Hey /adv/ 28 year old male in good health, a little underweight but otherwise all is good. I went in for a checkup and my physician recommended I take super b complex. He said take 3 a day.
It's been only two weeks and my libido has gone through the ROOF. Most days I'm jerking 4-5 times a day, at work too. My partner isn't sure how to feel about this because I'm ready to go but I'm not satiated after we finish. I've also noticed it takes me considerably longer to orgasm.
Anyone have a similar experience with water soluble vitamins? I want to call my doctor because I'm concerned BUT on the other hand my partner is loving my newfound libido and thinks I should just take 1 pill a day so I'm not suffering at work.
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Call him before reducing the amount of pills you take.
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>>18269870
Yeah, that's the best course of action. Thanks and sorry for crapping up /adv/ with my slow brains.
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>>18269900
It's fine
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Going to a nightclub for a friend's friend's birthday.
How do I drop the autism and try to talk to people?
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>>18269779
>nightclub
the dance floor will be too loud to talk
but in the bar area... tell your friends that you see someone and you're going to talk to them. If your friends aren't shit, they'll give you advice on the spot or they'll tell you how they would approach.
Or just dance and have fun. don't overthink anything.
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mingle with people in the birthday group, since youll have a common connection. then talk to others in the club if necessary. make sure to dance a few times
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>>18269825
Yeah I'm def planning on dancing at least
Im only friends with one of these people, and they're all 5 girls apart from one other guy.
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I dated my ex for 6 years.
We had a very happy relationship. He is my definition of ideal man in each and every aspect.
We had to break up because he doesn't want kids and I do.
We broke up 2 years ago. We both cannot move on and neither of us has dated successfully since.
He had some flings, I went on some dates, but nothing ever developed in a relationship. I never managed to have sex since, he's my first and only.
We reach for each other sometimes (when his mother died, when my dad was in hospital, when he was in hospital, a couple of times when we were drunk), but we don't generally talk.
How do I bring myself to move on when he's everything I want and I cannot meet a man who is as good as him?
Should I compromise on my values to be with him?
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>>18269721
>We had to break up because he doesn't want kids and I do.
Stop being a selfish retard.
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>>18269721
Do you legitimately believe that being with him, along with the happiness it brings you, is worth not having children?
And have you found out why? Maybe we would consider adoption or something.
Also what is your age? He might change over time.
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>>18269734
Dont act like that was selfish of her. Thats her life, thats her dreams. She wants kids it isnt shameful. I do think she should have worked through it not just intantly break up though.
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Greetings. My grandpa is pooping with blood but there is no pain. He has been doing so for the last 11 days. He says he has absolutely no pain at all. Do you guys know what this can be? What should I give him to stop the Bleeding?
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His stool is soft.
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Hospital. NOW. GI bleeds are medical emergencies.
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>>18269713
You can't be real. Hospital or call ambulance.
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Here's the situation, /adv/. This might be long but I'd greatly appreciate anyone who reads the whole thing and gives me feedback.
I'm a 25 year old guy who's working a pretty OK full-time job at a hospital. Decent pay, great benefits; that's about the extent of the positives. I've been in this line of work (sterilizing surgical instruments) for a few years. I'm very unfulfilled and bored. This shit is the same thing every day.
Since I was about 18-20 I've been pondering military service, specifically the Army. The one thing that really attracts me is the idea of being a medic. Something that working in the medical field has taught me is that earning your living by directly helping people is rewarding. I want to do good in the world. I figure that no matter the politics of whatever any upcoming wars may be, being a medic is a great way of doing good in the world. The focus is on saving lives instead of taking lives. I want to help people; even if Trump gets us into a dumbass senseless war I will be able to help people.
This is something that I've had an interest in for several years. My main concern is my family, mostly my parents. Almost immediately after I turned 18 a whirlwind of family drama started which I've been dealing with either directly or indirectly ever since. It started with my mom finding out my dad had been having MULTIPLE affairs for many years, which snowballed into a bunch of drama including huge family fights, our family home burning down, the resulting financial troubles, etc. It got so bad that I had to move back home to be keep an eye on my mom who was living alone in a rented trailer while our house was being rebuilt and my dad was living elsewhere looking for work. At one point we had to contact a suicide hotline on her behalf because of an emotional breakdown. This is just the gist of it all. I haven't talked to my sister in about 3 years. She's cut everybody off as a result of all the drama.
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For one, I want an escape. As I said, I'm bored and unfulfilled. I want to get away from everybody's bullshit. I want an escape from the mundane day-to-day, I want to get in shape, and I want to do something positive in the world. I'm just concerned because every time I bring this up with my parents (who are miraculously still together due to financial necessity) my mom sounds like she's going to have another breakdown. After everything my family has been through, I'm afraid that doing this will just be another weight on everybody's minds. Will joining the military be a selfish thing for me to do? Will it put so much strain on them that it would be stupid for me to do so? I want to break out of my rut in a positive way, but I can't decide whether or not this would be fair to my family. Please, I need some feedback.
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>>18269700
Your sister's the smart one in the family huh?
>>18269701
If they'd get freaked out over you joining the military, be a paramedic, nurse or doctor instead. You don't need the military to get in shape, escape the day-to-day grind or do something positive in the world.
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>>18269712
>Your sister's the smart one in the family huh?
I just don't know sometimes. There's moments where I see her point of view, but at other times it pisses me off that she just abandoned everybody.
>If they'd get freaked out over you joining the military, be a paramedic, nurse or doctor instead. You don't need the military to get in shape, escape the day-to-day grind or do something positive in the world.
These are my most recent thoughts, but I just can't seem to get the military out of my mind for some reason.
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Hi guys, I need some kind of pills to feel better to relax, i dont really know much between xanax, but what do you recommend to make me forget about the emptiness even for a bit. Thanks in advance
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you're going down a dangerous and self destructive path
eventually the emptiness will be all you know
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>>18269680
Trying just to forget for a bit...all the other methods havent worked...
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Try benzodiazepine. Works great.
Is it a bad quality or trait to have to be very dismissive of people? Even close friends of mine, if they do something that pisses me off, or i feel they are attacking my inner character, I drop them quickly and smoothly even if we have been friends for 5-6 years etc. Is this wrong?
I notice, whenever someone says something bad about me, i generally completely turn on them from being a nice good friend to being someone you do not want to be friends with. You could argue that my personality changes with how I am treated by someone, and I shun them from my life nomatter who they are.
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Yeah, of course. Are you perfect? Do people dismiss you every time you make a mistake?
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Because you know your fucked and they're unfolding that. We use speech to form our ideas in a way that makes sense. You're scared someone's gonna find out who you really are.
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>>18269639
With mistake I meant things that piss people off
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How can i get a date with Victoria Justice?
You guys think the old "how many retweets" thing could work here?
Anon needs your advice guys
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>>18269585
You can't.
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>the old "how many retweets" thing
What is that?
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>>18269632
Someone tweets a celeb or business for stuff. An example of this is some guy tweeted Wendy's saying "how many retweets for a year's supply of chicken nuggets?" They replied saying 18 million. Loads of celebs supported him and he now has about 2.9mil
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I just don't know how to live. I always feel really bored and like I have nothing to do. For example, today is saturday. What do I have planned? Nothing. I am going to lay around the house and sleep off and on again. What's tomorrow? Sunday. What will I do? Same thing.
So what is a weekend like in your life? Basically, I am just trying to figure out what is that peopkevwith "a life" do on the weekend?
Also, where do you particularly go to meet new women or people? Take me through a weekend in your life.
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>>18269537
>new women or people
Kek.
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>>18269540
You know what's funny. I almost never want to meet new dudes. I pretty much only care about meeting new women. Not sure why. It's probably because I am desperate.
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>>18269548
Probably but that lowers your chance for any meaningful interaction, making it all pointless.
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Wife wants me to bring another woman home
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My wife has been hinting for a year that she wants to try a threesome with another woman. She's suggested one of her best friends but also one my professional associates. I've always known she was curious about women, but now she's really into it. She works it into our sex life already with verbalization of me fucking another woman while she watches, me impregnating another woman, or taking a second wife, etc.
I feel like this would be a fantasy for most guys, but it also makes me feel uncomfortable. What's going on ?
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Why are men so into family stuff?
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>>18269526
Threesome has the biggest potential to destroy relationship in terms of fetishes.
All parties pretends that it is just sex, but sooner or later one sees it as cheating or gets dangerous emotions for the person he is supposted to not or somebody will find out he has different orientation.
But hey, if you are already bored in your marriage and your kids are 15+ (or no kids yet), go ahead. In the worst case you will divorce and be free man once again.
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>>18269561
Agreed. She doesn't seem to understand that people are binary in relationships, polyamory doesn't seem to be wired into our brains.
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I behaved like I don't love my gf.
She had an exam coming up and I tried not to bother her so she can study.
She took it as if I just see her as a friend, but that's not true.
After an argument, I gave her space, since she told me, angrily, "see you on the weekend".
It's been a few days and she tells me she hasn't got time (we always meet).
She acts really hurt.
What do I do?
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>>18269525
Be glad this ended when it did. Don't force something that isn't meant to be between two people. Then get /fit/ and become the statue of David. Make that bitch realize she was holding you back.
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>>18269539
We had a break literally a year ago. I was a big neet fag. Since then I got a job and improved my life pretty well. Got /fit/ and lost weight. She saw me as a new person.
I feel so crushed. This is the girl I had my first kiss with. I don't want it to end
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This can go two ways next time you meet up.
First: she dumps you. If this is the case, give her a few weeks of no contact. She will come back if she wants to be with you, if not, then you have to move on. You can't force someone into wanting to be with you.
Second: Next time you see her she is still acting hurt, but doesn't break up with you, you have to give her a bit of what she wants. Take her out somewhere, doesn't need to even be fancy. Just take some time to show her you care, if you do.
Something else you might want to try is just popping in on her when she isn't expecting it. Go bring her some fries or a shake or something for no reason.
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I have felt awful inside for almost a year now because before I met my now wife, i used to go on chatrandom and jack off with other guys just because I could, and I've done it a few times throughout our relationship and never thought anything of it
When we did start talking about marriage I stopped and only then started feeling bad about it
Should I tell her
She's said before she doesn't want to know things if they change nothing and are only to make me feel better, but she also has said before she doesn't think anyone should live a lie
And that's what it feels like
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sounds harmless to me. why is it such a big deal to you? its not like youre legitimately gay or anything, right?
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>>18269477
No I'm not
I just feel awful about it
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>>18269477
I just really don't know what to do
My head hurts all day and it's never off of my mind
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The other week I found out that my dad had been watching porn on my computer. It's on the emd of my bed so he was probably fucking sat there masturbating where I sleep.
I left it unlocked so a game could play by itself and got home to find anomalies before checking the history, I feel betrayed and angry.
My question is how would ypu feel and is it logical to be super pissed?
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Had that happen too. I didn't say anything since i was too young to argue. I just set up a password bro
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>>18269353
>i left it unlocked so a game could run
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>>18269418
You know you can lock a computer and everything will continue to run, right? Locking it isn't the same as putting it to sleep or hibernate or putting it to shut down
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How can ugly people find happiness?
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they can't. just do what i do and drink all the time so you forget about it
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Derive happiness from things other than your appearance. You're standing in the shallow end of life.
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Thinking of trying to learn to play the piano just because I think it sounds nice. I know it'll probably look gay but I honestly don't care. So anyone have any videos, tips, advice, anything that could help me? Would appreciate it.
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Nothing comes close to having an actual piano teacher.
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lol what the fuck do you mean it will probably look gay? Yea, just get a teacher.
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>>18269346
I think piano teachers are overrated. Useful, but overrated. Most of the time, there aren't any "secrets" to playing the piano. It's mostly exercises. Often the piano teacher will just give you an etude or something and correct you when you do a mistake (something that you should be able/should learn to recognize by yourself).