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>>18342357
Took me a year before I found something. Actually that's a lie. I haven't found anything but the military.

>>18342359
How old were you when you joined?

>>18342357
How old are you OP? Just curious. Because I'm 24, still in college and can't get a job. I just wanna be a neet and drink and overdose myself to death desu.

>>18342303
I dated a girl for a while who had definitely been with 30 dudes. I was 31. It had no meaningful effect on our relationship.

Like, she wasn't sleeping around or cheating on me at all. We just had a normal relationship right up until we didn't and broke up over the course of however long that took.

>>18342303
A pretty girl will have tons of dicks inside of her before you ever came into the equation. Women get offered sex constantly so it's no surprise they have more sex than men. It's only s factor if you are bothered by it then it becomes an issue that you need to work out.

>>18342303
If you are not comfortable with the fact that she hooked up with over 20 guys.

Than yeah chances are that probally it's gonna affect your relationship.

Sounds like you are right

>>18342086
I mean he prolly is trying to hit, but you have to trust your girl, G. She hasn't cheated yet or given you any worries about being unfaithful/shopping around, has she?
I've been in a relationship where the girl cheated once and broke up with me to immediately hook up with her ex the day after, so I have some experience. You can kinda tell usually.
If you aren't suspect about her moving on from you, you have to trust her. You will be nervous and wonder, but she's your girl and she's gotta be her own person. That includes hanging with other dudes, maybe alone. If you can't trust her with that then you should prolly break up with her, because you should be able to. Ik bitches wanna be hoes, but you gotta have faith even if the idea gets all in your head and bugs you out.

>>18342086
>unfamiliar 8 year older guys invite to his house for "coffee" is not just any case.
You're fucking right and if she disagrees with you she's a fucking whore and you should just dump her whore ass

>>18341860
You don't deserve him so do him a favor and break up with him. Please, whatever wrong he has done to have had you introduced into his life I'm sure he's paid for it. Get out of his life, you at least owe him that much.

>>18341860
Obviously the solution is to stay with him, never say anything, and lose both of them when it inevitably comes into the light. That can be the topic of your next bait thread.

You cheated because you weren't up front about your intention to end the relationship. As far as he was concerned, you were in a relationship and had you not been, you should have given him the opportunity to fuck someone else too.

You should be honest with him, tell him exactly what happened and allow him to make his own choice.

Uh, yes. Absolutely. There's no rationalizing that can be done here.

>>18340570
I'm 80% certain this is bait.

But if it isn't, prepare to be crucified as a cheating whore by /adv/

I'm not going to do that, and assuming this is true I think you had the best of intentions, but it is completely unacceptable for you to do this. You could get an STI and it's a massive violation of trust.

Come clean to your BF. Even if you're ok with doing the world's oldest profession on the side, the guy you're fucking might not be.

._. What kind of question is that lol

>>18340480
Go to a club with friends.

Go to the DR

>>18340480
Get ripped as fuck

No i don't date women who have no hobbies anymore because it goes good at first but they slowly begin to disgust me overtime

I only date women with hobbies
Only the most special ones

>>18339548
i prefer a girl to have hobbies, ideally a few of our hobbies will coincide. people without hobbies eventually become too demanding on your time. they tend to end up relying exclusively on you for entertainment. i think if two people have solitary hobbies that they can engage in while still being in close proximity to one another, it makes it feel like i can get my alone time without actually being apart from the other. my dream is to find a girl that also enjoys single player vidya, and we vegetate on the same couch, each playing our games on separate devices/tvs/whatever, pausing intermittently to smoke pot and/or fuck.

what are your hobbies, anon?

>>18339505
pls respond

>>18339505
>Also she's insinuating she's still obsessed with this one guy who rejected her.
Seems pretty clear cut to me. She's not over somebody else. So move the fuck on.

>>18339505
Move on. She's clearly not into you.

>>18338520
My mother is bipolar. She went through two long-term relationships (both 10 years+) and only started getting in control of it when she became single. In her own words, relationships are an emotional minefield and to someone with a mood disorder (which, to my understanding, is a large part of schizoaffective) they can be more harm than good.

Take that however you will.

>>18338520
My wife suffers from depression. She hasn't been "cured", but we've worked around it.
Just always be there for her and never give up. Good luck, Anon.

>>18338526
She says that ever since she met me she has been a lot better. And in general she is fine with me the vast majority of the time. It's just very difficult to pull her out of a bad mood.
>>18338527
Thank you. I never give up. But it gets hard when she always blames herself for everything and because of that I can't really talk to her about how it affects me too.

If you are the only action she has ever got she might have trouble letting you go entirely.
Is she autistic?

>>18338531
>Is she autistic?
God she fucking acts like it. She's clearly got something wrong with her. Very strange dietary habits, plus a pretty obvious eating disorder. She is fucking slender. Drives me crazy, but not much point if I can't touch.

>>18338541
If you don't want anymore to do with her cease all communication. Every time you message her back it reignites her hopes a little.

>>18337801
Sins were made up by the church. Along with jesus and god. Magic is not real. You're good. Go be happy

>>18337801
Being gay is not, in itself, a sin, regardless of your branch of Christianity. You might look into finding a spiritual director, but strive always to follow God according to your conscience.

>>18338088

Wtf is this post. Just fuck off.

>>18337801
there are lots of churches that accept homosexuality and other LGBT groups.

understand that women are children and you cannot trust them
not because they are evil but they have the mind of a child
pursue another, get over your anger by working out/doing sports/working

>>18341982
So you got laid a lot for two months and then she disappeared. Where's the downside?

>>18341982
You got fucked, it happens. Don't dwell on it and cause it to hurt you anymore than it already has. Learn what you can from it, take your mind off it and let time do its thing.

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no, you're fine

>>18341701
>ARE YOU OKAY?
hahahahahahahahahahaah what a shit message. Moving on from the chapter of your life that is high school can be stressful to certain people. It is a period of uncertainty and reflection. The last thing you need is some motherfucker being obtuse and prying over manners it seems you don't want to discuss. You also sound like a woman in your text. Just leave the poor girl alone and wait until shit replies if she ever does. I get you're concerned and want to help but that was too much desu

>>18341701
Uh, that's not how you become her cuckold.
Ask her more about her ex bfs and the guys she has fucked. Maybe one day you'll get a snap of her with jizz all over her face.

you sound cute

do you have a kik or discord?

>>18341350
Idk what either of those things are

If you don't have a need for a relationship then stop thinking about it.
Just because everyone else is doing doesn't mean you have to.

Could always get a cat or dog.