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>>18198541
Cuddle with this cat.

>>18198541
Stop reading conspiracy theories

>>18198541
Srsly >>18198574 is right. Just cuddle with it!
Just look at that cute nose and paws. How can one still feel scared if one get to cuddle with such a cute being?

who the fuck faps to anime wtf dude

I'm more concerned you masturbate to drawn pictures of a pokemon game what the fuck, my kid plays that shit.

>>18198529
It's a blue board dude.

>>18198464
why an abstinence ring?

>>18198464
If they just stop talking or leave you alone they don't get that others have different views and honestly aren't worth the time

>>18198464
>"n-no... it's an abstinence ring"
Maybe it's because you're getting weird about it. Own up to it and be proud, not nervous about telling people. I don't wear a ring, but I tell people I'm abstinent in the same way I tell them what school I attended: I just say it and don't make a big deal. The most common reaction I get is "bro are you serious" while laughing, so I just smile back and say yes.

If you're going to commit to something, then commit to it.

Lol, this is a childish idea. I wasted 3 years getting shitty A Levels. I still got a job easy peasy. Now i'm going to uni to study CS.

Suck it up and try your best, there's always apprenticeships as a secondary path to a career, I almost landed a very sweet engineering apprenticeship that would have let me buy a car and move out, but I didn't prepare for the final interview properly. It's not that hard to get a good apprenticeship if you set your mind on it and it's a good fit for you.

Trades pay pretty well nowadays too, electrician apprenticeships are common and not hard to get.

Military is always there, the Army is the #5 top employer in the whole country. Save up your salary and go to uni as a mature student if you have to.

What did you study, what were your original goals, and what the fuck are you going to do with your life in the damn french woods?

>>18198481
I do Physics, Maths and Biology. I have been offered a place at Plymouth University to do Civil Engineering. I'm not overly keen but my parents expect me to do it.

I wish you all the best

Maybe there's a rwm.org in your country... get a trade, they train you and pay you along the way sometimes.


my parents are opposite, they said they'll never kick me out but I want to work anyway... I am sorry, I used to never study either and it never mattered, I was also dyslexic. You may want to sincerely try your best from now on and explain to them you want to do good now, then life will get better

>>18198410
Uhm.... nothing?

>>18198410
>guy
Faggot or rockstar depending on your career

>girllll
Too busy staring at your tits to notice

>>18198416

>>18198415
they won't think I'm married or abstinent?

If I thought this about every girl I saw I'd go crazy lol

There's literally billions of them, why is this one so special to you when you know almost nothing about her?

The little that you do know...you don't think there's thousands of other girls with similar traits IN YOUR AREA?

Stop putting random pussy on a pedestal and make decisive moves before they pass you, be a man, faggot.

What to do now? Move on.

This girl still treated you like a normal person, right? So there you go, there's nothing wrong with you. It's a pain in the ass but people meet new girls all the time.

>>18198411
Yes i know but i came out of a 2 year relationship and i'm super rusty in my game. I feel shitty because i failed to be decisive with my intentions (i used to be).

What should i do now? go to get the checkup done and after the end blatantly say

"Thanks for the checkup, don't mean to be random but you're really cute, did you want to hangout sometime?"

>>18198357
wait, you think you can get Coli from *flour*?

Are you actually literally retarded?

>>18198357
It's actually unsafe to eat raw flour. Treat it as you would any other dangerous uncooked food.

>>18198355

Okay I'm either being killed today or going in for a stay at the mental hospital.

I will check back throughout the day as long as I'm still around but no guarantees.

As one schzio to another, take up and art, exercise and get the fuck into nature
Camp out in Yosemite or some shit
The modern world doesn't work with our types

>>18198355
woah, man
well, the only way to get rid of those ideas is to take the pills. Maybe think of it this way:
-if you are just deluded, your illness will go away and you will be fine again
-if you are actually right and they are out to get you, then you are powerless anyway. So why would you chose to suffer from waiting for your death, when you can take the pills and forget about it and feel fine?

There are no alternatives to the pills as far as I know (well, maybe psychedelics could help, but they just as well could fuck you up a million times worse)

>>18198317
What exactly do you lose by not telling her? Because the way I see it is that by confessing your love their is a positive probability that you end up in a relationship with her, but if you don't confess there is a 0% probability. It seems like by saying something you either gain something or lose nothing, but by not saying anything, you always end up with nothing

>>18198317
Don't tell her you love her. At best, you'll both have warm fuzzies for a minute and she'll still be with her bf, or things will get awkward and she'll have to tell you what you already know. If you really love her, continue to show her through your actions. Also I recommend that you don't spend too much time in 1-on-1 situations with her since it blurs the lines too much imo.

>>18198326
She is in a relationship already. I wouldn't want to put a strain on that or make her feel like she has to choose between us.

This is more about opening up and letting her know she is important to me than trying to get into a relationship with her.

>>18198335
I suppose your right. Good advising Anon.

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What kind of goals?

>>18198307
I had been in love with my ex-economics teacher for the past 3 years and i thought she was interested too, but after talking to her for so long trying to make it work she finally told me "anon, this ain't gonna work". Can't really blame her, it's hard to maintan a relationship with a 7 year age difference. I Really wanted her to be the love of my life.

On the other hand, this week i realized that the scholarship i've been chasing is pretty much impossible for me to achieve at this point since most of the other people that are competing to get it are just straight up superior to me in terms of how smart they are. They're the kind of people that combine talent with dedication and it's hard to top that off when you only have dedication.

Finally,the thing i wanted the most is make a living out of making videogames but browsing thru steam everyday makes me realize more and more how optimistic that sounds. Only very few people manage to make it happen.

I Have rather simplistic life goals, my life is kinda pathetic now that i think about it

>>18198320
> I Really wanted her to be the love of my life.
Yet you're taking it like a champ. You're going to find someone else.
>browsing thru steam everyday makes me realize more and more how optimistic that sounds. Only very few people manage to make it happen.
So what ? Do you want to live a meaningless life ? Blaze your path, anon

Grave of the fireflies is really sad

Nausicaa is really good in my opinion

Also Ponyo is really good if you like really cute happy anime movies

Also the ghibli movie about the raccoons? i forgot what is called its pretty funny lol

>>18198238
oh wait its called Pompoko i think

>>18198238
Thank you very much for responding at first.
What's your opinion on "Castle In The Sky"? Have you watched it?

>>18198202
I'd think neither of them is telling the truth. Probably they felt some chemistry and they didn't stop themselves.

>>18198202
Relationships are about trusting your partner.

Your bf wouldnt be the first guy who cheated her gf and your sister wouldnt be the first girl who tried to destroy someones love by pure jealousy.

But if you are guy, you have this thing called logic. So how do you cheat as a guy? Simple, cheat and never tell about it to your girl. The calls are about him cheating you and 1 second later calling you? Sounds stupid to me.

On the other hand, you sis is typical illogical female. She envy you your bf and probanly tried to seduce him. But he refused and females cant stand rejection from guys. So she probably threatened him that if he wont sex her up, she will tell you. And as he is the man of action, he didnt waited and tried to contact you first.

But if you cant trust your bf in the first place, then what are you waisting time in relationship with him?

T. Guy.

>>18198202
>how the fuck can you tell who's telling the truth?
Where were they? Why were they alone together? Does either have physical proof on their phones, Facebook, etc.?

>>18198162
Get the fuck out.
Pushes turn into punches really quick.
Unless you were assaulting him too and he was defending himself, he really has no right to be shoving you.

>>18198162
You need to wait until things have calmed down, distance yourself and avoid any arguments- even if you live in the same house find a way to "busy yourself" or sleep until his mood has changed.
When he's calm, tell him that you're serious, you will not for being treated that way and absolutely will not be pushed around. If he gets aggressive, find somewhere to go or if it does escalate go outside and call the cops.
You have to stand up for yourself and draw a clear line in the sand, people will treat you however they please unless you make it clear you will not put up with it. If you keep crying wolf about the cops he won't take you seriously, but please use the police as a last ditch effort.

>>18198162
>Then, he is angry towards me again, and said I want to ruin his life and I don't love him.
He's trying to manipulate you. Of course he's in the wrong, so he's attempting to make you feel guilty over his bad behavior. The only time anyone should lay their hands on their partner is out of self-defense.

>Because the push is harmless
He's normalizing the abuse. Right now, the push is harmless, but this also isn't the first time he's done this. Next time, what if you happen to be at the top of some stairs? That could kill you. It's likely that he's going to get so angry that he'll actually hit you.

> I am very disappointed, confuse and angry now, is this really my fault ?
It's normal for those abused to feel this way. This is the type of behavior that keeps those abused tied to their abusers. How in the world could him physically harming you be your fault?

>Am I over reacting ? Do people really think this behaviour is accepted?
No and no. I don't care if the person being abused is male or female, this is deplorable behavior. This man does not love you.

>>18198066
talk about it with her and start looking for new girl, she aint putting out because she feels like she doesn't need to give you more to keep you interested.

>>18198078
Thanks. The thing is, I've talked to her about this many times and laid it on the line to her that this would be a reason for me to break up with her. That was a few weeks ago and it hasn't spawned any change in behavior.
>she feels like she doesn't need to give you more to keep you interested.
This is what I would believe if she wasn't the perfectly good and gentle soul that she is. I'm at my wit's end here.

>penetration doesn't work most of the time
Does she have vaginismus? If you don't know what it is, look it up.

Either way, don't believe the other comment. Sex isn't normally some favor women do for the sake of men. Many women love sex, your girlfriend isn't one of them. Perhaps because she naturally has a very low libido (is she on oral/hormonal birth control? that typically lowers the sex drive as well), perhaps because she has mental and/or physical issues with sex that rewired her from seeing sex as fun and pleasurable to seeing it as an intimate failure to be normal already.

Either way, this isn't some issue that's going to change if you speak magic words to her or try some trick. This is who she is, at least right now, and even if she can and wants to change it will take a lot of time.

maybe you're both bad at sex

>>18198031
That's possible.
Anythinh is possible, really.

I've never had an issue with other women though..

Is it possible to just not be compatible for sex?

>>18198028
You disgust me