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How retarded is it to go to church tomorrow to meet nice girls? I am not Christian but I live in a small town and it's really hard to meet people.
Actually does not sound so retarded. Be aware you will find only christian girls
>>18118485
It's pretty retarded but not because of the reasons you might think.
>>18118492
I'm fine with that. I just want someone with a good heart.
>>18118498
What reasons are those?
Question for Militaryfags and other early risers
I want to start getting up at 5am to workout and generally be more productive with my days. Any advice for making this a permanent change? If you were in the Army, do you still get up early now you have left?
Getting up early/productivity general I guess
Getting up early starts with a good bedtime routine. For 8 hours of sleep you'd need to go to bed at 9pm. If you work until 5, that means you'd only have four hours until you go to bed. It's tough, I haven't been able to do it either yet
>>18118458
Put a lamp on a timer and set it to shine in your face from 3:30 AM till 6:30 AM
>>18118458
it was very easy in IET when you have someone screaming at you to wake up.. you get use to it, but like most things you have to get into a routine.e
23/F
I keep switching back on how I feel about this. Currently single but fucking two of my long term exs. And when I hang out with them we act like a couple. They both aren't aware that I'm fucking them both and both have feelings for me. Only one of my exs is aware that I hang out with the other ex but just as "friends".
Part of me says
> fuck it I'm single.
Other part says
> I really care about them and if caught will probably be deemed worthless.
And yes I really do care about both. I'm doing this because I'm heartless. I just don't know what I want in life yet and still am figuring myself out
So....what's your question?
0/10
Get lost.
>>18118339
Sorry.
>should I feel guilty?
I keep switchin my opinion on it. I just want to keep my emotions in line.
Maybe I change them because I keep encountering romantic moments with them. Like I said I don't want to hurt either of them
Can wellbutrin help against anger issues? How about other SSRIs? How do I stop being angery?
heffalump
lump
SsRI do lexapro was what helped me
>be browsing tinder
>find cute match, say hello
>Start talking, get along well
>Meet up at a hotel half between us, fuck, smoke weed, hang out
>Feelsgoodman
>Recently talking less and less, to the point that it's been 3 days since she responded
>Google her to see if anything happened (idk what I was thinking)
>"She said she didn't have a Facebook profile??"
>Waitthefuckup.jpg
>She's got a boyfriend
>She's got a baby
>Told me she was infertile and that I didn't need a condom
> Luckily I trust no bitch and used one anyway
Holy shit guys, what the fuck do I do?
Move on. You couldn't have possibly known, and therefore, it's not your fault.
I imagine the reason you are worried is because the guy might come after you? I imagine that's not very likely to happen though but I'd understand your fear. Maybe if you have a close-ish or not so close friend who seems like a tough guy, telling him your story would make you feel better (I don't mean he'd be required to be your bodyguard but just the moral support that "if something happens we'll deal with him").
Like the other anon said, of course this is not your fault.
>>18118173
I'm not worried about that, just surprised at the situation and pissed at her for lying to me
Turning 30 soon, and I worry that I'll never feel young and hopeful again.
I haven't for a long time.
we are fucked.
t. forever-alone
>>18117512
I don't speak spanish??
Anyone here have experience in the military?
I'm 25 and thinking about it, but I've never done anything like that before, I just reckon it would toughen me up, teach me discipline, allow me to get fit, etc.
I'm pretty undecided on branch. I have a humanities degree so could get some sort of officer position. Or I could say fuck it and try infantry.
Anyone who's had any military experience who can give any advice?
>>18117190
Just do it mate, you live once and then you're dead so might as well give it a go.
Do it and don't look back. Best experience
>>18117207
>>18117238
What have your experiences been? Which branch, what sort of job, how long for, and was it worth it?
>invited to go clubbing in a nearby city with my friends
>sitting there with my crush that supposedly had a crush on me too, my best friend who's literally Casanova and some random nerdy guy
>have a lot of fun for the first hour or so, get drunk
>we talk about "the problems" and "depression" my best friend has because this one girl he likes doesn't want to date him even though she makes out with him on every single occasion
>my crush wants to dance with me, I refuse because of my ego and fear of losing dignity
>my best friend starts making out with "the love of his life"
>my crush starts making out with the random nerdy guy
>I just fucking sit there
>people ask me why am I sitting there alone
>my crush, the nerdy guy, my best friend and his new girlfriend ask me if everything is okay
>I say yes and tell them that I'm going to the toilet
>leave the club, take a train home ignoring calls
How the fuck am I supposed to cope with that shit? I feel so fucking alienated. All these people go out of their way to tell everyone about how "depressed" they are and people console them and then they feel happy when they manage to "overcome" their depression five minutes later.
I feel so fucking tired. I hate people, I hate putting on the mask of an enthusiastic guy, I hate hearing people laugh at my jokes and I especially hate when people give me hope. Why can't I be "normal"?
>my crush wants to dance with me, I refuse because of my ego and fear of losing dignity
If you got the fuck over yourself and stopped taking yourself so seriously, you would have been the one making out with her, I promise you. Pull that stick out of your ass
>>18116806
>my crush wants to dance with me, I refuse because of my ego and fear of losing dignity
The fuck are you so angry about? It sounds like she gave you a chance and you shot her right down. You ended up alone by your own choice, that night
>>18116812
I can't take that stick out of my fucking ass. I'm obsessed with my dignity, I'd rather kill myself than make a clown out of myself.
>>18116814
I'm angry about being forced to dance to achieve happiness. I fucking hate dancing. There's not a single thing I hate more than dancing.
Why do I have to do that shit? Why can't nice things happen to me without that fucking bullshit?
I'm jealous as fuck. I'm a guy.
Attractive women can have multiple orgasms, get a slew of men chasing after them, can have hetero-group sex and actually get something out of it (two dudes on one girl getting all the attention while two girls on one guy is meh we only have one penis)
Gender power dynamics are shifting and women have this, plus the ability to become CEOs, doctors lawyers and have positions of power. I'm not against women's rights but I'm jealous as fuck that they have it so good in the dating realm so much so that I don't even want to date or talk to girls anymore because I'm jelly as fuck of them
And women are probably jealous you can lift heavy boxes and reach the top of the refrigerator. Sorry gaylord.
As for dating, the demand curve pretty much reverses post 30. You'll probably fuck up and have no career/worth by then, but most normal men are more competitive sexually the older they are (and the richer).
>>18114548
>Attractive women can have multiple orgasms
Being attractive is not at all related to the ability to have multiple orgasms. A lot of women can't have multiple orgasms. A lot of women can't have orgasms at all.
>get a slew of men chasing after them
Not everyone thinks constantly having a bunch of guys wanting to fuck you, dump a load in you and never talk to you again is a benefit. In fact, its kind of a lonely feeling after awhile.
Maybe having a stream of people who don't care about who you are as a person and just want to fuck you sounds fun to you but it doesn't to everyone, I can promise you that.
You're kind of projecting your own desires onto women and you're not taking into account that things that are important to men aren't as important to women. The dynamics you're trying to compare are completely different.
>can have hetero-group sex and actually get something out of it (two dudes on one girl getting all the attention while two girls on one guy is meh we only have one penis)
This was just kind of confusing. I don't see what the number of penises a man on his body has to do with enjoying group sex. Women have only one vagina? I'm not sure what you're getting at.
>Gender power dynamics are shifting and women have this, plus the ability to become CEOs, doctors lawyers and have positions of power.
The fact of the matter is that both men and women have pros and cons and we all have to accept that. We aren't equal. We aren't the same. You have some benefits in dating that women do not and vice versa. Stop wasting your time being jealous and start working on being a thoughtful, mature, intelligent individual. Thats your best shot.
>>18114587
woman who can't orgasm here.
Though I'm pretty ugly.
But yeah, the sexual frustration is real and I've honestly wished I were dead since puberty because I have this sex drive I can do absolutely fucking nothing with or about.
So I've been getting close with this girl, kissing, holding, etc. Our friends ask if we're together and she hints at wanting to be.
Problem is, I recall a friend saying she has a boyfriend who's in the marines some time ago. She has a friend who's in the marines and lives across the country, someone she met through xbox 2 years ago. I'm assuming it's the same guy since they seem fairly close. There's a heart next to his name in snap chat, same as mine, an they snap chat pretty often. She told me she's going to see him for a week.
Now I'm not up in arms about this since we aren't even together, but I'm all sorts of confused about this situation. Am I that guy that she's fucking with since she can't be with him? Should I just ask her about this directly or leave it alone and drop any possibility of a relationship?
>>18119248
this made me gag. it's so relative to a fucked situation i got out of recently.
he's probably going to fuck her. chances are he's going to lead her on, use her, and fuck her over. leave her now with your dignity in tact while you still can.
do you know where this dude even lives?
>>18119254
>he's probably going to fuck her
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. That thought process alone tells me that I shouldn't be trying to pursue something with her.
Somewhere in California. Hell of a distance from here.
>>18119259
dude, leave. she's going to come crawling back with all her mental issues after this dude leads her on. you don't need any of that.
Currently a manager at McDonald's with promised promotion at beginning of next year.
5 k payrise.
Is bullshit of job worth staying or go for similar job without garunteed promotion just for less stress/more social hours?
Isn't a manager at mc donalds pretty much a grunt but with even more responsabilities and expected to come work at ungodly hours if the need arise
Do you see yourself doing this for another couple of years ? If so go for it
But do you have serious plans of something else or are you just now considering it ?
Pretty much, there are considerably more things to do, more pressure, but still expected to do the work of a crew member for not much more money at that!
I regularly get called in on days off to deal with issues others can't or have to answer the phone at 5 am on days off to help.
I really do love my job and want to progress to bm wich I believe is possible for me but at the same time the pressure of it makes me look else were on a regular basis.
Why not stay and keep looking for other jobs on the side...?
Hey /adv/. Long distance relationship fag here.
My girlfriend and I need to see one another more often. We see one another about 3 times a year, and both our physical needs aren't being met. We are incredibly in love with one another, and to be honest, she's just really fucking awesome. We love everything about one another, we just hate the distance. (400 miles).
We've decided that if this relationship, which is turning 3 years old soon, is going to work, we need to see each other more often.
Alas, it's extremely difficult as she doesn't drive. I do, but I don't think I'd be allowed over her house as her father is very strict. How can we see each other more? Anyone in an LDR dealt with this sort of thing? How was it resolved?
Do you have an end date in sight for this? Because if not, then your relationship is fucked either way
>>18119114
We don't. I'm 19, she's 17.
>>18119123
Then your relationship is fucked.
How can I find a traditional girl?
We found her Huemac.
>>18119085
Go to church. Volunteer in any religious organisation.
First and foremost: move away from the coast.
Second: live up to the expectations of a traditional man. More muscle than fat, stable employment, tidy appearance.
Everything else comes down to mobility and game.
What European language should you learn after English and German?
INB4 some amerifat says Arabic.
>>18119064
French? Latin?
>>18119064
If you want it easy, dutch.
If you want to learn something new, go for romance languages: french, italian or spanish.
After you learn those, you can learn the others really easily.
>>18119064
Spanish? You decide, no language would hurt.