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You know how that Beatles song goes?
"When I think of all the times I tried so hard to leave her
She will turn to me and start to cry
And she promises the earth to me and I believe her
After all this time I don't know why"
I love my girlfriend. I think she's very sweet, beautiful, she cares about me a lot... I think?
I think she does. From what she says, how she says it - I can't read minds, but I'm not bad at reading people usually.
I think she cares about me a lot. But
She never shows it. Ever. It just doesn't cross her mind. She can cook for me sometimes, which is very nice, but there is more, something more important to a relationship. When you care about what is inside the person, what they are feeling. She never asks.
Whatever the age now is, how I was brought up, being a man I can't just talk about all my feelings and little troubles. I need her to ask. I can't just tell her to ask me either.
I thought it was natural. I wonder if anything troubles her, I wonder what is on her mind. She never seems to care.
Why did I put that quote in the beginning?
Sometimes it boils over and I tell her what I think. I tell her I am unhappy, I tell her she hurt me, whatever.
And she cries, she swears she will become better person, that she loves me.
And it breaks my heart. It also kills me that I look at her and see that she probably means all those things.
And we stay, and after a while it's as if it never happened. She forgets all about it and enjoys her life. And I'm left to fend for herself.
I love her.
I also don't have many friends or people I like where I live right now. I'm afraid to break her heart. I don't know what I should do
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>>18146911
Why can't you tell her to ask exactly..? Just like how you aren't a mind reader, I am sure she can't read them either.
That means you (both) have to communicate your wants and needs.
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>>18146911
I get what your saying here. Just a thought... Is there anything she could possibly be useing you for? Because it does seem like she's dis interested.
Does she ever snuggle up to you on her own? Out of nowhere? Like without you pulling her in yourself?
When my gf's stop doing this, theres cause for concern.
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>>18146911
No, I don't know that Beatles song. How does it go?
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Is mathematics a meme degree?
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>>18146874
Stem superiority is a meme. Social sciences get a bad wrap and gender studies is not representative of all humanities.
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>>18146874
No its not. But it isnt really worth the effort unless you combine it with IT (best choice) or at least economics
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>>18146891
I plan on combining it with CS. I'm interested in stuff like AI. How would that combination be?
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>hang out with girl
>She tells.me she will tell people I raped her unless I fucked her
>I did
>This was last night
What do I do? How the fuck do I escape this situation? I was (am, I really don't know at this point) close friends with her for a year.
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Dam I wish I had a friend like that
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>>18146854
You should have called the police and filed a report instead of putting all your dna in her cooch, ya dingus.
At least before you had sex with her, you could have filed a report and if she had called rape at the time a kit would have been done that would have proven your innocence.
Now you're pretty much trapped unless you can somehow build evidence that she's blackmailing you into having sex via emails, texts, voicemail etc...
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Voice record her while you say no.
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>Be me
>Be 27, male, 6'4"
>Lanky AF
>Don't handle alcohol well
>Socially awkward, but managed to get girlfriend
>Her birthday was 3 days ago
>I wanted to do something special, but ended up getting drunk instead.
>Got in my Darth Vader outfit 1 hour before she gets home
>didn't put on pants
>put on glow-in-the-dark condom
>drank 2 more beers
>She gets home, I'm on the couch.
>I stand up and look at her.
>I make light-saber noise as I get raging boner
>hfw I say "I am your father, call me daddy"
>mfw she says "Mine's bigger"
>mfw she pulls down pants
>mfw it IS bigger
guys help, what do?
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pic unrelated
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>>18146764
you get raped
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The Force was stronger in her indeed.
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In a bit of a bind.
Long story short my friend who is a hair dresser did my hair a couple of times. I thought it was nice to treat myself. She color removed black and red dye from my hair because I wanted to go blonde. However after thinking about it I decided I want to dye my hair red again.
She told me if I use box hair dye in my hair again she will be upset and "punch me in the face".
Every time I use box dye, it's never extreme change and I've been doing it for so long that it comes out good every time.
Should I feel guilty about doing my hair with box dye?
It's not that I can't afford it, I just find it convenient. I don't mind the results. I also feel like what I choose to do with my hair is my decision.
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Simple enough, box hair dye is going to kill your hair in the long run. The hair product she uses is of a much higher quality and less chances you'll actually put the base of the hair in contact with it. There's a lot more maintenance to do if you don't want to end up bald girl.
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>>18146773
I don't dye it often enough to damage it. I keep it healthy and I eat healthy.
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Well, it's up to you what you want to do with yourself. If you're determined to dye your hair despite the possible consequences of box dye, so be it, no one can or has the right to stop you. You can go to another barber if you wish, too. Don't make it more of an issue than it is :)
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>tinder strategy then
>Sends a bunch of sleazy pickup lines
>petty insults
>Transparent with motivations
>Get laid fairly regularly
>Decide I don't like being a douche, sad for all the girls who might have felt bad
>Ask questions about profile
>Make jokes
>Give compliments
>0%interest.jpg
Is the universe telling me to stop being a fucking beta?
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Women are whores, what else is new?
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>>18146741
>OP has no use other than has a walking dildo
>OP presents self as a walking didlo on a casual sex platform
>OP is used for casual sex via this platform
>OP is still useless other than as a walking dildo, but suddenly starts trying to emulate being a normal human on the casual sex platform
>OP is annoyed when people are not interested in something who's only use was a walking dildo that now won't act like one
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>>18146795
Butthurt femcunt spotted.
Eat shit cunt.
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Hi
So I've been thinking a lot about cutting off a group of friends. I just don't like the vibe they give off and don't feel like I'm making friends for life. There's a lot of bitching but also being nice to each others face. I find this very weird.
I also really love spending time alone, watching videos, reading books, spending time with boyfriend.
Is the best way to cut off people this way? Or distancing slowly. Help. Thanks.
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>>18146732
I myself do the slowly distancing thing, because people can't get as mad.
Unless you feel the relationship you have with them is really shitty or toxic, there's no point to rush it, is there?
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I have a tendency to cut off friends when I feel they've either been toxic or lying. I pretty much break up with them, with a confrontational conversation where I end with wishing them the best, but that we aren't friends anymore because of said reasons. I always thought I was honest and genuine this way, but people don't appreciate this shit. And I got to tell you, in the two cases it happened, I was completely right (one was pulling me in her shit with her constant lies getting me in trouble, and the other was making dead threats to another person in our group). In the end I was the one who wasn't invited to parties, because others didn't want to risk these so called victims being hurt by my presence.
What did I learn? Let it bleed out. Just meet them less, and get out of their drama. Tell them you're busy. Judging by what I hear from you, they might even gossip at some point and cut you off maliciously simply because of this already. But this way you don't close any doors for yourself.
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>>18146752
I think I'll take the slow approach as well. I'm not great wth confrontations, I feel people have strong defenses for things they've done.
I'm glad I have realised it is toxic for me though, usually I'd keep hoping and believing in the best of everyone. This is somewhat weakness as people can take advantage.
Thanks for you tip!
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How do I know when a girl is interested in more than just my body? 2017-03-21 12:32:23 Post No.18146726
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Im quite an attractive guy and I get a lot of compliments for it. Ive been trying to find someone for a long term relationship but everyone i end up hooking up with is too shallow to appreciate my interests. Since I have a large pool to choose from my problem is now that i want to find someone whos interested in me on more than just a visual basis. I met a girl last night and laid her, i found her really interesting but i have no idea if shes intellectually interested in me, as all she wanted to talk about is how pretty i am. Shes my academic superior too, shes a paid researcher from oxford and im just an undergraduate, so i can never match her intellectually, especially in the areas shes an expert in.
So what do you think i should look out for?
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>>18146726
you can start by not responding to the girls that come on to you or spend most of their time inflating your huge ego.
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>>18146726
Just get them pregnant on purpose
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>>18146736
My ego is justified, and im not trying to not date girls who arent attracted to me, im trying to find out when theyre bored of my personality but just hiding it because they dont want to risk passing up on a really attractive guy.
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Is he bullshitting me or not? 2017-03-21 12:17:30 Post No.18146708
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Is he bullshitting me or not?
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So I'm in my first year at university, 19 years old, and I have this guy in my group with whom I've gotten along pretty well up to this point. I figured there was some attraction between us, but it was weird that he never acted on it, given that he's usually a forward person, so I chose to be the one forward in this.
When I asked him out on a date, he said he was flattered, but declined as he wasn't interested in dating anyone at the time. But it was weird, I could see he was clearly glad to spend time with me and didn't shy away from being hugged or kissed (on the cheek) when we greeted each other and once or twice it was kind of obvious he got a boner from it. I figured I could tell him a FWB kind of thing was fine with me, but he declined that as well. I finally decided to ask him what was his reason for this.
Turns out, his folks are kind of racist. He doesn't really give a damn that I'm race-mixed myself and he does find me attractive, but involving himself with me, while he's still dependent on his parents financial support, would be just asking for trouble. He told me if somewhere down the line when he does eventually have his own place and means of supporting himself, I'm still interested in him, that I could ask him again.
I don't know what to feel about this. At the same time, I can understand his caution if his parents would cause him trouble for dating someone outside of their race, but on the other, it's not like I asked him to take me to his home and introduce me to his parents. We're only 19, it's not like we'd get engaged or anything.
In any case, I don't intend to hang around and wait for him, but if he does indeed somewhere down the line do all that and move out, do you think I should give him another shot or should I just forget about it?
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>>18146708
What's your mixed race?
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>>18146711
Dad's French, mom's Korean.
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take not chaps
female mind at work
what do we have here
>a simple no for an ask out
then the rest if her trying to paint the guy good
sunshine
if he really wants to spend time with you
he would have asked you out
he would meet you more often
he wouldnt give a damn about parents, even if he does hed find a way to get closer to you
we do stuff for women we want
i suggest going for guys who show such interest in you
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how do I know if I can pull of a full fringe? I have medium curly hair like her but not as full and long because of damage.
Does face shape matter?
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>>18146649
>>>/fa/
Daily reminder that looks are important but being shallow person is tragedy on it's own.
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curly front fringes... idk, some people can pull 'em off, most cannot.
also, get to fixing the damage if you haven't already.
and yes, face shape really matters with front fringes. if you have a thin face, good idea, because fringe gives illusion of roundness, if you have a more filled out face, don't, bad idea.
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>>18146649
Curly fringes are too 80s to look good on anyone.
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I wasn't too sure whether to post this on here or /mu/ but I thought I'd try here first.
Basically, I want to go to a music festival abroad in June. Problem is none of my friends seem up for going. I don't want to spend the entire week alone, so how the hell do I find/make friends at a festival?
I did go to a city festival abroad last year and succeeded in making friends but this one is a field/camping festival so I imagine it might be quite different.
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>field/camping festival
It will be even easier for you to make friends so
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>>18146651
Will it? But isn't everyone usually already in their own group?
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>>18146653
Yeah, but from my experience these groups are enough drunk and open-minded to meet new people and have fun with
If you don't act like an unbearable squatter there is no reason people rejects you
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Me and gf like doing kinky kinda stuff, but the farthest we've gone is tying each other to my bed. We are trying to be more kinky so what are some more things we can do. Nothing too gross or anything like that. Pic is how we do things usually
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>>18146579
Gags, candlewax.
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MFF threesome
Can't recommend this enough
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>>18146588
We usually do blindfolds and have thought about gags. I bought her one of those fancy bead thongs from amazon and we've talked about buying stuff like whips and that kinda thing
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So me and my GF bought a vibrator and a cock ring too spice things up in the bedroom. Anyhow everything was fun and great until I started to use the vibrator on her.
We had just had sex and tried both things which was really good. Then I sat beside her and started to rub the vibrator on the clit and I suddenly felt like fucking cuck. That my manhood was gone etc, almost disgusted with myself.
The thing is that the vibrator is not big at all and we only use it for the clit. But I can't stop thinking about the feeling I had and why I had it. Because I'm not insecure at all and never have been.
Wtf, how do I cope with it?
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>>18146540
How big's your dink?
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>>18146544
Above average, abt 16 cm. The vibrator is like 10 cm its supposed to be used for the g-spot and clit.
Also she had the happiest face after the orgasm that I have never seen before. I thought I would be happy because I like to please my GF.
It was also me how brought the whole thing up about buying a sex toy. I feel envious too the damn thing, how do I stop doing that?
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It's ridiculous and suprise me that I feel like this...
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My life has been plagued by failures, I barely passed high-school, I dropped out of university due to burnout and I worked a manual labor job that pays poorly, but I scrape by.
I decided to do what I wanted and travel for a few months and get my flying license, paying my way through the years, aspiring for a job as an aviator
I decided to go back to university at 26 to improve my education, I find I'm not as sharp as I was back then,
I am the least educated in my family, I drive an old car, I've never had a girlfriend, I can't afford a home. No airline would look at me due to a lack of education and I'm probably too old to train. I lack direction and don't see a bright future ahead of me, but I do have a variety of skills and fulfilling experiences that I am very proud of and made many amazing friends through my travels.
I think I've had a good run. I've decided that I will not live past 30. I submitted my will to become an organ donor, I bought a van for me to live comfortably in for the next 4 or so years so I can get some distance.
I don't feel depressed or sad, I just feel that my best years are behind me and I have no optimism for what lies ahead.
You've been so reliable to me for all these years /adv/
What guidance can you give me? what places can I visit? what other pursuits can I take? Where can I find purpose?
Thank you in advance.
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You can always get a welding degree and move to an industrial town over seas. Everyone needs a welder, my man. Conversely, you can get in on the ground floor of crypto and start currency trading. Additionally, visit lainchan for an entire board about mobile life in a van. You can make things pretty comfy.
The biggest question is this, tho: what do you desire? What is it that you want to do? Don't think about what your family or society wants. What do you want?
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Also, an idea: small prop plane mechanic. Technical school, focused, pays well, and you can work your way up being a small plane pilot. You can deliver shit in Alaska to remote towns, if you like.
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>My life has been plagued by failures
good
that means you have been trying things
continue failing till you eventually find something interesting enough for you to put your best effort into it, and succeed
you dont have an issue, your future is actually bright, you are full of experiences
you never know what were your best years till your last
stop with this stupid everyone must be millionaire by 30 with a dumb bimbo living in a mansion
just stop
make sure you dont become homeless and continue your journey through life
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Hey /adv/, very quick question: is it worth going to a psychologist to work out some issues without wanting to be medicated?
I have some problems, which i talked about with a friend and he suggested going to a psychologist to get meds but i'm afraid of going on meds because it could fuck me up mentally
>not American
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>>18146518
Why is there always a stigma about taking meds. Do you treat antibiotics the same way? Cough syrup?
It is a way to help treat an illness, that's it
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What kind of symptoms do you have?, not all meds are that bad or sometimes you won´t get secondary effects from them.
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>>18146518
Not all shrinks impose meds on you. In fact most would rather use talking to get you through your problems, and only turn to meds when the patient demands quick fixes.