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>>18344486
Didn't we just have a 150 post thread about this a couple days ago?

Most people here hate race mixing because they're afraid of the white race going extinct or that their culture will be destroyed.

I don't personally have a beef about it but I'm mixed myself so it would be a bit self loathing. I think people should date or fuck whoever they want and I don't see whites or anyone else dying out because there will always be people who stick to their own race.

>>18344486
I mean it is pretty stupid that you concern yourself with who other people choose to be with.

So I mean objectively, it's a shitty attitude to hold, but what makes you uncomfortable makes you uncomfortable. If you don't like it, don't get into an interracial relationship.

>>18344486
We're tribalistic and thus are hardwired to despise degenerate activities and there's nothing more degenerate than beastiality.

>>18344480
I'm not reading all that shit

Smoking before your early 20's absolutely alters the growth of the brain permanently.

You fucked up but it's probably not THAT bad and it's not like you can fix it now anyway.

>Am I being a worrisome faggot?
Yes. You're also just a plain ol' faggot who rambles. Your post could have been half as long as still accomplished the same amount of information.

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>Imaging studies of marijuana’s impact on brain structure in humans have shown conflicting results. Some studies suggest regular marijuana use in adolescence is associated with altered connectivity and reduced volume of specific brain regions involved in a broad range of executive functions such as memory, learning, and impulse control compared to people who do not use. Other studies have not found significant structural differences between the brains of people who do and do not use the drug.

The point of the comic is to make rational decisions based on a person's history. By all means, take a history of infidelity into account when choosing a mate, but it does not follow to hate them for it. Your hatred has a different root cause.

>>18344394
I read that as "slutty pastas" at first and was expecting a much funnier thread.

>Not dating someone for their past infidelity
A perfectly valid reason for not dating someone

>Not dating someone for being a "slut"
You're a hypocrite and a misogynist. No one will ever love you.

>>18344015

1. dont eat street food
2. DONT eat street food its not barbeque its roasted street cats
3. walk on in by big districts ONLY. smaller districts avenues locals do not like outsider
4. DONT talk to young girl offering free sex. is not free sex is underaged prostitute (happens to me 2 times everytime)
5. dont buy cheap iphone cellulars they are not original
6. DONT eat on jia jia tang bao the waitress have bad customer service
7. dont take paper money anywhere use credit if you have
8. dont buy cigar

>>18344015
PhD in a Chinese uni?

wtf are you doing, mate?

恁幾把弄啥了呀?

>>18344057

>>18344057

oger that, boss

why the credit card tho? many pickpockets who will take the cash, or is China becoming paperless?

how about alipay or wechat pay?

>>18343943
don't do it anon

Nigga are you suicidal or just dumb?

>>18343946
Both
>>18343945
Why not. I am in a failing marriage. I am unable to support myself with my disabilities I can not get a job I am stuck in a body to just exist at this point. I have tried reaching out for help but none of the physchologists helped me and they just dismiss me saying that I am a narcissist rather than listening to what I have to say. I rely on my parents for money I have no friends or social skills and when I try I end up having to leave because of my health. I just want to let society benefit from me not being around and have one less person to take money from.

Worst bait I've seen

>>18343824
Lol this is pretty bad b8. I'll give you 4/10 for at least getting me to read the whole thing.

you're a bitch
tried to bully him into cleaning your shoes, swung on him and got whooped.
like a bitch
3/10 for making me reply

>>18343323
yeah that's pretty fucked up OP. that's definitely sexual assault.

>>18343323

So you didn't want to have sex... yet wouldn't even fight back?

I don't see how he could respect you, seeing as you don't even respect yourself enough to fight back.

>>18343323
It was rape
Call the lawyer its time to ruin a life

The Boondock Saints has Willem Dafoe play a gay investigator who has a crossdressing scene.

But seriously, >>>/lgbt/

>>18343183
Wrong board bro

Why do you guys tell me to go to the LGBT section? Every single time I try, no one there says anything. :/

Have you tried talking to her about being a drunk embarrassing mess? If you aren't condescending about it you have a chance at sparing her the shame of being excluded.

>>18343038

not wrong at all imo, but there is going to be fallout, and how you handle that fall out is where the issue of morality really falls.

you can't just not say anything to her. she probably doesn't know how much of problem/burden she tends to be. just say hey we all ganged up and talked about you behind your back and we think you're not fun at all to be around when you're super drunk, so we're going on this thing without you and we'll see how you act when we're back.

How do you effectively act distant to someone after a day of fuck up and embarrassment?

We are really close but I want to be left alone and have nothing to do with that person anymore.

I just don't want it to be obvious because that person will really notice the change in my attitude.

>single father to 4 year old daughter
>mother passed away shortly after birth, shock caused by c-section infection
>own a house, fully paid off
>work from home making $60,000~ a year. Very casual work: I have a lot of free time

Why am I so hesitant to date again? I'm confident and have my life sorted out, I just want companionship. Is it wrong to be on great terms with my late wife's family? What if I still visit her grave? Do women care if they'll be constantly reminded that I still love someone else?

Girls -

I have a female friend. Says she isn't interested in anything me right now. Texts me ALL the time when she's with the guy she is interested in. Why?

I get that I'm friendzoned, and I don't care, but why fuck with me when you are with the guy you really want?

stupid people dont find ugly people atractive you retard.
Ugly people have low standards and good looking people have high, even they're dum

>>18342598
amazing!

>>18342565
Yes. People who are attractive but dumb as bricks are a dime a dozen.

>>18342538
that girl is black lmao

what the fuck

>>18342545
how can she be black if she has white skin

>>18342548
Her skin isn't white. Are you blind?

You don't.
You can't.

There is nothing you can do to stop loving a girl or caring for her. However, there is stuff that might improve your life.

If other things in your life go well the unrequited love does not weight so much.

think about the things you dislike about her more than the things you like, even if that makes you look like a bitch

To further elaborate the situation
>Meet girl on social media
>I stay in US and she stays in France
>Talk all the time(instant messaging, video chats, calls)
>I was being distant at first but then one day she went "Can I tell you something? I think I love you."
>Took me by surprise, never heard this from a girl
>Say it back and both of us agree to meet one day
>Further down the line I realize myself getting jealous of the guys she's friends with on social media
>Tho she says she loves me a lot of guys are hitting her up and it has my imagination going wild
>Imagine I'm not the only guy she is talking to like she is
>Everyday constantly scared she'll hurt me and stalk her profile to see who she's to and if they're flirting with her
>Always jealous, nervous, mad etc etc because she talks to other men on social media but not all flirtsy
>Emotions are going crazy and head is always wondering what she's doing even tho she has assured me time and time again there is no one else and she loves me


I just want off this crazy ride. I want my life back. I tried to ignore her for a day but I broke down and had to hit her up I love her so much. Idk what to do I want my life back im tired of these feelings

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>>18342369
Not all girls enjoy their bodies to through same ways.
Some girls have orgasms in the gym workng out, some are hetero but have lesbian fantasies.

Im a guy but my opinion: you need a partner for who you fall in love or some fantasy/fetish to get a better orgasm.
Just you can find it, probably through experimentation, but don't have high expectations, do it to enjoy your body.

It's totally fine.
Do what you want, as long as you enjoy doing it :)
Many people don't enjoy sexual things. It's really ok.

>>18342369
I'm the same way

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OK, so, I just graduated with my masters degree from a small university near my home in an east-coast state. It’s a masters in theology (MDiv), essentially it’s the same degree that priests/pastors get when they want to serve a church. Here’s the thing, I’ve never been a member of a church in my entire adult life (I’m 29 btw). I got the degree thinking that applying for a job leading a church was a lot like applying for a job in software or at a business -- if you have the skills and education, then you would be considered. Not the case. The process for becoming a church priest/pastor involves you going to church as a layperson for several years while you “form bonds” at your local church level, with the leader there, and then they recommend you for the next steps towards leadership. Every local church I’ve been to is filled with old ladies, practically dying, and theologically very conservative. They really aren’t my cup of tea, and I don’t want to commute a long distance from my home just to go to church every Sunday and Wednesday (a usual day for Bible Study). Plus there’s no guarantee they’ll want to recommend me for what’s called “ordination,” that’s the process to becoming a paid Christian church leader.

>TLDNR: I’m a 29 year old recent masters graduate with a degree that's in being a priest when i don’t go to church

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So basically I feel like I have a pretty useless degree. I started it because I liked religions rituals, different cultures, the mythology, the philosophy of faith (essentially theology -- the study of God) and I wanted to HELP people. I come from an upper-middle class family and I wanted to give back to the universe for all the blessings I’ve had. But when I started my degree many of the classes were not based in history, philosophy, facts and study. Instead I ended up writing about my “feelings” a lot. You know, how has God touched you, do something creative with this paper, talk about your personal experience in this class as opposed to a critical analysis of your reading or lecture. Etc. etc. And frankly there was a lot of “Well all this book learnin’ ain’t helpful cause in mah church we do this and that… Now you might wanna talk about what it says in yo book BUT I JUST FEEL THAT (and at that point I wanna snap and throw some people against the wall).” So yeah, all of my graduate education has been pretty meh, and low information. Mostly just writing papers, but I try to keep them on point and academically sound. However, at a certain point they actually told me it would lower my grade if I didn’t get all mushy and personal. Well, so much for serious theological studies :( but I came out better informed than when I went in, so you could call that a net gain.

>TLDNR: I feel like my degree is pretty useless, it certainly didn't lead me smoothly into a career. It’s a theology degree so even though I liked a lot of what I studied, there were parts that were objectively useless and low information. I chose the degree because I wanted to help people and learn about philosophy and cultures and stuff.

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So now, finally, to the problem. I’ve graduated, I’m officially a NEET. At 29. Living with my parents. I really don’t have many, if any, skills or experience. I’ve never held a job, even part-time, I’ve always been in school. At 23 I graduated college, spent about three years abroad teaching english and trying to “find myself,” then went into graduate school to become a priest (like I said, without ever really going to church). So now at 29, I’m without any other experience in my life other than volunteer work and school.

>TLDNR: So now that I’ve graduated I’m an old NEET with no paid work experience. Just a degree and three years of international volunteering from over six years ago.