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I bought a dakimakura but I'm to afraid to bring it out because I'm afraid my parents will make fun of me.
It's not even lewd and I'm still scared.
How do I overcome this fear and tell them I bought it?
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>>18334659
have they already accepted that you are degenerate enough to do this sort of thing? If so just bring it out, I doubt they will act surprised.
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>>18334746
How is it degenerate?
It's not a lewd cover.
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>>18334749
How is owning a double-sided pillow of a cartoon girl you are infatuated with as a grown man not degenerate?
Also you didn't answer the question.
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>my mom had me when she was 39 years old
did I ever even have a chance at normalcy?
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normal people are trash though
weird people are fun to be around
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>>18334570
>>>/r9k/
If all you want to do is blame your current situation on your birth.
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My mom had me when she was 40.
No
Both my parents absolutely do not fit into the mold. As if they went out of their way to be weird their whole lives.
Dad can hardly speak english (immigrant), and mom has a huge host of psych issues. Neither of them are very sociable.
Just end me
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How do i find true love
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Be a fictional character
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>>18334416
Only gay men can find true love because women dont have sacrificial love like men have.
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>>18334417
this
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but also this
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There is something seriously wrong with me I seem to stress eat ? now im pretty fat now
(5'7-220 lbs)and have been gaining weight. I work 2 jobs helicopter factory worker ($19.15 CA/SoCal) and Dominos delivery driver fuckboi by night. I'm stressed I wont be able to pay rent or my bills and ive been eating late at night when I shouldn't. im able to pay my bills btw with the help of the second job but its beginning to take a toll on me I have no free time for myself. How do you maintain a somewhat healthy diet, and deal with stress
Also I cleaned up my bike I had in storage and have been riding the past few days usually like 9 mile rides round trip.
>pic unrelated
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>>18334411
Do an easy home activity to distract yourself from eating. Learn how to juggle or buy some bench for home exercise
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How can you not afford to live on $19/hr? Is it not full time?
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>>18334419
He is in CA. Where a studio starts at 1k if you are lucky.
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Be me age 22, never did anything significant in my life. Played video games 24/7 since i was 10 to avoid shitty life i had and abusive stepdad. Never dated, always was the funny cool friend, always got in trouble at school. Started smoking weed at 16 and doing tabs. The next 6 years were a blur dont really know wtf happened i was high and drunk or playing vidya. Long story short i just got a mail from debt collectors saying i owe at least 8k in debt i blew off. Wtf do i do? im a poor fgt and i got like 20 bucks on my bank account. Should i just kill myself and avoid it all. eight thousand dollars to pay off at 22 with a waiter wage is impossible im past the point of no return.
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The possibility of you killing yourself or just packing your shit up and moving very far away with a new name and shit is probably on their mind as well. Put yourself in the shoes of the debt collectors: they have two possibilities here.
1 - Scare you into paying your debt
2 - spend some money to sue your broke ass for those 20$ you've got.
They have no way of forcing you to pay the debt besides suing you or scaring you into it. They cant force you into anything. So far, option one has succeeded, you're scared. However, don't panic and think all is lost. That doesn't work for you or them. Realize how much power you have in this situation. They're asking YOU for money. Talk to those soulless life sucking money grubber shitheads and let them know they'll get their fucking money, but on your terms. Decide on a payment plan. Make it one you can easily follow through on. STICK TO THE PLAN. Don't let them spook you into making bigger payments or paying early. Call those bastards and let them know you're 22, you're a waiter, and if they aren't willing to negotiate with you then you may be likely to do something crazy or dangerous which might leave those debts uncollected for a VERY long time. You have the power here my man.
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>>18334409
Also congrats on going on a six year long bender that is seriously impressive
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>>18334395
Pack up and hit the road. Best of luck anon.
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I talked to this girl I met online for about 8 months and hung out a few times in real life. Our hobbies were so similar but one day she just ghosted me and stopped even looking at my messages.
Maybe she got hit by a car or something but my wife says a girl is going to get bored of me if I don't give her the D or something like $$$. Is this really true? Are adult women uninterested in being friends without getting sex or money?
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>>18334388
yes. that's why we have male friends.
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>>18334391
It makes me feel used to be honest.
This bitch didn't really deserve either anyway.
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>>18334388'
>Are adult women uninterested in being friends without getting sex or money?
Adult women don't cultivate meaningful relationships over a computer screen. You weren't dealing with an adult woman and, judging from your take on the situation, I'd say you're not much of an adult either.
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Am I stupid for not wanting to have sex unless I have feels for the person? Sex is great but I just can't really get into it unless I'm genuinely attracted to the person on a more than physical level, but I feel like people judge me for not actively pursuing sex, what do? I don't really care what other people think, but I do care what potential partners think, and I don't want them to think I'm a loser because I don't get laid all the time, is there a particular way I should go about letting girls know that I don't want to do anything with them unless we're together? I've sort of found ways to mention it, and more often than not, I feel like it scares them away because they don't want to make a commitment. Are other people like this and just do it anyway to find a partner or am I just retarded?
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>>18334377
No, that makes you normal & healthy. This "hookup culture" is sick and inhuman and I think it makes most people unhappy. Most people, deep down, want to love someone, be loved, and have a family.
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It's very common. Is commitment important to you as well or just that emotional and intellectual connection?
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>Am I stupid for not wanting to have sex unless I have feels for the person?
Firstly, this thread is tired and we've been over it a million times too many. If you've been here for longer than five minutes than your question has already been answered for you.
Secondly, stop pretending like you care whether or not you're stupid for not wanting casual sex. You're not interested in anyone changing your mind about this so there's no point in framing your question like you are. You and I both know that you're either just another troll hopping onto the casual sex train or you just came here for the sweet echo chamber of validation for the morals and ideals you already believe are true.
Thirdly, there is no particular way to let a girl know you want to take it slow. Its called talking to another human being. If you can't do that then we can't help you. You and I both also know that you aren't interested in girls who shame you for not wanting to fuck them immediately (although if you're here on 4chan I don't imagine girls throwing their pussies at you 24/7 is really an issue) so what does it matter?
The long and the short of it is that you already know all the answers to your questions and you're asking them in a super dumb way just so we'll tell you things you already know are true. You want sex in a committed relationship so who gives a shit if girls who don't want that are scared away? Your post makes no sense.
Preemptive 7/10. I think we're just about done here.
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is there any truth to the whole "deep down lesbians really want to fuck men" meme?
I have a lesbian roommate, we were friends for a few years before she moved in. We get along great, I was looking for a new roomie, she was tired of living at home and (after trying to live with girly girls and having it end disastrously) we gave each other a shot and it worked fine. Its honestly like having another bro in the house. We chug beers, watch sports, invite girls over, but sometimes she gets flirtatious. I thought she was just fucking around but it went from cat calling to pinching my ass, spooning when we watch tv and if she gets a little tipsy gives me kisses on the cheek. I dont even know if she remembers because she never talks about it after and then it happens again
any advice? Or any lesbians hereto give a second opinion? I dont want to make a move and be a creep, part of the reason she moved in was all the dudes hitting on her when she looked for apartments
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sexuality is strange. She's probably bisexual and in denial about it.
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>>18334307
>is there any truth to the whole "deep down lesbians really want to fuck men" meme?
Funny story. As it turns out, if you're a girl who fucks men, you aren't a lesbian.
If what you're asking is "do genuine lesbians secretly want dick deep down?" the answer is a resounding no.
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>>18334307
like the other guy said she might be bisexual whether she knows it or not.
I would go for it desu, have always wanted a "bro" gf
>I dont want to make a move and be a creep
wtf she is literally kissing you and grabbing your ass, I'd say a little physical flirtation is warranted back
keep in mind though, she very well could have just been comfortable enough with you to have platonic fun/ horseplay.
Honestly if I was in your position I would start flirting back a little. nothing crazy but just do the same shit she does. cat call her as she's walking past, pinch her butt a couple of times. Take it slow and gradually up the deliveries.
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A lot of NEETs are the kids of single mothers who don't want their kids to go out there into the world and be normal because they're controlling assholes who're afraid of being alone and want to keep their baby forever because they got dumped. It starts off small, you know "oh no anon you can't go over to Billy's house! I haven't met his parents! They could be MURDERERS!" and that's how it begins with these women, they're too fucking afraid to let their kids grow up and it's all in that tiny little decision, that one sentence, they implant something in you, they tell you you've got something to be afraid of, maybe it's the outside world, maybe it's other people, maybe they tell you that you're delicate and are always sick like that Eddie Kaspbrak kid from It. Just something that slightly separates you from the other kids. "No you can't have that, it's too dangerous!!", "You can't go to a party THERE! The place is filthy!".
Then it gets worse until you're high school aged and with very few friends because you find it so hard to connect with other people your age and it makes YOU look like you're the one who did this, it makes YOU look like the giant baby for not being independent when you're the only person in your age group who isn't getting their license or getting a casual job or whatever when it was never you. Maybe she threatened you or emotionally manipulated you to not do these things. And once again, it goes on until you're 18. You've graduated and you've got the life skills of a middle schooler and you don't know what the fuck to do with yourself and you're too socially/emotionally stunted and frightened of fucking up to have the confidence to make any sort of big changes in your life due to spending a life fearing things and doubting everything so you just stay in your comfort zone. In summary, lonely single mothers and helicopter mothers in general are terrible and so many I know are the result of people who parent like this.
How do I overcome this ?
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I don't think I've ever met an anon who hates his mom this much in my life
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read gorilla mindset, it may help you
alternatively, fuck her
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>>18334324
I'm trying to move out but it's a hard fucking process.
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I (19, female) met a guy (25) and we get along with each other very well. We also admitted already that we have romantic feelings for each other and we talked about the future, and made plans around each other. But he called a few hours ago, telling me that his ex girlfriend called him and he suddenly doesn't know how he feels any more... what do you think?
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*bump*
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>>18334284
>what do you think?
About?
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>>18334284
Well at least he's honest instead of just keeping you on the side not knowing about her.
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Kinda hate my brother. I dont want to, help :( 2017-05-21 12:24:53 Post No.18334187
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Kinda hate my brother. I dont want to, help :(
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We are 3 years apart from eachother.
Since he was born, we were super close, but when I got 14 yo we started to hang less and less, until we got distant.
He got into videogames really hardcore (we always liked videogames but this was way deeper), he stopped doing his stuff (cleaning his room, feeding the animals, doing his homework, etc, and only did food for himself AND NEVER DID THE DISHES)
I got into an exchange to germany at 16, there I learnt to be organized and neat.
When i got back, my brother was still a parasite in my home, since he did nothing for the house. My mother was (still is) tired of his attitude, but she gave up on him.
Because of my brothers mess in the house where we all lived and my mothers lack of authority I started to correct him.
At first I only asked him (a few times a day) to wash his dishes, and clean his room but my efforts were in vain, he also started to get mad bc of what i said to him.
Like a week into this I got tired of his shit and we started discussing and yelling to eachother all the time.
Months passed and it was the same, he lived just for himself in a house of three. He was a burden for my mother and asked a lot of money.
2 years of that passed, in between he got a girlfriend via tinder and he started to visit her daily after school and in weekends
We were doing all the cores in the house, my mom even did his laundry, cleaned his room, and got him money for his girlfriend every day.
We got into a fist fight one time, just before his exchange to germany.
Finally, the house was clean without him, I was hoping that living alone in a foreign country would fix him. He got back, still the same.
Some weeks ago we went to a party, and he got his first weed hits. I smoke weed since ever, but never got him into smoking. it was like we were kids again, we connected so good. But that happened only the first 3 times, after that he became a greedy stoner, he doesnt share munchies or water, and eats/drinks all of ours.
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>>18334187
tell him how you feel
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>>18334375
tried that, he says that its bc he needs to grow up. But then again, does nothing about it
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>>18334187
>AND NEVER DID THE DISHES
what a complete bastard omfg, i cant even
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How do I stop obsessing over women? I constantly think about girls I know and how to get a gf
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>>18333969
realize youre going to die either way, virgin or not.
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>>18333977
It just makes me feel like a loser though because everyone else is so succesful
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>>18333981
how fucking old are you? 12? are you one of those little pusfags who just dread life because you don't get a 10/10 stacy who fucks you cus youre the football captain?
>It just makes me feel like a loser though because everyone else is so succesful
Grow up to be something that will end world hunger, finish your studies, research things that make you happy and not things that you worship that won't matter once youre dead.
Ending world hunger, traveling through space, fuck even being hitler. Let your name be known for doing something great not how many girls you got to like you
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Dealing with dick/alpha male 2017-05-20 10:16:31 Post No.18333885
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Dealing with dick/alpha male
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>Be me.
>I'm a quiet guy, I hang around with a couple of my friends every time I can but I keep to myself.
>"Alpha" male walks up to group.
>Scans the guys real quick.
>Locks on me.
>Tries to assert his dominance over me.
>Asks me questions to get to know me better.
>Interrupts my replies and berates me every time a word comes out of my mouth.
>ufockingwot.jpg
>Guy speaks louder whenever I try to reply.
>Fucking ignore him the entire day.
I just learned that he's in the same classroom as me.
This is gonna be a rough year. Thoughts?
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he's being a jackass and anyone who can't see that is a moron. who cares
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So what, just talk to your friends and ignore him
What can he do to you
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pull a knife or gun on him and he will change.
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Do you have some weird thought during the day?
Like: What if i punch this old dude in front of me? Why i'm not doing it?
But then this thought goes away.
Do you have this thing? What is it called?
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>>18333566
>What is it called?
Its called having a brain.
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>>18333566
yeah I'm pretty sure everyone has those thoughts. Don't know what it's called though.
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>>18333566
yes sometimes. its so fucked up. but i wouldnt act on this thought and i try and think of something else.
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How to strike up a conversation via text message 2017-05-20 06:44:06 Post No.18333400
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How to strike up a conversation via text message
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Sorry for this extremely autistic question.
I met a girl around two years ago, we got along and exchanged phone numbers, but because I was in a relationship and she seemed more than interested in me, I cut it off and haven't talked to her in over a year.
Well now it's been a month since that relationship has ended and I'd like to meet this girl again.
How do I strike up a conversation with someone who probably doesn't even remember me without sounding like a weirdo or a creep?
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You don't that ship has sailed.
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>>18333410
Really?
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You gotta have a real purpose talking to her. Don't pick just anything to have a justification to write. No. You gotta really have a reason to talk to her. For yourself, for no other purpose than an honest exchange. For example. You see she's collecting same shit as you do. You go ahead and talk about that with sheer enthusiasm. That's so easy. And natural. Be natural, and who gives a fuck if it's late? Have a good time. And if she will not be very communicative -- just forget about it.