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i would go to your doc if i was you.

it may be embracing, but at your age it shouldn't be happening and i think you should get it checked out

Improve your diet even more, you don't lose anything and you gain better health and possibly a better erection. But yeah, you should really go to a doctor.

>>18201235
>would do it 1 or 2 times a day, but last month it was like 4 times the entire month

That's a good thing.

>>18201161
>She's never really masturbated, never really found people extremely attractive
>She's also incredibly sensitive. I can bloody breath on her neck and she'll freak out
How did you end up dating? Why didn't you see this earlier?

>>18201174

I mean, she finds me attractive. It's just she has no fire in her loins, so to speak, for anyone. I didn't know she was this muted when I first met her, I just thought she was chilled out. She has depression and is on SSRIs and has been for years if that means anything.

Emotionally we're great, I've never had a better partner.

Just cheat on her, it's not a big deal, there's plenty of girl who enjoy having sex as much as you do, even nite l more. You shouldn't force her to enjoy it if she lacks the drive. Just be careful not to get caught.

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>>18200970
>"Thank you that's so sweet"
>virgin btw

Is this bait?

>>18200975
What?

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>I'm a virgin btw

We can tell.

I want to compliment you on your bravery, though. Many young dudes are scared shitless of approaching girls, let alone asking for their number.

But lavishing a girl with "you're beautiful" and such is a rookie move, and "thanks you're sweet" is the most un-enthused, yet polite, reply a girl can muster.

My impression is this; it won't happen. I might be wrong, but don't stress about it either way. But you made the first big leap, and that's worth some genuine praise.

I think you're more likely to get warts or herpies than HIV from her, but it is pretty uncommon depending on which contry you live in. I'd get tested ASAP though.

HIV is rare. Like so rare you don't need to worry about catching it unless you are extremely promiscuous or are extremely unlucky. Or are in HIV capitals, i.e. San fran.

Even if you had gay sex with an hiv infected person I think it's less than 1 percent odds of catching it. Like that low.

I had unprotected sex with 3 girls in Baton Rouge, HIV/AIDS capital of the US and tested negative. I guess that's some stats to work with.

lead him to believe you're just part of another psychotic break and he'll wake up tomorrow getting injected with antipsychotics

>>18200450
Unknowingly dose him with lsd

>>18200520
Terrible fucking idea. Trying to send him back?

Your friends are retarded. If you don't act like an equal in a relationship, don't be surprised when the guy doesn't treat you like an equal.

Your friends are indeed retarded. The simple point is everyone wants to feel valued and appreciated for their time and energy invested into a relationship. Especially when it involves a sacrifice of some sort. What is important is to allow someone else to invest and not minimize them. It is all relative also like one person mightesrn 5$ per minute while the other makes 10$ perhour. So a fancy dinner might be less than an investment than someone else's pbj picnic. It is about making the effort to recognize these nuances and appreciate the relative value over objective value.

>>18200435

That's a poor approach. While there's something to be said in letting someone do something nice for you (i.e. if I would like to take you to a nice dinner, or surprise you with flowers, please accept them and don't yell at me about things being equal or something), a man giving away his shit on the regular is a bad thing. "Expecting" guys to give you gifts is different than graciously accepting them.

I'll throw an example out here of how to go about it the wrong way. My ex-girlfriend was pretty much fresh out of college, and didn't have much in terms of spare cash to throw around, whereas I didn't have any college debt and was a few years into work, so I could afford to spend a little bit of money. I personally like eating out, and I would take us to reasonably nice dinners - and always foot the bill. I knew they were out of her range. She'd vehemently refuse most of the time and tell me she can take care of herself and that I don't owe her anything and then we'd end up stuck in a situation where I couldn't go where I wanted to eat, because "eating nice" in her budget basically meant going to Olive Garden. I enjoyed spending the money because I felt it was enriching to our relationship, she stubbornly refused it, wouldn't budge, and it was part of why we broke up.

Just be willing to accept nice things, don't expect them, and retain your independence because a lot of guys love that kind of thing.

>>18200418
Break up with your boyfriend.

>>18200423

No can do, he's amazing beyond belief. He's brilliant, he's hilarious, he's loving, he's responsible, and he's a beast in bed. We've been together for 5 years and I'm not going to dump him just because his friends are dicks.

If your boyfriend isn't defending you, then why are you still dating him?

Male or female?

>>18200359

You've had more dicks than birthday cakes.

Yes it's too much.
It's also average, these days, sad.

>That's too much, isn't it?
To some people, obviously.

But it's not like you can do anything about it, so why worry? If you don't like that part of you, be more selective about who you sleep with from now on. If you don't care, then keep on not caring.

All this thread is going to do is start arguments, including guys posting those graphs about bullshit like how likely people are to be in marriages by sexual partner count and whatnot

Girls (or Guys?)

What would you do if your SO has Radical views? (IE Anarchist or other Rad Leftist?)

>>18200361

Avoid them because radical normall = dogmatic.

I disdain dogmatism.

>>18200361
I wouldn't be dating them in the first place...?

Pussy.

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>>18200201
It's fucking simple

What you did to make her say yes is what you will need to make her happy. Take her our, pet her, buy her stuff (if the money starts going off then leave her the fuck alone), hug her

>>18200201
Just be yourself and be confident! If she doesn't like that than she's not worth your interests. Also, the clit is two steps above the vagina, one step above the urethra, and looks like a button above the v(labia minora.). The clit is the female penis, but much smaller, and waaayyyy more sensitive. Just look at a medical illustration outer female anatomy. I'm sure you'll be fine.

Living the dream, what's there to fix?

You do realize a majority of the world would kill for downtime when they aren't preoccupied with not starving, not being persecuted, and avoiding homelessness

>>18200168
So you're saying I should put myself in a state where I'm starving, being persecuted or avoiding homelessness?

My life is boring. I don't like living a boring life, and people don't like being friends with people living a boring life.

>>18200172
No, but consider those who are and see if you can help them. Seriously ask yourself if there's any way you can help your community. Volunteer at a hospital/shelter/church and then you won't run out of things to do in the meantime

Start your own company or something

>>18200127
I've actually considered this, and joining the military just to feel 'alive.'

>>18200125

we live in an age where you don't actually have to live by those rules. those rules exist for people who enjoy the luxury of a longer life, watching movies and fine dining. if you don't want to have to make money, or get married, or save up for retirement, you don't have to.

but the reason its so popular is the alternative isn't 'fun', and in an age where you can chase happiness of most any kind, going out there adn surviving off of what you can scrounge up in the wild isn't ideal.

also
>marry

this meme is dying fast. were at the beginning of a new era where marriage is gonna be more of a lifestyle choice rather than an expected norm

>>18200112

paperwork, taxes.

>>18200135
I know that. I've run my own business before. Focusing on the porn aspect of it. It seems so close to being prostitution which is illegal in most states.

>>18200165

which is why you should do the paperwork, as it will make sure its not legally prostitution.

dont get mad just because there isn't magical advice that doesn't already exist, particularly on a board that isn't going to be frequented by people who have their own porn sites.

You take pictures of yourself, try to make yourself look interesting/social/etc. Then you write a profile that says how great you are. Then you swipe right on every woman.

Or you just decide to follow >>18189275 and lie about everything.

>>18200827
>Then you swipe right on every woman
I've had Tinder for about a week, and I've basically only swiping right on girls I think I have some common ground with. Am I really doing it that wrong?

>>18200864
It depends on how fast you want date anon. To maximize number of dates, you swipe EVERYTHING what moves and is unable to outrun you or climb tree.

But if you are looking for one qtie per long period of time, you will eventually score anyway.

What kind of advice would you like?

We can't fix your girl. We can possibly make you feel better, but that comes with possibly making you feel worse, or angry. We can tell you to break up with her (most on /adv/ will do,) or we can try and tell you what to do to re-establish a healthy balance in the future with this girl.

But I for one am always reluctant, since most people don't really see the point in doing much else than discussing and arguing. Are you willing to do some research on your own, if we lead you in the right direction? Can you give us some context, please?
Age of both of yous, and how long you've been dating.

youve been there for me for at least 4 years boys, please

>>18200087
2 years, 19yo point me, ill research, theres one thing for accepting and experiencing grief as it comes but holy fuck