Can I sue my mom for damages ?
She was a horrible,abusive , alcoholic, manipulative woman
She effectively ruined my life, I'm diagnosed with PTSD and Bipolar. It's not just my head because my brother and sister also have problems directly related to this upbringing
I really just can't function in life and have nothing to build on.
Is there a case?
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>>18151891
Nah. Half of parents did a shit job and there's no recovering financially through courts or anything.
Just focus on educating yourself and trying to reverse any damages on your own.
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dont be such a fucking baby man
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>have nothing to build on
>She effectively ruined my life
>I'm diagnosed with PTSD and Bipolar
okay, well, start there. and begin untangling your Christmas lights
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I have a serious problem, and I can't sleep because of it.
A few months ago I lost my job, my apartment, and basically everyone I had cared about.
The end result was me moving out of state with a friend's mom, in hopes that I would be able to get back on my feet.
It has been a month now and I have made several strides to get ahead, but I am only human, and have not guaranteed a solution yet.
I had applied for a job through a staffing agency, and gone through their hoops to the best of my ability. Today, after filling out some paperwork, they directed me to do a drug screen that I had no idea I was going to have. Needless to say, I was not able to go, even after drinking tons of coffee and water to accelerate the system.
Not being able to provide a sample, the staffing agency was nice enough to let me try again tomorrow, however as with my current transportation situation, causes my friend's mom to take an extended lunch from her job to take me.
I feel like I've let her down, she's visibly upset with me, despite her not wanting to talk to me about it. Is there anything I can do for her to show that I'm trying?
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> friend's mom
Please tell me you called him son; talk out of it, talking with a reasonable person will always come to productive results
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lol'd
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>Is there anything I can do for her to show that I'm trying?
You can succeed, friend. The point of this is you took drugs and were unable to take the drug test so they told you to come back tomorrow. Wouldn't that be the opposite direction of progress?
You want to turn your life around without changing your lifestyle. In any case, you need to find some alternative method to getting to the employment centre or whatever it is. Bus maybe? Taxi? I don't know. The big issue isn't really so much that you're cutting into her work time; moreso that you're taking advantage of it and not really doing anything with it.
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>>18151885
You said you have taken several strides to get ahead. Yet the only thing you mention is going to a staffing agency and filling out their preliminary application and then not providing a urine sample. Why weren't you at that staffing agency within the first couple of days of moving and not a month later?
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i dropped out of community college last year. And i'm not sure if I should go back or not.
I'd be taking on some extra debt, but i'd really like to get a degree for once.
Fuark, if i do this i'm going to have to commit 100%
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Go to a trade school and get an associates in ECONMST. it's electrical construction and maintanence. After two years you can land a Union job with full benefits and 50k statring pay. Set for life
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>>18151869
I'm going for an IT degree. Entry level help desk technicians get 66k in Australia, but it's not about the money. It's just something I really wanted to do but i don't know if i'm actually going to do the work or not
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i hear welding is good. and if u really want money, water welding. big death rate however
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>guy i've talked to like twice asks me to see a movie via text
>i say no, because i'm not all that interested in the movie and i don't really have any money
>fast forward a few hours later
>he still hasn't responded to my text
Did I hurt his feelings? ;_; I mean, if I actually had the money then I'd totally go, considering it's just fun hang with pals, but I don't, and I can't expect him to pay for me. I'm probably just thinking about it too much, but I'm just really bad at saying no, and I'm actually starting to regret it now. I don't want him to think I don't like the idea of hanging out with him ;_;
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>>18151809
yeah you rejected him
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>>18151809
Did you just say "no" or was it more along the lines of "no money at the moment, but I would like to otherwise"?
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>>18151819
I didn't mean it like that ;_; I'm not interested in him in that sort of way, like I said we've only talked like twice, but I still think he's a cool dude.
>>18151822
I said what I said in the op. Said movie wasn't really my type of thing and I didn't really have any money anyways.
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Crosdressing Silk Cosplay for Kinky Purposes 2017-03-23 05:15:19 Post No.18151795
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Crosdressing Silk Cosplay for Kinky Purposes
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As a 22 year old male with a feminine body and feminine face i want to buy breast forms, hip/pads, wig and this Silk Cosplay Suit to crossdress and do lots of dirty things, take lots of dirty photos with a DSLR camera of myself wearing this suit and fill my sexual desires
I want to do webcamming on Chatroullete and similar sites, fool everyone thinking i am a woman when i am just a guy cosplaying. Seeing people fap while looking at me and just feel like an "sexual object" before i get older and be unable to do this, put a buttplug or something inside me too
The red mask of this cosplay hides a little bit my identity, i can still use make up for my eyes and else.
Why silk cosplay?
1. I have a deep fetish for tight suits
2. The red mask gives me the feeling to silence/moan and feel like a submissive
3. Identity is hidden a little bit thanks to the red mask
4. Somehow i have a big fetish/crush with this cosplay
5. I can still see while being partially fully covered
Any psychological meaning of me actually doing this crosdressing?
Any side-effects of me actually doing this? Recording this? Taking photos of this? Editing my photos of this?
Any thoughts about my idea?
Yes, i am serious
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Post pic so we can judge
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>>18151795
Holy shit just go on Craigslist already and find a dick to suck you homo
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How do you guys deal with the inevitable feeling of jealousy when your x is seen someone after 3 months of your break up . i feel so beta right now
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I'm about a year along I felt jealous then I realised I am doing 100x better than both of them combined the funny thing my ex is a year older than me and is shit house at finding work her first job I found for her was at a burger king 2 years down she is still there I work at dominos as a del driver making roughly 500 - 600 a week compared to her 300 and I am about to enter the military hopefully as special forces
Bottom line look at yourself they are below you and will always be remember she is the one missing out on a good and stable future.
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>>18151784
By banging someone else.
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>>18151802
>Bottom line look at yourself they are below you and will always be remember she is the one missing out on a good and stable future.
This is some bullshit right here. You're assuming OP is a stand up person and didn't deserve to be dumped. For all you know, OP is a fucking scumbag who doesn't deserve anyone.
I get your intention and all, but that shit is false more than it's true.
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I did it guys, I got a girl's number. What do I do now?
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There's really no helping you if you think that getting a girl's number is an accomplishment. You're just too inexperienced, something's going to go wrong very quickly and we can't help stop it.
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text her as little as possible until you can hang out with her again.
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getting the number is only the beginning
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Are there any negative effects from viewing pornography psychologically? Are there any benefits from abstaining?
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you can lack sexual arousal and have performance issues with your girlfriend/wife. abstaining usually helps your physical relationship unless youre single
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>>18151772
Viagra relieves this issue.
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>>18151767
As long as you realize porn is manufactured entertainment and not an accurate reflection of reality, I don't think it hurts to enjoy it in the same capacity as you'd enjoy watching an action movie.
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What are my chances with a girl 1 or 2 years older than me.
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How about a guy turning 21 and some girl turning 27
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>>18151744
about the same as with a girl your own age, assuming you aren't still in highschool.
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>>18151744
What a stupid thread.
What answer are you even looking for?
"57%"
There, happy?
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Meningitis from a tick? 2017-03-23 04:46:09 Post No.18151735
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It's been over a year ago since I have been hospitalized for over a week with "aseptic tick borne meningitis". I was having problems even before said infection with joints, vision and memory for example, eye shadows abundant and forgetting in mid sentence and it's a pain in the ass in college. Now I feel like I have constant headaches, my personality is "dead", my neck hurts all the time, always fidgety and anxious nomatter what I do or think, and since hospitalization I have had multiple clean blood panels, clean lyme test (even though diagnosed with llyme wtf?), clean MRI and EMG. I'm going to fucking die and my family calls me a hypochondriac, and people are trying to say I'm mentally ill, what do I do?
I'm always depressed, always anxious nomatter situation which is true I know, and I would get angry for example in class out of nowhere do to such intense introspection on my difficulties. All my joints hurt and I try to be fit, my head tingles, and I go into seemingly dissociative episodes. My infectious disease doctor said that I'm "the mystery man" and proceeds to make it a joke when in reality he made himself look like a cringefest.
Tested for
Epstein Bar
Autism
Lyme (Western Blot and ELISA)
MRI(3 of them)
EMG
Liver
Thyroid
Blood panel
I do Have TMD
He never confirmed Lyme, so what else could it be? And why are people seemingly ignoring my legitimate struggles whether it be doctors or family? I used to have great work ethics, now I run out of energy so fast. I can barely talk to people and when I do it is in fragments.
I might just off myself if I see this rhemutologist coming up and she doesn't find anything.
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1. Don't off yourself pls
2. Go to another doctor, or even try the college health center
Make sure you're drinking enough water, eating enough food, and getting good amounts of all food groups in.
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Well at least the culprit we know was a tick. Those little bastards can carry so many weird diseases. Also if the meningitis was very heavy then it can have a long lasting after effects on your health. I don't believe there is anything you can do but try to stay fit and more importantly try to manage your condition. If doctors tell you you are sick in the mind that is utter bullshit. You had meningitis from a tick and was hospitalized. So specialists should have come up with some sort of plan to manage you to better health afterwards.
Look, I know this sounds really cheesy, but have a look into cannabis oil. There are many cases of people with bad reuma or who live in constant pain and agony who after smoking, or taking the oil they feel they can manage better and get back on track
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>>18151761
Well if it's not my fault who is it? Somebody done goofed somewhere and I want Justice. Hell if it was my fault I would die from the shame already cause atleast I have empathy.
1.Suicide is a blessing at this point if I'm going to be a tinnitus senile person still in my teens
2. I have seen 4 doctors, infectious disease, nerologist, armchair psychiatrist, endocrinologist and FUCKIN BOB ROSS
Everytime I go back to the doctors they don't have my files
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How do I get back into the real world?
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learn an instrument and join a casual band
bass guitar will take you like 1 month
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>>18151726
How do I find a band
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>>18152087
>How do I find a band
learn something first, ok?
you might try a musician forum, craigslist or something like it, school/gym note boards... You basically tell your instrument and that youre looking to form a band, musical genre possibly, then contact info.
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What are some books that will fix my dependency on women?
I need something similar to self help books that will help me become alpha.
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Look up bold and determined on google that will teach you how to be alpha and omega read his shit and take it to heart
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One of his posts
>Priority numero uno should be making money and building a life for yourself. There are 3+ billion women in the world and they are all basically the same. Your soul-mate Kimberly isn't one in a million, at best she is about one in a hundred. She can be replaced and it's not true love that you feel for her it is infatuation. If she wanted you then you would not want her so much but because she does not want you you want her. Make sense? No? Doesn't matter. We want what we don't have or what we can't have, when we have it we don't want it. You don't need a psychology textbook to learn that, just a little Bold and Determined 101.
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How to get into elite college 2017-03-23 04:10:25 Post No.18151668
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How to get into elite college
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Got waitlisted at an ultra-elite college (university of chicago) and its recommended that I write my regional counselor a letter. /adv/, what should i say to suck this person's dick to get into this school? or any other tips. If you have experience please say so.
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U Chicago wants to see something unique. Whatever you do, make sure you take a risk and try to stand out in your letter. Did you have any cooL ECs or experiences?
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>>18151668
Depends, is any family member a mob?
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>>18151668
It might be useful to learn the difference between ITS and IT'S
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>18 (now 19), never had a bf, like being alone
>meet guy Dec of 2015
>end up fucking in his car like 3 weeks later
>he comes home with me that night and never leaves after that, moves in
>he's a suicidal, manipulative, angry asshole
>threatens suicide constantly
>never know if today he's going to like or hate me, have to watch everything I say around him
>5 months of pointless, childish drama he creates, dealing with his constant mood swings
>my mom gets cancer so we move in with her (she's ok)
>things just get worse and my mom fucking hates the guy
>I get pregnant
>treats me extra bad my entire pregnancy, makes me do everything for him and is always making me cry and stressing me out
>baby is 2 months now and he is completely uninterested, calls him annoying, seems to want nothing to do with him, acts like he's a huge nuisance ruining his precious time
>has been an asshole lately because we weren't able to have sex, pressured me into it after 3 weeks which is dangerous but he didn't seem to care
>When I try to end it, he threatens suicide
I'm done with this relationship. We do have fun and get along when he's in a good mood, and I do love him. But the way he treats my son pisses me off to no end and I'm just too tired to deal with him anymore. It's like he's the girl, doing all your typical jealous crazy girlfriend things. He's actually grabbed me a few times and I wouldn't be surprised if hitting comes next. I won't let my son grow up with that. He's six years older than me, yet he's a fucking child.
The other day I thought I had finally done it and we were through. But of course, he starts saying he has nothing left and he's going to kill himself. I don't believe him, I know he's being an attention whore, but even if there's a 1% chance he'd actually do it, I don't want to risk that. I don't know what to do. I've told him several times to go to therapy but he "doesn't believe in that" and refuses. How do I end this without him possibly ending his life?
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Well when it comes down to it you have to decide if your son have a decent childhood is worth more than that stupid asshole's life. The only way you'll be able to get out of this is if you accept that chance, however small, that he'll actually kill himself. Until you do that you're as responsible for whatever harm comes to you or your son as he is.
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>>18151642
Seriously get a better sense of judgement. and get the cops involved so they can put him in a mental institute. See how he likes being suicidal.
And then run and never come back.
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>>18151646
So much this.
Cut this guy out of your life. He sounds like the guy who wont take fuck off for an answer so if necessary get the police involved.
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Happier, lighter attitude 2017-03-23 03:57:08 Post No.18151638
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Happier, lighter attitude
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So I find that not only myself but others around me feel happier and laugh more when I'm drunk. Like I'm not saying I'm depressed or anything but I like being drunk because everything is funnier and I have an amazing time. I don't even need to be smashed even a small buzz is enough to lighten me up I just wonder if I can emulate that drunken feeling of happiness and laughing more at small things into my real life while sober?
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Not really. I'm the same way on pills, it's just a chemical reaction. Be careful, this is a slippery slope.
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>>18151648
Oh and why's that?
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>>18151638
I'm the exact same. Feel like it would be easy to become an alcoholic this way, but I only drink if there is a party or something. I dont think there is a cure for this "condition".
Its hard. I'm just so much more likable when I drink. And I am having so much more fun too. I can barely hold a conversation while sober, but after a couple of beers its like a chain is lifted.