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How do I start a conversation?
I feel like if I can just initiate gbe conversation, that might be the key to turning my life around.
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talk about the other person
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>>18050828
About what though? I've been thinking about complimenting her clothing and asking her where she got it, but then the conversation is about women's clothing and I'm practically belly up.
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>>18050835
you don't actually have to have anything to contribute to the conversation to make the other person like you. Just be a good listener.
Read how to win friends & influence people
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how come so many people recommend joining the army to clean up mental problems?
what does the army specifically do to fix peoples brains, or why do people assume the army will fix their brains
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>>18050823
depends on mental problems.
but it generally gives you a sense of worth, it gives you a sense of direction, it reminds you of how lucky you have it and that you're working so that other people can have it lucky the way you do.
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Constant distraction. No slacking off in basic training. This distraction coupled with the novelty of the situation may very well cure your depression. This also gets you away from your potentially toxic friends, and gets you employment and purpose. Depression in most cases is not a mental illness, it is a natural reaction to a bad situation, fix the situation, do not numb your reaction with pills.
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This is super weird because, you know...
if you have diagnosed mental problems, they won't take you.
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Hey /adv/ my name is redpillkid, im extremely versatile on giving advice on any topic so instead of trying to bump your thread thats getting ignored, post here.. I gotchu!
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I met this 10/10 girl and I feel theres a thing going on but she starts acting all weird when I talk to her, like sorta avoiding things, I honestly don't know if Im just an autist and she hates me or shes really into me...
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Actually, never mind. I'm a huge fucking loser, and a virgin. I don't know why I thought you all would want to hear what I have to say. I'm going to kill myself now.
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>>18050853
if she doesnt seem to put effort into the conversation but rather ignoring it, chances are she's not feeling it
try another method
>>18050854
and I get my good advice powers from being a loser virgin
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So did I dodge a bullet?
>Being with a girl that everytime that she is mad she broke up with me (4 times)
>She tries to date 2 guys the 3th and 4th time
>She apologizes and tell me she loves me and I'm the love of her life.
>She admit to me that she can't be alone and that's why she seeks another relationship as fast as she can.
>I found out she lied to me before
>Confront her, she kinda denies it and then she borke up with me.
>Call it the final straw.
>I move on and she seems upset for me being happy.
>She told one of the guys to met outside the class we have together.
>She yells all the stuff she got from him.
So I dodged a bullet? She is toxic? Also, what to doy not to annoy her on purpose, but that she finds that she doesn't manipulate me anymore?
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>>18050800
Bump
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Tell her new guy, so he can dodge a bullet too. Or he will recognize soon enough
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>>18051176
She already dumped him to be with me again and for the last time. Maybe she didn't told him that. His friends already told him, so from now on it's his fault.
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Didn't want to see me on Valentines. Sites that she hates this holiday and feels bad for all the people that don't have anyone .. I said ok , we can just spend time . She says she has too much homework .. she did just get back from vacation and is behind on her work .. I jokingly said "u must have another date" .. she replies "that's mean, and NO I don't!" ... do I just give her space or kick to the curb ... feels a lil suspect
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>>18050739
we dont know how well you know her but it sounds like you dont know her well.
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You're making Valentines out to be a bigger deal than it is.
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So just let it go ?
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Communication in a relationship 2017-02-15 03:50:22 Post No.18050717
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I am completely understanding about the fact that we all grieve differently and in more ways I could possibly count. I do want to begin by saying that first, however.
More importantly, though, when you're currently in a situation where you're "talking" to someone and you're talking everyday, etc etc. Let's say your mother is dying of cancer, a large corporation buys your house from underneath you and make you move out, you're a single mom, you're in school and you're sick.
Would you seriously alienate the person you're talking to for weeks or even months?
In this case, she still has time to take a photo of her dog and post it on Facebook, constantly post things on Facebook to get likes and comments, and decides to make it public on her newsfeed that someone she was talking to (me) got pissed because she couldn't make time for me do to what she's going through.
> I had told her that I would never publicly post childish shit like that
>I told her that my entire world could completely come apart and I would always make time to talk to my significant other or someone I'm talking to, especially if I'm really serious about them.
>She kept throwing the "everyone grieves differently" excuse and said that she doesn't have time to talk to me but she'll rant on Facebook all day while her mother is in Hospice....
Honestly, and I being too harsh by just asking her to just periodically maintain communication? I'm not even asking for all day communication. She has been through TONS of failed relationships, has 2 kids by 2 different guys... but somehow I'm in the wrong for telling her that despite what's going on, nothing should prevent her from keeping the communication between us so that it doesn't die.
Opinions?
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It can get exhausting and overwhelming talking to the same person. If she doesn't talk to you at all then yes, I think you're right to be upset about this, but if she's just giving you less attention than she used to, then I think you need to get over it.
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>>18050737
She already wasn't giving enough attention because her daughter constantly obsesses over her attention and it's a long distance thing. And I didn't make much argument over that, but totally not talking at all? I don't think I'm wrong either.
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>>18050717
drop the bitch. if she doesnt come to you for comfort, then you aint the one making her come if you know what I mean ;)
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TL;DR
I borrowed my game to someone, they now hate me and threatened to keep it/sell it.
Actually posted this on twitter, can I used this against her ? I mean as proof.
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>>18050692
Here is a rule of thumb. Never allow anyone to borrow games. Few get returned and the ones that do usually are in worse condition.
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>>18050696
I generally don't, but we were pretty close and she is careful.
I cannot go back, but I want my stuff back.
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What game is so hard to come by nowadays that it would actually matter if someone sold it?
Was it a retro out of print game?
If not te them to sell that bitch keep it shit on it whatever. Just dont give them what they want and that will completely take any power they think they have over you away.
Fuck it just ignore her. Itll drive her insane.
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Why do I feel as an idiotic autistic shitty person? 2017-02-15 03:20:10 Post No.18050639
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Why do I feel as an idiotic autistic shitty person?
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I've been described as a 9/10 alpha, but I feel 0.0001/10 omega inside.
>I'm tired of getting shit from my dad.
Help me /adv/, I know I can't end my life, but still, I can't stand and watch it continue. I feel as if my emotional bottle is more than full, so please, lend me your shoulder and grab some napkins.
Pic related: I sent this to the one person who supposedly cares. 8/10 girl who kept me from cutting my wrists on forst year of highschool. I get the feeling that she doesn't have patience for my complaints anymore.
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>>18050639
youre just a whiny little bitch. the world is hard and confusing. get used to it. we all live through it.
realize that at the end of the day it doesnt matter. we're all going to die. your death is real and unavoidable. eveything you earn in your life is temporary. accept that first. then, build a life from a meaning YOU create
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>>18050666
Maybe you are true mr tripps.
If so then, I shall end my existence,
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>>18050673
waste the most amazing gift that you ever received? sounds stupid to me.
youre going to die eventually, why rush it? live vicariously through yourself
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>Argue with girl at mall that works at Sprint store
>We get along for some reason
>Ends up giving me her number
>Wait till she gets off work to message her
>This happens
What do I do?
Lunch??? WHAT?!?!
LAUNCH??!?!??!
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Help.......Me
plz
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Sounds like you're doing fine already.
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>>18050627
yea but where do I take her?
do I dress normal or formal?
also I meant to say "can't wait" so she knows I want her just as bad :(
why does she want LUNCH?!!? What HAPPENS AFTER LUNCH!?!?!?!?!
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>I'm away from da city for some months because of studies
>chatting with gf
>Things start getting hot
>She brings up the idea of exchanging pics
>Altough I want it really bad, I know that she is really shy with that stuff and not exactly ''that'' kind of girl. I really doubt she will get enough courage to send me a nude pic. She tells me to trust her, so I decide to do so
>start with a pic of my bulge
>She wants more
>I tell her to send me something first
>She sends pic of her ass wearing a very tiny red pantie
>Fuking nice
>She begs me for a pic of my dick, she seems really horny
>We agree that she will send me a picture of her after I send mine
>Must up courage and do it
>She wants more
>Tell her to send what we had agreed on
>She disconnects
I was so fucking mad I could barely get to sleep. The thing is, should I be this mad? Am I being irrational?
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>>18050566
I'd send dick pics for free.
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>>18050566
That's hilarious
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She got shy.
Stop fucking thinking, just have a beer (not ten of them dammit) and watch some pro wrestling or other random crap you don't normally watch. If your struggling to get out of your anger funk then ask for anons to share some random distractions with you.
You know what? Fuck it... everyone just watch this with me and chill.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNPv0TiyORk
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Can I still be prosecuted?
>>distributed schedule I drugs from 17-18
>>Cops came to school, posted up outside of home
>> Sole customer was contacted by undercovers claiming to be associated with me looking to buy
>> customer killed himself to be a "real nigga"
>>Cut off all contact with everyone involved
>>Fast-forward 3 years
>>Considering running against local delegate in local election
>>Delegate is closely tied to police
>>Can they re open the case and prosecute me?
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>>18050561
You have skeletons in your closet. Dont bother running. If the legal case isnt reopening you bet your ass itll ruin your public image nonetheless
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Sounds like they already would've tried you if they could.
If it comes up again, you don't know anything about it. Don't know if you want to go there, but your friend was being framed by local police which is the tragic cause of what happened, is what I would say.
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>>18050606
>Sounds like they already would've tried you if they could.
Not when something is at stake. Now, they would have a convenient reason to, "find things". Naw what I sayin?
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I want to play in a band where should I go to find people to start?
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>>18050450
Where do u live
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Me too, but I can't sing nor play an instrument, what do?
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>>18050616
Start playing your organ.
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Ok, so this all started when I met this guy on Bumble and he was everything I kind of looked for in a boyfriend. We went out on two dates and we seemed to get along and he said he liked me and would really consider being steady with me. The age difference isn't big between us, I'm 23 and he's 26. He insinuated that he wanted sex and I told him that I would only do that when I'm in a relationship and exclusive to which he replied that he would like that and I told him i would think about it. After that we talked about Valentines Day plans and how he would take me out to a nice dinner and we already had a day and a place picked out.
The fourth time that we hung out was again in his house and we watched another movie He was kind of horny and we were making out a lot and he really wanted to do more and I told him what was holding me. So he said that he wanted me to be his girlfriend (pretty sincerely) and I replied that I would want him to be my boyfriend too but I would wait at least a month to actually have sex, which he seemed okay with. So we made out a little more and I gave him half a handjob (we were in a weird position on the bed and it was uncomfortable for me) so I was just kissing his neck and he finished. To me it wasn't really a big deal since i already felt comfortable with him. After that I had to leave and i was surprised that he stayed in bed and didn't even walk me to the door to say goodbye. Before I left i felt his distance and said 'are you sure we're dating' and he told me not to overthink it and that we are.
So I felt SO weird walking myself out of his house and driving home. He hasn't texted me once and its valentines today and he still hasn't texted me. We were supposed to go out on Thursday.
At this point I don't really care because we've only known each other for 3-4 months. But I just really want to send him a text to give him a piece of my mind.
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>>18050444
Maybe your half hand job was that terrible?
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Sounds like he might've felt like you pulled a bait and switch. He agreed to the bf/gf deal, but you still didn't put out despite saying that was your condition.
It's up to you whether that makes him a shallow person in your eyes. But based off what you said, I can see why he'd feel gypped.
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>>18050453
It wasn't my best, but why wouldn't he say that we're not really dating afterwards?
Or at least text me after to say we shouldn't see each other
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Anyone know of any good books on the subject?
Ive been a fat my whole life and I want to lose it, but everytime I eat properly and count calories I lose motivation. I am also an constant procrastinator and generally am unhappy with life and feel like Im always stuck in the mud. Not depressed really, just have a total lack of motivation for some reason. child hood laziness/obesity pouring over into adulthood maybe?
Im 25 and plan on going into refrigeration, which Im happy with, but to be honest it wasnt my first pick, but I couldnt have my first pick, since I slacked so bad in highschool.
any advice would be appreciated.
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>Failure -->
>Success --> --> --> --> -->
Don't ask how to keep going, just keep going.
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Counting calories is a good way to fail. First learn to cook yourself, you'd vesuprised how good healthy foods taste when you cook them how you like.
Get yourself some exercise. Do a few pushups sit-ups and squats each day, get your self a bile and go for a ride.
My friend I have a secret to share, will power can not be taught or give, only learnt and earned. But the greatest way to motivate yourself is to only compare yourself to yourself, you can always be a little better, take pride in being able to do just 1 more pushup than last week, take pride in the fact you took more than one attempt that in its self shoes your not willing to let you past benyour limit, remember that your only real competition is you.
Most importantly don't beat yourself up when you fall into old habits, instead help yourself up.
A saying that I have come to live by
A master has failed more times that a beginner has even tryed.
>You can so it, just believe in yourself
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>>18050398
this, that image is stupidly misleading
Oh, and "Self discipline in 10 days" is a good book OP.
I also like to suggest "As a man Thinketh", though it's not about discipline, it's really insightful.
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How can I start using my looks for currency?
I want to get into modelling but it seems hard to do as a male and there arnt alot of male amateur opportunities on craigslist. I kinda want to cosplay but i dont know how to get instagram famous and I dont think i have enough money to create costumes or buy clothes all the time
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>>18050387
you in la? i can pay you 100 bucks to clean my house in your underwear. 4 hour job, legit cleaning.
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If you're male, then nobody is going to pay you for your looks.
But if you work on your confidence, anyone will pay you for that in any field. Youtube might be able to help, especially if you're good at making search queries.
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>>18050387
You look insecure in that picture. You're hiding a third of your face.