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>>18250814
Two years together with you and she is still up this guys ass and can't move on? Find someone that is not attached to another guy. You are also right she could have been honest with you and shared her grief instead of constant conversation with him crying about what if.

>>18250814

You are doing the right thing in walking away

If she has these secrets for you, it just means she has more secrets, and she is just making up a sob story to convince you to stay until SHE decides to end the relationship

Break up, move out, it's the logical choice

Like the above poster said, sounds weird someone would start a new relationship and be with a person for 2 years while still having feelings for the ex
I'd say confront her about this exact fact and if she gives a shit excuse, leave

having your arms folded the entire time isn't really a good sign OP

Arms crossed only matters sometimes. She could have been cold. You really need to look out for what direction her feet were pointing and eye contact.

>>18250811
Having your arms folded the entire time means im so fucking bored and pissed at you
dont even try calling her back

t.grill

why would you do something THAT stupid?

>>18250790
you dumb fuck, don't do that.

>>18250797
>>18250803
really dont need this

i just donnt gove a fuck if it doesn't concern me directly. why
should i? if i start this shit then it is a bottomless pit that will make you suicidal in the end.

You need to accept that the universe doesn't give a fuck about itself
If you really want to you can do some volunteering to help rape victims or what have you, I'm sure your town/city has some associations for that

1. I can't help it.
2. I have my own problems.
3. The people around me depwnd on me to be of sound mind so that I can provide for them.
4. Life's a bitch but I deal with it.
5. Feeling sorry for someone doesn't make their situation better. If it bothers you that much go out and do something to support a cause that you believe in. Donate to child cancer research once a month. Go volunteer at a soup kitchen or an animal shelter. If you're not going to do anything to negate some of the negativity that you see in the world you lose your right to bitch about any of it in the first place. Quit being a whiny little baby and go be a contributing member of society.

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Bit.Trip Beat is a real solid rhythm game that plays like pong. The soundtrack is great and has nice visuals. Finding it can be a chore though.

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Gurk a a very simple RPG that is just GAME. No story, no quests, just gameplay. Plus, this game should take up no more than 300kb.

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Delver is a "2.5d" rogue-like dungeon crawler with permadeath. It's actually really fun with lots of weapons, enemies, and hidden passages. Only thing that brings it down is that, at least for me, it kills my battery faster than having on the flashlight. Other than that great game.

Truth, of fluffed up truth, is usually better on things that mandate honesty like taxes and job applications and shit like that.

Sounds normie enough to me.
Just make sure to also make up a selection of colleges and degrees she would like to enroll in.

sounds exactly like you're lying out of your ass.

I get it. Those girls usually look hotter with their "fuck the world"-but-not-edgy attitude.
You just need to realize that's your dick talking. Your dick has good taste desu but at the end of the day it's your brain who owns you, not your dick. Be smart.

>>18250772
>You just need to realize that's your dick talking
I'm not even sure if it's just physical beauty either. Granted, since their family is mostly rich they obviously have beautiful features but it's also a combination of that and the fact that they just have way less anxiety. It's as if they're allowed to be carefree about material things cause their daddy will take care of anything that might happen.
In their company i sometimes feel like a neurotic mess

>>18250864
The dick can be smarter than what we give it credit for. Sometimes the dick isn't interested in physical beauty, but instead gets turned on by certain attitudes and behaviors that might reveal certain ways of acting in bed.
The kind of girl you're describing is a common fetish for many men for a reason.

List as many of your expenses as you can think of.

$14/hr should add up to just under $2k a month after taxes.

Rent 540
Cellphone 85
Dog food 80
Internet 30
Crédit card 50
Loan 200
Food 240
Gas about 120
Insurance 60

I think that's about it.

Yeah monthly is about 2100


Thank you for your help

Try to get sex off her.

Be a good guy and keep it for yourself.

>>18250643
You happened to be a character in a dream she had, and dreams mean nothing (despite what Freud thought)

you have serious intimacy issues. i'm a bit similar with that but i have made it a point to throw myself into cold water and learn, learn, learn from the moment i had my first relationship. i still get mildly claustrophobic (28 now and in a relationship since 1,5y) and i need to kick my own ass to communicate properly plus i need loads of alone time. but it is possible.
do you have any idea what makes you so scared of intimacy?

>>18250584
My boyfriend is like you. Attractive, successful, charming, narcissistic, full of himself, a bit of a cunt. Never had a relationship, had a thousand girls begging for his cock, had a thousand flings, never had a serious relationship or actually loved anybody.
Then we met. Been together for 2 years now, going strong.

It really just takes the right person, and a fair share of maturing.

>>18250596
Yeah you're probably right. I have no idea where its started, as long as I can remember I have always loved talking to girls, the initial attraction and then the physical stuff. But as soon as the girl drops her guard and starts wanting to talk all the time, I get the impression that shes too clingy. Its really annoying and immature but there's nothing I can do.

>>18250549
If you're physically attractive it helps. If you're constantly complaining about your insecurities a female will find you problematic. Females like strong men, a guy who keeps his composure, silent and mysterious; women don't flock to cry babies and insecure guys. What woman would want to pass on those genetics? Fake it til you make it, OP. And when you find yourself a qt with mental problems you can resonate with, show her empathy and sympathize with her issues but don't gush over them and talk about yours, instead help her and overcome the issues together thus helping you in dealing with your own internal warfare. Good luck.

>>18250566

That's not exactly what I meant.

Ok, so let's say a Guy has depression. He meets a girl. The girl likes him. How can HE continue into a relationship if he's depressed af? Regardless of what she wants, how can he do it?

I had a cute girl ask me out last autumn. You know what I told her? "No.. I can't, sorry". Because I didn't feel deserving of her time, and I'm sure there is a better dude down the line anyways. That is my depression at work.

In my experience, so long as you're physically attractive, have disposable income, and live in a populated area, there are women who will put up with just about any mental flaws of yours.

>>18250530
relax, you are just 24, there will be lots of chances for you to meet a nice girl in the future. continue to go to gym, and try to talk with girls, If you meet the girl you like, show her that you have the interest to her first. There are also lots of good girls looking for men, so cheer up and never give up. Hope this can help you

>>18250530
It blows my mind every day that women know guys like this exist and that they have the power to save them and improve their lives 1000% and yet they do nothing. It's like they don't give a shit about anyone and don't care about doing good things that would help people.

>>18250530
I was a hugless Kissless Virgin until I was 23 years and 5 months old.

I met my BF on the Internet and after 9 of dating online I flew to his city to meeting him and lost my KHV.

He eventually left me for his ex.

Since I went my whole life without a BF, I thought " well that's it. No one will be willing to date me ever again"

I downloaded tinder and there was a lot of interest. I realised that guys actually find me attractive. I met up with guys, has a few kisses but never slept with anyone else ( and that's my own fault for being hung up on my first ex but that's a different story)

So my advice, put yourself out there, you'll be surprised. Now go download tinder.

>>18250529
This is a really wild, off-the-wall thought, but perhaps she is broke and has to wait until payday.

I don't understand how one thing has to do with the other honestly
I think it's just a shit excuse, I'd say never talk to her again

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>>18250764

No, you are not. Actually when you tried to kill yourself twice in your teens (same as me) that's a sign that your parents have done a shitty job and you owe them nothing. Being parents is not an initial positive, only if your parents do a better job than one could expect gratitude is justified. And if they do worse, then they have no right to complain even if you decide not to live any longer.

>>18250508
>>18250495
I agree with this anon, but death isn't worth it

>>18250508
This. If your parents raised you into someone who wants to kill yourself then they deserve to feel like shit when you actually do it.

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>>18250491
Make more money.

Second job. Home business. Passive income streams. Sell some shit.

It didnt get that bad but my wife n i had similar struggles and it started tearing us up a bit. Then i started making thousands a week. All better.

Im not saying gi make thousands a week. Im saying you need more money, find ways to get it. Look for a higher paying job, ask for a raise at work, make something at home and sell it, whatever.

>>18250491
Maybe turn all the money responsibility
over to her. That's how we do it. I do resent sometimes having to be the one in charge, but my autist husband simply cannot be financially responsible, nor can he seem to give a shit about whether bills are paid on time, or indeed at all. It's incomprehensible to me, but then, so are a lot of things about him. I tell him how much he can spend a week and let him know when big expenses are paid for, but never consult him about payments due or even about what we owe. He doesn't really seem to care. When I met him he was a financial mess, although I didn't find that out until After we got married. The thing that makes me feel most distance from him is his inability to communicate about certain things, not having to help him deal with the world. I can deal with that. Now if only I could figure out why he never instigates sex.