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>>18286752
Nah that sounds like the best course of action. Even if he meant no harm, it made you uncomfortable and crossed your boundaries. Maybe do this earlier in the night before either of you are drunk. What'd he do?

>>18286752
What'd he say?

>>18286752
Kick his ass in her presence.

>>18286691
instead of writing a list, if you can't adequately express yourself then write what you want to say before hand

Almost like a script. Might not be ideal for developing the muscle of speaking but it will help you convey what you're feeling so he can better understand you

send him a damn email

>>18286691
Therapy is a waste of money. You've been suckered, sucker. Social anxiety is easily solved with alcohol.

>>>/b/
This thread will get deleted soon anyways

>>18286702
Why I'm asking for advice?

Tinder/Bumble? Just say you're looking for fat and you'll probably get more messages than /b/ gets when they make fake female profiles.

Double bonus if you also say you're looking for over-30. Women are pretty much devoid of value past that point.

>>18286672
It sounds like clinical depression. See a doctor. They can help more than you realize.

>>18286672
You have depression, mate. Seek help.

>>18286672
yeah I feel the same. I think its more because Im broke than im depressed tho

>>18286422
fat fetishist here too, dude you shouldn't gain weight because of your fetish, ESPECIALLY if you want to be immobile. i know it might be hot but i think your life is more valuable than some boners. if you want to get a fat gf try fantasy feeder or something, although i wouldnt recommend it

>>18286422
Seek a therapist.
Most fetishes are symptoms to some repressed mental issue (low self esteem, etc.)

Yours is just particularly embarrassing. (And potentially harmful, considering it may lead you to become overweight yourself, which is devestating to your overall physical and mental health)

For a less judgmental but still honest answer, see >>18286534

>>18286422
bumping for interest

>tfw fatty fucker
I know its disgusting and not viable for a long-term relationship with a healthy family, would definitely want to get rid of it

>says after the date she just wants to be friends
What did you say in response?

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what happens if you tell her that you don't want to be friends?

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>OP is so bad at escalating that the woman has to do it

You probably dodged a ballistic missile if you didn't have sex with her.

>>18286359
Talk to a therapist. Stop the video games and porn. Exercise more and pick up a new hobby, preferably a social one. Set yourself ambitious goals for your career in work for them.

what porn was it

>>18286369
It was a page from a F/SN hentai doujin

>>18286282
Hooooooooo wrong place to ask that sweetheart 4chan is full of crazies. Go to a dating website and you might find someone half decent.

>>18286292
the world is full of crazies.

Doesn't matter where you are.

>>18286292
Yea but 4chan is a beacon for most crazies to gather.

>>18286248
OP here. Also lack of sex (3 years) is doing gods work on destroying my ability to live a peaceful and calm life.

Solution 1: get laid

Solution 2: harden the fuck up

>>18286285
On Solution 1 : I am not the prettiest type and also I quit drinking and have no experience in ONS

Solution 2: How

>>18286237
Real unrequited love isn't very cinematographic.

A movie is like a process, it has different stages. I don't know much about movies but I suppose it has the introduction of the characters/situation, development, conclusion etc.

Unrequited love is just boring and vague. It just shows up and lingers around until it dies in the most nonchlalant way possible. You can't really make a movie out of something like that I think

Maybe The Double?

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I say sorry too much. I have no self-worth. I always feel like something, like a god, is watching over me and judging. I have a perfectionist attitude. I let people talk down to me and I don't fight back. I'm hurt.

>>18286038
I really wish I could stop trying. I keep wanting to achieve things I was not meant to, but to see other achieve those things around me hurts so much. I feel like defect trash.

In my dream the girl with emerald eyes laid down beside me and I could see you start to cry.

The one girl you hate the most took your spot in our bed.

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Would you have a serious problem if your boyfriend was openly in love with an actress / celeb? He still loved you, but he would fawn over this person and even watch all the movies / shows they're in.

>>18285971
If my gf told me that she loves justin bieber, i would let her go.

How do you think you will sound to your gf? Like well balanced husband material?

Hey guys, I'm in my first 'relationship' ever. I'm 23 and I met this girl at the gym about three weeks ago, and things have been going quite fast. We went on our first trip together last week because she had three days holidays from her work(She works like 6 days a week, so it's difficult for her to go on a short holiday) and I said i'll badge along because she was planning a solo trip.

We bonded really well at the trip. Cuddled and started kissing/licking/biting her ears, neck and her face. I've really been apprehensive about relationships because I've always seen people getting emotionally attached and start doing not so logical things because of it. I feel like I'm falling for whatever I disliked from the start.

The two nights I spent with her in the trip was so beautiful. We stared deep into each other's eyes and she feel asleep on my chest. I was wondering if it is going fast? Is it common to feel like spending time with each other a lot this early in thre relationship? Or is it considered too 'clingy'?

Both of us are living in India (traditional society), so I feel things are going quite fast. We have clicked so well but I don't want to be emotionally vulnerable so someone can hurt me. Is this common or nah?

>>18285839
Give me an example? It's hard to get what you mean exactly

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>>18285869
for example, back in high school, when I heard other kids talking about anime, I'd get excited but in a competitive-like manner. I disliked that more and more people around me were starting to talk about anime, especially when it was anime that I was fond of.
In a way, I feel a need to make myself and my liking for said anime known to those people.

At the same time, I resent those people, because in my mind, it's like they don't "get" what they're watching. They throw around names and words about it like it's something so banal but for me might hold some special meaning or value.

It's like using 100 year old furniture as an underwear hanger or something. This doesn't really happen anymore with anime though, I've learned to not really care (or at least try to), but it still applies to other things.


My biggest source of annoyance as of recently is kpop. Been into it for 3+ years, but it suddenly exploded and now everyone talks about it, but they only talk about the recent stuff like they know shit. Also 4chan, it's a lot more known. People go around shitposting on facebook and posting kek flags. Fucking facepalm man.
Does this make me some sort of sociopath?

[TL;DR] I might be suffering from the NORMIES GET OUT REEEE syndrome

>>18285839
Autism

>>18285752
Bumb.

>>18285752
Matura? Exams?

>>18285752
>I already fucked up
>hey advice board, how do I undo what I have already done?

Public service announcement: ask for advice BEFORE you fuck everything up.

You'll never be a STEM professional, nor a doctor. You can still be a lawyer if you shape the fuck up and learn to read 100x better than the norm, but you're probably not going to do that so don't plan on being a lawyer.

Have you considered trade school? Trades aren't about numbers in records; they're about whether the plumbing got fixed or didn't get fixed. Doctors and lawyers and engineers cry when they find out how much their plumber charges per hour.

Also, you forgot to mention your major. This is just a cry thread if you're leaving details out.

How old and do you live with family still?

I have this problem but I feel sure that when I go to uni away from home I will be able to start feeling more positive. Maybe you need to change your environment

also how to deal with thoughts of vengeance towards parent? Sometimes i think of killing her.

Do you still live with her?

Steadily growing hostility to your parents is a sign that you're supposed to be someplace thefuck else by this point in your life.

>all these /adv/ OPs dancing around the details like they don't matter