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For some reason I'm having a really hard time meeting someone. I'm 25, and only had one gf back when I was in college for a short while (met her through a friend). I'm said to be decent looking (according to photofeeler at least), I have a car, I'm about to med school... overall I'm well put together, but everyday for years it's been bothering me that I just can't seem to attract a girl. I've tried dating apps numerous times (I took good looking photos with a high quality camera and everything, little matches and none of them were receptive. I've tried approaching girls in public, such as grocery stores and conventions, with no success. I feel like there's something horribly wrong with me and I just can't put my finger on it.
The only "success" I've had is strangely with older women. I've only gone out with one girl in the past year and she was 37. I met another lady at the bar recently and we made out, but she was 45.
Is there something wrong with me, or is it just bad luck?
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>I have a car
>I'm about to med school
>overall I'm well put together
yeah, you are you interesting? I mean, what are your hobbies?
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>>18347613
Don't have a whole lot, but I feel this shouldn't be a deal breaker? I just go to the gym, go out to bars with live music every now and then, and like reading... I mean does every guy need to play an instrument or something to meet someone?
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18 yo here, you're not alone, finding a new social hobby always leads to new opportunities in my experience. I have trouble meeting girls too. I go to college, regularly meet up with my male friends but I hardly ever get a chance to talk to girls and we never really hit it off when it does happen. I don't think this sort of thing has anything to do with something being 'wrong' with someone, just a bit of bad luck that we haven't really met anyone who 'fit' us yet. It's good you go out and try and make as many opportunities you can. I think the best thing to do is just to continue to be social, try and get into a good social group, (I do this, for example by going out to the city and regularly meeting up with friends to play d&d). Try and meet some new people at med-school and do your best to fit in with a group and you’ll naturally meet new people in your life I guess (male and female), and eventually something romantic might come of it.
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So 5 years in (6 come november) and we've hit a snag. I'm selfish let me rephrase, I've hit a snag. So my wife is this cute little blonde with a bouncy bubble butt and b cup tittys. Life is good in that domain. We love each other, get along fantastically, and (groan if you must) she's my best friend. That being said I have a problem. When I was younger I dated chubbier girls mainly because I love big tits and I guess that love, lust really, is surfacing again. I don't know what's causing it, I've cut down on porn over the years and lost a lot of weight recently so I don't think it's anything unhealthy. Anyone who's been in something similar what did you do? I feel like asking her to bulk up since her bmi is 19 and maybe if she exercised her chest more it would be enough for me.
I feel horrible because I'm being a perfectionist and she's as close as can be. What should I do? Should I tell her about this and ask her for some help or just deal with it internally. It's just been on my mind so much lately and our sex has decreased a little even though my libido is fine if not a little high.
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>>18347465
Knock her up.
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>>18347507
Shit forgot to add that. That's in the works come next year though I'm not sure how big she'll get as her mom where's lose clothes since she's overweight from doing nothing all day.
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We want what we can't have. When I was with my ex, I wanted to fuck skinny petite lil' sluts. Now when I'm single, I want my ex's big titties in my face and her soft body cuddling up to me
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This is me and my husband. So I already posted this in /soc/ but I don't think they gaf to give advice so here:
My husband comes home drunk every day, falls asleep, and works the next day. He wakes up and does it all again. I feel like he's an opportunist when it comes to sexual exploits, and he has a new client every day. I'm lonely and sad and I'm starting to drink myself, to deal with the lonliness. I would post this in /adv/ but I love soc. I used to camwhore here a lot before I met my husband.. What do I do to deal with the pain of being his sub wife that's obsessed with him all day?
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>>18347398
talk to him
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>>18347409
I do. He's a narcissistic blame shifter that acts like his job is the most important thing god ever made. He's impossible to talk to about this. I wanna find him a new job but i feel like it really won't help much. He's an alcoholic and I need him. He needs booze. Idk what to do.
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Fuck someone else. Obviously.
I deleted her number and cut contact. I had severe oneitis or whatever you want to kill it and I just pulled the trigger and deleted her today. I feel like dog shit. Didn't say a word to her about it.
What happens now? She has made no attempt to contact me(she never texts me first anyway). I find myself feeling more free but at the same time more empty?
I feel I wasted so much time chasing her. 5 years. I am 27 now. What is there even left for me to do? I still don't know how to interact with women I romantically like. I can't flirt, I don't like doing "PUA" stuff.
What is even left for me? I feel like a prisoner who had been set free and is now trying to re acclimate.
What can I do?
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>>18347350
>What happens now?
That's like asking what happens after you bury your dead dog. Nothing. Its dead. It's buried. Time to move on.
>What can I do?
Talk to other girls. Go kayaking. Buy a book. Pay hookers to lick mustard off of your balls. Literally anything other than pointlessly rehash the last 5 years over and over again in your head and on the internet.
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>>18347350
FIVE YEARS ??????
Holy fuck OP, she strung you along for five years ?
She's a monster and you're clearly mentally ill
>What can I do ?
Go to therapy to fix yourself
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Take some alone time...
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Has anyone else but me had 10+ interviews but no job?
Currently at 12 and no end in sight.
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>>18347347
Bump for asking a question that's not 14 year olds asking about relationshits.
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Yes. Keep going. You're getting better at interviewing with each interview. An ex of mine had something like 30 before getting an offer once. She was like a machine.
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>>18347347
Do you have a college degree?
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How do I escape the crippling depression guys?
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>>18347239
kill yourself so that nobody else has to deal with your depressive bullshit
alternatively, shift your value systems and remove the cognitive dissonance inside yourself
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>>18347239
By posting this in the correct board.
To /r9k/ with you
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first step: leave 4chan and don't look back
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Why do we crave sex?
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Horniness and it feels good as fuck.
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>>18347071
Sex feels good.
Also it's a natural thing man.
Animals like to fuck.
We are on the same road, with more twists and turns, but in the end it's all sex.
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dick
help
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How common is cheating? I'm horribly paranoid that my future partner will break my heart by just randomly sleeping with somebody. I don't have much relationship experience to assess if cheating is THAT common or not
Is it?
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Get good at sex and have a good income job and u should be good
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>>18347049
its fairly common. mos tpeople do it at some point in their life.
worrying about cheating is like worrying about the gas prices. nothing you can do about it , so stop worrying and keep at it with whats in front of you.
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All my 6 best friends have been cheated on. I'm not even mad, just very very sad.
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Girlfriend cheated on me. I confronted her with the evidence that she was at her ex-bfs house a week ago. She broke down and cried. She told me she had been going through a really tough time recently (she is, with work and her school) and became really stressed.
I'm upset with her but I think we can work through this. We talked about it all night about how hurt I am and she agreed to follow any rules I set for her.
I don't want to be overbearing but what kind of rules should I set?
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>>18347017
once a cheater, always a cheater. break it off and dont look back
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>>18347028
this
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Just got a 2nd dui. 33 years old. State of Kansas how is this gonna affect my life and what should I do?
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Get a lawyer. It's gonna jack up your insurance rates if the DUI stands.
If you haven't lost your license at least you can still work. That's the main worry.
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You could stop drinking alchol before you drive anywhere.
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>>18346687
Well I certainly hope it makes you stop getting behind the wheel while drunk you idiot.
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Theres this issue I cant stop thinking about
I am 22 years old and Ive been dating this girl for over a year now. I lost my virginity to her, but she hd two partners before me (and from tinder). It depresses the fuck out of me that she gave away her virginity to guys who didnt give a crap about her yet here I am being her bf. I hear women never ever forget their first time. It makes me anxious and depressed on a daily basis and I dont know what to do. I am distant with her but she is obsessed with me. Shes dropping hints at wanting marriage, and I want nothing to do with it. I would honestly rather be a virgin than marry someone whos had sex with guys on tinder. What should I do?
And before you lecture me about wanting a unicorn, like I said id rather be single forever than have to deal with this.
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ur an insecure lil bitch huh? man the fuck up
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You gotta shake that shit out, man. When you're older you're gonna want a girl who isn't a clingy, annoying, inexperienced brat. So what, that someone way before you stuck it in before you were even known...it shouldn't bother you man.
It's great you lost your Vcard to a girl who wants to take you to the end. Be thankful for that, and be thankful you don't have to train a girl how to give a proper blowie.
You're an adult now, mate. People have been fucking rampant since 15- it's not a big deal unless there's crabs or something.
Cherish your gf, and watch pronz when you can, because you'll miss the shit out of it when you live with her.
Gl anon
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>>18346243
You haven't had sex with her nor do you want to marry her? Then why are you with her? Time to move on, if you get nothing from the relationship and you see no future in it. Your wasting both your time and her time right now, when you could be with better suited people you could actually have a future with.
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Hey /adv/
So I think I'm bisexual, leaning to guys.
I find girls really attractive, but I don't feel a need to actually do something with them. And it's the opposite with guys, I don't find them attractive at all but when I'm horny I really want to fuck one. And it's only that, I don't like how they look and I wouldn't ever want to be in a relationship, but I find sex with guys really hot.
How do I fix this? I don't want to be gay. I fell in love with a girl but I still can't stop my gay tendencies. Sometimes I can't stop myself, I just go out and start messaging guys on Grindr looking for something.
How do I cure homosexuality? And no, I'm not going to accept this. I don't even find guys good looking, for example my best friend is considered very attractive by girls but I never wanted to fuck him or do anything with him.
And no, it's not because family or political reasons - I don't have a problem with gays, I just don't want to be one.
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>>18346110
I'm in the same boat, except female. Only thing that got me over the desire to bang girls was to fall in love with a guy. I still check out chicks on occasion, but cheating on him isn't an option, so it never goes further than that. Mind over matter and emotion over desire, etc. Not sure if that's helpful, but it's what worked for me.
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>>18346208
Thanks, but the problem is that I don't really spend that much time with the girl - she lives in a city next to mine and we meet every two or three days.
And during that time I feel a really strong need to bang a guy. Also she knows about my bisexual tendencies, but doesn't know how strong they are.
We never talk about this, I'd be too ashamed. Also I'm not sure how she would react if I told her that I slept with a guy, especially because I'm a bottom.
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>>18346110
First, you will have much more luck asking in
>>>/lgbt/
and lurking in gay and bisexual threads.
Secondly, you cant cure your sexual orientation. Denying it will only bring trouble in long run.
If you want to have relationship with girls and occasonaly fuck dudes, just find girl which is into threesomes.
Install grindet and tap sone ass. Maybe after few nights you will realize that being gay is better. Or not worth it at all.
Whatever you will do, make sure you know what yku want before you find yourself cheating your wife with your boss from work.
Dont pretend you are something you are not, that ia recipe for ultimate disaster. Buy condoms, aids in homo sex is very real.
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How do I stop being so obsessed with my height?
I can't talk to people because I am so embarrassed about it. Obviously, this has left me with no friends. I'm 23 and have never even held hands with someone because I am so ashamed of my height. I don't leave the house apart from when I go to therapy and everyone outside is so much taller than me, it makes me feel like shit. I was going to go to uni, but on the open day everyone was so much taller than me that I just went home and cried. I can't face going. I am so obsessed with my height, it's all I think about. I'm 5'4 and I don't know anyone shorter than me, even girls. It's supposed to be the average height for females, but they're all like 5'8. Just looking at them makes me want to die. I hate myself so much. My therapist says it's in my head and that people don't care how tall I am, but how could anyone want anything to do with a disgusting, pathetic inferior little runt like me? Even if someone did want to be friends with me, I would be so obsessed with the fact that they're taller than me that I would hate them. I have no personality or interests left at all. All I think about is my height. I've been getting therapy for over a year now and it hasn't helped at all. I can't live like this anymore.
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A former friend of mine who was 5'4 slayed women left and right. He was even invited to girls only parties and shit. I remember him having a threesome with two icelandic chicks. 100% serious.
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Bump
I'm also having OPs problem
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>>18345768
Where are you from? Can you be specific?
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>>18345824
I'm from Norway. The guy is super extrovert and above average looking ofc.
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>be me
>19 year old female
>5'2
>started doing a ketogentic(high fat, low carb) diet in january and kept it up until april
>lost a bunch of weight, had tonnes of energy, skin cleared up, stopped having digestive issues
>went to stay with someone for a weekend
>didnt want to be difficult so i ate whatever they were eating - icecream, pasta, bread etc
>went back home and went back to high fat low carb for a few days
>started binge eating on butter laden carbs almost daily
>been binging almost every day for the past six weeks
>havent gotten extremely fat, but fatter than when i started the diet
>stretch marks, visible blue veins and cellulite on my thighs and butt
>keep telling myself i'll start eating keto again
how do i get out of this rut my body physically hurts
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>>18345694
Willpower and self control
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>>18345694
The same way you did it before. One day at a time. Start again and start small. Get rid of the junk food in your house.
I'm a big fan of this type of diet and I've seen the same results as you did from it. And just like you I also fell off the wagon. For me it's mostly because it's so easy to buy sandwiches at work instead of buying and preparing something at home.
Try to make things easy for you and eliminate temptation. If you keep junk food in your house you will eat it. Every time.
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Here's the trick
If the diet starts with a word before "diet", avoid it. Learn how individual food reacts with your body, and balance it.
High protein, med carbs, low fat works fine for just about everyone. You'll avoid starving your body of important nutrients and you won't get the urge to binge.
What qualities do you appreciate in people?
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>>18345692
Honesty
Kindness
Altruism
Intelligence
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>>18345692
Ability to actually ask advice on advice forum...
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