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>>17921218
Yes, if you like having sex with STD infested men.

>>17921245
I want to have sex with an STD free girl who is at least a little attractive

>>17921218
I can't really answer that question through experience, but I will tell you this. If you do manage to get a hookup, get a hotel! Get a nice, safe 3rd party hotel where you to can meet and bone. You do not want to go somewhere potentially dangerous. Even if it is your house you never know who this person could bring with them.
I dont know about your country but here in Australia you need a keycard to use the elevator to go up, and there is no other way to get to the upper floors.That offers a modicum of safety. There are also security cameras and it is a public place, so you are never too far from help.
To add to this, YOU book the hotel. It won't help if you go through all these steps, then they book a hotel and have someone wait on the balcony/in the closet. Anyway, that's all I wanted to say anon. Good luck

You're probably bi-curious. Most of the population is, you just seem to embrace it more. I wouldn't stress about specific labels of what you're exact sexuality is. Just go with the flow and do what feels right without worrying about if its 'gay' or 'straight'

>>17921213
Try mid or jungle.

>>17921213

The internet has destroyed your sexuality.

you haven't really given enough information to answer the question
try again

>>17921195
What degree you have?

>>17921195
I'm sure you can get a HR job pretty easy even with your humanities degree, hippy

Don't put out so soon and you won't have this problem. Also make sure HE wants to be with you as well.

by being wife material

>>17921185
Don't be fat/unattractive.
Be fun to be around.
Have ambitions.

That's it for me.

>>17921180
I'm on the same boat, I'll get the snip.
Not comfy with the idea, but can't pull the foreskin away when erect, and I can see this becoming a problem whenever I get around to having sex.

if stretching doesn't work you'll probably have to go with the surgical option

but isn't this a question for your doctor?

>>17921180
>>17921278
there is this thing https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Preputioplasty

Drink lots of water

I have no idea what that is but lots of problems with your body can be solved by just drinking more water. So try that

>>17921123
It's probably not skin cancer. Give it a couple days and if it still doesn't go away, go to a doctor.

>>17921123
It could be underskin bruises as a result of being slightly injured without knowing or even due to not drinking enough water. So drink some water and they should fade in a few days, if not, see a doctor.

>>17921080
Make a to do list.

>>17922178
>Make a to do list.
Not OP but I tried this but it doesn't really work how I just ignore the list. I try to put it everywhere though.

>>17922290
Not the same anon, but make it a rewards system.

"Before I play vidya/watch tv/get high/whatever I have to finish this list"

And then put reasonable goals on that list for the day.

Tbqh if you can't limit yourself to finishing a few simple tasks (Do the dishes, take out trash, vacuum the disgusting floor of your room, pick up your room, again whatever you want just easy tasks) before feeling overwhelmed and wanting to play vidya, you need to go into therapy because your problems are a bit deeper than a lack of motivation.

>>17921076
Why do you want to be convinced?

then dont join if you dont want to...

>>17921076
You sound like one of those girls that's super short and has no muscle mass or is super short and chubby that for some reason always want to join the military but don't actually want to do any fighting.
Unless you are intentionally joining up as POG

Yeah, it's called Reddit.

>>17921054
Reddit has lots of advice boards.

Yeah you can go to reddit, but you'll have the same problem. People on reddit always complain about how they always come back even though they know nothings changed. Some of the shit there might not be so fucked up and people might be nicer but thats because they have sissy baby rules

>>17921021

>not too short

so not ideally tall.

>not fat

but not even worked out in any way right, just skinny fat?

>glaring personality flaws

you'll find that all women (and in fact, all men) have glaring personality flaws. were not all the nearly perfect people TV makes us out to be, and in your own head you might think you're just about perfect with only a few likeable flaws, but in reality, a lot of people can't stand you.

to be honest, there is a scale. the hottest asian is still super hot, but we tend to find her less attractive than her white coutner part.

its a combination of media, the way were raised, and to some degree possibly just reality.

so you, being white are probably not bad looking, but not fit. so why should you get a fit girl? and the female version of 'fit' is just thin. because girls with muscle are not that great in most peoples eyes.

>>17921035
>so not ideally tall.
5'9 barefoot. Taller than most women.
>but not even worked out in any way right, just skinny fat?
I go to the gym every day. I have a belly when i scrunch forward but my arms, chest, and legs get a lot of compliments from the people I date.
>and in your own head you might think you're just about perfect with only a few likeable flaws, but in reality, a lot of people can't stand you.
Maybe true, I don't take a poll of everyone I encounter telling me what they think of me. I assume it is mostly positive though.

>>17921052

would you mind posting a picture of yuorself? i dont want to be that assuming asshole, and honestly i cant really say what peoples reactions to you are without seeing you

this should explain to you that everything is in your mind. think twice before thinkin you get assaulted next time

>>17921014

you felt safe knowing that society created boundaries that any respectable man would respect.

now that protection you had is gone, and you feel at risk. men who you could trust not to make a move because of your relationship now might try it. not even in a creepy or rapey way, but now that you're single they think 'maybe we should be together' and that upsets a lot of people.

>>17921051
It's weird and irrational but it's outright making me want to move. One asked me why I won't hug him and i said it made me feel gross.

He was pretty pissed about that one

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Pic also related. I can't believe this guys... It feels like a nightmare

>>17921008
It's your call. You're allowed to forgive her, you can try to move forward with your relationship if that's what she wants. If that's not what you want to do or not what she wants to do, well, move forward.

>>17921027
There's no way dude. She's not leaving that guy. I did everything I could to get her to and she went crawling back

>>17920977
> believed she was holding me back slightly,
congrats, you proved yourself right.

She's a real cunt if she's trying to hook up with your close friends. Literally only doing it to get at you.

>>17920977
Move out and move on with your life. Other than that you can't do much, because you can't confront them without outing the fact that you're a sneaky, paranoid son-of-a-bitch. Just put your head down and weather the storm.

I'm sitting here basically two rooms away from this peasant & I would confront him in a genuine way due to my anger coming out. Getting violent would not be on my cards because it won't get me anywhere that's why an honest, stern tone would be my best bet. Just wondering if I should fucking text this slut and tell her that she's been made to look like a fool because my friends told me about her msging them etc.

>>17920964
Nope, not pathetic. A job is a job, someone's got to do it. You're an integral part of our society.

>>17920964

depends on the context.

nothing more pathetic than a guy in his 30s working at a call center who thinks that hes the only one thats not a moron though.

Would you rather have no job?

>>17920943

its already over man. if you managed to convince her to stay with you it would just be the last year all over again. and even if it was good for you, you must remember that it was a lie, and it was hell for her.

we like to think that when we get that 'second chance' we're going to make things right. but we don't. at best we continue on as if nothing happened, and then the other person is stuck in the relationship they hate until they boil over again.

and again, thats the best case scenario. in reality you will likely convince her, then agonize about how to 'win her back'. she wont know what you can do, netiher will you. you'll try nothing, or worse you'll try something grand, and it will just make her feel bad.

the ship has sailed anon. a thing isn't beautiful because it lasts.

good luck.

I was in a very similiar situation with my ex. Told me she stopped "having romantic feelings" for me 3 motnhs before she broke up with me, like a week or two I can understand to make sure you really do feel a certain way but that long? Fuck that. Felt betrayed because she never acted any different.

Honestly man you're almost certainly going to break up, shit sucks. Block her on everything, seeing her will only make you feel worse, hit the gym, get immersed in some hobbies. One of those things that can only go away with time

I am going through it right now, 15 years gone.