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I'm sort of burned out from my experience with girls. I just want to understand why people behave the way they do. My first major relationship lasted four years, and she checked out during the last year, stopped trying, abused my trust and fucked things up. Then the next girl I dated just up and disappeared when it got heavy. The next girl and I that dated told me she wanted to marry me and got scared from how "real" it was, and within two weeks after leaving me and kept telling me unprovoked that she wanted to come back when she was "ready," was with another dude she's been with for like 8 months. I don't get why people are driven to lie, cheat, and abuse, when I'm nothing but honest and genuine with them. Any thoughts here?
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i'm going through the same shit. What can I say? women are fucked up. I'm endlessly mad. We were talking about getting married and I was going to move up there with her. then out of nowhere she fucking blocks me and now since i tried calling her, her mom pulls that "THIS IS HARASSMENT!" card. Stupid fucking idiots. No shit i'm gonna fucking call a thousand times if you fucking block me on everything for now reason. Fuck people. I feel you bro, just try to stay sane. I'm hurt too. Right after she blocked me she added a thousand guys on all of her social media, fuck her. I hate everything.
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>>18199996
>why people behave the way they do.
Not people, anon, women. There's obviously a huge difference.
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Hey man, your story sounds lock, stock, and barrel like mine. I get the feeling you're a few years younger, so here's my advice:
Don't get bitter. Seriously. 4chan will tell you differently, but there are literally millions of decent girls out there. Don't shut yourself off from opportunity because of your fear of getting hurt. I did, for a long time, and now I'm all twisted up and incapable of engaging in relationships with genuinely wonderful women that I've met since.
The absolute bravest thing you can do is leave yourself open. It took me the better half of a decade to realize that shutting yourself off doesn't make you brave, it atrophies you.
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Give me tips on how to flirt with guys.
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>>18199973
Be a woman and exist. Let them do the work and answer them.
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>>18199973
Try it on me, and I'll let you know. Unless you're a faggot
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>>18199982
I get where you're coming from, but as I've come out of my shell over the years, I have come to realize that I quite enjoy being the one that initiates contact. I accumulated a decent amount of friends, but I'd like to start pursuing a lad for myself. Knowing how to playfully flirting seems like a decent skill to let them know I'm open.
>>18200000
You have some admirable repeating digits.
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>Can't shake the feeling that it's possible to be happy in the horrible world around me
>Can't shake the feeling that it's up to me to alter myself to accommodate this reality
Does anyone else feel the same way?
I love the way I am, and I feel it's tragic that I must change.
I'm currently 20 years old, and I've never had a girlfriend.
I don't believe it's a matter of intelligence that I've never had one. It's due to a sick personality. The thing that hurts me the most is the total ignorance I've got in my brain as to what a girlfriend really feels like. I've nothing to go off of. There's no information a stranger can supply me with that can replace learning for myself.
I've no connection to this world outside of my computer monitor. Does anyone know how to change that?
I feel that it'll take a great deal of personal pain to instigate any real change in my brain. Life is ok, but I'm aware it could be better.
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>>18199890
>Does anyone else feel the same way?
It's called being depressed.
>I'm currently 20 years old, and I've never had a girlfriend.
And? You're only, what about 5 years into the game, and you have another 20 before you get out. So you're a bit behind, it's not the end of the world.
>Does anyone know how to change that?
Go outside. Seriously, no snark, go for a walk. Right now. Get up and go do it. Right now. Your first urge is going to be to wait, to check for other responses, to type a response to this, to check twitter or youtube, but don't. Go for a walk. Right now. Go. There's no magic bullet here anon, you just have to change your life. I'm in the process of kicking the internet monkey right now, and the best way is to get other interest outside of the computer. For me, that was martial arts and fitness. For you, it could be any number of things. It's all up to you, just something that will get you out of the house. '
>I feel that it'll take a great deal of personal pain to instigate any real change in my brain.
Yeah, there's always going to be some of that in a time of change, but it'll also feel good as you start to meet more people, try new things, etc.
But seriously, go take a walk. Just a small effort like that can help you kick out of a rut.
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>>18199929
I think people are too quick to brand things depression, but I think you've handed me good advice.
This may sound extreme, but I've never been out on a walk before.
I suppose that's all the more reason to go and take one.
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>>18199983
>I think people are too quick to brand things depression
Sorry, I meant that more as general, bastardized "you're always unhappy" depressed, not clinically depressed.
>I suppose that's all the more reason to go and take one.
DO IT
RIGHT NOW
Don't let yourself rationalize it as something you'll do later, don't wait to see how this thread goes, just put on your shoes and walk out that door. Go for a lap around the block, and while you do it, watch things. Look at the local plants, look at the sky, look at the people, don't just stare at the ground.
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My friend called me a virgin today, and I am not even a virgin. I am pissed. What is it, do I act like a virgin? I don't think so. But I look like a virgin(weak manlet, kid face). I know, people judge you from your looks, ALWAYS. So no matter how many bitches you fuck, if you look beta you will be treated like you. It's very frustrating.
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What are you, 13? Get the fuck over it man.
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I bet you are a virgin.
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>>18199877
I KNOW RIGHT? But I want to feel RESPECTED by someone, is it so much to ask? Respect is something essential in life.
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I got fined $245 for littering, thing is I don't think I did.
I was walking with some friends smoking a cigarette, then I put out the butt on a bin/ashtray.
So this guy comes up to me, not even in uniform but a navy polo and he says he's with the council and demands to see my ID, I say no and he threatens to double the fine.
I'm like "I'm getting a fine? Why?"
Then he started to gaslight me asking if I had a "reasonable" excuse. I said no unaware I was admitting to something and honestly just wanted him to stop talking to me.
He then asks me three times if I was born in the country (I was) and started talking to me like I was an idiot. I said it seemed harsh and asked me for a waening but he just said "Dispute it if you want mate, waste your time"
What the fuck do? This is a lot of money to pay for something I didn't do.
I already filed a dispute saying I felt victimised, but I really don't know what to do here.
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How the fuck do they know who you are if you refused to show ID?
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>>18199838
>this story is not bias, I swear anons.
>you have to agree with me.
Sounds like you are guilty mate.
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>>18199838
They intimidated me into showing it, at this point I was caught off guard and had no idea what was going on. I thought an actual crime had happened.
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So I'm considering seriously taking a plunge into dating eastern European women via international dating sites. And before anyone makes assumptions, I am not a social inept Weeb that diets on Doritos and Pepsi all day, living in my mom's basement. I am a pretty good looking, successful, responsible guy in my mid 30s. I have dated many American women and while I do not have a problem with them overall, I feel like eastern European woman are overall more serious about pulling their weight in a relationship, as well as many of them are absolutely stunning in terms of looks.
So does anyone have experience with any international dating, specifically with E. European girls? Any successes, horror stories, or really anything that might be of use to me before I take the plunge?
Thank in advance
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>I feel like eastern European woman are overall more serious about pulling their weight in a relationship
Yeah, some of them are, but you're not getting them. What kind of women do you think would look for wealthy westerners to "buy" them and support them? Your perfect waifu? No, not by a long shot. You'll be getting the shit ones, the ones who want to do nothing with their life but find a sugar daddy and spend his money.
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>>18199765
The thing is, we have plenty of women like that over here too. I have known many gold diggers, and have dated a few, and it becomes pretty obvious when they want my money more than me; pretty much they act like you are their dream man from the start, and pretty much throw themselves at you without really getting to know you first. I am by no means a millionaire or driving a Bentley, but I make just under 6 figures so I do get these sorts of women occasionally. Wouldn't fly with a Russian or Czech girl either.
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>>18199796
That anon's right though. The girls you want are not the girls who put themselves out there as mail order brides. Mail order brides are girls who have literally nothing to offer but their looks. Their families are poor, often from small, remote villages in Eastern Europe, Asian, wherever, and need money for their families. Often they've been pushed into this by their families in a desperate attempt to get money. These girls are often ones who have been brought up traditionally but yearn to live the way Western women do, and will jump at any opportunity to act like a Western women, including marrying a Western man.
If you want a woman who will 'pull their weight in a relationship,' a mail order bride is literally the opposite of what you want.
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When is it the right time to finally say 'Ilove you' to your girlfriend?
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I usually give it two weeks cause it gets you places faster but if you feel you love her, tell her.
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>>18199687
I found second date usually works well, assuming the date goes well
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>>18199694
two weeks
haha
don't take advice from these ppl
>be me home alone
>invite a girl out that i've been twice on a date with
>she comes over, drink some champagne and make out, i lead her to the bedroom
>we make out i take her clothes off, lick her tits, go down on her and pull her pants down
>she has no panties and she doesn't shave
>stillgotthis.png
>start licking inside of her legs and slowly move to her pussy, make one big lick and almost die
>i can not breathe
>i start licking it by small licks, lick my two fingers and put them inside her
>she is really tight and not wet enough, i don't have lube
>as i push my fingers a little bit deeper she stops me and tells me
>"I've never done this before"
>i say that it's okay and that it's good that she has told me and that i will go slowly
>she is really nervous and when i push my fingers deeper she says that it really hurts
>i slow down but every time i do it again it hurts
>i say we should stop and go back to the living room
>she gets dressed and we just chill and make out until the end of the night, i touch her pussy but dont go in
>she is really disappointed with herself and says that she hopes i'm not mad and that she's really sorry that she made thinks awkward, she was really cute and i said that i'm not mad at all and that i respect her telling me and trusting me
>starts saying that i look like im pro (i'm fucking virgin too bdw) and asked if i had lots of girls
>i say it doesn't matter because right now im with her
>she said that she likes me and repeated a few times that she's sorry that it was awkward for me
what to do guys? i'm seeing her on sunday next time. i know that i need to make her relaxed, make out a lot and eat her out but i can't do it because i just can't breathe in pubic hair senpai. should i buy lube too? appreciate all the tips.
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For a virgin you did 8/10 and made her relax enough for her first time. Don't worry about her not getting wet, some run more than others.
Buy some lube for next time. Personally I use coconut oil or baby oil. Prefer it to actual sex-lube. But don't use oil if you're wearing condoms. They don't mix well and might break down. You could've used saliva, but it was probs good that the evening went as it did.
You don't have to go down on her, unless that's a thing you really want to be doing. You'll get around the hairy problem, idk, I've eating puss all my life, but never a hairy one.
Did she at least tasty good?
Also keep asking questions, I'm bored and got time.
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Tell her to shave. Preferably over Facebook.
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>>18199613
not op but hairy puss is fine and not really weird at all as long as its not out of control and isnt smelly as fuck. op kinda makes it sound like her pussy was stanky though i think.
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how do i get my ex back
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>>18199434
Thats the joke: you dont.
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>>18199445
you'd be a shitty fortune teller. you don't even fake it well
>>18199434
that really depends on the situation. if she's been gone a while and not much attachment is left, then it's going to be hard to get her back - definitely embarrassing and not worth it.
You usually know when you can still get the person back. If you have to ask, that's a bad sign.
Why don't you get a new partner?
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I mean its only been like 2 months since the breakup. I guess is should move on but i cant really control how i feel.
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I have make a nightmare last night. I make a lucid dream where i was penetrated ( i'm a girl ) by something invisible. I moved in my bed, my eyes were open.By instant I saw a monster extremely hirsute on me that maintain me by the neck.
What does this dream mean?
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>>18199420
And I assume that you sleep in a dark room, too?
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yes why ?
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>>18199423
I finally got it.
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I don't like people. At worst, I totally resent them. At best, they annoy me to no end. Obviously there are good and bad aspects about other people, and about ourselves, but I find myself in the disdain and resentment position more often than not.
It probably has a lot to do with how everyone has different values, perspectives, and ways of behaving. I seem to resent people for having ones that are different than mine. I'm always pulling on my hair thinking, "Why did you do/say/think that?! What the fuck?!"
Don't misunderstand - some people are totally brilliant, and everyone I know has some good ideas and relatable perspectives. Maybe I'm stuck focusing on the negative parts instead of the good ones.
Some examples are
>why do you discourage me at every opportunity
>why are you dating down and ruining your own life
>why was it okay for you to put me on the street, family
>why are you emotionally abusive to the opposite sex
>why are you racist
>why are you an active pedophile
>why are you so wounded by the fact that you're overweight, and yet continue to overeat
>why are you completely absurd
>why don't you like to talk about anything of substance
>why do these dive bars have to give us all hearing damage
>why is the potus poorly, artificially tanned
>why won't the potus speak correctly
>why do people fill their existential voids with bullshit religions instead of true curiosity
>why does this product need artificial pricing and shit-tier versions that are made in bumfuck Asia
>why are you glorifying drugs
>why did you pretend to be in love and then try to cuck me
>why did you come into my house and sexually abuse my roommate
>why did you inject silicone into your ass to have a bigger ass
>why are you a bitter classist instead of a happy person
>why don't you sometimes want to kill yourself
>why don't you want to improve yourself and your surroundings
>why do you have six kids and no money to provide them with a future
Is this a problem? Do you have any advice?
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>>18199399
bump
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Sounds like you are an asshole or have asperger's or both.
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>>18199728
alright but do you give advice or just insults
it's /adv/ not /ins/
this is exactly what I'm talking about
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i'm a guy about to turn 19. Just a few weeks ago, on the first day of spring, I got back with a gf that left me five months back to have a short, unsatisfying relationship with a fat nerd (he's 34) (she's almost 21). His dick was perma-limp and way smaller than mine. Plus, we both seemed to hold onto the idea of each other over the whole winter. We've known each other about four years. But this time around, she's being all queer about telling her family we're still in love. It's taking a toll on me. I hate my parent's house. I hate the fact that she works a shitty job and is shit with money and has no goals and is too anxious to be spontaneous.
So, yesterday, I happened to get into some hardcore flirting with this smokin' chick at the eye-doctor. Leigit could just FEEL that kinda burning urge to connect. so many jokes, so much innuendo, even in front of my mother, chick even told them to "say hi" to me for her later on when they picked up the order.
Should I leave my gf for new and exciting things?
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Yes
She left you for a fat older guy
She's not the one
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>>18199262
see man, that's what I'd love to just think, but I'm almost pessimistic in feeling like any other relationship I got in would be just as shitty.
I'm a part-time vagabond, trying to start up bands and travel and get around and do shit, and it's like she just isn't for it, for the GRITTY part of it at least - but who would be? and why is she wasting her time? why am I? are we just going back to what's comfortable?
On another hand, wouldn't something new and shitty be better than something old and shitty?
What about Ozzy and Sharon? Don't tumultuous people just make for inevitably tumultuous relationships?
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Fucking hot
omg
My boyfriend left me for his ex. They discussed getting back together after he left me, but never did.
I remained friends with my ex and he talks to me about how much he still loves his ex girlfriend and how badly she treated him and how manipulative she is.
It drives me insane, I've always been there for him. I feel like every time he cries over her it's like saying " she's so shit but I love her and I could never love you"
I have no idea how to tell him to stop without sounding like I'm not over him.
So today, he mentioned he had a dream about her where they discussed getting back together.
I just told him that I need to speak to him at some point about something semi-related. And he said fine. But I'm not sure how to do this without coming across as " I'm not over you why don't you love me"
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Jesus...read through your post, grow a backbone and realise that you are so much better than this.
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>>18199118
Stop being friends with your ex. What the fuck are you doing?
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>>18199118
1 - Stop talking to people
2 - Become emotionally disconnected
3 - ????????
4 - Profit
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Is getting laid worth the effort?
t. Guy who constantly jerks off and looks at porn
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>>18199081
Yes.
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You basically have to do nothing. Seriously dude.
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If you didn't jerk it to porn all the time you'd be out hunting for real pussy. It's worth it if you have the time and money
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I'm 20 years old and I don't know how to apply make up.
I don't have any friends that could teach me.
I can't do it like they do it in youtube videos.
Why is it so complicated? Who the hell got the stupid idea that girls have to scribble on their face to look good?
I just want to look good. Please help me. Maybe I just suck at finding good tutorials.
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what exactly do you want to do? do you want to go all out or something more toned down and natural?
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>>18199041
More natural. But I can't even do simple eye make up. It looks just stupid
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well all i really do is wear bb cream (way nicer than foundation in my opinion & light) and mascara (black or brown) and sometimes highlighter and blush.
my advice to you is just start off with basics like that bb cream and mascara, and slowly move your way up. you should experiment like see what colors you like, what makes YOU feel good when you look in the mirror and don't worry if it looks "bad" - you are just testing it out.
also if you have pictures of how you want your makeup to look, i can give you a little instruction on how to do it!