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Recently moved into my first apartment with a one year lease. When I went to see the apartment, before renting, he had all the windows open and air fresheners everywhere. He said he was just cleaning the place and preparing it for the next tenant. The place was decent and the price was right and I returned two times after to see it again and measure the place before deciding. Each time I went he know a day ahead of time and was there airing out the place and cleaning, I didn't think anything of it just doing work when he had to be there anyway. Well after the lease was signed for January I received the key a few days before to move in and when I opened the door I was hit with this sickening smell, so I aired the place out and cleaned places that smelled. Then I found a mysterious stain in the linen closet and have no idea what it was and couldn't clean it up easily and it was apparently mixed with newspaper. Days of cleaning and the sickening smell remained so I continued to clean walls ceilings anything you can think of and still this smell remained. I couldn't be there more than 20 minutes without being sick. While I was cleaning his previous tenant used a spare he had and came in snooping around and I caught him. Apparently this guy had been arrested and evicted, but the landlord said not to worry. I called the cops and demanded the locks be changed and the landlord made vague promises to do it then wouldn't and after hounding him and telling him I felt unsafe there he'd just blow me off. Then the other day I went over to move my stuff out and here was a screw jammed into the strike plate on the door, but in such a way that the doorknobs latch could have been tampered with even if the locks were changed in theory. I told my landlord I wanted out of the lease and he is ready to change the locks. I told him about the smell and he denied it up and down and tomorrow he is meeting me there to "see if there is a smell" I've got a feeling he's going to try to air the
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>>17951500
Probably wet dog smell in the carpet. You cant get rid of that smell short of replacing the whole carpet and the layers underneath.
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Place out to make me look like a liar. I live in the state of PA where video surveillance and audio surveillance laws are so disturbingly strict that if I caught him on video without informing him it would be me sitting in jail...at least according to my interpretation of the law. Any suggestions on what I can do to get out of the lease and be sure this guy doesn't make me look like a liar?

TL;DR

Asshole landlord trying to keep me in lease despite terrible faults that I wasn't informed about or where hidden before signing the lease.

Please someone help I'm in the dark here
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>>17951507
It's a no pet apartment and apparently the previous guy didn't have pets. The carpets smell cleanish now it's the walls and ceiling that I can cleanse the smell out of

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Is it ok to hit a woman if she acts like a total bitch ?
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Yeah sure bro, go ahead and see what happens.
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I dont think its ok to hit any one. I do believe in hitting back though
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>>17951486
Of coarse it's okay. Especially if she gives you lip.

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Had this happen a couple of times, and wanted to see if any other anons have experience this.

But, a couple of times this week I've been waking up "paralyzed", like I can tell that I'm awake or dreaming, but I can't move at all for like a few minutes.
Really freaks the fuck outta me, so have any of anons gone through this?

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I haven't experienced this before, but I've heard about it and it's pretty common
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>>17951483
Its common

Don't sleep on your back anymore
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yuh, I get it. anxiety contributes to it.

Im male. Moved to the US 4 years ago from Central Asia when I was 18. Now Im 22 Working for the last 2 years at the great company. Making amazing money for my age. But I cant make real friends who is my age. I dont drink and pretty shy due to my accent which is russian. Lots of people here are thinking only about themselves and siting at home. Plus everyone hates russian now. Im not living in a big city, everything is spread-out here in South Carolina. Any advise?
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Get hobbies!

Airsoft and paintball players will love the shit out of your accent.

I'm a Canuck, so I can't speak for all Americans, but I'm fairly certain no one there cares about your ethnic heritage as long as you're not black or native.
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>>17951470
The south sucks in terms of giving a fuck for foreigners. I'd say you either try and live a decent lonely life there, or save up money and move to the west.
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cyka blyat!

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I'm Male. Is getting a finger in the ass for around 4 seconds constitute as rape? Happened during class. No consent.
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Tell us more. I'm a little hard.
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>>17951466

Yes it does. Stay away from the creep. If possible do something more, but at the very least take care of yourself by removing him from your vicinity.
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mild sexual assault (with extra guacamole)

How do I get a girlfriend?
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Improve yourself until you feel confident. Attract desired female. Form bond. Spend time together. After a few months she'll ask if she's your gf/say she loves you.

Most important part is improve yourself. Faint hearts never win fair ladies.
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>>17951453

Meet girls and find one you like that likes you back. I'm not saying "Ask every girl you see out", I'm saying "Meet girls".
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>>17951462
>Improve yourself until you feel confident. Attract desired female. Form bond. Spend time together. After a few months she'll ask if she's your gf/say she loves you.
>Most important part is improve yourself. Faint hearts never win fair ladies.

How much more do I need to improve? What is wrong with me? I'm 26 and never had a girlfriend longer than a month....

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The most beautiful girl I have ever slept with just texted me recently. For the past decade I have thought about her constantly; a girl whom I've been completely heads over heels with...yet its been a month now and I haven't even replied.

WTF is wrong with me??
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Why not?
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>>17951437

You've reached enlightenment.
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>>17951461
That's the thing. I don't know. She's beautiful as ever and I'm no longer worthy.

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>Buying enclosed trailer
>16x7
>Converting it into a livable space
>Want to keep it as lightweight as possible
>Still want it to look as nice as possible
>Only has plywood floor and walls right now

I'm a full time student now (hence the trailer idea) but used to be a carpenter, what should use to cover the walls?

Planning on refurbishing wood for the floor and would like to keep it rustic looking
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>>17951407
Why not just live with a roommate? You are trying so hard to avoid society aren't you?
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>>17951413
I'm in Silicon Valley, the school I go to is in Santa Cruz

Rent is 4-600 to just share a room

Upwards of 1000 to have my own room

Payment for my trailer is 106 a month and I can sell it in a few years when I graduate

Please don't make silly psychological assumptions
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Bump for justice

I have a skin disorder called rosacea. It's turning my whole face red. The worst symptom is when I go outside in the cold and go back inside in the warmth, it makes my face and eyes feel like they are on fire for hours. It's incredibly uncomfortable and looks terrible.

It's completely destroyed my confidence and it's messing up my life really bad. I avoid going anywhere because I know I can't go outside and back inside again without looking like a monster and feeling like my face and eyes are on fire. On top of that I can't be in the sun and I can't use make-up to conceal it due to other skin problems.

I'm not really looking for advice, I just needed to get it off my chest. It's so fucking annoying but I can't do anything about it. I'm stuck with this for the rest of my life unless they find a cure.

Rosacea, you are one horrible fucking cunt. If somebody offered me a billion dollars or a cure for my skin I'd choose the cure every day of the fucking week. (Well, if I didn't have any parents, that is. Right now, I'd choose the billion dollars so my parents could enjoy the rest of their lives in comfort and I'd make some other people who deserve it happy as well but I'd still be a miserable fucking cunt because of this fucking disease)
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>>17951404

go to a dermatologist

get prescriptions meds

use them

problem solved

GIYF did you even do internet search for - rosacea treatment ? how the fuck do you know the name of this condition if you haven't gotten it treated ?

i put hydrocortizone 1% on at nite and clindamycin and sulfacet R - the 2 biggies are sulfacet and hydrocortizone

this condition is treatable but you will have to use the meds for life & likely some lifestyle changes = not so much outdoorsy stuff anymore

otherwise w/out treatment rosacea progresses to really yucky disfigurement on your face, so you definitely want to get it treated
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>>17951576
>go to a dermatologist
>get prescriptions meds
>use them
>problem solved

Fuck, why didn't I think of doing that? All this time the answer has been a simple trip to the dermatologist!

Look, I appreciate you trying to help out but I've been to at least 15 dermatologists who have all told me my condition is basically untreatable. The only option I haven't tried yet is some sort of laser. The problem with lasers is that they're still quite a new piece of technology and there's no way of telling how effective or counter-effective the treatment is going to be with my particular skin.

Anyway, what type of rosacea do you have? Does your skin burn and turn dark red when you spend a minute in the cold and then go into a warm environment? If so, has your medication got rid of this problem?
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>>17951404
OP, have you ever considered becoming a supervillain?

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I need to lose weight in a week, what can i do
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Eat a tape worm. Just make sure to pass it in a week. I can hook you up if you need one.
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you have to burn more calories than you eat, good luck
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Have you considered amputation?

I found a nude video of a girl I went to high school with. What do?

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph55d23a4fbb084
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fap and forget
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>>17951273
No penis who cares?
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>>17951273
nice

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Hello /adv/, I have also posted a thread about this on /r9k/ but I figure I might get more serious replies here.

Has anyone here been to therapy?

It's taken me several years to acknowledge and come to terms with this, but I know at the very least I am suffering from some type of depression. I can go into details about this if asked, but I didn't feel like writing a novel for the original post.

What is therapy like? Does it help? Does medication help? How do I find a therapist? How do I get medication? Will insurance cover this shit? Who am I supposed to fucking tell? Is this something I can beat or am I just fucked?
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I've been to therapy and I learned a lot. I'm smarter because of it. Therapy is like getting guidance on the emotions you're feeling. It helped me. Medication does help and it goes hand in hand with therapy, but it's your decision. You can find a therapist through Google, the newspaper, look up local businesses. Just do some looking. I think there are even websites where you enter your zip code and it will show you links to different therapists. Just search "therapy in ______" (your city or region's name). You get medication at the pharmacy, not sure what your area is like but Walgreen's is the national pharmacy. Do you have CVS Pharmacy? Tell your parents or any kind of professional like even a police officer. if you're in college then tell a staff member I am sure they'll help you. you can do this!
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I'm seeing a therapist. It doesn't make me feel much better, but it helps me understand and see things in another perspective. And it's nice to have someone listen.
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>>17951247
therapy sucks. because you probably have embarassing problems and you have to say it to some woman or man who probably had the same problems as you otherwise they wouldnt be in therapy. its a no brainer degree. and often times you have to watch them hide their smile by clenching their feet. just take some drugs.

I have a house my mom left when she rip'd

It's worth about 90k on market. How can I use this to get rich
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Do you know what needs repaired? Is 90 grand her estimate or has this been decided by a professional?
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>>17951189
>Rent it out
>Use the income to invest in other real estate >Work your way into multifamily home investments
>Profit
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>>17951202

Just needs base boards. I've already had wood flooring installed. Could use new countertops and new doors on the cabinets but otherwise it's very livable. I wanna either flip houses or sell it and move to the country before something shitty happens like the elites collapsing the economy

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Will ordering chinese food to this girl at her workplace give me a higher chance of her inviting me over for sex? Theres off and on been chemistry for a bit
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>>17951178

Invading someone's work is pretty hard to turn into fucking. Are you invited to join her there or would you be sending it without her knowledge?
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>>17951183
I'd just get food sent to her. we were talking about how much we love chinese food recently.

your response sounds pretty beta desu
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>>17951186
>your response sounds pretty beta desu

So sending a "gift" while being nowhere near her just because she mentioned once that she like Chinese is more alpha?

Hahaha, sorry, but hiding behind the delivery boy is not that cool, my man. How about taking her out for Chinese instead? Wouldn't that *actually* be making a move?

how do I cure my misogyny? why do men become misogynists? why do women become misandrists?
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