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"Can we fuck again?"

>>18106353
hay bby u wnt sum fuk?

>>18106413
>>18106416
That shit would probably work, but NOPE

>>18106346

We have no idea. We know nothing about you. Want to be more specific?

u right. I don't know really. I guess i'm a somewhat shy person but i'm just bad at thinking of replys off the top of my head unless it's something that interests me greatly.

>>18106346
I have the same problem. I think it's because it's just that other people are shitty conversationalists. Except my closest friends and that's why they became my closest friends, because they, like me, are good at conversations.
Just my theory.

> Is it wrong to fuck a married woman?

OP there is a limit to how stupid you can be.

>>18106344

>Is it wrong to have sex with a married woman?

If she's married and has no children then you're just a willing participant in shitty behavior. Obviously there is problems in the marriage unrelated to you but taking advantage of that weakness for sexual gratification is obviously a shady act. You might try to cover it up under the guise that she's consenting and wanting to sleep with you but if you have to come here and ask you know for a fact you're not doing something you should be proud of.

If she's a married woman with children then you're a giant piece of shit. You could possibly be participating in the act of completely splitting a family apart and fucking these kids up for life and you should be goddamned ashamed of yourself. Its a okay for adults to suffer the consequences of their dysfunction. You're a degenerate of the lowest kind if you think it's okay to lay that burden on innocent children.

>>18106344
>Is this the result of growing up within Judeo-Christian culture? Is there something inherently immoral?
No. But if you're willing to help someone to cheat, you're one half of the problem. I don't believe in karma, but people that do that kind of shit usually get what they deserve in the end (they're usually cheated on later down the line, from the people I know).

>Should I tell someone or will it cause a shitstorm?
You don't need to tell anyone. Just don't do act on anything unless you're prepared for the consequences. Especially if you work together. You think she'll be one the leaving once the regret sets in? She'll probably make your life hell until you leave, or attempt to get you fired.

>>18106303
Road to hell indeed paved with good intentions, but that only if you're dense enough to realize what you've been doing is not helping and keep pushing.
If you're really man of your words, keep doing it. Worth it or not, at least it gives you something to stand for, and what's life if you have nothing to stand for? Nothing.

For trust issue, only trust the one who talk the talk and walk the walk. Cut the ones who don't.

The phrase "nice guys finish last" has many meanings, but this is one of them. To be a nice guy, a truly nice guy, and one with a lot of character, means you have to shrug off things like this. Kindness is perceived as weakness, and human nature makes others take advantage of the weak.

To the girl that broke your heart, fuck her, you don't need her. Better you find out now than when she bails on you for another dick years down the line. To the family members, Remind them that you were there for them in their moment of weakness. If they are making fun of you, they are embarrassed about their own actions. They are trying to make themselves seem less weak. Kindness required patience. Those friends are not true friends at all. A fair weather friend is like an umbrella that dissolves when wet - useless and unnecessary.

Keep fighting the good fight, Anon.

>>18106303

Doing the right thing is a thankless job and if you really care about doing it you'll learn to accept that. No one is going to stop and praise you for having a moral center. There will be no parades in your honor.

It just shows how weak your resolve to be a good person is if you use the shitty behaviors of others as an excuse to abandon your principals. It doesn't matter whether you're Hitler or Gahndi, people will always disappoint you. People will always hurt you. There is no way around that.

The only decision you can make in the face of pain is whether you want to dive into the swamp and process your pain by inflicting it on other or to stick by the things you know is right. Ultimately, that choice has nothing to do with what other people do or don't do because at the end of the day you have to live with moral implications of your own choices, not the choices of anybody else.

You have to be someone you are proud of; someone who your children and their children can look up to. You can't look your children in the eye and say "Well, daddy wanted to be a good person but other people were mean to him so now I'm a hunk of shit." Its a cop out.

Make your choice, OP. Trust the people you can, toss the people you can't. There is no pain free option, only the one that allows you to sleep at night knowing you did the right thing.

Nothing. One of you has to be willing to move to the other place. Otherwise it will never go anywhere

>>18106268

To me nothing is the status quo

Chlorpromazine.
chemfag here

>You are willing to move, but NOT to the same town your partner is currently in
>Your partner is not willing to move
that's a little selfish in the partner's part, don't you think?
Unless, of course, if it is having some constraints.

I tried a relationship with someone older than me by 10 years and it wasn't possible. Sex on the other hand was worth it and still happening.

>>18106274
>tried a relationship...it wasn't possible
>relationship

I'm glad you're online. Can you please elaborate on this part?

I was 20 and had a great time with a 30 year old chubby gal, sex was fantastic

I married a chick 5 years older than me but it didn't work out , age was a factor but the nail in the coffin was her extreme temper problems and my walt Disney naiveness.

If I were to have another GF / partner I would shoot for a girl my age or younger because it will make me feel manly, in control and able to take the lead more naturally which is what females lean on a man for.

No.

Noone has to ever express their feelings.

I have done this twice. The first time she tried to cheat with me and then left him when i wouldn't, but we had a horrible, toxic, relationship. The second time she begged me to cheat with her, which we ended up doing on some level and i fell in love with her, but then she started cheating with someone else and kicked me to the curb.

Don't do it, lad. Or do it and live life the hard way like me. It's up to you, but even if you get some sort of relationship out of it, it'll be fucked up from the start.

Bonus problem: I can't pee with people around. I have been living in dorms for 3 years now. It was totally fine the first 2 years - I could pee in an urinal even if someone was right next to me, but now I can't get myself to pee even if there is another person in the rest room. Even if he is at sink away from my sight or something.

What do pls help

>>18106188
About your problem, I think you'd read this: http://www.inoveryourhead.net/2011/04/25/the-complete-guide-to-not-giving-a-fuck/

Alternatively, it's something that's getting better with time, you'd get used to it the more you expose yourself.

>>18106220
Thanks, gonna read it!
I agree with what you said about exposing myself more often to these things. Any idea how to get more negative (and rude) feedback?

>>18106160
Not everyone has to be the "life of the party," don't force it. The trick to confidence is to be comfortable in your own skin, to recognize your strengths & weaknesses and be OK with it. There's really nothing wrong with being a low-key, go-with-the-flow type of person in social situations.

>>18106175
Thanks for your answer!

The thing is, I would feel way better if I would be more confident.

Sometimes I am too shy to talk to some people, that I would like to talk to. Approaching girls is difficult for me.

I am ok with the way I am; I just feel that I could reach so much more, if I would do more of the stuff I wish I'd do.

>>18106160
embrace apathy, my son
the opinions of others are irrelevant. your own opinion is irrelevant. you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. let go, and conduct yourself accordingly.

Cheating is a sin, you fuck.
Prepare to fuck up your relationship and hers at the same time.

I don't judge cheaters.
If you feel like, go ahead.

>>18106125
My father cheated on my mum with a nurse. Don't make the same mistake cunt. I hate my dad because of it.

>>18106110

its scientifically proven that the g spot is exactly 10 inches into girl who are 5'6" tall.

every inch of height adds another 1/4 inch of depth into them (give or take)

OP how do you feel about using a cucumber as a dildo on her in the dark?

>>18106147
i lold, but yea no serious advice, feelsbadman

>>18106082
>knowing

How do you know?

I'm asking because I may be in the same situation.

Just act on them. It'll teach you a valuable lesson

>>18106109
Because there's very clear indicators she's not interested in me.

Don't say anything. Just be there with her. Touch her a lot, and listen to her.

>>18106076
>be with her

I can't, I just said, I'm on a business trip out of the country

>>18106085
Doesn't matter. Trip's over or you're boned.

It works if your acne is superficial.
if you have severe nodular acne, then you'll have to take 13-cis-retinoic acid (INN)

I've been taking 408mg Lymecycline daily for about 6 weeks. It's really helped clear up my face and back. If you can get it, I'd recommend it.

>>18106026
skellies in the coset

>>18106039
Got that part sure, but I don't know what to do about it.
Thinking about it feels either shameful or terrifying. I promised a friend that I'd never give up, and now I'm not even sure if I broke that promise or not.

It's still an attempt, you knew exactly what you would accomplish if you ate too many pills and you went for it. Regardless, hopefully you feel differently and wouldn't try it again. If you regret what you did and are glad that you didn't die, you learned something from it and are better off.