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I'm 22 and don't use Facebook, Twitter, or anything like that.

Is this beneficial or detrimental to me?

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How do i deal with my gf being overly jealous? We're fighting because of it for one week straight. Whenever i tried to reason with her, she would just say "no, i don't want to do it"
Her ideal way to solve this:
I drop every single female friend i have, even one of my best friends who i know since childhood. She's the only girl i can see in person, and going out as a group of friends of both sexes without her is prohibited.
My ideal way to solve this:
She stops being so possesive and lets me see my friends (i spend majority of my free time with my gf), doesn't interfere in my relationships and trusts me.
Her reason for being so possesive:
"I feel hurt when you talk with other women. I don't want you to hurt me."
My reason for defending my current life:
"You can't tell me who i can be friends with and who i can't since you don't own me"
Shit is so bad that we're going to talk about our future this friday. Only thing i managed to do is to make her talk with somebody she respects about the topic and ask if what she's doing is okay.
How do i solve this?

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So I was jacking off and stopped right before cumming and I felt a little jolt. Not even close to a full blown orgasm, but I did feel something come up. When I squeezed my dick so it would come out, it was white like cum but really watery, like precum.

The fuck was that?

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roommate has stomach flu
i have a cold

me getting the stomach flu seems inevitable. but is there any hope? my immune system must already be weak from the cold... anything i can do to not get this stomach flu?

i dont want to die.

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Does everyone lie or cheat? Also, would you believe someone who lied to you that they did it out of fear, if it was really plausible? Would you trust them again?

This is weird, one year ago I used to make threads here to help people, now I am seeking advice. Also, I already know the answers to these questions, but I really need a reinforcement right now.

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Guys, I'm so behind on my courses. I got depressed over winter, and have about 200 pages of physics and complete 2 assignments before next Thursday.

I'm not asking answers to my homework, I just want some tips on catching up, reading quickly, I need to refresh calculus because I haven't done it in a while.

Any resources or tips. I have adhd but I have my ritalins medication again so I can focus I need to know how to maximise my concentration/energy.

It's 3rd year astrophysics & electromagnetism, about 8 chapters in total.

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What's the point of living if you can't do the only thing what makes you happy?

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I dont see a way forward in life. Im 24 years old and feel fed up. I lived a shit life up untill about 2.5 years ago and the last 2.5 years things have been going "positively" I havent had any earth shattering incidents in the last few years
(Over my life I have had half of my family die of unnatural causes so no more maternal family and a distant paternal family. I have also battled drug abuse, mental illness, self loathing childhood abuse)

I just see nothing ahead of me. I live alone, cant have pets and when I have to come home I dont know what to do, I dont even feel like this is home. I cant settle anywhere. Im stuck in a job I don't want to do forever and that bores me. I live on the breadline and have done since I got kicked out at 20. There is an extremely low chance of me finding someone to share my life with as this life so far has left me really fucked up and I have had very little luck dating, and im trans so im literally bottom of the barrel even though im not physically unattractive.

I dont wan't to just drag myself through life so the people whos lives I am part of don't greive or have to feel the negative emotions that comes from a friends suicide as we have had one of our old friendly colleagues kill themselves before. Or do that to my sisters.

Can I even be fixed? I dont even want to be awake most of the time the only time I am really happy is when I am asleep dreaming - and even then only if its a nice dream and not one of the common night terror like dreams I get. Cant see a therapist because my country treats mental health like a fairy tale.

Convince me tonight that life is worth living and it is worth pushing through because I myself am unconvinced and do feel like im gonna kill myself pretty soon. The threads are breaking and its becoming easier to process and go ahead with it.

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Nothing interests me. I do things that I don't really enjoy, mostly just passing time, but in the future i always look back to those things I did and feel that it was so nice.

I feel like I live in past. It's all I think about.

How do I enjoy the present?

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Got a $367 speeding ticket in a town 2 hours away from me, when the highway was completely fucking empty at 2am.

From what I've been reading online, its fairly easy to contest these because the officer has so many other cases to deal with you can plea bargain it down or have it even dismissed depending on the situation.

Anyone ever done this and can give me some tips on how to get started, or who to talk to? This is my first time ever getting pulled over, and I'm a broke college student who cannot afford this insane charge.

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I click with a girl, we go on a few dates. Conversations are fun and smooth and we share interests. A few dates in they tell me they're not interested in any romantic stuff, but that they always insist on staying friends and actually pick up the chats. I've actually stayed friends with a few girls this way, so I don't think they're just being polite. Again, these were girls who I just randomly dated online and I explicitly made clear that they were dates.

Is this something that just happens? Standard procedure, move on, keep dating? Any advice, other than be less ugly?

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A girl that i've been friend for something like 1.5 year confesed feelings for me, since i really like her(probably the best person i've ever met)in any mean of the word, I recipocrate her feelings.

But here is the thing, i'm an emotionally retarded person, i don't know how to bond with people, never had a deep emotional connection in my entire life, all the relationships throught my entire life were meaningless(romantic or not) and the only time i said i love you was to my mother when i left home.

So that being said, i want to know, what are the fundamentals of an sucessfull and loving relationship? how do i turn into a good boyfriend to her? I really want to make this work because it looks like she is really serious about me and i'm start to feeling the need to settle down, I want to hear specially from anons who are in an ltr/married, but any insight is welcome, please /adv/, pass me some knowledge.

PS: If it matters, i'm 26 and she is 25.

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Hey, what does this read? In english.

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Hi /adv. So I got laid off recently. I worked at a nice ad agency and it was the most money I've made in a while. I was living in a ratty apartment and was about to move out and rent a house with a friend. It lasted eight months and then there were mass layoffs. I had to turn down the house idea (we had got approved to rent a home right when I got laid off).

In the interim, my father, who works in the medical field, has been out of work. He was previously working at the small-town hospital which we moved across the country to be near, and eventually inside politics and shady management had him look for work at a different hospital not too far away, which lasted a while until the same type of shit led to him being let go. Since then he started doing some contract jobs that would last a few months, but they have run out and he is left searching, searching. He is 70 years old and is very bad with computers, so going through the modern job application process is extremely difficult for him. It's doubly difficult for me to even try to help him, as he is that impossible to guide along, and his job applications are way more complicated than my line of work is. Couple that with the fact that he is a very stubborn and frustrating person, it makes things seem hopeless.

I've moved back home while I search for jobs, which is a very stressful and distracting environment to be in. My mom works a shitty retail job just to get by (she used to be a switchboard operator; not much use for that anymore). They have a mortgage, medical bills, and a dog. They won't last long without my dad getting work.

(con'd)

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Tinder: she's 18, I'm 24. She wants to go on a date. Creepy or not? Anything in particular to be aware of?

I'm not awfully experienced with women in general, if that matters.