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Get It Off Your Chest 2017-09-02 07:31:52 Post No.18681090
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Write letters, vent your frustrations, confess your sins, let it all out /adv/
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>>18681090
My confession is: I wish this thread would stop popping up every hour and just hibernate for a while.
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I do a lot to spite the expectations that people place on me when I feel they have no right to. In the end it probably hurts me more, but I enjoy fucking with manipulative people too much.
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You said you were worried about us drifting apart. I've tried my best to keep contact, why won't you?
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I'm 22, almost 23, never lived away from home in the counrty, going to grad school in NYC. I feel like I'm a 5 years old. I'm sitting in my new appartment I just moved into today crying. I want to go home so bad. I'm not even going into a stem field. I want to be a professor for acting.
What the fuck is wrong with me, why am I so weak?
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>>18679953
You WILL adjust to your new surroundings. Give it time. In the meantime,dont call yourself weak. Thats the worst thing you can do to yourself, feel pain, then keep punishing yourself for it.
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>>18679972
Thanks man. I just wish I could take the school and put it closer to home
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>>18679953
I moved half the world away when I was 17, and settled down pretty quick. everything was new and culture shock was so big I was doing stuff that I wouldn't do now. you should be adventurous and daring and explore what NYC can offer you. most creative people on earth aspires to be there for a reason
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What are some positive things you appreciate in your life? 2017-09-01 06:56:48 Post No.18679013
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What are some positive things you appreciate in your life?
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I'll start
>I like that I'm smarter than most people
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There's not much point in self-obsessing, especially on an anonymous image board. You sound like a person with anxiety.
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>>18679013
i'm pretty good at cooking, i have a good taste in music
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>>18679013
I've slept with over 50 women and have half of those have been my friends gf's.
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How would you know if you're gay/bi?
>be male
>always have had reluctance toward females
>be blind toward signs of flirting, or close proximity
>enjoys straight pornography
>can appreciate a woman's body
I'm confused. It's either I'm a bumbling straight guy or I'm a closeted homosexual that's been trying to reason with his nature, help
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>>18683788
i wanted to suck a dick when i was 10 years old. you're not gay, just autistic.
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>>18683799
Fuck my worst fears have been realized
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>>18683788
Hugely gay, massively gay, really really gay. Very homosexual, you like gay things.
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Should I feel bad for still living with my parents?
I'm 26 years old, nearly 27. I work a white-collared office job and bring home a decent salary (could, theoretically, pay for my own housing should I choose).
I pay a few bills (utilities) and help around the house (go grocery shopping, vacuum, etc.), so I'm not a complete deadbeat. But as I'm getting older, should I consider moving out.
Pros of living at home:
>I get to keep most of my paycheck
>Parents cook dinner and take care of the majority of household responsibilities
>I have constant company, so I don't get lonely
>I'm an only child, so eventually this is a house I will fully inherit someday, so might as well get used to it
Cons
>Living at home makes the dating game nearly impossible for men (I've only ever had sex with prostitutes)
>Socially unacceptable
>??
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I don't know why Americans freak out over the idea of living with their parents past their 20s. It's completely normal everywhere else in the world.
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>>18683750
I don't get it either. I mean why do people want to pay a landlord's property off for him instead of sticking that cash in your own personal savings?
The only thing I hate is how it's close to impossible to get a woman once she learns you live at home. I mean we can fuck at your place.
I don't live at home because I can't afford move out. I live at home so I save and invest my money.
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>>18683760
I fuck girls in my parent's house all the time. Ur parents got a small house bro? I do it in my grandparents house, friend's houses, cars, forests, hotels (go on a road trip) etc. These are all bad ideas but fucking prostitutes is a bad idea as well. I'd avoid forest sex so you don't get ticks these days. they spread deadly disease
http://time.com/4767290/powassan-virus-ticks/
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I had an awkward experience tonight...but for it to make sense, I have to tell you the back story.
>Almost 15 years ago this girl became obsessed with me
>Let's call her Femanon
>I didn't know the girl, but I worked at a store with her friend
>Her friend got my number and gave it to her
>This girl called me non stop for weeks even with me ignoring her or picking up the phone and saying don't call back
>She wouldn't stop though, and I eventually listened to what she had to say
>She basically tempted me with sex and I was a lonely loser and I took advantage of it
>I feel bad looking back but I was young and I had expressed multiple times I had no interest so she knew
>Not that she was repulsive, just not my type
>Anyways I try to end it and can't get rid of her
>End having to change my number and move out of my parents
>She goes to my parents and then my sister trying to find me
>Starts stalking me around town
>Even when I get a girlfriend
>Finally bluff her and tell her I called the police and she left me alone
Fast forward to tonight
>I'm at a store picking up a few things
>Some employee there calls out to me
>He doesn't look familiar but he talks like an old friend
>I'm embarrassed that I don't remember so I don't say anything at first.
>He says, "I haven't seen you in awhile"
>Me still pretending I know him - "I was here last week"
>He shakes my hand and starts to tell me he thinks we might be kin which makes me think it's an extended family member
>Then he asks if I used to live at this certain place
>I say yah
>Asks where I live now, and I tell him a general area..not my address
>Then he asks if he can help me
>I said can you tell me where (insert item here) is
>I knew where it was, I was just looking for an excuse to walk away
>He says, "Sure, let me take you"
>Ugh, so he follows me and keeps talking to me.
>I finally say, "I'm sorry how do we know each other?"
>He replies "Oh, I married Femanon"
>Then he tells me had been married to her for 10 years
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>>18683722
Sorry for the long post
But anyways he then tells me if I ever need anything let him know, and he shakes my hand and leaves.
It was very odd.
Should I be worried?
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>>18683722
Sounds like you dodge a bullet. Just ignore him.
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>>18683729
Dodged a bullet with her? Yah I already knew that.
But what about him? Am I gonna have to switch stores now?
Apparently he has seen me in there before and he fucking knew where I moved to before and knew my name and face and I had never seen this guy!
Wouldn't he want me out of her life?
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would you date and then marry a girl that's really good for you and out of your league if she's had sex with 10 men by the time she's 25 and you were still a virgin?
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>>18683646
Lol no
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Yes I would. I am far less concerned with who she has been with and more concerned with me being the last guy she'll ever be with.
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>>18683664
*tips fedora*
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Medical Care without Insurance 2017-09-03 01:49:21 Post No.18683453
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Medical Care without Insurance
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A bit of backstory. Before my insurance coverage ended back in July, I was being treated for a couple things. Severe sleep apnea, migraine like symptoms resulting from an arachnoid cyst, chronic vertigo, severe depression, severe anxiety, and speech problems. New issues had arisen at the beginning of the year, as I was beginning to get TMD, massive bouts of memory loss and confusion, moments of slurred speech, and frequent weakness. I was on fifteen medications at once, and I had an autopap. I've since run out of meds and had to stop cold turkey, and I had to return my autopap.
I cannot find work, as no one is willing to look past the vertigo and slurred speech. I therefore cannot afford my normal medical care nor medications. I've looked into getting disability benefits to help, but I have no idea how seeing as I haven't worked long enough to qualify. I was denied medicaid because of the fact that since I am forced to live with my brother, his earnings fuck me over.
Is there any way for me to get medical care without digging myself into a hole?
Please don't suggest getting a job, Ive been denied by almost everything on the bus route and online, and I can't afford the gas to look anywhere else.
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Could you rack on as much debt as humanly possible and just go bankrupt?
>I was denied medicaid because of the fact that since I am forced to live with my brother, his earnings fuck me over.
Do you have any poor friends? Just tell the gov't you live with your poor friends/family members.
You could also resort to some groups in your area like charities and shit.
Otherwise my friend, the only way you could approach this is to fuck the system that fucked you.
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>>18683460
I have no friends, and declaring bankruptcy just seems like a horrible idea.
The only thing I can think of that might work is moving to England. My father and his side of the family live there, and there's a thing for immediate family to get dual citizenship. Problem is that I don't know what that extends to, and to what age.
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>>18683473
Call up a British embassy or consulate.
The younger you are the more appealing you are to the UK.
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Has anyone dated someone significantly lower tier than they are?
There is a girl at my gym who is probably 5/10 but we seem to be a great match.
Im not really sure if I should make a move as she is a step down in looks from females I usually hang around with but something about her keeps drawing me to her.
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>>18683426
>meet someone you really click with
>worry about 1/10 bullshit attractiveness scale
Don't date her my dude
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I feel the same way. Maybe 3-5/10 girl. We talk for hours on end, we're like best friends, and I don't know why, but there's something pulling me in. I see myself in a relationship with her, but she's not that attractive. I've been friends (and wanted to remain friends) with girls who were 5/10 and been friends and remained friends with girls who were a lot more attractive than her, but something just pulls me into her.
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>>18683426
>I feel like I really connect with this person, and I want to date her even If she isn't that pretty. What is happening to me anons??!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HEXWRTEbj1I
No, seriously pals. As cliche and sometimes void as it can become, love is real. So enjoy motherfucker, few things are more worthy than romantic love. Even if sometimes don't last that long. From my experience, those kind of relationships are the ones that actually meant something. Banging hot girls is fucking great but dating someone you actually love. Damn, that is truly something.
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Sharing a One Bedroom Apartment 2017-09-03 01:19:12 Post No.18683353
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Sharing a One Bedroom Apartment
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Can I count on finding a roommate to split a one bedroom apartment with? I can sleep in the living room on the couch or something to make it more appealing to them, and I have few possessions (read: I don't need the closet space).
Rent is ridiculously expensive.
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You don't. What you do is be prepared to spend a little more and rent a two bedroom apartment.
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>>18683353
You should easily find someone who is looking for a low rent place, especially if the flat in question is in expensive area
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wouldn't a landlord/condo owner not allow that?
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I have a job that requires me to be at work for an average of 12 hours a day. I am very passionate about my work and as a result, I've gotten carried away with it for the past several years. I haven't been in any kind of meaningful relationship for about 4 years now and I've been just waiting for the right girl to cross my path.
Its been such a long dry spell though that I've been intending to take a little time away from work in the next few weeks and just focus 100% on getting a girlfriend. Fuck I think its kind of sad that it is going to require such an extreme effort for me to get into a relationship but I am tired of waiting and I want one.
Well it just so happens that the current job I am working, there is this girl there. Objective 10/10. She shares the same kind of passion as me and I can just relate to her.. She is just fantastic. I hate actually crushing on a girl like this. I feel it leaves me vulnerable. But here I am, I feel like I am in high school or something I want nothing more than to take her out and spoil the fuck out of her.
I make plenty of money. More than double the amount that she makes. And that's not to say she is not getting paid well either. Her career path holds a lot of promise. The industry we work in is lucrative.
My problem is, and where I need advice....
She has a boyfriend. But this guy is a complete loser. I mean he works in a pizza place and she is likely making more than double than he is. She is so far beyond his league it just stupefies me that she is still with him.
I don't give a fuck about this guy. I want this girl. I just need to seduce her.
So /adv, what is the best way to seduce a co-worker?
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Everything else aside, you spend literally half your time at work, and you expect to be able to hold down a relationship?
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>>18683335
It's possible, it depends on the needs of the person.
>>18683300
It's a really bad idea, especially if you break up. And even if you got what you wanted, a who would leave another guy for money would leave you when she found someone richer.
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>>18683343
>It's possible, it depends on the needs of the person.
Sure, but the quality of a relationship like that isn't going to be great and most girls would get sick of it and leave very quickly.
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Should I be concerned if my 14 year old brother has a 10 year old girlfriend and they seem to be doing stuff like kissing?
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Your bro is going to fuck the shit out that 10 year old.
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>>18683285
That's bordering on pedophilia. I don't have a firm opinion on it, but the only person I know who did that was a creep with very abnormal psychology. Maybe your brother just sees himself as younger than he really is, but that doesn't make it okay. It's not up to him what is right and what is wrong, especially if his dick is doing the deciding.
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>>18683285
That could possibly still be illegal OP. Depending on where you live, doing anything with a minor under 12 years old could even get another minor on the sex offender registry.
For example, I have a close family friend whos son would molest his cousins when he was 15 and they were 11. They had to go to court and he was lucky to get off easier with restraining orders and therapy as his mother hired a good lawyer. However, he continued being a pedophile later in life...
Anyways, that is really weird. You should look up laws and talk to your parents
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I deeply loved a girl. Not just any passion or crush, it was actual love. Unfortunately she began dating one of my friends instead. And it hurts.
It's been like two weeks and I can't seem to get over it or stop thinking about her. What do I do?
Cutting all contact is impossible but I've been avoiding it as much as I can.
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bat your friend
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why don't yuo just bat him
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>>18683265
>I deeply loved a girl.
How long were you with her anon?
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Hey guys do you think flowers on a first date would be cute or cringy? Never done it before but taking my oneitis out and want to make it as good for as possible
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If I turned up to a first date and the guy gave me flowers, I'd think "Jesus Christ, how serious does he think we are already?"
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>>18683198
I'm a girl. Like everything, it depends on how much the girl likes you. I would save the flowers for later unless you're certain you're not gonna be awkward/she likes you alot.
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No, it's cringey as fuck. Do NOT do this. A good date is fun, slightly dangerous or thrilling, and romantic, shed have to fucking carry flowers the whole time and feel award as shit. Just have fun with this other human.
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Go on date. Date goes very well in my opinion. He suggests we do it again. I emphatically agree.
Ugh... do I, like, wait for him to decide when? Is it over-eager for me to suggest a day? Do guys like women to take the initiative? How long do I wait to ask about it?
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I personally like girls who take the initiative. I say feel free to text him anytime you want about a next date if you don't feel like waiting.
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>>18683181
Wait 18 hours and then text him. If you feel like you need to call him right now, have a ice cream or fap instead. Dating is a game of push and pull.
To prevent becoming that clingly annoying gf, ensure your life consist more than
>sleep
>school / work
>bf
>sleep
You still need to have some hobby, sport, activity you can do without your bf so he dont turn crazy from your 24/7 attention and you wont go crazy when he is busy and dont respond in 5 seconds. Pic related.
Dont forget to hug him next time to check if he has a boner. That is a sign he wants to marry you :-)
Good luck!
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>>18683181
Give him a little space, needy equals annoying. Just wait a day or 2, go do stuff you want to, go to work idfk. Then after about 2 days hit him up (if he hasnt already) and schedule something.