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>be me
>be 18
>have absolutely no friends my whole life
>finally join friend group in my junior year of hs
>hit it off with everyone, fit right in
>become closest friends with two guys, M and C
>M and C are best friends
>start dating M
>he has depression and emotional issues
>dumps me after about 8 months together because of those issues
>heartbroken.jpeg
>still remain close friends with him
>a few months after the breakup he tells me he is still emotionally and physically attracted to me, which I kind of already knew
>but he can't be in a relationship because of emotional problems
>I understand
>still could possibly see a future with him
>meanwhile, start spending more time with C, just because we're friends and I'm not spending that time with M anymore
>he tells me that he liked me a lot before M and I started dating, and was upset when we did
>we start to hang out alone often
>we have great conversation, get along so well, have much more in common than I thought
>things feel a little weird
>little things happen that make me think he might still like me
I can just sense that he likes me, or feelings are developing. What should I do, I really don't want that to become a thing, but it's also one of my best friendships. I don't want to stop being friends with him. Should I just friendzone him? Or just play dumb and ignore the flirting? I don't want to appear to be a whore that just moves onto a guys best friend when he dumps her, because that's not who I am. However, I think he knows that we could never date or flirt because my ex is his best friend and he would never stab him in the back like that.
I feel fucking terrible about this. Is this my fault for being too friendly and spending too much time with him?
Or should I just stop caring about this? Maybe it's not as big of a deal as I think.
tl;dr my ex's best friend likes me, but the feelings are unrequited
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>>18339130
>I don't want to appear to be a whore
a bit late for that don't you think? It's ok OP it is in your nature. Lol imagine that, you suffer from depression and a cocktail of emotional issues then your ex goes and spends a ton of time with your snake of a best friend. C will always want to fuck you and although he will be your friend he will always want it to be something else. If M finds out it could fuck with his head but I guess that what his punishment is for dating someone like you.
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>>18339165
Weird response.
OP, you're in high school. Congratulations because this shit literally doesn't matter. Go ahead and date the new guy it's not really a big deal.
People are going to talk shit no matter what. Just do you.
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Well damn Stacy I guess you have to date C at this point too huh?
My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months and just moved in together (for convenience and to further our relationship) but she told me about a week ago that she made out with another guy AND THEN told me this past weekend (on my birthday) that she actually slept with him.
Take note:
-The move was very stressful for both of us and affected our sex life.
-She says she's sorry and was even confused that I didn't fight with her. (the whole situation just makes me deeply sad not angry)
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
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>>18339073
You break up with her, obviously. The trust will never be there again and she has exposed herself to be that type of person. Did she move into your place or did you move into hers? If she moved into your place tell her to fuck off.
Being stressed isn't an excuse for cheating on your partner. If anything, pointing to that as an excuse is a bad sign. She might be sorry but she still committed the act and things will never be the same. I guess it all boils down to whether you have enough self respect to tell this bitch to find a new place to live.
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classic
she's too pussy to break up so she's sabotaging the relationship so you will
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>>18339073
She was and is looking for a way out. You've only been together a few months and was stupid to move in together regardless your motive.
I would end it you have a roommate but not a gf.
And, it is not surprising for her to tell you she only "madeout" when they fucked. Typical so file this away for your future relationships.
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How to stop being a weak faggot 2017-05-22 02:39:49 Post No.18339003
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How to stop being a weak faggot
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I am a 20 year old neet who has done nothing. How do I get the discipline to do things?
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>>18339003
I second this question, I'm in the same situation basically.
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>>18339003
This is such a broad question. How do you develop discipline? You plan something and stick to it even when you don't want to. You go to the gym when you just want to stay inside and watch TV. You go to class when you would rather fall back asleep. Discipline is the act of overcoming the voice in your head that pleads you to be mediocre.
If you've done nothing then go about doing something. Sign up at your local community college with the goal of transferring to a university. Start a hobby and stick with it even when you feel like you've lost all your passion for it. Apply for jobs and don't stop until you get hired then work to become more proficient at that job. Join a gym and work on transforming your body or develop new goals.
It is a broad question you posed so you're getting a broad answer. Just know that whatever initial motivation you have that invigorates you to pick up something new will quickly fade. Pretty soon you'll find yourself having no desire to keep doing what you started doing and your mind will wander looking for something new to pick up. Don't quit on what you started. Motivation is simply meant to get the gears turning but discipline is what keeps the machine running.
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>>18339003
Small goals, find something that you like, I don't give a shit if it's cooking, drawing or something like it, stop being a neet,, get a job, go to the gym and find something to live for.
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I feel like every girl is going to cheat if you're with her long enough. So it's led to me getting with women, doing everything I can to make them fall in love with me, then leaving them. They get heart broken, sometimes go crazy over it.
How bad is this? and what can I do to maybe change my perception of women?
I have a theory that I think this way b/c I have deep seated insecurities about inadequacy
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>>18338824
Funny, I'm on the same path as you although not as far as you seem to be. I'm pretty fucked up so I know you must be worse off. You know this is a horrible way of approaching a relationship and will never foster anything meaningful or positive for you.
Think of it like this, put yourself in the position of a woman. You know that every guy doesn't cheat but a lot do. It would be unreasonable for a girl to assume that every guy she dated (you for example) would fuck her over if they were in a relationship. You're doing the same thing except the roles are reversed. You have to open yourself up and be vulnerable. You'll probably get hurt but its a lot better than spending the rest of your life alone.
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>>18338824
every woman will cheat eventually but it doesn't mean you can enjoy their company and pussy for awhile. Just don't fall in love nor worry much if they are in love with you (they likely aren't) but have settled for a short time. I do agree you should do the leaving first and always keep your eyes open for her replacement, she already has a bench waiting to replace you.
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>>18338824
Well you're just as bad as the women who choose to do that. In fact you're worse, as you're doing it out of sheer spite.
I think you're probably a very sad person. Cut the destructive behaviour.
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>mention to a female friend I am going to Canada for an anime convention
>she said she wants to go with me, but she's a normalfag so she's not interested in the con, just Canada.
>She said she'll probably just go off exploring on her own, but she'll probably want to meet up to go to con after party & hotel party shenanigans
In reality is she expecting me to leave the con to spend time with her? Will she be mad if I just spend all my time at the con?
Tbqh it'd be good if she comes as she can split the Airbnb & travel costs with me, but I don't want her to get all pissy because I ignored her all weekend. And yeah we're just friends, I'm probably an unknowing orbiter.
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>>18338811
Who gives a fuck if she gets mad. If it benefits you to bring her then do it and enjoy your time at the convention. If she gets mad that's not your problem, it's not like you told invited her under false pretenses.
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>>18338815
Yeah this is probably what my mentality should be.
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Well you're going to want to leave the con to get food at some point anyway. I think she's implying that she's going to wander around the con itself cause it's not entirely safe to adventure in a city you've never been to before.
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I'm 22 male, never been in relationship cause introverted plus I can't be with someone with normie taste and not passionate enough about their career.
I meet this girl on Facebook, we share almost similar taste in most things and we chatted for few days. Then I casually asked if she would date me, she said yes. We continued talking and sharing stuff and one day she casually asked my height, I said 5'7. She's 5'2.
She said she really wouldn't date short guys and I said OK I understand. We haven't talked since.
First few days it was hard getting over, now I'm OK though.
I really thought she was the one and since we were so similar in thinking, I thought she would not have clichéd wishes such as 6'0 height.
I feel I could have convinced otherwise, which I didn't when she brought up that. Should I give another try or is this desperate move for a dead end?
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>>18338686
Here's a tip, don't try meeting girls on facebook
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>>18338745
fpbp
Also if she liked you up until your height, she's stupid af.
Did you show her any pictures before that question?
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>>18338753
I did, but only upper body ones (not meant to hide my height)
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Does uni ranking matter? 2017-05-21 09:42:00 Post No.18338613
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I had a "troubled" childhood up until about 16, when I did a complete 180 and got A*A*A*A* at A level (for burgerlards, the average at Oxford is 2.7) . Couldn't apply anywhere good because of shitty past though.
Is this going to fuck me over for the rest of my life?
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>>18338613
no. be the top at your shitty university and make connections and you should be fine. or transfer if that's available for britbongs the next time you can, provided that you have stellar grades
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>>18338614
You can't transfer here. My uni isn't truly shit, but it's way below what my final grades were good enough for.
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>>18338615
Where do you go lad?
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Help me pick! Can't decide. 2017-05-22 10:20:42 Post No.18338529
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Help me pick! Can't decide.
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I can pick 5. I already have some cute ones picked out in the pictures but can't decide the last pair. Its betwen the two circled in blue so please help!! Which is more appealing or eye catching. I can't decide!! Thanks for help. xx
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The one of the left, fuck flowers.
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>>18338529
What's the occasion? Are you wearing this for a guy? If so, go with the pink and grey. If a guy isn't going to see you in them go with the flowers just because it's not as sexy.
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>>18338542
basically this
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Alright, so I recently became a parent. Now me and my wife are reasonably poor. This is just one of our problems. For starters, we can't afford baby food or that milk powder stuff. But we don't need it yet, so I guess it's alright.
We also realized parenting is hard, and after the initial joy of child- Neither of us want to have a baby. It seemed like a good idea, now we're screwed.
Any advice?
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>>18338425
quick question OP, what made you think having a child would be a good idea if you weren't in a financially good position? I've always wondered
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>>18338430
No condom
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>>18338425
I think it is normal for a person to have reservations about a child once it has arrived. The idea of being a parent is massively romanticised and after the initial excitement of having something new, all that attention from other people and a feeling of accomplishment, you hit the ground with a huge bump when you realise this is your life for the next 18 years.
Hopefully you'll settle into a routine with the baby and things will improve. Babies are notoriously boring until they reach around 18 months, at which point they will start crawling around and becoming little people.
How old are you and your partner? And how can you be struggling so much to the point where you can't even afford formula?
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I'm 49. My girlfriend is 35 and she has a 14 year old son. I've met her son many times and we get along very well. My girlfriend told me early on that she and her son were nudists. We've been nude beaches a few times together. I don't see anything wrong with nudity (though it's not my lifestyle 24/7). I recently moved in my girlfriend about 2 months ago. I work nights; usually 5 or 6 nights a week at least. One night I came home early and I found her in bed in her son's room. They were cuddled together and watching a movie but they were both naked. When I walked in, they didn't try to hide it or anything (so I don't think there was anything sexual or anything or they would have tried to hide it I think). After her son went to bed, I talked about it with her and she said that she didn't see anything wrong with it. I don't know what to think. Part of me wants to think it's like child abuse but from how I know how they think, I want to believe it's just normal for people who are nudists/naturalists? Is it something that needs to be addressed? Or is this common among nudist families? Thank you.
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>>18338359
The nudist thing really spiced the MY WIFE'S SON meme up.
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>>18338359
>cucked by my wife's son
NEXT LEVEL!
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>>18338374
What do I do to fix these feelings of jealousy?
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Doing gay shit in a mfm threesome 2017-05-22 06:56:01 Post No.18338164
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Doing gay shit in a mfm threesome
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This thicc girl I'm texting wants me to suck dick and I said absolutely not obviously. What less gay shit could I do that would leave my self-respect intact? She's pretty hot so I wouldn;t mind doing minor gay shit
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Are you sure it was not an insult instead of an invite to a threesome?
You could always have your dick sucked by a guy, pretty gay but not maximum homo.
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mmf is not gay, you both want to fuck the girl not eachother, you are being tricked into homo stuff im afraid
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>>18338169
I know she's into me. Are there any other alternatives? I'm a virgin desperate for sex
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Sex/Relationship with a MtF Tranny 2017-05-22 06:54:44 Post No.18338162
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Sex/Relationship with a MtF Tranny
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I was browsing OkCupid after another girl I was courting from the same site started to ignore me and play games and found what was clearly a transsexual male-to-female, which I "liked" for shits and giggles.
At a glance, "she" is actually quite passable and I would even say pretty. Medium-length brown hair, not too much make-up, relatively slender build, not too tall....
But upon closer inspection the masculine features begin to stand out (wide mouth, somewhat burly shoulders, strong chin and defined jawline). She has been on hormones for only 2 years (she's 19) so there is probably not too much of an effect, but I still feel like she is passable enough that a fuckbuddy would be nice.
She chatted me up very interested and even listed all the things on my profile that she also liked. I asked what she was looking for on the site and she said anything from casual sex to a long-term relationship. The sex interested me and I mentioned that I had never been with a transwoman before (a lie), to which she elegantly described that I would simply "put my dick in her butt" and that "it's just like anal sex with a girl if you ignore my penis because I never wanted it anyway". I was surprised at her being so upfront with it and mentioned that it would be cool to hang out and maybe have sex.
All that being said, my last sexual experiences with trannies have both been pretty shitty: I paid two escorts to have sex with me. Both were black and pretty hung, but neither could fully penetrate my sphincter and neither would let me fuck them anally. Needless to say, I vowed to only be a top if I were to find another tranny to fuck and here she is, almost on a silver platter.
I'm asking any other anons for advice with sex with MtF trannies or to share experiences with them. I genuinely think transsexualism is a mental disorder and yet I kind of want to see what happens and get my feet wet in relationship.
Thoughts? Pic related is sort of her but with a longer face and negative tits.
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Well OP, you already went gay twice. Might as well go gay again. Get out there and get laid.
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She probably has some unresolved mental stuff going on, and if she's seeking out men for casual sex on okcupid, she's probably already been with a lot of dudes (I'd imagine she gets a lot of messages for being a girl(male)). Anyway, no harm in meeting up, but then again if you're inexperienced in relationships then it might be tougher than you expect. Transexuals tend to be ostracized/have low-paying jobs besides any possible mental issues.
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If a guy checks out or hits on a girl in a relationship, is she under an obligation to tell her boyfriend?
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>>18338089
Nope! Why would you? It will just piss him off and make him jealous. If it was nothing to you, then its nothing. I never tell my bf
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>>18338089
No. Unless she doesn't like it and he refused to stop.
Nothing wrong with harmless flirting. If it gets touchy feely then yes. Regardless of if you like it.
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I always tell my boyfriend everything. No white lies, no hiding things.
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Confrontational Roommate 2017-05-22 05:10:22 Post No.18337993
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Shit has gotten real confrontational. In my apartment, cant even feel safe going to sleep cause share a room with this fucker. Should I set up a camera on my bed or like call the cops pre-emptively
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Need more info than that. Why is your roommate confrontational
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>>18337999
He's a hothead. I offer dialogue and all he want's do is fight. Conversation from earlier:
>Him: You wanna fucking fight?
>Me: No
>Him: I'm gonna remember this
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>>18337993
You should move out. Jesus Christ. Stop aligning yourself with trash.
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Can you guys link me songs about schizophrenia?
I'm interested in the topic and want to see how musicians approach the mental illness.
Thanks in advance dudes
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>>18337972
How important it is that the songs are specifically about schizophrenia or is general madness ok?
Here are few madness songs off top of my head.
"Brain damage" by Pink Floyd
"They're coming to take me away" by Napoleon XIV
"Flag Pole Sitta (I'm not sick but I'm not well)" by Harvey Danger
"Skullcrusher Mountain" by Jonathan Coulton
"Where is my mind?" by Pixies
Also have you tried google? With a quick check there seem to be a few listings already...
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I kind of like "Who is in Control?" by Halsey
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>>18338090
whoops, meant "Control"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=so8V5dAli-Q&ab_channel=HalseyVEVO