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Help, I'm on the opposite bus as my gf and some black dude is trying to get her number what should I do?

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So I met this girl from tinder and she seemed to be really into me, using hearts a stuff in texts but then last weekend I got sick and had to cancel on her (was going to be 4th date) and now she seems way less interested in me.
We are in crunch time with exams and everything but she isnt texting back as much and I'm not sure where we stand anymore.

tl;dr Went on 3 dates with new girl in a week, got sick and couldn't hang out and now it seems like she's not into me.

What should I do?

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Hey /adv/, how can I get a job? I applied online at a bunch of fast food places but I didn't get any responses. No car so I'm afraid it'll have to be within walking distance as I live in a shit rural town. I'm taking online college courses for now, I intend on moving on campus once I've saved up enough money.
Literally anything will do, though. I just need to work. I'm a skinny, socially anxious, autistic, 5'6 white guy so take that as you will

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"Friends" signed a new lease to live with other guys without telling me. Now I have to go back to living with my parents at home for now. Are they really my friends? Did that behind my back and told me about it the day they signed. All they said was were sorry were not living with you but we had to take it like wtf atleast let me fucking know. Btw these were who i thought were close friends. Both from first year of college with one of them being a "friends" since elementary school. Really thought we were boys but i guess not right?

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Got a blazer I ordered online. I generally find it hard to find a blazer that fits me normally the arms are too long.

Arm length great, body length great, fit around stomach super tight...

Should I return it or just never button it up, then it looks fine.

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Hey guys, let me summarize

>gf get unpaid internship at PR company for her college credit
>she does good, boss offers to make her work more and pay her for only 20 hrs out of the 32 hrs
>umm ok
>she does this for a couple weeks
>i look up labor laws, it straight up says that if youre doing a paid internship, federal law requires that you be paid for your goods and services, ie she should get paid for every hour that she worked (shes actually bringing in clients for the company)
>she talked to her boss yesterday, told her her academic credit hours are complete, asked if she could start getting paid for the hours that shes working
>her boss says shell check her budget and let her know
>now its today
>my gf is still working for nothing basically
>boss hasnt said anything
>im telling my gf that not only is she workig for nothing right now, but her employer owes her backpay for all those unpaid hours
>because her agreement to pay 20/32 hours was never legal
>gf is too shy and timid to say anything

What should I do guys? My gf is deathly afraid of conflict but i dont think she should just let her boss exploit her like this. I was thinkingn to send an email to her boss but thats weird. Advice?

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So my crush asked my help for her project i said ok. We were looking at some books and i said "well these wouldnt do, do you remember that book maybe we can get a good information from there"

She said "yea ok i'll send that to you tonight via message"

She still didnt send me. should i text her first ? If i should what should i start with ?

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>Be me high schooler (18 BTW)
>Crush on this girl in Physics class
>We have similar interest, we're both weebs/geeks, vidya and we both like to draw
>she complimented my hair three times and started touching it out of nowhere
>she complimented my watch twice
>I'm pretty good looking, can dress decently and I can hold interesting conversations
>she isn't stuck up, she's very shy and probably scared of her own shadow

Does she like me back or do girls just act playful like this to everyone?

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My dad has always been an angry man, often taking his frustrations out on my mother.

Recently, however, the way he's been speaking to my brother is fucking terrible. Nothing physical, but just really nasty, angry stuff at him to the point of tears and more.

Whenever I bring it up to him, intervene, he goes nuts, threatens to fight, etc.

How to deal? The urge not to bounce a pint glass across is his face some days is becoming too much.

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Been thinking about writing here for some time now, and i feel like i should do it
tl;dr at the bottom, i feel like mostly spouting my thoughts now

For almost a year now, i can nearly only have negative thoughts, For example:
>wanting to kick people who slow me down when im walking
>wanting to trip people who are too focused on their phone
>wanting to smack phones out of people taking selfies
>wanting to slam brakes on the highway if someone tailgates me
>wanting to kill myself on many occasions, but only to annoy others

Im not suicidal or anything, and im not a ''bad'' person, at least i feel
I try to do good and just work at my lame office job (Temp contract expires next month)
That job has taken the motivation out of me(managers wanting to be managers, taking claim of your work as always), and i feel like thats part to blame

The thoughts usually come when im out of breath, which is very often (im severly allergic to dust, medicine dont work)
i just go insane in my head grasping for air which is blocked due to my allergy (basicly, my nose produces too much slime, clogging me up and the slime is so thick that i cant get it to move)

i never fought or hurt anyone in my life, im a real pussy to be honest
i follow the rules and do my boring taxes, rarely speed in traffic etc

The only thing i am is extremly blunt, which has hurt some people's feelings (jokes that cross boundries, critizing someone's work, etc)

>tl:dr
Everytime my allergy acts up (which is 10+ times a day) i feel agitated and can only think negatively
This has been going on or a long time and i feel like its getting to me

Is this wrong?, am i going insane?

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This might sound stupid, but I think my family(especially my Mother) is a bit "hard" on me.

So the thing is, It's been 5 years since my father died, and from that time my mother and sister have been using me as a "punching bag" and takes all the rage and anger on me even if I had nothing to do with the problem. I often get yelled at for nothing at least 3 times a week, and one of them will beat me once a week. (yes, I do count). For example if my mother and my sister gets in to a "fight" with each other, they will afterward come to me and say that I was the problem, beat the shit out of me and I'll go crying myself to sleep. Then that happends I overthink over what happend, and that maybe they were right about that I am useless and I should just kill myself so that I won't get in their way.

My problem is that I don't know if I should seek help or not.. sorry for the long post and sorry if my english is bad...

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>19 years old
>freshman year college
>getting kick out of home in a few days
>given 7000 $ and told to gtfo and never come back (long story)
>dont want to drop out of school
>live in a pretty expensive area. Rent is fierce.

How do I manage that shit? Last thing i want is dropping out of college.gotta somehow find a job and fund myself through college

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Thought that maybe this deserved it's own thread.

I'm going to have to see my aunt and possibly cousins tomorrow, after over a year of not seeing them, because of a row I had with her which ended up with her basically accusing me of being a pedophile due to me spending a lot of time with my cousins and staying in touch with them.

That accusation pretty much put an end to any contact I had with her or my cousins but unfortunately, she, and maybe even my cousins as well, will attend a family gathering I too will partake in tomorrow.

I am in no way, ready to see her, given that I am still angry and bitter about her accusations. I don't know what to even say to her. I'm even less prepared to meet my cousins, given that I haven't seen them in over a year, and according to my aunt, I my company had made them anxious and she basically implied that I had molested them (I had not of course.)
I don't know what the girls think of me, given that I basically cut contact with my aunt and her entire family due to those accusations, so I am completely in the dark. I don't know what I can say to them if they ask me why I haven't visited them or kept in touch with them, or why I cut all contact so abruptly. I dunno if my aunt has told them anything.

I don't know what to do. I can sorta handle having to face my aunt, but I don't know if I can face my cousins and lie to their faces about the reasons I haven't kept in touch (it's not like I can go "Well, your mom thought I was gonna rape you and said that I was no longer welcome at your household").

Pls help.

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How do I find out positive things about myself?

I have always had chronically low self esteem and it's something I want to fix. But I don't know how to look at myself somewhat objectively and find out positive qualities

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So, in a few hours my job will be to sit in playground area inside a restaurant and look after the visitor's kids, making sure that no ''accidents'' happen.
I dislike dealing with children, so I usually avoid them.
Is there anyone with experience in this area? Any golden tips for dealing with little faggots?