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I'm gonna try and sum this up as best I can. Basically, I was raped around 8 months ago, and the person who did it was someone I've had a very complicated relationship with for a very long time. We haven't spoken in about 7 months (he cut me off completely) but there's a history there, even though he did so much destructive shit I'm inclined to not want to hurt him back.
Back in January I finally broke and told my mother about it. She insisted it get reported, so we finally called in, and that was that.

Because it's essentally a his-word-against-mine situation, there's next to no chance he'll get charged on anything. (And i'm grateful for that, I'm not sure I'd be able to handle any kind of lengthy court process, I just want it to be over)
But the officer has proposed that I make a report to the college he attends, which could be enough to get him expelled. I know for a fact he's an unhinged + unpredictable person, and so could pose a risk to others.

I feel so guilty. On a rational level I KNOW I shouldn't, but I can't shake the feeling that I'm ruining his life, fucking him over, I don't know. He's caused so much distress for me, for others as well, is there any advice on how I can move past the guilt?
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What were the circumstances?
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>>18121176
Uhhh like 30 minutes of me crying and telling him I really shouldn't and him yelling at me/ undressing me every time i got redressed and me eventually giving up and letting it happen // If that's what you meant/ I had known him since 2014 and we'd been dating on and off but it was very very dysfunctional/ I had just turned 15 when we met and he was in his 20s, so points on me being a fucking jackass I guess

There were always a million red flags
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That seems like something that should have to occur through the legal system in order to be just. You would be taking advantage of a bad system, but that can be fine.

Which would bother you more, him being expelled or him not being expelled? Just attempt that one. Then let it go and just be concerned with your life and where you are, and don't worry about what's happening in distant places.

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okay guys i don't know what to do. i need some advice. first some info on myself: i'm severely disabled (muscular dystrophy) so i'm essentially bedridden. i constantly crave female companionship. whether it be purely emotional/physical. i'd take what I can get at this point. don't know where to go online to find such a thing. i've tried browsing escort services but can't find any that are closeby willing to do outcalls or with any contact info other than phone. (my mother makes my calls due to me physically not being able to use one.) (inb4 how do you use a computer i use a mouse will on-screen keyboard) live in a small aussie town in Queensland. any clue on what I should do? not physically able to kill myself also please someone help me somehow.
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try and kill yourself. it might work and if not you'll get enough drugs that you won't care anymore.
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>>18120992
literally can't my mother has to feed me...
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>>18120986
If you have money, you can make escorts / prostitutes / massagers / whatever you call them to come to your house. Just tell them beforehand what to except.

And since your condition is that bad, why don't tell your mom that you crave female touch? You don't have much to lose anyway.

I would personally try to tell her that you want to try massage preferably from woman's hands.

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Im really inexperienced, as in Ive never had a boyfriend but Im in my thirties

If I get into a relationship Im going to make the mistakes teenagers do and fuck it up and guys my age are used to women who know what theyre doing

Can you guys tell me all the mistakes I should avoid making? I dont have the time to learn by doing them
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All the mistakes? How old are you anyway?
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You won't make those same mistakes because those mistakes are made by dumb teenagers who don't know what they really want. You are an (assumedly) mature adult so your decision making process will undoubtedly be better.

But then again this is coming from a 29 year old male who has never had a girlfriend so what do I know?
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Find Someone Like >>18120919
Make and learn mistakes tgt! No Worries!

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Are you at least somewhat good looking?

I went to a strip club about a week ago and I got to get a dance from one of the younger dancers on that night, it was the usual shit at first but she started letting me grope, kiss and suck on her nipples.

I chalked it up to me being the only guy without gray hairs in the strip club but then she got to talking to me, getting into deep stuff while she rubs her ass and cooch on my dick, The more she talked, the more she made sense.

Some how some way, I asked her if she would believe me if I told her I was a virgin and she told me to shut up, next thing I fucking knew she put her hands on my cheeks and told me Life's a Mirror and if I look into it I'd see that I wouldn't need to come to a place like that to have a woman's attention.

Got 3 free dances out of her, she was talking about life and the universe and all that shit.

Anyways everything she said to me has been haunting me ever since, why is this bother me so much?

>tl'dr a hooker mindfucked me with some life advice and now I can't get her off my mind
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>>18120705
more importantly than your question: why in the fuck would you tell a stripper you're a virgin?
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>>18120709
this
shes not gonna bang you wtf? good for you you got some insight out of it though? not sure what you mean by you cant get her out of your mind, but she doesn't love you or anything just saying. if you just mean the advice is haunting you then who cares. the feeling probably fade in a week or two. sure you'll probably remember it forever but it wont bother you as much in a bit
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>>18120705
the other girls there specialise in fucking certain body parts. She was an expert of fucking minds. It's prostitutes job after all, so I don't really get what upset you.

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I don't want to marry a girl because I have to bear that smell. It's such a turn off for me. There was this girl once I really like, one day she pooped and I happen to walk in right after. Gosh! Smell was so fukin sick!.. I couldn't believe it. Yes I'm kinda germaphobic too.
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>>18120454
Shit happens no pun intended. Just keep dating your designated masturbation hand.
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>>18120454
Tell your girlfriend to drive to a public restroom if she wants to take a shit. DO NOT let her do it while you're in the same building.
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>>18120454
Caught my gf pooping...so I broke up with her
She said shes off to pee while were watching a movie, now shes been gone 5 minutes and i knew something was up, i knocked on the door and asked if everything is ok, she said yes she'll be right out...her voice was labored and i became suspicious...so i yelled "IM COMING IN!' she screamed no but there was no stopping this, i smashed through the door and i see her sitting on the toilet seat, i told her to get the fuk up, she didnt so i threw her off, i looked inside the toilet...just as i suspected, a goddam log, bitch u better pray this isnt yours. i looked around and saw no pet in site, I KNOW THIS IS UR POOP U WHORE, she screamed at me that im crazy and that shes calling the cops, all the while toilet paper in her hands. i told her no need to call the cops, im breaking up with u u some kinda poop whore. and that was that. I feel like a new man and off to find a woman who doesnt poop.

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why does everyone ignore me on facebook? ive had guys call me cute in public sometimes, but i think they might say that to every girl they see. like no one wants to hang out with me when i initiate. i wear clean black skinny jeans, boots, and a sweater. and i have long straight hair.
im just so tired of no one wanting to hang out with me its making me feel suicidal. i would get a dog but theyre like 900 dollars. even professors tell kids in my class to be my friend its so embarassing.
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>>18120196
>no one wants to hang out with me when i initiate
What do you mean? How are you initiating?
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>>18120196
Dogs aren't $900. wtf?
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>>18120204
yeah they are when you buy them from a breeder, if anything 900 is low

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I just had my first time with 2 prostitutes. I'm 23, fat, and fuck ugly. My dad passed away last year and my mind is a wreck right now! The guilt is tearing me apart! I used a condom, but fuck! Please help me clear my head. I'm begging you.
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>he fell for the prostitute meme
and now you can see clearly that you're still a virgin in all the ways that count. you had to pay them for them to give you the time of day.
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>>18119989
there's nothing wrong with buying a helping hand, "sex should be special" is a meme , it can be, but it can also be just a thrill
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>>18119989

Chill vibes

https://youtu.be/9ka5bgHnHyg

/adv, I need help. My girlfriend and I go to different universities, and at her university there are two guys who constantly sexually harass her and have been doing so for well over a year (I only just found out). They haven't actually assaulted her fully (as in rape) yet but I am definitely not okay with what they are doing. She constantly tells them to stop, but at the same time she refuses to report them even though I constantly ask her to. I can't just sit by and let this happen, and it is a huge strain on our relationship (I don't want to break up because there are lots of fantastic things that we have together, this is the only problem). They are also much bigger and stronger than me, and I can't confront them about it on my own. However I know I have to stop them from doing this. How can I put a stop to it? I don't want to do anything criminal (or at least get caught).
(pic related and also fucking hilarious)
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>>18119654
Offer to fight them then spray mace in both their faces
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>>18119654
>she refuses to report them even though I constantly ask her to
Nothing you can legally do about it then.
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>>18119654
>doesn't want to report them
Have you considered that she actually enjoys it?

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>Be Asian guy
>Fantasize about being married to Asian girl daily
>Try to keep busy and productive with hobbies
>See white guys online lusting for Asian girls
>GET SO FUCKING TRIGGERED
>Start coming to my senses...
>I'm bitter, jealous, insecure

How do I stop this? It's driving me crazy.
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do you live in a non-asian country?

if the answer is yes then the obvious solution is to move to an asian one
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>>18119516

Get triggered.
That's the thing that'll save you guys when the jews start trying to erode your people and culture through subversion and diluting.

As for asian girls, yeah, they're really nice and attractive.
But here's the thing; white girls are literally the worst women on the goddamn planet. So white guys, we see a girl who's just nice, doesn't even have to be 10/10. Just feminine and nurturing as a person and we fall head over heels.

Plenty of fish in the sea but we're surrounded by overweight purple haired "my body is a temple" single moms who chased the dads way only to complain about the "deadbeats", piranha-whales.
So yeah, Asian women 100% look better just out of comparison to what we're stuck with.
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>>18119516

Yo, if you wanna talk about this hmu, I know how you feel man

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so settle an argument for me;
today in class a friend of mine and I got into a pretty heated argument about travel and relocation.

it started when we started to talk about our nationalities and home countries. (I'm a exchange student from Nicaragua) and he is a Canadian student from well, Canada.

the argument is, can a first world person like him, survive in a third would country like Nicaragua?
and I mean, live and stay alive.

I live there and ever since the destabilization by the american coup, every single day there is worse than the day before. I still love my country and plan on returning but plan on buying a house out in the jungle side. far away from "modernized" cities like Managua where crime and poverty are the norm.

I my engagement is that even if he spoke perfect Spanish and understood all of the countries etiquettes, he would still fall into crippling depression from 16 hour work days at 20 cents an hour (that's considered decent in Nicaragua) and fall victim to crime and government corruption.
I also told him that someone who has grown up in a first world country and has been accustomed to life in a first world country would be in complete shock within the first 5 days of being there.

he thinks since 3rd world countries have somewhat of a large population even with poverty being 80% of the population in most, he thinks he could adjust and live in a country like that if he needed to.

I don't think someone like him could last more that a week there before being either killed,kidnapped then killed or stave to death from slave wages and not being accustomed to not eating some days.

who's right or wrong? me or him?
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As a comfy first worlder, I'm more than aware I'd be FUCKED if I had to live in a third world shithole. No way.
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>>18119518
that's exactly my hypothesis

he appertly thinks he's bear grills and can "even hack it out in somolia if he was black"
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in my experience, first world babies are fucking idiots who think vacationing in 5 star resorts and attending Full Moon parties makes them worldly and well cultured

that said, some third world countries are definitely better than others, and almost every single one can be an amazing place if you're wealthy enough.

generally i hate engaging in conversation with naive first world babies tho so i understand your frustration OP

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Ladies and gentlemen

I come to you in my time of need. I have been married to my woman for the last 7 years. Over the years she doubled in weight. I feel sadness whenever I look at our old photos, as I realise that my sexy girl turned to a disgusting hambeast.

How can I help her gain her figure back? I've tried being discreet with it and just suggesstin we be more active, I asked to change our diet so "I can lose some pounds", but that failed. I moved on to being blunt and telling her that she's gotten fat and I do not appreciate, to no avail.

I can't stand to look at her even though I still love her. Sex is a chore, she's becoming more lazy with every passing day and I'm out of ideas.

How do I convince her to get back into shape? How do I break it to her, that sex with her is something I resent? Please help

>Pic obv unrelated
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I was literally looking for a way to write a post about my gf and you summed it up perfectly. You try and do it via inception like moves but they laugh it off and continue eating the shit they swear they wll stop eating but keep "forgetting" yet I'm the asshole for remember. God help us for not losing our shit like we know we deserve to.
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can I ask a favor OP

I have a weight gain fetish, to me there's nothing hotter than your predicament. Post some pictures of your wife before during and after her gain. thanks
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stop having sex with her

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How can I make some wholesome new friends?
What should I do to attract women who want serious relationships, as opposed to just sex?
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Girls, what would you think of a guy who doesn't go out on Friday/Saturday nights?
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>>18119199
Depends on what you consider to be 'going out,' why you don't go out and what you do instead

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My gf secretly got an tatoo like this on her wrist. She did not tell me because she knew I do not loke tatoos. Everytime I see this tatoo now I get angry. I do not want to be angry for the rest of my life. Should I end my 3 year lasting relationship?
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That is one of the most innocuous tattoos she could have got. Get over it, and if you can't, break up.
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>>18118828
*like
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>>18118828

Most people will tell you no. In fact, I'm going to tell you no, since it's subtle as fuck. If she went and got a huge sleeve, I'd be with you - I find that unattractive as shit.

But a lot of this depends on what your reasoning is. Is it just that she "betrayed" you? I think if so, get over it. This isn't major.

Is it strongly against your religion? That's more relevant, even though I'm not religious.

Is it just because you think it makes her a slut or is a "red flag" or something? Because that'd be stupid.

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I wanna dump my black gf and see if there are any girls I can meet from other races. as a 18 year old black guy, how do I go about it? which races like blacks?
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>how do i go about it?

Ask out and date girls that aren't black.

>which races like blacks?

You better be fucking kidding.
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>>18118034
I'm talking about 100% chances of success not every girl will say yes. some don't like blacks. some I honestly don't know how to approach and talk to. most of my relationships I just had to be nice to the girl. but I want to learn how to truly a approach one
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> ayy gurl u wan sum fuk?
If shes a degenerate coal burner your in luck and thats all you need to say.

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So I can make 120k a year buying weed for cheap on the darknet.

Should I ?

My cousin is already doing it and he's pretty well off
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Do you have people who you can reliably sell to?
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I don't see why not.
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>>18120534
I know two reliable people that'll net me $300 weekly.

My cousin is willing to give me 3-4 reliable semi-average customers giving me a total of about $600 a week starting.

It's difficult though, under 50 grams of cannabis is not criminal but more than that is a maximum of 14 years.

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