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>>18196437

You just gotta find the ass clit and you're set.

>>18196398
If you do what you love, OP, it won't be work, you'll just love what you do. It all starts there.

Freelance artist here.

You're gonna need to start out with a day job. It sucks, but that's the truth of it. You need to pay off your loans and you need a steady income. Do what you can to get more money for less time, and then use the free time you have to pursue art as a career.

It is possible to make a career based on art, more than it's ever been, but that still doesn't mean it's easy. Most artists still rely on some sort of alternative income to support their work. If you manage to make it enough to live off of your work, then awesome, and start doing that.

But right now you need to keep your options open. Most art is stuff that can be self taught. Practice, learn, look for single courses taught by the artists themselves that teach techniques you're interested in learning.

School is good at giving you structure, but the last thing you need right now is yet more debt. You will need to do the structure yourself. That is hard for some people, but with work and drive you can make it.

Why do you think you have to go to college for that?

There's a shit ton of resources online for free that you can learn in your free time. I was just like you, did stem but wanted industrial design or gane development. Then I lost my job and started trying things my way. I've learned a lot of stuff for 3ds max and Zbrush just from youtube tutorials, and I mean really good tutorials made by professionals. Graphic design is just the same. And when you look for a job in this area, your portfolio is worth much more than your degrees.

>>18196421
You've basically asked THE question that plagues at least half the board, and no anon has been able to answer: How to make friends who aren't parasites.

If this question could be answered successfully, /adv/ would disappear overnight. Hell, a large chunk of the boards would disappear bar the creative ones.

I have the same problem. I've found that the root of it is insecurity. I don't like who I am so I look for validation and happiness in other people. I'm hypersensitive to any signs of rejection or disapproval by those people and it manifests in clingy behavior and unnecessary conflicts due to perceived slights. Unfortunately I don't have an answer for how to change this but if you really examine your behavior and ask yourself some "Why?" questions it might help you get to the root of your own insecurities.

>>18196470
Are you guys chicks or something?

People like to hang out with me and with my gf. I don't think normal people worry about this at all. I'm fun and funny.

Stop thinking "Am I good enough?" and start thinking "Is this person good enough for me?".

You guys are pathetic.

>>18196339

Hey,
I’d like to see you smile again.

We met under dramatic, destructive circumstances. We were lied to about each other drastically, and hurt needlessly.

I want to disconnect from that bitter past, but I don’t entirely want to let you go. I don’t want to associate a beautiful, genuine person with a wicked experience, not when there’s a better way.

For what it’s worth, we were strong, loving people. We were strong enough and loving enough that the machinations of a sociopath and his friend weren’t enough to break whatever connection we had, and their lying wasn’t enough to change who we were.

I don’t want to relive what happened, nor dwell on what was lost. What I want is to let you know that I cared for you more than I’ve said. I valued you as a person more than I valued being in a romantic relationship with you. I still feel that way.

As much as I’d like to explain every misunderstanding and wash away every lie between us, I understand that just isn’t practical. I don’t want to pretend we didn’t genuinely hurt each other.

What I’d like is an open and honest conversation so we can heal the damage done to us, even if it’s just to be able to say goodbye or see you later on good terms.

Our history is, from my perspective, a destructive story, with so many layers, but at its deepest, it’s a love story. No one fell in love, but there’s a difference between being in love, and loving someone. The former is a sensation of joy and comfort and passion and freedom, and the latter is a choice, a willingness to endure a great deal of pain, and grief, and sacrifice, for another’s safety and happiness.

We were strong, loving people, because we chose to be that way.

And I’d like to get to know you, and see you smile again, whenever you’re ready.

It could be fun.

I think that sounds perfect. But given the history between you both, try not to push it past this letter. Give her time to think about it and respond. Take her response with respect even if she is not respectful when she does in fact respond.

>>18196453
Thank you, that's what I needed to hear.

This may be an unhealthy way to look at it, but historically, I've respected her choices and she's flipped all over the place. She doesn't know what she wants or how she feels.

It was dangerous.

>>18196328
Shit degree, sorry m8. Should have studied something they need in the USA

>>18196328
>music management
>good luck
www.indeed.com

>>18196328
What country specifically? Finding a job in your career focus wont be easy. Be prepared to move specifically to look for jobs. You should have a good 30 grand saved up before you come out here.

>>18196297
Holy shit, faggots,
>hello mlady, nice to see you this fine afternoon. There just so happens to be a moving picture playing this evening at the local moving picture theater. I twas winding if perhaps mlady would wish to accompany me as my date.
Just Christ, it's literally just that fucking easy

>>18196322
Going to a movie for a first date seems very lame. You don't even get to talk that much.
And we don't even know each other at all yet, straight-up asking her on a date would seem too sudden.

>>18196297
You approach qtie.
Ask her if she has any plans for the weekend.
Ask her if she would like to go on <insert random socially accepted activity>.
Dont break down in case she denies you.
Dont forget to buy condoms because even cute qties can get perverse a lot once they start trusting you.

Treat her as a person and keep chatting her up and inviting to activities together.

Or you can try beta approach and try to be her friend first. But that is very slow approach.

>>18196285
How the hell do you get a bad grade in Gym? You literally just show up and do what your teacher tells you to do. Are you refusing to participate or something?

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>>18196285
Talk to other students in your and other classes and adress the problem. If a lot of you agree that he rates the students after sympathy rather than effort and performance you can complain to the principals as a collective, maybe even ger some parents involved. Big big trouble for the teacher, we did this shit with our sports teacher because we hated his lessons.
If you don't find people who agree just kiss your teachers ass. Talk to him, get him to like you. Just show some fucking interest, ask him some questions and you're good

>>18196275

Call the police. They'll check it up.

>>18196301

and probably arrest the guy unfairly just because he's the guy and they'll always believe the girl

>>18196305
then he can go over and facefuck her after the cops leave

3 months is long enough. She needs to confront her feelings. She should care enough about the relationship to not let it crumble because of this, and thats where communication comes in.

>>18196245
Why was she looking at your laptop?
Why is she mad because you're looking at porn?
Why can't she talk about it?

It is all fucking ridiculous.

>>18196245
What porn?

>>18196229
>I think more in this girl

Your spanish is showing!

Anyway, whatever you do, don't cheat. Have you talked to your gf about the lack of intimacy? How old is her kid?

>>18196229

I don't think you're a bad guy or anything - I preface with this because my post will sound harsh.
One sure way to ruin a woman and mother as wonderful as you've described is if she lets a man with frivolous feelings into her heart and her family. Leave her now. She's an adult, she'll get over it. She doesn't need a boyfriend. She needs a husband and father for her child.
The fact that you realize what an amazing woman and mother she is isn't enough to qualify you as the love of her life. Anyone can recognize something wonderful when they see it. But you don't sound built for her needs.

>>18196238
>spanish is showing!
>Anyway, whatever you do, don't cheat. Have you talked to your gf about the lack of intimacy? How old is her kid?
10

>>18196170
Make yourself juices?

Some juice called Viloe Aloe? Could help. most supermarkets might have them?

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I assume you don't like your class, either.

Set a clock for 7 am, get up no matter what and drink a glass of water first thing, every morning

Sounds like you need a new doctor. Metoprolol is mainly used for heart palpitations or to prevent further damage after a heart attack.

The breathing does sound like it's anxiety related, since there's no constriction of the throat taking place. A "lack of air" feeling is textbook anxiety symptoms.

However, you might be experiencing anxiety stemming from your other symptoms listed, which are most likely some sort of actual physical issue. When you experience the torso pain, are there any physical signs (redness, bruising) in the vicinity?

>>18196139
you're just fucking fat
and you have fat person problems
lose weight

>>18196293

I was given propranolol for anxiety. Doctors hand out beta blockers if your symptoms are physical because lowering your heart rate can stop the rest happening and they're relatively harmless. I couldn't tolerate them at all though.

At least you've had a girlfriend

>>18196120
Hello. You are just down for a moment.

You study, you are young, you have experienced gf and all that.

Try to adopt some sport and stop evaluating your self wort by attention from qties. In a few years the rules will switch up. Focus on study and if you really want qtie, try some hook up app or aim for ugly girls?

You will be fine.

>>18196145
if it makes you feel any better, I was waaay healthier mentally before her

>>18196149
I don't want a hook-up mate. I want to be held, feel loved and appreciated and be convinced that I'm attractive to someone.

Honestly, I've heard that 'few years" thing all my life. I dread wasting my 20s away only to pick up a 30yo ex-sluts's mental baggage.

>>18196037
just try again brother, as with every addiction it has to be replaced with something else that fills the whole. i'm battling with it myself and i realized i could last the longest without fapping when i did sports such as boxing or biking. it also generally helps if you have some hobby that keeps you from staying at home. but it is a long battle. you probably spendt a lot of time getting used to porn and masturbation so don't beat yourself up when you relapse. try reflecting on why you relapsed instead of judging yourself, that way you can understand the root of your addiction and notice the clues when it's trying to take you over again (:

>>18196037
>porn addiction
Doubt that. If you are bored, try to fill your free time with something else that choking chicken. Gf maybe?

Also trying to stop fapping is impossible as young teen male. Your hormones simply wont let you. Just limit yourself to fap once per day (or week if feel like hero) without porn.

You will be fine. And remember death grip is real, so be gentle with your dick or you may find yourself unable to cum from pussy stimulation.

>>18196037
fapping isn't a problem, porn is.
I am in the same situation, and the thing that made me realize there was a problem is I can't fap without porn anymore. My guess is that you have to learn again to fap just with your imagination, or at least fap to still pictures as a start.

>>18196020
Damn you cheated on your gf with a fatty? You dumb.

Why the fuck would your so called girlfriend believe a fslut instead of you?
Why did she trust in you?
Was your relationship rocky from the start?
You should report the fslut online communities in case??

>>18196060
Are you fcking moron, read it again slowly. He NEVER cheated on her.