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Lying down exacerbates the heartburn does it not

>>18292863
Yes it does, I'm sitting up now. NGL its because I had cheese before I went to fucking bed so I dug my own grave

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>>18292833
had this for a solid couple months
ended up developing into a pretty big ulcer
got super sick, most sick i've ever been, and couldn't keep food nor water down for three solid days, with the ulcer and continued heartburn feeding the fire. was hell incarnate. when i drank water, in fifteen minutes i looked like picrelated.
Eat healthier. Not terribly fast-acting, but it'll start alleviating that shit quicker than otherwise. Eat less? dunno as to what in specific is causing yours, but that's my /adv/

>>18292829
honestly their isn't really a perfect answer for this, best thing would be to imagine that a job in retail or somewhere would be a good experience for combatting your anxiety.

I was having really bad panic attacks and anxiety before my job interview but I pushed through and don't regret it now for a second - just remember, it will never ever be as bad as your anxiety makes it out to be.

>>18292829
>it's never as bad as your anxiety makes it out to be
Hah, yeah, I guess this is true. Just have to remind myself of that, I suppose.

>>18292829
Think of it as a game. To see how many places you can get rejected by. Seriously.

You sound like type who doesn't like to fail, afraid of rejection. Total guess here of course.

But just apply to a dozen places, tailor resume to each a little. Hope they all reject you. If they do congrats lvl 2, see how much you can play the game before caught in the rat race.

He does have evidence as per your post, and I'm quoting "he was filming me".
This is considered a hit and run. Or at the very least, road rage. There could also be a wreckless driving charge as well. Just get a lawyer and if the lawyer is decent, can plea you out to minimal charges. And it may not even come to court. You may just be handed a fat ticket and have to pay for damages to other parties vehicle. This is the most likely scenario if this is the first time you've ever been in trouble.
Look dude, just be a man, take your licks and learn a very good lesson. You will get over this. You are young and have an entire life ahead of you to become a better person. And for the love of god, drive like a sane human being.
If you don't mind my asking, why did you do this overtaking and take off? You have insurance right?

>>18292738
You're a woman, aren't you?

>>18292738
>This dude has no evidence
But you said he was filming you...?

>there is hardly a scratch on my car
But there is still a scratch?

>all of the black scrape marks buffed out with a bit of toothpaste.
You trying to remove the evidence is evidence in and of itself.

>What can I do by tomorrow that will maximize my chances of getting employed?

You could try relaxing for starters...

>>18292706
Alright done. Now what?

>>18292714

Dress respectably and be well-groomed. Be on time--actually just a few minutes early but not too early. Don't chew gum. Only answer what is asked. Be prepared for "Why should I hire You"? Don't talk in slang. When they ask if you have any questions, have one ready to ask.

>>18292653
doctor

>>18292662
THEY WILL JUST GIVE ME MORE ANTIBIOTICS, THEY TOLD ME THATS THE ONLY THING THEY CAN DO

Please, this board is full of teenagers and malcontents. We can't help you. Get back to your doctor.

Damn, I've realized this question gets asked a lot after spending some time here today.

You're kids forced to. If your not physically fit, have a bad car/no car, and don't talk to enough girls you'll never find someone or stay with them. It's kind of like animals. We all have the urge to attract and keep women and will do what we need, I guess.

The more you interact with someone on a daily basis the better the chance they will like you. Talk to more people and keep contact.

You don't NEED to be comfortable in your situation in order to find a partner, there's a lot of thirsty desperate people out there who find someone.

But it's healthier to find a way to be content with your life, partner or not than to depend on someone for your happiness. If you depend on your partner for your mental well-being you have a high chance of becoming clingy, too jealous or you might get dragged into a toxic/abusive relationship you don't have the mental fortitude to get out of.

As a rule of thumb you shouldn't base your happiness on anything, object or person , but on your own mentality and ideology, this way it will be almost impossible to have it taken away from you by the many misfortunes you will inevitably encounter in life.

>>18292599
That's what I'm talking about. I'm not the thirsty one necessarily I want someone I can be close to/ teach and learn from. Obviously, sex does matter, but it's not the main thing I want. A lot of people rush these relationships and I don't want to force myself to take anyone. I hope you do understand my stance

>>18292599
There's just this feeling of need of companionship that friends and family just cannot give you. It's more hardwired I presume.

>>18292568
why are moms always fucked up in the head
thank god mine wasnt anything like that

this is different to anyhting I ever heard, sounds made up
im not saying it is, its just way too weird

I got no advice desu

ask him what does he think about seeing a psychologist, I dont think you should talk about it with him

I fucking wish i was making this up, its been driving me insane. We moved back to his home after living on the other side of the country for financial reasons, and i have been honest with him about everything i hear and see from her, and he agrees and says "theres a reason why i moved so far away".

>>18292568

Your boyfriend's father is not his real father. His mother is infatuated with him because he is a harbinger back to the days of the illicit affair that she had with his real father.

fetlife.

>>18292564
ikr. tf. too many people are into vanilla shit. can't find any girls into strangling.

>>18292564

Look on /pol/.

I promise, you'll receive a huge number of replies from people who want to strangle a black guy.

So simple. Move out. Sont tell them. Just do it. Leave a note saying

>i moved to such and such address
>didnt tell you to avoid you blocking me from doing what i want.
>its too late now, im living here. Deal with it.
>if you want to talk call me or come to my new place...please dont ague with me, my decision is final.

You fucking leave or remain a NEET forever. It's going to be a long hard road, but I don't think it's anywhere near as hard as what you're already doing, in the long term.

If your mom is really threatening to kill you that also sounds extremely dysfunctional. I also had extremely controlling and dysfunctional parents growing up and one of the ways I learned to care for myself was to learn to parent myself. That involved therapy and reading up on ACoA (Adult Children of Alchoholics). Even if your mom is or is not an alcoholic, dysfunction will produce the exact same symptoms as if she was.

That's basically the how-to of how to put your life back together, anon.

>>18292496
I'm trying to save up now but its difficult

this is a really weird trick, i move my eyes from left to right really fast 3 times, and it sort of resets my brain when i think of something i don't want to think of, or have a song stuck in my head
i don't know if it would work for anyone else though

also: not politics, sage

>>18292454
by having good thoughts.

protip: good / bad is a man made concept. The sun could flare the shit out of earth without caring if you are having good or bad thoughts.

>>18292454
your mind is like /b/, there will always be things you don't want to see but it doesn't mean its yours. its like your dreams you don't really choose where it will take place.

Racial groups are not a monolith, it depends on the particular dude you're interested in.

>>18292400

Are you already dating? Treat him like a damn human being and not an ethnicity.

>>18292400
Expect lots of family memes. Indians are very family focused and know all of their relatives, even the super distant ones. Indian parents also tend to expect their children to get together with other indians so his parents might hate you.

If you're a racist, you really don't deserve happiness. Full stop. Go fuck yourself, buddy.

>I don't dare to tell anyone
>If you're a racist, you really don't deserve happiness
Thats why :)

That's textbook degenerate, I don't know if there's any way to help you.

I'd guess you have limited life experience. So you don't know what it feels like to get coffee in Florence, or a museum in India, to go on a ferry, go to the beach with friends, or feel ambitious inside a prestigious institution etc (these and a thousand other things). This is just my assumption about racist people who post frogs.

Figure out how you became scared of learning/work. Like how did that happen in the first place.

>>18292285
What kind of advice did you need again?

You're right OP, you could be bi. Or dating a transgirl! Enjoy your life.

But I mean, if you're baiting an imageboard with stupid juvenile shit like this, you probably aren't enjoying your life that much.

>>18292291
i just keep seeing all these posts everywhere about dudes saying something moderately sentimental, then they usually follow it with "no homo"
I just thought it was kinda hilarious.

But i have boned men, and i really don't identify as a gay person, but whatevers

>>18292284
>Will I be too old?
>Will I be able to socialize and connect with my co-students? I imagine this to be difficult since most of my classmates will probably be underage.
>Will I be "the weird one out"?
God nobody gives a fuck
Its not fucking high school, you just come and learn your shit

>>18292290
>God nobody gives a fuck

that's a great relief, thanks

>>18292298
Welcome to the real world.
Just don't pay mind to the pol-correctness.