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I broke up with my girlfriend.

she owes me money.

she has recently stopped responding to my messages.

what do i do?

i live in australia.
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Goddamn I fucking hate Australians.
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How much does she owe?
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Sounds like lost money.
If that is the price one has to pay to lose a bitch then so be it.

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image is relevant but its no ones car

> driving
> check both ways, does a double take
> farthest car is over 100 ft
> do a u-turn
> car speeding the fuck out of life smashes me
> just as i was finally moving into my lane
> their car almost flips, but it doesn't
> i pull over, ask them if they're okay
> driver says they're fine
> i'm freaking out and can't stop asking if they're okay
> they driver says they're fine and ask if i'm fine
> i say "no, yeah, i'm fine"
> driver assumes that i wasn't in the accident
> driver assumes that car accident was a hit-and-run
> it wasn't, i'm right here, you hit me
> can't manage to think at the moment
> she gets in and leaves
> i leave too
> i'm confused as fuck
> i'm driving and start actually reacting
> freaking out in my car
> what if she reports it as a hit and run??
> i pulled over???
> i don't want to be arrested for a hit and run, that i never committed

> need real advice

should i go to the police?
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>>18287298
if they hit you wouldnt you be the one reporting a hit and run
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>>18287298
Did you exchange any information at all? If not then yes, this is a hit and run. Who was hit by who is hearsay though.
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>>18287298

>> i pulled over???

In all honesty, the three question marks was a bit excessive. I hope you can take this in stride to aid in further developing your writing.

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I want to be an inventor.
Advice?
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> Function is the limit of change. (That's a rough translation of your equation into proper English.)

Find a problem, and fix it. People say to start small but I actually recommend setting your mind to big things and then going at something small that's important to you and escalating from there.

Then find an interest and an area of expertise. Currently I'm hella into drones and I've been working on getting together my sketches and software to pitch the idea of a commercial shopping drone concept. You could do much the same. What'd you like OP? Space? Robots? Structural engineering? Sucking cock? Find the area that interests you and become an expert in it. Then revolutionize it.

Mind if you don't become the next Bill Gates or Steve Jobs, your inventions will pretty much live restrained to "As seen on TV!" ads, but that shouldn't stop you. I believe in you anon.
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>>18287313
hello, OP here. My desire to be an inventor comes from reading about Tesla. But, to tell the truth the intentions want to design are targeted to be used against extraterrestrial life. I know it sounds silly, but I am very afraid of the future of humanity if we were to be encountered, or encounter an alien race. Thanks for your advice, I will take it to heart!
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>>18287349
It's unlikely to be us anytime soon and if an alien race can travel the distance from planet buckfuckville to anywhere near us, they also would have the technology to end us in seconds at worst. So yeah, find a more real problem to fix.

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What time of guitar is this? And what type of strings should be used for it?
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It's about 8:23.
Generic acoustic brass strings will do more than good enough.
>Pick 'em up at a guitar store for about $5.
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>>18287270
Thank you anon. Anything else I should know?
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>>18287276
It looks like a cheap training guitar, so if you plan to sell that shit, anyone who knows jack about guitars will give you dirty looks. Mind that has no affect on performance whatsoever (may even produce a better sound), but if you want to look at all either cool or acknowledgeable, don't go flashing that thing around.

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>And I want to break up with her.

Staying with her or leaving her is thus far the hardest decision to make in my life.

>I'm 30. She's 22.

>Long distance relationship.

>She goes to a party college. But Graduate with her masters last week. She's a hard working girl.

>Dating since August. Broke up in February for some other guy. Got back together April 3rd.

During our time together ive had the most amazing relationship moments with her and the very worst with her out of the 6 girls I have had a "serious" relationship with. She would be the 7th.

>The bad of our relationship really glooms.

She has lied to me numerous times and has cheated on me. Along with times of showing total lack of respect to me in public. And hiding our relationship I.E. purposely not wanting to make it known on Facebook.

If I were to go into detail it would take up 8000 charecters in green text (space to write) because I tried..

Sorry if I seem cold hearted but I've been put here beyond my own means. Everything she has said or done makes me doubt her in her most trying time. It's horrible of me and I recognize this fault.

>She was Raped on Tuesday night.

We planed to see each other Wednesday. But apparantly she had plans to go out with her friend Tuesday night and get gang raped by black guys.

While she was under the influence in the ER she texted me it was by "Multiple".

She called me mid day today and shared some details. Said she was out with her friend and she only had 2 beers (which is bullshit because she never just has 2) And came back to drink her water and kept drinking it even though it tasted funny.

She and her friend went back to my GFs apartment with 2 guys where her friend left her with one guy while she left with the other.

The guy that stayed with my Girlfriend and raped her was a 40 year old black guy. (She said).

Next morning (Wednesday) her whore friend showed up for work but my GF didn't so they all got worried and went to her apartment.

continued*****
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>>18287262
Okay no matter what happened to her base your decision on her cheating on you. Femanon here and although rape is horrible and i wouldnt want someone to break up with me because of it, If i cheated, i deserve to be broken up with, raped or not
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>gets cheated on
>stays with her

Ahhahahahahahahahaahahahahhahaahahahahahahahahahha

Who cares, dump her and move onto someone who doesn't treat you like absolute shit and ruins your self worth.
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Op here

continued****

From there she claimed rape. Cops came and gather her bed sheets. She went to the hospital and got a rape kit done. Pumped her full of meds to combat STDs. And detectives on the case.

I called and am getting the police report mailed to me.

It makes no sense to me though. How the rapist is unknown. When theres her friend who was there and the other guy she left with too.

On top of that for whatever the fuck reason when she was telling me what transpired she mentioned that her friend that was with her is telling people she's lying about it.

Which is not far fetched as my GF has mentioned (not straight or direct) about rape and gangbang fantasies to me in which I always ignored or changed the subject on.

And giving her past cheating behavior and over all lying to me about things ... am I wrong to doubt her??

I've been crying all day. A slew of negitive emotions goes though me. I care for her but I doubt her story.

I just can't leave her. A part of me wants to stay as its the right thing to do but my suport and what I tell her to make her feel better are just hallow words. I'm just saying it to say it

Okay so highschool fag here and I've got this grill that I'm gonna ask out, but I don't know how to word it. Like sure you hear people say "oh just ask her out" but that doesn't give me what to say!
so what's a way to ask out a girl?
the ones that've been going through my head are like "Do you wanna go out with me?" or "Do you want to start dating?"
Horrible, I know
help plz
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>>18287243
Well get to know her first
With grills these days, you just never know what she like
It could be charcoal, but it could also be gas, electric, etc.
You don't want to just treat her like any other grill.
The guys at Home Depot generally can help you with that.
Good luck!
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>>18287243
Are you two acquainted? Talk about relevant things with them. Is there any place in particular you'd like to take her to? Bring it up casually if you think/know she would like the place, and then ask if she wants to go there.
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>>18287282
Fpbp


I hate you stupid highschool motherfuckers asking the dumbest shit. Talk to her about a movie that looks cool then just invite her to the fucking movie you fuck. Doesn't even have to be a movie, you could just ask if she wants to get a bite to eat sometime. You get the point and fuck you.

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Femanon here
>18
>HORNY ALL THE TIME
>I masturbate everyday
>Is this normal to be this horny?
>I know it is for boys but is it for girls
>Is it an addiction if i do it everyday
>pic not related, found it on a dick rate thread and i thought it looked nice
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It's normal.
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>>18287219
Anyone can be like that, male or female. Enjoy your sexuality, girl. You're young and have no reason not to.
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>>18287219
>this horny
>masturbate every day
That doesn't seem like something all too extreme unless by every day, you really mean several times a day to the extent that it interferes with your everyday activities and you legit can't stop thinking about sex. If it's that extreme then naturally you should see a doctor and maaaaybe get on one of those birth control pills.

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>goto university Cafe to get coffee
>lady that serves me ask what I'm studying
>tell her social work
>her response "pfft good luck with that sweety"
Thanks for that....what's her problem?
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>>18287169
her problem is TSUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
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>>18287169
But where's the lie?
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>>18287176
fpbp

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So my partner is amazing. To the point of it being too much for me.
She does wonders art-wise, has good hands, can navigate; can support others probably better than me despite it being my main thing, etc

Being out-skilled in so many things by her makes me feel so worthless and insecure. I'm afraid to open it up with her because it's a rather new thing and I'm afraid she might leave me if she understands how talentless and insecure I am.

What do?
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>>18287165
How long do you know each other? Since you're together at all and she sounds intelligent, she probably is pretty well aware of your faults at they weren't a deal breaker for her. Also you probably overlook some awesome qualities about yourself, and some flaws of hers and just pay more attention to the opposites.

If she's as talented as you say, it can be more of a problem for her, since too few people can match her and finding one who does (aka. you) is tricky. Tons of super talented people had "less awesome" partners, at least from the outside perspective.
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>>18287165
She picked you, dummy. It takes two to tango.

If you feel bad,pick something you want to learn and get fuckin good. Or ask her to teach you how to make art in her style.
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>>18287165
Why do you think she's with you? You clearly are amazing in some ways, or she wouldn't give you the time of day.

>Be with friends, meet one girl we have mutual friends.
>Think all is well, we talk a bit swap contact no big deal.
>She's painfully shy, I invite her to events because I feel bad for her.
>She can't make it, no big deal.
>I have to wait on a bus, she's there studying so I sit across the table and wait for my bus while reading a book leaving her alone.
>Go say bye.
>We are cross paths a few times, chat etc.
>See her at an event, I have to wait in line, my friend is working, they are chatting, still waiting on them... She leaves.
>Don't make much of it, weeks later...
>"You are making your co-worker uncomfortable please meet at office"
>Go and she isn't there but she filed a complaint for "staring and stalking..."
...We work at the same place and I'm just trying to get along with her... People started rumors that I'm romantically interested in her, pretty far from the truth. Now that she filed this complaint, I think she's insane.

What do now 4chan? What do? We have a lot of the same friends and well same work place. This is gonna be weird.
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Complain about the complaint. Lol.
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In before /adv/'s accusation that you must've done something more than you're telling us.

Even if that's true, there's not much to go off of her report alone -- so no one really can do much for the two of you here unless one party starts persisting. You could just avoid her from now on. Ignore her and pretend she's not there. And in the presence of coworkers, stay focused on them and not once acknowledge her existence; don't even look in her direction. And just put as much of a distance between you two as you reasonably can.

You could also look into a lawyer, and see if they can what happened here on record. That way you've already moved your chess pieces enough to establish a defence.
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>>18287164
Yeah, I talked about maybe going after her for slander. I mean we have all the same friends and just about everyone can tell you I don't ever mean to harm anyone. This whole thing is just meaningless drama.

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How do I improve my self-confidence, /adv/?
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>>18287097
Go into computer programming.
Telling computers what to do is the first step to tell people what to do. And this power brings confidence.

Source: personal experience.
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>>18287116
The catch is if you go in comp sci, you can't get any girls.
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>>18287116
Is confidence really just all about telling people what to do?

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I just started an entry level job in the IT field. It pays extremely generously for what it is, and It is a great starting point especially for a young student like me.
I was put on the battlefields after I got comfortable during my training.

I keep having anxiety rush, I can't help it. Whenever I see the VoIP phone ring I panick.
Everyone else seems so laid back about it, they tell me to relax it's going to be okay after a couple of weeks and they will augment my skillset
When I don't know what to do with the user on the phone, My eyes shake as I search through the company's wiki filled with key words and never to be able to find the right article specific to the person's request.
I am still able to talk and be polite to people but on the inside I am a mess. I don't know how to cope.
I spend my workdays starring at my screen/phone waiting for the next attack

What should I do? Will I get used to it in a month and know a couple of things by heart? Thanks.
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more you do something the better you will get.
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>>18287104
That is what I figured, but I can't help this I try to meditate at work and take deep breaths and the thoughts keep coming back
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Calm the fuck down. If you don't know enough, study. Study between calls and study at home. Git gud at what you do.

Everyone at work knows you're new and stressing. Don't stress, nobody is expecting much

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Schoolbus driver here. Recently there's been some creepy ass pedophile hanging out at my stops. wears sunglasses to hide identity, stares right at me. Afraid he's going to try to do something. What do before its too late? Was thinking call the cops on this guy.
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>schizo calls cops on himself
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>>18287078
Confront him calmly and logically. Is life this hard up there?
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>>18287080
This shit happens everywere

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>be close to getting AA degree, going to transfer to uni
>look up reviews by students for local universities in florida
>most of the reviews for all the universities I was considering were negative, saying things like X program is terrible, professors hardly care or know their own material, staff is a bunch of assholes, and crime/shootings occur occasionally

How do you decide on a university when they all sound shitty?
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>>18287063
I went to UF. It's a great school. You can also do fine at several of the other florida schools. Pick the school that is strongest for the major you like. For example, UF is best in FL for engineering
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>>18287141
When did you graduate?
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Depending on your field of study, your priorities regarding deciding your university should start with finances (where you're able to afford going to, if it's in a commute-able distance, etc). If you've got that all figured out (you should generally pick the cheapest option which is almost always the closest option), then worry about university quality and all that jazz.
Most Florida universities are similar in that (with the exception of FSU and UF) they're geared towards training their local population for jobs in the workforce, and so they'll share a lot of the same problems (low student-teacher ratio, teacher's assistants teaching courses, etc).
They're all perfectly fine universities, especially FSU and UF, but your number one goal in going to college is to get out of there with as little student debt as possible.

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Hi. /adv/

Please, I need your help

What do i say in my job interview tomorrow when they ask me why i left my last job?

I was fired after two months in my last job. My boss didn't like me and she had the excuse when i just finised a very long job one day after the previously established term
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Please help
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>>18287058
"I needed a new challenge"
"I felt I wasn't learning anything new"
don't be critical of management there, don't allude to the fact that you were fired.
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>>18287058
Is it in the same field as the job you're applying for? In interviews I've never been asked about past jobs, but I just brought up instances where experience from that job would help in the job I was applying for.
>>18287113
Is good stuff for yah. Are you listing anyone from that job as a reference? They need to be on the same page.

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