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There's always this word called 'nightlife' thrown around which is supposedly catered for young people like me. But I'm clueless to what it actually entails. Paying big bucks to just wander around and get drunk? Is that really all there is? Why do people nightlife if it's just gonna be a drain on their pocket?
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>>18281994
1. alcohol and friends
2. fun and/or dancing
3. sluts wearing slut clothes to show that they're sluts
4. talk to sluts and convince them to bone for xp and reputation
What don't you get about it?
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>>18281997
So that's...it?
Either an expensive way to hang out or an opportunity to shag a slut?
If that's all there is I guess nightlife's not for me desu
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>>18282007
It's not for everyone. It's not like I go every single night, but most weekends at least one night.
I get together with my friends for predrinks, music and fun at often my place. We then talk to other groups and hear where the fun is that night, what bands are playing, any good DJs etc. Then we go to the place we have the most faith in that night, get some drinks and hopefully a table, then dance talk and do whatever you feel like. Lately I've been really good with the ladies on the dance floor. never really thought I'd make it there, but this weekend was crazy.
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would anyone on this board want to join some kind of community to find for a cuddle buddy?
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>>18281970
sounds nice but I'm not a fan of getting raped
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I don't want one
Lurking
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Nah I don't really feel like I deserve cuddling any more.
Only physical contact I've had for years now are random bar skanks groping me now that I've been body building for years
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What does it actually mean if someone blocks you on the Internet? Does it mean the person who's blocked you loved you? Or is it because you've bested the person that is why he/she blocked you? Or is it just because the person is completely fed up of you?
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>>18281921
are you a grill?
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>>18281921
I'd imagine they had enough of your shenanigans
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>>18281921
maybe they had enough of your dumb ass questions?
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Hey /adv/. It’s been a while. I need your Anon magic to help me with this relationship problem.
>Know this guy, let’s call him no.1. We get along very well, he’s got a girlfriend at the time. As time passes, we get even more close, and one year after we met, we declare our feelings for each other.
>However, I was boyfriend-free at the time, and as I said, he wasn’t, so he was quite shocked and needed time to think it over, to see if it was worth leaving his gf for me or not.
>I couldn’t handle this, so I dropped it, even though I still had deep feelings for him. A month or so later, some guy chat me up, let’s call him no.2, and convince me to give a go at a relationship between us (me and no2).
>why_not.jpg
>Turns out he’s sweet and loving, good bf, but even though we get along very well because he’s caring and kind, it feels like we’re lovers, but not friends, and it’s such a letdown because I feel like I can’t share things with him, also, too much video games (and trust me, I like video games…), anger issues, and not good in bed despite monster cock
>welp, nvm, we still get together, and because he’s got housing problems (orphan), I let him stay in my flat.
>fast forward 4-5 months later, no.1 and I are still close, we study together. But he’s clearly sad I moved on, because turns out he didn’t. We talk a lot. He can’t take it anymore, he loves me, leaves his gf for me. Even though I admit I haven’t forgot about him (at all), tell him it’s a no, can’t leave no.2 just because you asked me and because you took your sweet time with your gf.
>Gets back with his gf because couldnt handle the fact I said no alone. I go on my relationship with no.2. We fight a lot with no.2. Sex isn’t good, he’s even more invested in VG, doesn’t go out. He’s still sweet and would do anything for me, but I’m really starting to have second thoughts. I still give my all in our relationship
(con’td)
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>Can’t help thinking about no.1. 2-3 months later, the tension is too much to handle. We love each other dearly. We have sex. Feeling super fucking bad, feel like a monster for doing this to no.2. Beginning to understand how no.1 felt when he had feelings for me the year before and why he didn’t leave his gf right away.
>few months later, relationship with no.2 really got worse. He’s still really in love, he still would do anything for me to make it work between us, but the drawbacks in our relationship are still there, and worse. But he’s such a good guy I try to make it work. I get on his nerves, he gets on my nerves, despite the fact that I want to save us, it feels like it’s doomed.
>A few months later, no.1 left his gf for good. He’s ready for a relationship with me at last. Turns out he’s also one pretty sweet guy, cute, good in bed, etc. The fact that he’s now emotionally available makes him even more loving, and we are also best friends, so that’s a huge plus.
>no.2 doesn’t live with me anymore because he afforded a flat on his own, but we’re still «together» so to speak, but we barely see and talk to each other, because it’s gotten so bad. Doesn’t want to leave and says I have to do it myself, because he love me too much. Even though there’s a lot of things I didn’t like in him, he was one of the loveliest guy I’ve ever known. I want to leave him for no.1, because the love between us is stronger, but I don’t know how to do it. I can’t do it. I still love him. I don’t to make him suffer, and I hate to put him through this.
Any advice /adv/? It feels like I’m dying inside. Never been confronted to a relationship like that before. It’s too much for me to handle.
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>>18281897
i have a big cock, and my girlfriend says it hurts, how do you recommend guys to use theirs?
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>>18281926
Lube or spit, take your time, fingers in there to prep her
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I met a guy who's an investment banker. He makes a ton of money and he's lonely. His personality is very jarring as he grew up rich and my family has been anywhere from dirt poor immigrants to middle class. Would it be wrong to date him just for money/gifts? He's nice to me, slightly above average looking.
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Yes it would be wrong.
What the fuck is wrong with you?
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>>18281831
yes.
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Make it look real, merry him.
Ok so.... Female, 21 years old, boyfriend of 6 months. Here's the problem; I can't get off. I have a pretty high sex drive, meaning I am always down and most the time initiate, but I can't get off. Already figured out I am not one of the women who can orgasm through penetration alone, but hand stuff isn't even working either. Am I too afraid to orgasm in front of him because it would make me vulnerable? Or does it take time to figure eachother out? Just getting annoyed that he can cum and I can't. Any tips, no matter how obvious.
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Can you cum on your own?
Have you ever masturbated for him/in front of him?
Do you masturbate/look at porn often?
Are you fit?
Are you on birth control?
Are you eating enough?
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>>18281834
Yes, no, used to, yes, yes, no.
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>>18281821
Bump.
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What's a generic birthday gift for a guy in his early twenties.
I don't know him well, I'm a guy myself.
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Movie, music or book
Something current and popular
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>>18281835
no
>>18281808
6pack of beer
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Gift card to a generic place?
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Alright, I need some relationship advice here.
I do read RedPill stuff on relationships, but this just doesn't really fit into any of the topics I've seen.
>be me, 23yo, 6ft7', fit, good income.
>have a 29yo gf (looks much younger), stable job (nothing fancy) loves me to the ends of the Earth.
My relationship seems like the best thing ever, I get sex on a daily basis, when she's on her period it's blowjob week, she's always thinking of me, bringing me things I like, making surprises, my income is much larger, but she always makes an effort to pay what she can, etc.
She's hot too. So I'm very satisfied with my relationship and we've been together for 5 whole years now.
But as a guy, I got used to the good things in my relationship and I'm starting to itch for other girls. I think about other girls all the time and how I could be getting all the ass in the world.
But in reality, I know that's not a certain thing. And I'm doubting I could ever find a girl who could even come close to my current gf.
What should I do?
I'm in the prime of my life where I could be banging lots of beautiful girls, but I'm also in an awesome relationship where I get what I want.
Should I take a huge leap, leave my current gf, break her heart and party while I'm still young?
Or should I stay with her, keep enjoying the life I'm living now and take it slow but steady?
This has been driving me crazy for the last few months.
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You're not physically attractive. You are either lanky or fat at that height. Stay with your gf because you will probably never find another girl interested in you unless you become really rich.
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>>18281758
Break up with her.
Or flip a coin. Whatever.
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>>18281791
I've been exercising for like 6 years.
I get girls hitting on me all the time. That's part of my I'm thinking about this.
I know I can get girls. It's just that I'm not sure if it's worth it.
"a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush" you know...
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Drunk right now. Is there a way to brainwash me to be something I'm not? Like a functioning member of society? I am tired of being a piece of shit, waste my life, but that doesn't stop me from drinking always. I wish I was me. I wish I was "ripped" again, and always had energy. I wish I took my college and work seriously. I wish i never thought about killing myself at 27 (im 23) cause i think that's when I will have enjoyed a lot so I wouldn't need anything else. I want no to drag my day away until the end of my shift, where i work at a bar. I want some hypnosis kind of thing. Anyone?
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>>18281633
Are you an alcoholic? Maybe you should consider getting help for that
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>>18281633
Its a constant source of entertainment for me that you kids are always looking for the easiest answer to literally everything; as if every member of every generation has had to work their asses to the bone to progress their lives but somehow you're so special that you should be able to skip all that hard work and dedication shit, snap your fingers, take a pill or read a book and magically everything will be better.
If you want something to change then change it. If not, then stop complaining because the only one causing your life to stagnate in a pile of shit is you. You sit around doing nothing but drinking and feeling sorry for yourself yet you're surprised that your life sucks? You're genuinely surprised that making a conscious decision to waste your life doing nothing, slacking at school, working a dead end job and not taking care of your body has resulted in depresson?
I'll never understand you kids.
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>>18281638
What is an alcoholic? For me, is when someone pass out and all that shit, make up fights and piss themselves. From what ive seen in my bar. I dont do that.
If i am, how can i get help ? That aa thing? Im an atheist, idk. Therapists never did any good for me i guess
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How do I convince a doctor that I need adderall? I'm taking some online test at the doctors in a few days thats supposed to diagnose you with any issues you have. That combined with a doctors opinion will result in what drug im prescribed or if I'm even prescribed anything. I know some of you fuckers got diagnosed with ADHD and got that adderall. how did you do it?
P.S. I believe I have some sort of add/adhd stuff going on already, but I also believe its a shitty excuse for our generations internet, dopamine, and fast results world so I know its all just an opinion and a case by case basis on who gets diagnosed with what by stupid psychologists
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I always believed I had an attention problem but I've always dealed with it off medication. I got an adderall script purely to sell.
I told the doc I was having trouble at work. Specifically I said I was spoke to by boss about some careless mistakes I made and I felt like I was in risk of losing my job. He asked me questions like, are you a messy person? Do you feel like you have an attention problem? He printed out a questionaire I went through I didn't reply yes to all the questions of course but most. I got a prescription that day. Also, mentioning you get tired really easily is good to mention as well.
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>>18281614
It depends on your country or state. It's piss easy in one place and hard as hell in other. But just give some evidence that you have the proper symptoms and it's damaging your school/work success. Tell honestly how you feel.
In my country it's a long process to get the prescription, as junkies are constantly trying to fake ADHD. Multiple meetings and sessions with psychologists and psychiatrists are required.
Before I got my prescription, I occasionally took quite large doses of caffeine and theanine. It helped me stay focused when needed.
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OP here, my biggest concern is getting prescribed something I don't want. What do you do? Pretend you're alright with it and make another appointment a week later? What if you legitimately think adderall is right for you? Cant you suggest it?
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To be frank
I'm uneducated and have very little skills.
I've spent the greater part of my life abusing and finding loop holes in the system, short of robbing etc
I have a chance to free college but I looked at the GED and I can't even fathom the math questions,, It brings me back to high school..
Anyways I'm actually contemplating suicide if this college certificate doesn't bring me a bar tending job or 20k a year.
I don't really know why I'm posting.
anyways go fuck you're selves.
cheers
Sin
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>>18281611
oi, fuck you sin, why do you think a college certificate will get you a bartending job? College certificates are useless in 201X, you have to be a real sick cunt to be a bartender, at least in my town
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>>18281873
I'm the sickest cunt there is
*finger pistols*
*sunglasses*
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>>18281903
Then what do you need school for??
Honestly though, I took a bartender course in the military and I didn't learn anything new, just got some fancy papers I would need if I wanted my own liquor license, which I don't unless I start my own commercial bar.
I have some bartender friends that tought me some flairing with the bottles and mixing drinks is something I've done since way before I was of legal drinking age. I've had several gigs as a bartender and the only thing that got me those jobs was my confidence and self learnt bartending skills. Youtube should have all the info and how-tos you need, no reason to get a mountain of student debt.
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guys who make you wait for sex
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so ive been dating a cute guy for like half a month
he kissed me on lips on the fist date but not since
we saw each others friends and he calls our hang outs "dates"
he says he wants to take things slow
I dont understand it
is he even attracted to me?
in our first date he said he was very nervous and he tells me that im beautiful and stuff
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He's a shy person, you'll have to take the lead OP
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>>18281550
well it sucks cuz im shy af
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>having sex with someone after only 2 weeks
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Girls: do you actually enjoy giving head or is it something you hate doing that you do to make your partner happy?
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>>18281542
I love doing it. Probably my favourite thing to do during sex.
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This is for everyone;
Do you think the friend zone is a death sentence? Or is it a necessary step of a healthy relationship?
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I think I need to see a therapist.
I have a good job but I am unmotivated to advance in my career.
I have a good girlfriend but I am unmotivated to move forward with her.
I came to the realization, after the 50th time doing this to various women, I just hang up on them when they say some dumb shit I don't want to address... then I cool off for a few minutes and call them back and blame technology. I don't think they believe me because usually I sound pissed off when I call back.
I have good insurance, how do I go about getting therapy?
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Go see your general physician and ask for a referral to a psychologist.
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Some business offer programs that help out by setting up therapist or counselors to their employees. Have you tried looking into it and see if your Hr offers something like that?
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>>18281496
I kind of want to keep this separate... my physician is nice but she is kind of off putting. Also, she's not an MD, she's an NP.
I want to fire her and hire a man, an MD... so I can have him inspect my dick and asshole and not feel super awkward about it.... no homo.
Also... how do I fire my doc and get a new one? I want to stay at the same medical group because it's one of the best in the country.... I just want to switch docs at the same doc.
OR should I be okay with some 50 year old woman inspecting my penis?
>>18281501
yes my company has an EAP but that's just some lame phone service maybe with a referral.
I guess what I am after is some $400 an hour Ivy League dickhead with a VERY nice office, and a comfy couch that I can just tell everything to and feel safe about it. Very abstract feels, I'm a little tipsy. Sorry.
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Im 23 and im a cleaner at a casino making 20$/hr but i want to make more. I only graduated highschool, ive thought about trades but i dont have any union connections so that will be tough. I cant imagine going back to school being easy mentally or financially but im just looking for advice on careers that are relatively easy to find a job in and that pay well. Also dont take alot of schooling as im already 23.
Random pic of my dog
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watch this film first.
then get careers counselling mate
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>>18281483
Fuck i havent watched that in forever. I could be a croupier here it just takes 5 weeks unpaid training and then you make abouy 27$/hr with a 20 min break every hour.
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I assume career counselling costs money