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>>18118846
tl;dr
I have a bad routine, how do I replace it with a good routine?

Start lifting bro.

Start by changing small things at first. Don't try a major overhaul immediately. Are you browsing while still in bed? Get out of bed and make your bed. Something like that to shock your system so to speak. Maybe add other things to your routine to break up the browsing. Something like stretching or pushups in the morning when you wake. I used to be like you but little things like this snowballed into the disciplined person I am today (I literally only browse 4chan while taking a shit. I never browse for more than 10 minutes at a time). I get up, eat, workout, do my course work, and go the class. Breaks with TV or whatever are strewn throughout to keep my sanity and have fun.

Give it a try anon.

>>18118839
Well damn

my suggestion, look into going up to Alaska for the salmon packing jobs during the summer. its some hard work for a shitty 6 weeks, but if you smoke you can find some really solid people up there. plus, if you do find a buddy through this thread, you'll have someone to go with you to Seattle. good luck mang.

>>18118817
>"how do I control my actions?"

I'm also like that, but I sort of recognize it and use it to my advantage. I like being advertised to, but I look real hard at the advertisement and really get critical of it. I sort of raise my expectations that way. Being less emotionally open is hard tho.

>>18118764
Just fuck and enjoy man, don't look for a connection. Let it happen on its own.

It's a game man, at least you're having luck conversing well enough for them to meet with you more than once. Don't take it too personally of they don't want to start a committed relationship with you. Just try to enjoy meeting new women with different personalities and backgrounds and passions.

Go into it with a positive attitude and it will eventually happen.

>>18118916
>Don't take it too personally

This is my struggle. I take it extremely personally. Because when we are on dates or messaging. I'm told they like me, they had a good time, they think i'm cute, funny or attractive.

I start to feel as if they like me more than they actually do and then i feel lied to. I know this is on me.

> Just try to enjoy meeting new women with different personalities

This part i'm actually enjoying.

It'll happen soon. Right now I'm all emotional and shit and I'm sending you a blessing. Sjkiz. Be good to her for me.

go to autism conventions of your interest, if ur a furry go to furrycons, if ur an anime autist go to anime clubs/cons, just go anywhere where people share your interests or your problems, suddenly BOOM things are much better

>>18118803
I'm literally too autistic even for a furry convention.

Get a GF and say its hers. I got a whole shelf of girl clothes in my closet.
I used to keep my guns there... But now I have a girlfriend :(

if you are gay, come out with that, they will figure out, if not just tell them it's because you practice acting, and that's "hardmode" but you did it secretly because its hella weird

I cross dress for jerking off purposes because it makes me feel pretty and helps combat my self esteem issues for the duration.

are you worried that your parents will disown you or some shit? are they hostile to homos or are you just worried that they will think they failed as parents?

https://www.nhk.or.jp/lesson/english/learn/list/
I liked these. These are audio lessons and each lesson has the written script provided. Gave me a good base before I came to Japan. Just Talking though, no reading/writing.

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You watch anime.
LOTS of it

>>18118704
I'll have to try, thanks! And I do watch a lot, but I've only picked up on so much. I'd like to get into writing as well, as that looks harder than speech

Put ice under your eyes.

>>18118648
Not sure, this is always how I look even when I get adequate sleep. Some people like the look. Just embrace it.

>>18119111
Yeah, I pretty much always look like this anyways. Feel like it adds to the 'resting bitchface' syndrom though and I don't really like looking bored/pissed all the time.

You suffer because you have unrealistic expectations

Nature is not good or evil

It merely is

Accept the way the world is and bear it without emotions clouding your mind

>>18118519
>without emotions
HOW?

>>18118535
Become like water j-jedi.

>>18118455
Sorry OP, but it just isn't something people do in modern society to show their affection anymore

Corny is a defence mechanism people use to call things they want to have happen to them but are considered embaressing.

it depends on how well you know him, as well as how seriously you take yourself while you're doing it
if you don't do it very often and wrap serious messages of affection or poetry or shit like that in among more light-hearted wording, the sort of writing style you'd send texts in, that should be ok
obviously the better you know him the better, don't do it if you've only been together a week or some shit

what if ur the guy?
/plot twist

Would you take satisfaction in being at best a security blanket rebound that she'll dump as soon as something more exciting comes along ?

Just forget about her she's not into you, but she's interested in a beta orbiter

>>18118270
>"I'll get to you soon don't worry"
Liking someone isn't some business plan, you dont "get to someone soon" like you have a package you need to have delivered or a payment that needs to be fulfilled. She isn't into you man, sorry.

>>18118258
Pregnancy tests are like 7€.
Go take one before you end up on I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant.

>>18118259
What's the point ? If it's positive I can't abort legally anymore in my country so I might as well kill myself

>>18118269
So you can set up procedures for adoption if it is positive, or see a doctor, or don't give birth in a McDonald's toilet.

It is probably going to be negative, but it's a good idea to keep those things checked.

There is essentially a 99% chance she is fucking around on you.

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If I were you I would bail asap

>>18117273
be worried. I'm 18 and in a similar situation.

There's nothing pathetic about pursuing further education, anon. Just make the education count and use whatever you learn.

Look at it this way: the 26 year old in class looks a lot less out of place than the 52 year old.

>>18121932
>Not doing what you want in life because of what some teens MIGHT think of you
That's pathetic, not your wish to go to college.

>>18121932
It's completely normal. I'm a 20 year old going for a System Administration degree, and a quarter of the class is just 30-40 year old guys that got into the field without a degree who are now going back for one.

Start hanging out outside your inbred family

Move out of special needs care center.

you kill yourself because all great men are dead