try hard).
But recently I met his friends, he says they're his oldest friends and his best friends. He was meeting up with them at a pub and I asked to come so it's kind of my own fault but when we got there it was really scummy, like everyone there was in their work wear still, lots of angry looking men and his friends were all in their gear too. He's the only one of them who went to university. When I seen the way they were interacting and drinking I couldn't believe this side of my boyfriend, he was so crude and all of a sudden his accent became so thick. Seeing him behave that way reminded me of like my Uncle or something.
Later we went home and everything was back to normal and I just dont understand how he can have these two sides, one so sweet and really so conscientious but also to be so vulgar and almost racist and he drank so much beer. The fact that these people are who he considers his best friends really scares me and I'm worried that I might be in for something terrible here... any advice?
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>>17902308
sounds like a neat guy OP
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>>17902308
Give it more time until you see the entire picture better and decide afterwards.
It doesn't sound too surprising though, if he grew up in an environment like that, it's bound that he'll act in a certain way with his friends from that environment, while being adjusted enough to interact with more normal people. These guys are probably his best friends due the time they've been friends, not because he got a totally similar mindstate.
Some of my acquaintances are into stuff like robberies, street fight and dealing with coke, others racist against a certain group (my best friend in HS was a Palestinian who hated Jews, I am half Jew), many are pretty crude sexist and quite a few struggled with secondary education ... on the other side are philosophy and math majors, retired violinist from St. Petersburg Orchestra, millionaires with own companies and trust fund babies, artists, aspiring writers and so on ... most guys from this group are basically the opposite of the first group but it still feels pretty easy to deal with them all without being someone like them.
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>>17902308
Sounds fine to me, I think you're overreacting.
I'm just now realizing it's not normal for me to be massively depressed for months at a time and constantly feel like I want to be dead. I've been reading a lot about mental illness recently because I have anxiety and social anxiety and I've always been paranoid of developing schizophrenia. I started reading about bipolar disorder and it sounds a lot like me. I will go months being massively depressed like I said and sometimes be unexplainably happy. When I'm with friends I get very hyper and talkative and my body uncontrollably twitches and stuff. When I'm not with friends I hardly ever talk, but my eyes still twitch a lot and I feel like I have to blink really hard and move my eyebrows all over the place to feel better. When I'm depressed I don't really care about anything and I just go with the flow a lot but when I'm happy and hyper I get really really mad really easily. I like playing music but when I get depressed like that it's near impossible for me to write songs and I can only really write good music when I'm in a happy phase or with friends playing together. Does this sound like bipolar or is this a fairly normal thing or what? My dad has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder but he says he doesn't think I am and there's no reason to waste money on a doctor
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You are not a waste and neither is your health. If you're concerned and it's affecting your daily life (school, relationships, etc.) asking for help and talking about things with a doctor isn't a waste. Other people can't decide for you how to care for yourself, only you can choose what's best for you and your health.
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>>17902265
Sounds like you have dysthymia I was diagnosed with it in my late teens it's treatable and at 25 now I feel thousand times better it's took am little therapy and a few months of ssri
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>>17902265
>this a fairly normal thing
get professional medical help - take the meds
or just fuckup your life we don't care
we do care about the other people you will fuck over on your trip down to hell
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help me /adv/ I need to know the proper course of action
me:
>19
>uni student
>work at hardware store
>skinny
>manlet
>been called a 7/10 face-wise
>kissless virgin
>luckily not full on /r9k/ autismo and can handle myself socially
my coworker:
>8/10 qt 3.14
>feisty
>community college attendee
>single?
>21
I don't see her often because our schedules at work are so random, but I know she looks at me whenever I pass by her department and I've caught her staring at me, I've also seen her intently watching me out of the corner of my eye as I talk to someone near her
Here's the thing, she had/has this habit of calling me "friend" at every greeting/goodbye: as in "Hi FRIEND how are you doing FRIEND" or "bye FRIEND". It annoys me, and the first few times she did it I responded by becoming visibly irritated since most things/people irritate me and it's a gut reaction. After a while she stopped, and then my friend who is the only person in whom I confide 'girl stuff' said it may have been a 'shit test' (especially since there were a couple other signs of her being interested), and she may have been doing it on purpose in an attempt to goad me into doing something.
The few times I've seen her since then she either does call me friend or she doesn't, it's kind of a mixed bag.
Now I'm not familiar in the sociopathic and manipulative ways of women my age, so I come here to ask:
>was it a shit test
>did I fail
>what do
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As a test you would have passed it.
However She could have pushed in the friend thing Just to put you in the right place
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>>17901928
>put you in the right place
:(
I've never heard her refer to anyone else by "friend", and certainly there are other ways of letting a guy know you're not interested than being giddy and all smiles when you see them but calling them 'friend' so emphatically.
Obviously she's calling me that on purpose, because she's no sperg and must realize how awkward it sounds, I just doubt she would elect to force the title on me like that from the little I've spoken to her. But I don't know.
Of course the most obvious path is to ask her on a date but I feel like the whole 'coworker' thing complicates it, as does the whole 'broke college student starved for time' thing.
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sad bump
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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I know this comes close to the 'specific look', but, in general, what do men think of tattoos?
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>>17901778
Art is fine. Number 14 off the wall is proof of stupidity. In other words, the permanent marks on your body better have a good purpose.
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>>17901785
I want a small one on my shoulder blade (so I can hide it), that would be well done etc, and artistic.
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My parents are arguing about me and my lack of a husband and who would want me when I'm fat and crazy (I'm definitely fat, but crazy is subjective)
I feel awful, I'm in my mid twenties and I've never really had a relationship, let alone been close to getting engaged
Any advice?
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>>17901619
Lose weight or improve your self esteem through positive thinking - ideally do both.
No one is attracted to someone who hates themselves. Also, who ducking cared about your parents? Care about you. Do YOU want to get married?
A marriage is a social contract between 2 human individuals, ideally for life. Where's this imaginary dudes agency in your parents plan?
Just stop being self deprecating, lose weight and let life happen.
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Sounds like you have shitty parents if they seriously talk about you that way. Moving on, what does it matter if you get married or not? This isn't a hundred years ago, you don't need to.
If you do want to get married though, start by asking yourself what you want in a partner and think of ways that you can bring something to the table to that kind of person.
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you should probably lose weight, to be honest. 99% of women look way better when they're thinner
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How do you get rid of fetishes?
>inb4 NoFap
I already tried it
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I didn't save it, but fetishes are usually attached to some subconscious blah blah blah.
Basically, search for that article, look at your fetishes, be honest with yourself, and see if they come from some unresolved conflict, childhood narcissistic injury, blah blah.
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>>17901598
What's wrong with the fetish you have?
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You have to fap to your fantasies. They will become normal again.
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Tomorrow I'm losing my virginity to some chick off tinder. What is my checklist? You know, things to bring, things to do. Should i tell her I'm a virgin (21) before or after.
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bring Jenga i play it with my daddy after he fills me
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>>17901523
condoms, 2x paper bag, lube
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>>17902336
Why the paper bags?
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I just realized that when it comes to romantic partners, I like that they see me for what I am. I feel a ton of emotions toward the girl, and I get super emotional as a consequence.
But I feel like this isn't a good thing. Do I do the right thing, to show my emotions right off the bat? I feel like it indeed makes me look less masculine.
I'd also appreciate the feminine point of view.
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>>17901395
Don't be vulnerable. Don't ever be fucking vulnerable. Be a closed off, emotionally constipated neanderthal who communicates in grunts and growls before you be vulnerable.
The worst advice- the worst fucking thing feminism and single mothers and sesame street and whatever the hell else brought us into this mess -is be vulnerable. No woman wants a vulnerable man.
Be a rock. Be unbreakable, be focused, have a life outside of whatever unbearable giggling summer child you're dicking. If you want to vent about how broken inside you are, tell your mother. She already knows.
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>>17902441
Don't even tell your mother. Talk to your dog or write in a journal. My mom was my confidant until she mocked me when I was sharing my joy with having had a woman act really attracted to me. All women hate weakness. No woman cares about your feelings..Maybe your well-being but not your feelings.
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>>17902481
Um, isn't this a sure way to get both mental illnesses and physical ones as well? Because pent up emotions do cause you issues. Awful anger management, depression, among others, and their respective physical consequences, high blood pressure, etc.
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>have fiancee
>she always complains how she never has any friends
>finally she finds friends
>hangs out w/ them frequently
>comes to me one day and asks if I'm okay with it
>ask her why
>because she didn't want me to think she was cheating on me
>tell her I trust her, and realize she needs friends too just like I have mine
>one month later
>wake up one day and go to work
>come back and all of her shit is gone
>texts me that she's leaving
>never tells me why
>never has a conversation about it
>i'm literally left with nothing
>one month later
>she's dating one of her new friends
>found out she cheated on me
I'd like to move on, however, I cannot shake the fact that my trust was completely betrayed. The one girl I had ever trusted the most. I honestly think now that anyone can and will betray you if given the opportunity. How can I seek a new relationship with this new cloud of distrust? Feels bad.
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i honestly dont understand how this type of shit happens
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>>17901338
How do you mean? The fact that I let her hang out with other people, or the fact that she up and left with no discussion?
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>>17901343
the fact that you had a fiancee and left without telling you anything at all.
that just doesnt make any fucking sense. I get that relationships fail, but for someone to literally just walk out of your life without even a talk...just cant wrap my mind around
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27yo virgin here
never been on a date or anything, pretty much what you'd expect of an /r9k/ denizen except i'm not angry about it, just depressed
how fucked am i
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also, ask me anything
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>>17900947
what do you want from us op?
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I'm 24 and never had any sexual liaison either, I think I'm a genuine autist.