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>>18296045
i wish i had a goal in life anon
i hope you accomlpish yours

>>18296045
I know someone who did exactly that. He's currently teaching 3rd graders in China. He loves it. He did say China is a very strict country though. They actually have a citizen rating system. They give grades to thier populous based on thier successes or lack thereof. I think America should adopt this system.

Translators are not good at all. Try translating japanese to english, it'll be gibberish. They might be enough to decently communicate but that's it. Learning english will be important for a long while IMO.

>>18295969
Why do you feel that way, OP? If you want things to end, why not do it yourself?

>>18295993
I haven't done it because there is hope inside me that the girl I fell in love with is still in there somewhere and is gonna comeback
I feel that way because I feel emotionally blackmailed and abused. Our relationship has been nearly two years long and our problems started long ago and has been one big butterfly effect for where we are now. I can tell you the whole story but it would take ages

>>18296024
I have a lot of time, anon. Knowing the whole story (or at least a summarized version explaining why you feel this way) will help me and others to give you better advice.

>>18295934
Try jaywalking

>>18295934
Or climbing over a fence nude

>>18295934
Cut the tag off your mattress. Makes me nervous every time.

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join the military. paying your own money for community college is a chump idea. college in america is a chump idea in general. meanwhile you can paid now by enlisting and get free college. were i you id join the navy or air force. with trump in office you cant go wrong

>>18296015
trump being in office makes joining the military bad because you'll actually risk your life doing something instead of just getting a paycheck

also im too out of shape for any service im pretty sure

That's about the most disrespectful thing you can do. Leave his ass

>>18295790
I'd leave him then and there. The act alone is purely disrespectful and fucking disgusting - add to that the fact that he gets aggressive when you don't give him money.

If you stay will him he'll end up hitting you.

>>18295790
Yeah. That's a bitch move. Your boyfriend is a bitch.

You're an idiot for playing with tarot cards.

You're both better off on your own.

>>18295766
Fail, most likely.

>>18295771
other than that

Studying would probably help

Yeah, being worse than mediocre

>>18295612
That's not possible.

both extremes are more respectable.

Being bad is worse

Political conservatism has poisoned you

>>18295579
I don't understand what you mean by this.
I don't care about politics, and I don't really see the world in terms of left and right (as most people don't)

You need to get a girlfriend and try obtaining something in this world.

Go ahead and barf up that redpill that you swallowed.

Either jack off to whatever or quit jacking off but jeez bro chill out.

>>18295485
>redpill
Huh? I don't hate women, but I do hate the fact that I lust after women other people are having sex with. Do you understand? It's basically that I'm saying to myself, "It's okay that you'll never have sex with this woman since you can still masturbate to her!" That doesn't seem okay, though. It basically seems like I'm just giving up.

Though I guess it's possible that jerking off to virtual women is even further giving up. That's why I thought I'd ask, try and figure some things out.

>>18295493
Idk man I recently cut out porn from my life and I've been feeling pretty good. I haven't even jacked off in like 5 days.

My dreams are getting more vivid and intense in all aspects, not even just sexually.

>>18295368
Take the 10 per cent hit to your paper's grade or whatever policy your prof has. I guarantee it'll be a better grade if you take your time and make a good paper rather than rush it in 4 hours but make the deadline.

>>18295368
-Make a title page if possible
-Start your works cited on a new page if your last page of text reaches at least halfway
-Google scholar has citations you can copy/paste
-Quotes over 4 lines should be their own paragraph (equals 4 extra lines of empty space)

Totally doable, good luck! If you feel a wave of panic coming on, take a 10 second break to breathe, where you do nothing but think about your breath.

Pro tip: dont wait till last minute... Get a friend that will read you each line while you type it into final form.. Dont panic, you will cause yourself more mistakes...if all else fails, take a sick day.. Or tell the teacher the truth, you were a lazy bastard

>>18295360
Go to some poor shithole and convince them with your wallet. No sane doctor in the first world would risk taking your childish excuses seriously.

>>18295360
30% chance to gain permanent mild pain
5% chance to gain permanent severe pain
http://www.vasectomy-information.com/post-vasectomy-pain-syndrome-scientific-review/

10% chance to lose ability to have kids if reversed in 5 years
20% chance to lose ability to have kids if reversed in 10 years

But you can just change your doctor? Also if you dont do relationships, you have to use condoms anyway. Aids is not a meme.

So for you, it is indeed not optional. Listen to your doc.

>tricked into having a child
Dont put your dick into crazy. To have a kid, you have to have unprotected sex. Why would you have one if you dont trust the girl you are fucking in the first place?

Listen to your doctor.

>>18295360
I would really check if you are just not suffering depression or anything. What you are suggesting is permanent and I'm pretty sure you will regret it. A lot of things seem important when you just consider what's in front of you and nothing else,

If nothing else, I'd write your reasons for wanting this procedures done and also write a counter argument describing why you might want it done. Also definitely seek medical advice from doctors who are supportive and doctors who are not so supportive.

>>18295237
How long do you think you've been depressed for?

>>18295311
Certainly since around October at least.

How is it impacting your ability to function?


That said, a big part of any sort of slump is figuring out how to deal with it, and the reason depression is a meme isn't because it isn't real, but because people put all the focus on the idea of being depressed or not and no focus on dealing with it. Focusing on whatever it is you need to do (school, work, social stuff, whatever), and developing a sense of agency by doing that I think is the best way to deal with a slump regardless of how it's categorized.

If you do think you're severely depressed though, try to talk to someone and get a professional evaluation. BTW, medicine and therapy don't work for everyone, don't think they're a ticket out of doing personal work on yourself

Fuck, I'm the youngest too and most likely gonna be the last one to move out. I have no idea how my moms gonna handle it since she's like your mom where her only "hobby" or the only thing she does is think about her kids (she's a widow as well) I'm so fucking scared of this type of shit happening to me.

>>18295203
The fuck I'm 24 and don't talk to my mom or sisters for months on end and they don't get all hissy

>>18295210

Glad to know I'm not alone but sorry to hear that as well.

>>18294928
>this hook up culture we live in

Statistically we are hooking up less than our parents, they just didn't have social media to parade it around.

There's nothing wrong with how you feel OP, do you. I personally enjoy friendships, I love good banter and hanging out.

Pretty much feel the same. I don't have many friends and the only friends i really have are close ones (i don't make any effort to make new ones tho). The reason why is i just don't mind being alone and as long as i have a pc im all set. My friends feel different tho and wanna go out and do stuff every other day because they feel bored sitting in their room.

Relationships feel good if done right. Like anything that feels good people want more of it. I personally prefer random pussy to relationships but I like a good relationship as well

>>18294916
You've known him for six years.
You should have thought about it before you started dating him.

Why did you start a relationship with him if you knew he was so disrespectful?

>>18294916
>that shows bad character in my opinion
Why? The rest of his behavior obviously does but how the fuck is having many sexual partners a bad trait? It's not like he had 40 relationshits.

>he comments on wanting to fuck girls he sees on the street
Now that's silly if he knows that you're not cool with that.

>makes derogatory comments about all of his past sexual partners.
Now that's a huge redflag.

>showing their naked photos to people
Abort.

All your questions are down to your insecurity though and no it doesn't make you insecure, you already are. It just gives you another reminder. So you should work on that regardless of what you choose here.

He doesn't sound like a complete asshole, it's normal to make a little fun stuff like that from the past
However what does worry me is how he seems to not notice he's obviously talking about it too much to a point where you feel insecure
Feels like he's a bit of an insensitive prick for that
Tell him straight to his face how you feel about these things you just posted here