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Been dating a woman that's 36 years old, for about two years. I'm 44 myself so she's a bit younger than me. We are having a great relationship so far.
She have two kids from before with the same guy.
Here's the problem. Her daughter, that's 14 years old, have been sending me a few pictures that i'll explain as "sexually explicit".
I have tried to text- and talk to her (the daughter) about the pictures, and asked her to stop; and been trying to explain to her why (both that she's underage, and that it's not appropriate in general). But she keeps sending the pictures.
So. What to /adv/ advice me to do? Do i keep trying to talk to the daughter to stop, or do i tell the mother (my GF/Woman)? Or do i talk to her father (he's an OK guy).
I really need her to stop. And i really want the relationship to continue because she (the mother) is absolutely the greatest woman i have met in my life.
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Post all the pictures, so we can make a better judgement.
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Why is she sending the pictures in the first place?
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>>18204249
Maybe she just wants you to accept her. Daddy issues. Blah blah. Have you even bothered to bring it up with the mother?
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I have never experienced what I feel right now before 2017-04-09 04:40:00 Post No.18204232
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I have, for the first time in my life, fallen in love. At least I think this is what love is.
Regardless, I've only met her online.I've talked to her for quite a long time now. I have no clue whether she feels the same way. She is the kindest, most caring person I've met in my life, hands down. I've never felt this way about anyone before, not even close, and I'm fucking 20. For that reason, I cannot figure out if she's flirting when we speak. There are numerous occasions where I compliment her, she always compliments back in her very kind, caring manner. I've seen her act somewhat similar in other forms of media to other people, but cannot tell if they're different. I think she acts different around me, but at the same time it could just be me seeing what I want to see. Hypothetically, if she MAY have the same feelings towards me, how should I go about pursuing this? I don't want to lose this. I've never felt this way in my life.
Sorry for the cliche "help with girls pls" post. I would refrain but I genuinely have nobody to go to for this.
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>>18204232
>What is love?
>Baby don't hurt me
>Don't hurt me no more
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>>18204256
Now I'm in a dilemma and also have a song stuck on my head
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Hmu op. https:// discord gg /PQ73F
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The rollercoaster that is my life keeps getting more interesting. I have heart issues and recently found out I have a problematic cyst behind my uterus that needs to be surgically removed. Its made my sex life pretty rocky and my anxiety about my upcoming heart surgery has me in manic moods, going from snot nosed sobbing to laughing my head off at the drop of a hat.
This morning my bf asked me if I'd like to, Or be ok with adding another lady or shemale to the bedroom. I tried to be as accepting as possible about it but in the back of my head its driving me crazy that it feels like my boyfriend doesn't enjoy my company anymore and is looking for other options. My emotional turmoil with my health may be blowing things out of proportion but what should I do?
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>>18204205
>my anxiety about my upcoming heart surgery has me in manic moods, going from snot nosed sobbing to laughing my head off at the drop of a hat.
Interesting. I had this AFTER my heart surgery. But I'm a guy so who knows.
As for the solution I feel like what you're going through is perfectly normal. Accept these feelings. Learn to forgive yourself. And if you feel like you don't want threesome you should tell him that. Be honest. You can also tell him the upcoming surgery stresses you and you need more time to think.
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>>18204205
what a piece of fucking shit to spring this degeneracy on you while you're going through this
you don't have to accept this, he would most likely flip the fuck out if you suggested a man
i'd say a firm NO. and if he doesn't like it the porn addicted freak can go bang trannies all by his fucking lonesome
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>>18204205
Wow. That's fucked.
You could try being honest with him about it all, but maybe you're afraid he won't want to support you. In that case he probably doesn't have much of a spine.
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I'm an overly jealous fuck 2017-04-09 04:24:05 Post No.18204201
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My girlfriend has recently taken to going out with friends. I know there's no problem with that but I can't help but always feel jealous when she does. We're currently in a long distance relationship so advices like "just go with her friends" doesn't apply. I feel like she's slowly slipping away. I did bring it up with her and she does understand my plight but she explained that her life shouldn't just revolve around me which is true. The problem is, I don't know what to do any more with my jealousy. It's starting to take a toll on our relationship. I know I'm giving her a hard time and there are times when I just want to end it all. I'm so frustrated at myself and I don't want to burden her anymore. I have other things in life currently going on for me which is probably why I'm being pretty clingy to her, because she's my leaning shoulder. Someone I used to lean on. But now when I talk to her, she often reply long after I message because she's either playing games with her friends or going out. Or, she'd be too tired from work so she can't do either of that but then she can't really talk to me much as well because she'd be sleeping most of the time. While I do understand her circumstances and why things are happening, I can't help but feel jealousy, to the point where I just want to die so I don't have to feel all these combined misery from what's happening in my life to what's happening between us two.
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>>18204201
Dude feeling jealous at times is natural, however you're making her your emotional tampon. Women want u to be their emotional tampon not the other way around. At this point you're coming off as really unattractive and needy. You dont climb back up after that.
The only real way to salvage yourself at this point is to go off on a kill her with kindness thing like: "hey this just isn't working i need to not do this" or the real kicker "it's not you it's me" the latter will really get to her since she's being the shitty one. Pretense it with something your style and the plausible deniability that she uses on u. (Like you said; things are getting busy. But like make it seem it's not her fault)
Because lemme tell you something, she really doesn't care about u and no prior time or gifts matter to her in the moment. Here's the shittier part: she's gonna fucking hurt you, grind your heart up, chew it and spit it out.
I know you don't want trouble or get revenge etc. But for the sake of your own sanity you really should follow in these steps and quit the LDR asap. Besides long term wise, it's just bad for the both of you.
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>>18204370
I'm gonna have to add on this OP's argument. If you lean your shoulder on someone who is long distance that only hurts the both of you. It's not the same as being able to spill out in front of a person who is in front of you. Just prepare to move on and find someone who lives close to you. I guarantee you will prefer a relationship in which you can actually meet the person with relative ease and create memories.
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Well shit, I'm not ready to break up with her
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SELF CONSCIENCE ABOUT MY ARMS
HOW GET BIGGER ARMS
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>>/fit/
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Do pullups and dips EVERYDAY. Build that yoke son.
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>>18204259
Literally 7 days a week with no rest?
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>Lost V-card last night
>Started crying right after
Fuck me, are my chances ruined? I'm a guy btw.
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Ya, and she's gonna tell all the girls she knows, so you should probably move to the town over
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Legit question: Why do some guys cry after losing virginity?
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>>18204197
Because they realize some disgusting succubus has stolen their only chance at wizard powers.
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Anyone here here make money off youtube? What kind of content do you make and how'd you go about doing it?
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>making money off YouTube
The ship has sailed on this. Unless you're a beloved Buzzfeed employee who has started their personal channel, you're not going to be successful.
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>>18204189
I'm not interested in being overly successful or some retarded youtuber. Just to make a bit of extra money.
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>>18204180
Get a job you lazy faggot, no one wants to hear you mumble to yourself about politics
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please help me out anons i've been feeling on the brink of losing my mind and need some reassurance, any comfy videos or music or advice or whatever makes you feel good would be helpful thanks
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I usually think "Does what I'm thinking really makes sense?" If the answer is a "probably not" Then I try to take a walk, do some exercises, play video games, whatever doesn't fill your mind with new information, but still keeps it busy.
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>>18204155
this is definitely a logical and somewhat simple approach on dealing with this and it's what i usually tend to do, but the problem is my anxiety has some ocd-like symptoms sometimes (like today rip) and will repeat the same fear/negative thought over and over regardless of how many times i try to reassure myself it's completely idiotic and or unlikely to happen
maybe i need to try out more distractions like the ones you listed and really focus most of my mind on them, thank you for your advice anon
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>>18204171
Taking a walk might help
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Long story short, My girlfriend has been having libido problems for the past couple of weeks, we still have had sex a few times but I felt like she was only doing it so I wouldn't complain. Today I asked what was up and she burst into tears and told me she was sexually assaulted by a relative when she was 8. She told me how when she's single it doesn't affect her but when she's in a relationship it's tears her apart, we've been going out for a year or so and this is the first I've heard of it and I don't really know how to react. She's perfectly sane doesn't have any personality disorders or anything nuts but she's incredibly timid and conservative when it comes to sex and now I know why. What can I do to help her?
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Drop her like the baggage-filled psycho she is.
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>>18204134
Shut up you fucking virgin.
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>>18204135
>asking virgins for relationship advice
Fucking retard
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do normies not like it when you relate a story back to yourself? 2017-04-09 03:17:08 Post No.18204105
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do normies not like it when you relate a story back to yourself?
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when someone tells me something, sometimes I give an example of when I was in that situation to show I understand them and to enrich and broaden the conversation
but I just heard that's bad apparently?
like what the fuck do I do otherwise? just fucking interview them? let the conversation die?
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Normies only want to talk about themselves. If you interrupt their monologue by talking about yourself its considered "rude". What they expect is that you sit there for half an hour and listen to their life story and ask leading questions so they can continue blathering.
Want my opinion? Become a hermit.
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>>18204127
where do I make my leading questions go to if I don't want anything from them
(other than friendship)
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>>18204137
They just want you to ask them questions about the things they're saying. If your friend is telling you a long winded story about his trip to Paris, he wants you to ask shit like what the weather was like, whered you stay, what did you see, that kind of bullshit. They just want to have permission to continue hogging the conversation.
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Long story short, I'm a dude who hasn't gotten laid in about 6 months. Been very busy with college and work, felt shitty after last breakup, started following the election too much, got way too into games, etc. I've been jerking off too long. Lately I've been feeling so horny I know my head is gonna fucking burst if I don't get some ass. Any ass.
Met some ugly ass girl on Tinder. I'm just being honest, the girl is not good looking. Very skinnyfat, nerdy looking, straight up hideous face with a pointy nose, lame fashion sense, acts like she hasn't had a guy flirt with her in months. I'd rate her a solid 3, 4 if I'm feeling generous and 5 if I was absolutely wasted.
I'm just being real. I need to fuck anybody at all, I don't mind if she's a practice chick. Any sage words for pump and dumping an ugly ass girl you just want to use for a while? I don't mind fucking her for a while, and she's obviously ready to go and thinks I'm above her league. I just don't want to make her feel too bad when I inevitably dump her for a nicer looking chick. Also tips on sex positions where I can completely ignore her face?
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Dude, if it's that bad you might wanna see a doctor. Seriously, that sounds unhealthy >.>
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>>18204077
>that bad
I just want to have sex. I'm a young man. How is this unhealthy?
Almost every guy has fucked some girls he's not proud of. It's just a fact.
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>>18204072
Cool story OP. I'm one of those 25 year olds who hasn't seen action even once. If I was you I wouldn't sleep with a girl I didn't want to. Granted I will never get laid with a woman I'm attracted to, I would rather die unfucked than be with someone on the basis of settling (because I would know they are just settling for me as well). Keep your standards up, and keep looking.
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I'll give you guys the skinny.
Marriage has died. Been dead for about a year now, but for some reason we're both still together. I have been doing literally everything possible for my wife that she has asked me to change for her, and showing her progress and everything. She's had major trust issues in the past so I give her 24/7 100% access to my phone and everything in it because I have nothing to hide. We have a daughter together and she has a son from a previous relationship.
Basically for the past year our relationship has been deteoriating. I have never raised my hand or my voice at her, but our fights have been getting worse and worse, and while I calmly talk to her she is screaming st the top of her lungs. Recently she began hitting me, and I know how much damage I could do if I hit back so I do whatever I can to keep her off of me without hurting her.
I love my daughter more than life itself, and she is the only reason I have not divorced because I don't want to get fucked over by the courts and see my child who I love and have raised on my own because my wife is sleeping whenever she is home and after I get off work and on my days off both my daughter and her son are my responsibility.
I am miserable and depressed and I feel bad for my wife because she has major issues going on and I know if by some miracle I won full custody of our daughter she would kill herself because of her mental instability, and I don't want my daughter going through that.
My wife gave me a black eye on her most recent fight and it took everything I had not to hit back. I can't keep this up.
Everyone I talk to says to sit her down and talk to her, but every time I try she plays the victim and gets mad at me and blames me.
My daughter is my whole world, and I am doing my best to shield her from all of this, but I know if I left I would feel better but my daughter would be left to the mercy of a mentally unstable woman and I am afraid of every outcome. I don't know what to do.
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I realize it seems scattered, it's just hard to formulate into thoughts. I don't have anyone to talk to because she won't let me have any friends, male or female. I've done my best to compromise but I just can't take this anymore.
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Have you ever tried to get her to see a psychologist? If she has issues they can be treated
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If you think asking about a psychologist is too much try marriage counselling, and have that lead in to seeing a psychologist. Hell, start seeing one yourself. it will probably help
how do I stop being socially inept?
like...I have a few friends but I have problems meeting new people. The friends I have now are from highschool...not that that's necessarily a bad thing, they're great dudes and my best friends but they're able to go somewhere and meet people whereas I'm not.
For example, friend A: moved to China for work after he completed uni. Awesome, stoked for him. He's got a group of people that he hangs out with over there. They take trips and go get drunk and all that cool stuff.
Friend B: works in the culinary industry. Seems to meet new people all the time, not just through work either. He still lives in our hometown but he's made more friends since we've lived there.
Friend C: moved to another city for some extra school after uni. Meets new people through school obviously.
Now me: currently in school, have not made any more friends. Luckily I'm living with someone I knew from back home or else I'd be worried I'd never have any social contact. I find it very hard to talk to people in group situations like in class. Even when I go out somewhere with roommate, like if he takes me out to a party or something I usually end up hanging out with him most of the night.
I just...I donno, I'm kind of at a loss as to how to improve. Like, the previously mentioned friends I have seem to like me. They include me in plans (getting together over the summer for example) and put it an effort to keep communication with me, so I must be doing something right with those dudes.
For what it's worth I'm 25 and in a college program where most people are around that age. Why do I find it so hard to meet new people now?
any advice here? anyone else been in a similar situation? it feels like I once had the ability to meet and bond with people but have lost it.
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>>18203849
So what exactly are you asking here? Because you ask how to be less socially inept, but most of the details you relate make it sound like you want to meet new people.
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>>18203849
Because of a lot of neurological reasons many people will make friends in high school with certain ease. Even if they were anti-social or shy before this kind of age. But this thing only lasts till 18 years average. You may have had trouble to befriend someone when you were a child and may have thought when you made friends in High School that you woulds easily make friends from that point on, but sorry, it won't happen.
It will be difficult to make friends again at this age, but not impossible, you just have to tune in to the needs and modus operandi of people at this age. You will have to care more about first impressions, you will have to be less nonchalant, you will have to think of these new friendships in a business way, since that's what everyone are thinking in this age.
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bumping because same situation
>18 yr old grill
>not ugly or anything
>used to be model for abercrombie
>attractive but literal social autism
>one friend
>all we do is smoke and watch anime together
>she's moving away in august, so am i
>have had boyfriends before but the one i really liked ended up having schizophrenia
>nobody to talk to besides parents
>parents even make fun of me and my depression by calling me lazy and shit
>still going to local college with decent grades
>no friends, drink frequently on weekends to avoid pain of genetic depression and isolation
i don't know what the fuck to do. i have such a specific odd personality that is only compatible with a small amount of people. if i continue at this rate i'll hang myself within 3 years. i'm so fucking stupid it hurts
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Recently turned 19 at the end of March. My first year of university ends in less than 2 months and i'm a dateless, kissless virgin.
Every girl I've ever confessed to has turned me down "you're such a good friend ect..". Doesnt help that my 3 closest friends from highschool have all been laid.
Confessed to a friend like 3 weeks ago and got rejected; normally I would just say the next one and slowly move on But this time it's different. I've now lost any hope of getting a girlfriend, need some advice bros
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Stop;.
Watching.
Fucking.
Anime.
Jesus Christ
Do you even know what the word "confess"in English?
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>>18203821
I've actually grown tired of anime anon
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>But this time it's different.
Bullshit
>I've now lost any hope of getting a girlfriend,
Bullshit
You're still a fucking teenager my dude, get your head right and work on yourself.
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Hey anons I have a kind of problem
>Have a girlfriend
>6 years relationship
>Don't care so much for her
>Still committed because we get along fine
>I like the sex and physical contact
>Meet a girl
>Online shit
>I enjoy her greatly, our convos are bliss, I like her a lot
>I feel like I'm being unfair to my gf
>Thinking of speaking my mind
Should I?... How of an asshole am I?
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You date people cause you love them, stick with them because you like who they are and want them around. If you are breaking up because of the lack of love and have considered it this far, then how much do you enjoy whats specific to her that you wont get with the new girl?
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>>18203807
>online shit
You're breaking up because you're bored, because a relationship means you have to deal with the good and the bad.
The new girl seems interesting because you only get to deal with the easy stuff. You're not there for the day to day normalcy, just whenever you want to reach out to each other.
And if you got with this online girl, it'd be the same thing all over again - be happy for a while, get bored, start looking for someone else to liven things up, the cycle repeats.
Do whatever you're going to do anyway because you aren't going to listen to advice or pay attention, you're just here to have someone tell you "you should break up with your girlfriend."
So go ahead, do it. Cheat on her, then break up with her, then hurt the next girl you're with, and continue to be part of the cycle of people hurting each other and fucking each other up so that the next person who comes along has to work that much harder to make things right.
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>>18203822
Specific? Well she lives nearby, the new girl is mainly an online thing but made me realize that I really don't care so much for my irl gf if I prefer to talk constantly with someone else.
I've always had the feeling that my gf is more like a friend with benefits than a gf, desu.
We don't talk so much, I don't get so engaged in conversation with her, she's always doing her things and I my own.