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>Know girl from Korea
>My best friend knows her, we have mutual friends.
>See her around, she's painfully shy.
>Try to be her friend to avoid awkward silence.
>She talks to others but ignores me.
>I don't make much of it, see her around a lot because of our social circle.
>Try to get at least one "hi" in... she does nothing.
>Eh you can't win them all. Be polite and just ignore her.
>Have to wait for a bus, she's there waiting too. Try to talk to pass the time, nothing, okay waited in awkward silence.
>Months later get fucking sued for stalking...
>Who did this?! Find out it's her.
>Ask my best friends about it, they never see her around anymore, she just sued me because apparently I "make her feel odd."
>I mean yeah, she makes me feel awkward too with the silence and ignoring me when I try to at least make small talk.
>Meet with her lawyer, bring our mutual friends.
>Lawyer was super nice, actually, laughs when I explain my side of the situation and the charges were dropped.
>"Yeah, don't ever look or talk to her EVER"-Lawyer.
>Fine by me.

What the fuck was her problem?

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Can you guys help me with some advices on how to look better ?

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what does she mean by this? what am i supposed to do? push it more? ask for clarification?


I'm really inexperience and somewhere on the autist spectrum. I'm basically begging this chick to friendzone me, but she keeps brushing the question away and once a month ago telling me not to kill the feelings and let it develop naturally? She would send me nudes once in a while, some times out of the blue, but she is never consistent with her attention. She also has another 2 dudes she talks to, whom she constantly tells me that she wants them so much, she especially brings it up when I bring up my ex. But these dudes, she also talk to them a lot.

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Jesus Christ, I feel like an idiot.

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It would be might first date ever, so in order to spice things up, I decided to take some MDMA.
The person I want to ask is very kind and good, I believe in her.
But I still thinking about taking MDMA (small dose, around 70-80 mg):
Pros are:
- I won't be inhibited so its easier to make any move
- MDMA would make me show love and be friendly, which I really struggle with
- Easy to kiss her as its the only thing I will want to do
- My own experience will be enhanced by a ton, which is memorable and I always remember my first time
- Therefore first date will be like magic, probably like in childhood (which I missed)
Cons:
- I never took MDMA, but I don't really care about this, as I had experiences with psychedelics and was able to behave adequately
- The girl might discover and freak out (who knows), or I will betray myself
- I might confess my love to her or tell some things I don't want to, although can't think of anything like that right now
What do you think? Yes or no?

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My dormmate, let's call her Lola, loves to snapchat virtually everything funny that happens. On screen, other people, etc. It's a compulsion.

I've told her not to snapchat me in overly embarrassing moments; dozens of the students around here, including a lot of boys we know, follow her.

Call me uptight. 90% of the time I'm fine. But, what the fuck, if she pulls shit like
>only pretends to drink and be drunk
>gets me drunk so she can snapchat me
>literally am laughing in a sea of alcohol sometimes or trying to summon a demon unicorn, I'm a freaky drunk
It's not allowed. Case closed.

So one night my dormmates in the triple room asked me to do something for em. Then I hit my boob on one of the ladders and collapsed to the ground. Pain surged through my mind and, to Lola's suggestion, I crawled over to the lamplight. As much as I was laughing, I was in the greatest pain of my life. My boob's still bruised.

A day later I found out about the snap.
It was...well. It was bad. Half of my pajama shirt was off and my pants had been slightly pulled off because of my fall and I was bent over, gasping in pain.
I've lot a lot of weight recently and I'm 155 pounds at 5'7. But, my body still looks pretty chubby and having your ass half-out is...well, doesn't matter how good it is. That isn't something you want the boy next door to fuckin see. Or anyone really.

>Lola...why did you have to do this? Why can't you just live in the hilarious moment sometime rather than embarrass the fuck out of people? It's so fake...hell, didn't I even tell you NOT to snapchat me in super embarrassing situations?

That's the gist of what I said. And though she was ambivalent and said "but over 50 people saw it! It's great!" I remember bringing up how my body was exposed. She said she didn't realize it.

Somewhere in the convo she said, "it's fine, I get it, you hate me"...

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What is the purpose of working part/full-time during college? Everyone I know is working to mitigate student loans post graduation but they can't take nearly as many classes because they're busy. If I'm able to survive purely off student loans, grants, and scholarships, is it reasonable to take as many classes as possible and graduate earlier while piling on assloads of debt. Obviously there is the risk of being unable to find a job but I'm going into STEM with well above average projected field growth (Biomedical Engineering). Wouldn't it make more sense to take 18+ credit hour semesters and graduate earlier or am I completely missing something?

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I'm 26 fm and I'm especially attracted by younger men like 21 to 24. I once hooked up with a 21 boy. Am I a pervert? Or anything inside me is broken?

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Died on /b/
100 percent true story really need advice here

>Gf goes out drinking with her gay friends
>I stay home because am introvert
>Gf's gay friend ends up taking advantage of her
>Gf calls me at 4am and tells me he kept trying to pull her pants down and he raped her for like a minute
>I rush over as soon as i can
>Talk to her and she tells me what happened in detail
>I tell her to file a police report
>She says no cause she's scared of the guy and his family
>we argue and i end up telling her if she doesn't file a police report I'm leaving her
>Almost 11am now she still hasn't

What do I do?
Am I a bad person for leaving her in her time of need?
How do i get back at this faggot rapist
She says she still loves me and i still love her
She's messaging me now and I'm not replying

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I usually hug people when greeting them.
If I'm meeting someone for the first time, I'll look at their body language to see whether or not they'd be open to it, but after I've met them I usually just go for it even if I'm not yet close to them.

I can tell that some people are a little startled by it, but they are very warm with me very quickly, which I have always assumed was a result of the hugging.

My question is this: Am I putting people off by doing this? Would it be better to stop myself from hugging them until we've interacted a handful of times and are friends?
When is the right time to hug?

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I'm 23. I'm going to study in a foreign country for a year.

An aunt of mine got into an insurance company and has been coming to our house to get us into the insurance. I don't feel comfortable with this stuff. I don't really know about this crap and she didn't hand me informatio until I asked her for it. It looks alright, but supposedly I'd be like the main name in the contract because if my parents were the main signers it would be way more expensive because of their age or whatever.

I don't feel comfortable signing this crap that I didn't ask for, I will already have an insurance with the university and if I wanted an external one I would prefer to look for it myself, not because I'm being guilt tripped by family.

I was supposed to sign it now and I broke down and just was honest that I'm doing it just because I feel forced by them. My father just said that I better not worry about it, that I stay off this stuff and he will be the main signer.

Idfk how to feel, I dont know if I did something bad. When I was about to sign it I also marked as NO some boxes about me not letting them sell my info to third parties and so on.

Did I do well in not letting myself be dragged in the insurance? Was I a shitty family member?

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Hey guys I need some help with my situation regarding grad school. I am currently an EE sophomore (Junior after summer) and want to go to pursue either a masters or phd. The problem is that I just recently realized this goal and have no research experience yet. I'm going to try to get some next year or summer, but would that be enough to get into a top tier EE grad school? My grades are fine at a 3.97+ gpa.

I could also prolong my last few credits and take another year and summer of research. At most I could likely get 2 + years of research by graduation. Would this be a better idea?

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I met a girl in college from my major (cs) like 5-6 months ago. I found her very attractive so i just started talking to her to see if i can get anything done. The plan was to just to see if i could start dating her, and if it didn't work just move on.

5 months later i didn't accomplish anything besides creating a mental chain for myself towards her. She knows i'm in love with her, but she's not attracted towards me. There are a couple reasons why i'm still sitting around like a retard trying to change stuff about myself to see if that changes anything. 1. She does really seem to like me as a friend for some reason. She teared up when i told her that we might have to part ways since i can't afford to be friends with someone that i like so much. 2. I seem to have a little bit of impact in her decisions. She always wanted to dye her hair red, and she did not too long ago. When she asked me the inevitable "how do i look?" i told her my opinion: "you don't look good at all with red hair" Not because she actualyl looked bad with red hair, but because i fucking hate red hair. 1 week later she dyed her hair black, which was her original color.

I feel like i actually have something to work with, i just need to change a little bit of the things that she dislikes about me. Am i being dellusional? Any advice?

>inb4 you're an asshole

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i have a real existential crisis here /fit/ and would like your gentle advice if possible. Please go easy on me, as im mentally delicate recently..


So I had this literal 9.7/10 Russian godess sexy girlfriend here in a western country. She was fucking incredible. I am by no means a ripped or built guy, maybe slightly high BMI but still leanish arms and broad shoulders, definitely not skinny fat or some ice age sid looking cuck and im 185 so ok height i suppose

Anyway i put on a massive amount of weight when i met her, going from 80kgs to 100 kgs in like 5 months, even developing stretch marks on my body. The reason? chronic drinking because i was insecure that I would lose this beautiful slavic princess, and I DID in the end.

ive lost basically all the weight and am almost back to as appealing as I was before I met her, but i know i'l never strike gold again like that, UNLESS i become really physically appealing.

But I feel like although i have the genetics and capacity to become physically more appealing than I have ever been (not such a high standard to obtain fitness wise) I feel that doing so will just play into the superficial whore type nature of women who would never be interested in me unless I was physically appealing to them, therefore if thats what they consider so important, couldnt they jump ship easily with a more alpha looking taller chad douchebag in the future? if thats their main superifical appeal, instead of my soul.

I also realize its basic nature to be physically attracted to someone as well as mentally, and its all a part of the healthy natural animal kingdom.
So I feel like there is this existential crisis where I want to make myself more attractive so i can find someone as great as i once had, but just feel demoralized by the fact so many hot women dont really care about YOU for who YOU are, but more for some superficial meaty shell that makes their pussies wet for a limited amount of time until finding someone else..

Insight please