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Go to the free clinic retard, dress as a homeless if you have to, but for fucks sake GO TO A DOCTOR

If you have bright red blood in your stools you need to see a doctor.

If you can't afford insurance, quite frankly anon, you are probably poor enough to qualify for medicaid. Any hospital will treat you for free.

>>18338066
It's the opposite actually, bright red is "good news" dark is very bad news, but still he should go to a hospital

Unrequited love is sadly, far too common.

Cut this bullshit right now.

Just because she likes the same things you do doesn't mean you two would work together or that she would ever be interested in you if she was single.
The only reason you think she is this "unique" and "special" woman is because you have little experience with women and is most likely some desperate and needy loser.

She is not unique, she is not special, she is not the best thing in the world and if you REALLY tried to improve yourself and go somewhere in life you would probably find someone better than her that would actually want to be with you, but feel free to keep daydreaming about someone you barely know and is married to someone else, while you waste your life away.

I'm married and crushing on someone who is not, and it's eating me alive too. Maybe she likes you back.

>>18337833
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Fast forward to this week and again, we work together so seeing her all the time has been hard. But she came into work drunk, yelled at our manager about stuff and stormed off with the new bf. Then her and her other friend that work there(as bartenders) started giving out free liquor to their boyfriends when they came in. One of the managers confronted them about this and they started pointing fingers at eachother(so much for friendship), our general manager then got involved along with the assistant manager. They tried to talk to them about it and offered a suspension, but the girls lost it and it became very ugly. Now it's gotten to the point where the GM told me that he was seriously considering firing them on the spot, but is giving them one last chance to explain themselves on Friday. So all good, right? Well not quite. I've been at that job for a long time and have earned a good amount of trust and respect there, so the GM straight up asked me what my thoughts were on the situation and I told him that based on their actions(Showing up to work drunk, giving out free liquor, partying at work and often ignoring customers) that they were in the wrong. But I don't know...a part of me feels "happy" that they're finally going to learn a lesson(maybe?) not to disrespect people/themselves and hopefully grow up. But the other part of me wants to laugh and say "Wow 4chan was right, I did dodge a bullet to my reputation/heart and this girl would have wrecked me". Yet...I don't want to see her go, I know, I know...I'm a cuck and bla bla. But am I stupid if I tell him to give them another shot? Or is just lingering feelings for someone who doesn't give a damn and maybe the best way I can help her, is by getting her fired and hoping she realizes that the drinking seriously needs to stop?

Paragraphs are important.

>>18337833
>>18337834

hey cuck-anon. I was in the first thread and told you that she was a crazy bitch or something along those lines and that you should forget her. I still stand by this. I don't know why you are so hung up about her. She clearly doesn't care about you AT ALL and you still somehow feel responsible or sorry for her?

Tell your boss to straight up fire them. I'm telling you if you ask him to give them another chance and they fuck it up again (which they likely will because they seem like very resentful people) the manager will blame you for sticking up for them. They aren't going to turn it around and they aren't going to 'reward' you if that's what you're hoping for.

Do some kind of work out for a few months and not only will you pay less attention to this stupid internal voice but you'll look be feel better. Mostly confidence is needed

Kill yourself.

okay not to be extreme but seriously. I've never understood this. Just like some people were genetically 'meant' to be unattractive poor, evil etc in society, why can't we accept that some people were meant to end their lives?

>>18337811
Shit OP, this is a sweet pity party you threw for yourself. I'm sure crying about it is really going to help you out.

>>18337810
Don't watch porn, you'll die.

>>18337810
This will help provide you with some nifty info about Pornography and what it does to the Brain.
http://fightthenewdrug.org/get-the-facts/

>>18337824
I'm aware of what porn does. But what about using it in a healthy way, like just once in a blue moon? Similar to how it's good for you to drink alcohol every once in a while

guess there's no helping it

>>18337778
same except no diploma or job

>>18337778

lorazepam

I take this from time to time for my anxiety. It gives you a "This just feels nice" feeling. really helps.

other than that, set up a rigid schedule to follow to improve yourself.

REMEMBER: only you can improve you.

If you can be happy without a woman, you will attract a good woman because women want to make men unhappy.

So, just try to be the happiest on your own, and she will come.

>>18337678
Once I started exercising regularly, I reach a place of content. Sometimes even quite happy alone.

But I guess it's kinda went away and I've been very lonely lately.

The most attractive man in the world won't be able to get a girl to be his gf if he gives off desperate or needy vibes.

Not needing a GF to be happy is the key to attracting one. I recommend you go on youtube and look up Corey Wayne. Go to playlists and watch the videos in the How to get a girlfriend playlist. Super helpful stuff. His book is also super helpful.

>>18337628
Maybe, maybe not. Though ghosting in that position is kind of immature thing to do.

>>18337638
What would be the mature thing to do. I didnt want to hang out with her and her new bf after not talking for over a year

>>18337628

>>18337642

Just tell her you don't want to hang out with her and her boyfriend. Are people really this clueless? You can just say that stuff, you know.

draw furry porn but don't ever upload it anywhere

>>18337616
You'll make more money drawing commissioned porn for degenerates than you ever will drawing the video game industry, because you will never make a single god damn dollar working in that industry. It's a "dream job" meaning that people work in the industry for free, or damn close to it.

>>18337637
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6P40_kd-mS8

it's not something you can just fix quickly, and I know a couple of people i work with who are a little awkward about that but it doesn't make them weird to work with.

It's just something you have to practice in actual interactions. Generally having a better self-image helps, and getting in the right mindset helps with that and confidence. remember that whatever anyone thinks about you is up to them, and it shouldn't affect the way you live your life. Sometimes being a little more confrontational than you're comfortable with can get you farther than you'd think.

Do you jack off? Masturbating is known to cause the inability to maintain eye contact.

Since I stopped masturbating I can stare at people in the eyes all day. I never look away during conversations or if a girl makes eye contact with me in public.

>>18337524
Its because you are trying. Once you become conscious of it its impossible to look someone in the eye. In general you dont actually look them in the eye. You focus just short of the eyes so your vision is looking at their entire face. If you cant do that like a functioning human being look at the details in their eyes.

>>18337468
Lmao the thumbnail looks like you tossed a pimento-stuffed green olive in your toilet.

Anyway go see a doc, that's not normal.

>>18337519
It seems to be mucus or the lining of my anus. Not chunky flesh. I scooped it out with great difficulty since it was all flowy rather than solid and chunky - this is obviously not good, but not like emergency room or doctor levels of bad right?

It could also be the (silicone) lube I used, huh

>>18337535
Blood coming out of your ass is never a good sign. You could've perforated your intestine and could be bleeding internally.

Best to just get it checked out by a professional.

Start somewhere and network. Trial and error.

Start at the bottom and be labourer. You'll learn things from good tradesmen you'll learn things from shitty ones. Over time you get better at stuff and learn what you like/good at and what you don't.

Slowly but surely you get smarter, better, faster, and pay goes up accordingly.

I'm an Electrician. I just got wrote the final exam to finish my apprenticeship of Friday. (Canada)

>>18337673
How would you describe the kinda work as being?
Is it a high stress job? Dangerous at all?

>>18337380
That's an incredibly specific thing to ask about. /adv/ likely won't be much if any help. I'd recommend finding an online forum more tuned to that area and field.

>>18337380
college,

>>18337425
Don't go to college for a trade, you pay to learn what you are paid to learn during an apprenticeship.

>>18337312
>However, we haven't talked since then

Why not?

>should I consider it a lost cause?

Why would you?

>>18337312
Have you texted or called her

She's wants you to make the move

Give her a call

It's weird she hasn't contacted you but maybe she wants you to make the first move (Stupid as that shit is)

Can't hurt to try

what level clearance?

>>18337290
if its not on record
it didnt happen

>>18337293
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