I'm not the usual poster, so I'm not a neckbeard loser or anything (inb4 ree normies etc) but I'm not Chad. Currently I've got this hot girl, prime Stacy, probably the most high status in the school on the hook.
I'm competing with two guys, here's their description:
>Strongfat Beta-Chad:
>Tall and strongfat
>charismatic
>obsessive
>stacy is losing interest due to his annoying obsession
>taller than
Aggressive Chadlet
>shorter than me
>much more aggressive and masculine
>not very good looking actually
>could probably end up shooting himself in the foot if he goes too hard
Tbh I'm thinking of legit beating the shit outta the latter, then letting the first one fuck himself over.
Tell me your unethical tricks to fuck them over. I am like Morgoth, I can't create relationships I can only destroy and corrupt. I have to take out my opponents first desu.
>>17919888
Nice trips.
>>17919888
If I've learnt anything it's don't do anything unethical. I did it and it backfired big time.
>>17919888
inb4 OP cant inb4
Also, you sound like a real dickhole. I hope Stacy goes with aggressive chadlet.
Hi I'm pissed and need help.
Would you apply to a grad school that you had numerous issues with their administration? including them having the wrong deadline date for the application on their website, and them promising to waive your fee as an applogy, except it turns out they meant they're only waiving your late fee, not the whole fee.
and you still need to pay $100 to apply? And their website also fucked up and didn't register your recommendation letters, so you had to email them again for them to fix it.
If i don't apply here then I only have 2 schools that i applied to. I emailed multiple people back and forth in pissy business speak and it's a no go I still gotta pay $100. I gotta decide by today if I wanna let them fuck me over or not with their bait and switch. Schoolwise it's a good school, not my top choice, but this bullshit has got me being wary
I really wouldn't.
Shit's sketchy, man. Don't do it.
>>17919876
if they're that bad at simply accepting applications, imagine how they're going to be while you're there. I wouldn't do this unless it was an exceptionally prestigious school and I had the scores to go anywhere I wanted.
How does the whole marriage process go, like start to finish
I'm Muslim, parents aren't, I'm practicing and go to masjid weekly, still virgin, want to get married by the end of the year but don't have any idea how this works. Do I literally just ask the imam? What do you talk about during the father-supervised meetings with a girl and what kind of timeframe is expected here, meet twice and propose or hang out for a year first or what
I don't really have anyone to ask about this stuff
Why the hell would you want to become a Muslim? Especially as a girl? Serious question, just taking into consideration the horrific lack of basic human dignity afforded Muslim women and the immense bloodshed that has followed Islam throughout its contrived existence by a random pedophilic slaveowning murderous arab warlord? Are you trying to get your hands on oil shekels?
>>17919835
I'm pretty sure OP is a guy, and if I had to guess, I'd say he converted because he thinks it's an easy way to get a wife.
>>17919829
Why on earth would you want to join any religion, particularly an Abrahamic one, particularly Islam and as a girl? Do you have some kind of fetish for being second class, afforded no rights and being at the beck and call of a husband who could leave you at any time with no consequences, make you share him with up to three other women and can rape you with no repercussions?
Does anyone have any advice on the treatment of acne? Mine flared up the other day it's just annoying now.
I'm already using a peroxide cream and a face cleanser twice a day. Anything else I can try?
Tea tree oil but make sure it's diluted meaning it's in liquid form. If it's not diluted it can worsen your skin. Also keep dairy consumption to a minimum.
>>17919804
I stopped getting acne as soon as I stopped shaving every day.
>>17919859
I tried that once. Unfortunately it had disastrous effects on my skin
I am dating some gril and she's not responding to my texts. I didn't do anything I know of, I made efforts to reach out to her around the 23rd and she's still not got back to me. In school she wasn't really talking to me like usual.
Whatever shall I do, anons?
stop stalking denko, anon
Does "dating" mean you've seen her a couple times and texted a lot?
She ghosted you. Find a different bitch
I'm beginning to suspect that free will doesn't exist and that this is why I'm always lazy even though I want to do productive things.
If free will doesn't exist how can I get brain, my will, to favor doing productive things and working toward goals?
Free will doesnt exist, but a world without free will is indistinguishable from a world with it. Basically you are just lazy, or havent figured out the necessary mental gymnastics to help convince you to do things you don't want to do.
>>17919797
Free will doesn't exist but not to a degree you think.
You're lazy because you're used to being lazy and never learned work ethics due something like shitty parenting. That's something in your power to overcome and "muh determinism" is not a viable excuse.
you're just being a lazy ass. free will doesn't exist in a sense, but not in the fashion you're thinking of. and if you really want to do something, just make yourself do it. quit being all "OH IT'S SO HARD TO DO THIS." dude, just quit your mental gymnastics of lagging on shit and just do it. wtf?
I would like some perspective on if I did the right thing.
My boyfriend and I both browse Reddit often, and some of the pages we visit overlap. I wasn't actively searching for him, I was really just browsing, but I ended up finding his account through a post (his username was an inside joke between us). I'll admit I snooped and looked through the user's history to make sure because what I read in the initial thread really disturbed me: He was outlining ways he was planning on killing himself. My BF has been depressed for as long as I can remember and he's in therapy, but he still confides to me occasionally that he wants to die. Here's a small excerpt of what he wrote:
"...I am going to kill myself tomorrow, after I break up with my boyfriend. I will use the oxycodone I bought off the internet and I will call the police ahead of time so my family does not find my body."
I feel sick just writing that out. Things with us have been rocky lately. He wrote that last night, I found the thread this morning. After he got off work I called him and told him what I found. Now he's furious, saying that this is a breach of privacy and that I have no right to do that. I know it was wrong to snoop but I seriously would never forgive myself if he actually DID kill himself and I said nothing, knowing his intention...
Please. Let me know if I did the wrong thing. Thank you.
I think you did the right thing, I would probably confront him about it too in your situation. I mean considering what he wrote, you have the right to be concerned about him... And yeah, like you said what if you kept quiet and he went through with it. That would be crushing...
Wish ya the best
>>17919782
sounds like he thinks you logged into his reddit to view his posts. I'd clear that up, since you claim to have found it by mistake.
If someone is talking about killing themselves I always recommend they see someone, like a therapist, about it. That's a very serious issue that can be solved pretty easily most of the time.
First of all, explain that you found it through his username. I mean, you both browse reddit and he used an inside joke as an account name - did he really expect that you would never ever see it?
Is it normal for my boyfriend to want alone time sometimes to the point where he doesn't want to see me for over an entire week? Usually we see each other for three days/nights a week. His reason for not seeing me is that he won't miss me by then. It's sort of a lot of time that we spend together, but I never not want to spend it... I don't know. What if it will be a persistent pattern that he wants to spend less and less time with me?
>>17919749
A week is a long time seems not normal
>>17919853
not if he's unusually busy for some reason.
If he's like this this far into your relationship, imagine how it'll be years from now.
i need to leave my city to look for a new destiny. The fact is I have no money to travel, nor place to live, nor job or meal and staying in my town isn't an option, any advice please? I'll appreciate it.
do you have any contacts outside of your city where you could sleep for a few nights to gain time? how quickly do you have to disappear?
>>17919702
Walk to the nearest city since that is basically the only option with what you gave us.
>>17919731
I think within one week or two, but i'd like to do it as soon as possible. I know very few people there, but any close friendship. Is there any international organization which can help me, as a refugee?
How can I make my normal run of the mill cigs into pic related with commercially available materials?
What the fuck are normal run of the mill cigs? Marlboro Lights aren't that good anyway
>>17919700
roll your own cigarettes.
I want them to have a rich pumpkin spice flavor
>Be 25 girl
>Date a 23 year old wonderful guy for 3 months
>We fall in love with each other
>He's had a lingering cough for a couple of months and random chest pains so he went to the hospital for an xray
>Last friday, after a battery of tests, we receive the final sentence
>He has lung cancer
>Fucking lung cancer
>He has never smoked in his life
>He is a fitness coach, extremely healthy
>I've only been with him for 3 months but he is the best person I could ever dream of spending the rest of my life with
>I have never been so depressed
>Prognosis for lung cancer is 15% survival after 5 years, on average
>It is so rare at his age his doctor has never seen anyone as young as him with lung cancer
I've been crying myself every night for the past few weeks, unable to eat, sleep or work. I don't think I will ever be happy again. If he dies I will never recover from this... This really feels like a nightmare I cannot wake up from. All I can read about online is that lung cancer is mostly incurable and the only treatments available are meant to prolong life and not cure. I understand for someone who is 70 (most lung cancer patients are older than 60 and lifelong smokers) How can you say this to a 23 year who still has his whole life to live ? I don't want him to live 5 more years in a hospital bed, I want him to grow old and have a normal life, with or without me.
How can ever recover ? How do I help him in his battle against cancer ?
>Pic unrelated, not his x-ray
Sorry to say it op but It's something you are going to have to deal with.
Bad things happen to good people too.
You have to go through the stages of grief.
But ultimately you have to get your ducks in a row and accept the fact that this is out of your hands. Best thing is not to get your hopes up, but be there for him now that he needs you. Enjoy what time you two have left and get ready to move on.
>>17919695
It really depends on the stage.
White it certainly sucks that he got cancer at fucking 23, it's the moment when he has better chances of healing.
Don't get your hopes up. Stand by his side and love him. Enjoy every moment you get to spend with him.
Get psychological help if necessary.
Wahahahaha ! Get stoned! Weed cures cancer!!!
>20 years old, guy
>in love with same girl since i'm 16, but she moved in other town
>said to her when we were 17
>in couple with her since last july, while before she may be with guys i dunno
>just found a job in the town she studies for moving in same town
>everything is quite okay, we did foreplay but no fk, i'm virgin and she says she is
>now last holidays, no fking message, no fking answer at calls
>tonight, sent to her "Okay i give up"
>20 min later : "Oh, was it a fight ? xD"
> BRU
I believe in your imaginations, tell me what the fk is happening/the fk i should do
>>17919672
first, it's only two extra letters to spell out the word "fuck", and then I don't to feel like I'm deciphering some autism message from mars. Second, if she cared, she would make time for you. She doesn't, so she probly doesn't care.
>>17919672
Ask her out.
>>17919672
try saying that again but in a way people can understand.
Recently, I find that I'm not enjoying video games like I used to (21 now). I have been playing them for an average of 4 hours a day, even as much as 8 hours but I can barely play them for more then 2 hours anymore.
This isn't exactly an issue for me. The real issue is that I have nothing to do in it's place and it's making me depressed because I have no idea what to do. I already play piano (I've been taking lessons for 2 years) and go to the gym 4 days a week.However, after I have done those things I find myself with nothing to do. My girlfriend has advised me to maybe volunteer somewhere. I was hoping you guys could give me some ideas that aren't watching anime like some of my friends do.
I want to do something that's at least moderately productive.
>>17919660
Try a different genre. I used to just play RPGs all day and that got a little boring, then I started playing other kinds of games and it really helped me get back into gaming.
You could also maybe try reading or taking some kind of classes.
you don't go to school or work? lol
>>17919699
I go to school 2 days a week this session (my school splits the semester into 2 sessions and I went to school 5 days a week last session) and work Sat-Mon. I like to be busy doing something but what do I do when I've done everything I've had to do? Now that I don't play video games I have alot of "free time".
I'm also on break from school until this Thursday
>>17919692
I just might try reading. I did buy some books last year that I haven't even touched
Im currently living with my parents and I want a body pillow without them knowing. Would it be possible to buy the cover and use a couple of pillows so I can just hide it by folding it up.
Or you can buy a plain cover to put on top of the animu cover. Duh.
>>17919646
Yes but wouldn't my parents think its odd that I have 5-6 foot long pillow, plus what if they decide to wash it
>>17919636
You probably shouldn't get one if it causes you this much asspain.
Just wait till you are adult and live by yourself.
Obviously I'm going to be slightly biased because she's my girlfriend but I think she's really attractive and I'm sure the general consensus is that she's pretty cute but she's still so insecure. I don't get it, it's almost like when she looks at herself she sees someone completely different to what she actually looks like, it blows my mind how she can be so insecure about her looks when she's this pretty. I think she has pretty low self esteem in general.
How do I help her boost her self esteem and not to be so self conscious all the time?
you have to differ. There is a normal amount of female insecurities, they make comments like how they cant believe that you stay with them and that they are not really happy with their looks.
But on the other hand, there are girls, who jsut fish for compliments with the typical "im soooo uggly ;)))" Tweet. That is over the top and potentialy neurotic
>>17919633
>How do I help her boost her self esteem and not to be so self conscious all the time?
You can't prop up your broken girlfriend's self esteem. Eventually, you will collapse under the weight of it. She needs to get professional help.
>>17919633
She has low self esstem either because she is always comparing herself to others or just cant let go something that effected her doing childhood.
More or less I would drop her becuase she will cheat on you with someone else to "build" self esteem, I fucking kid you not she will likely cheat.
Best to drop her now than when you find out she fucks someone or something else. You've been warned