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>>18340759
A "smart hoodie"? Fucking Christ.

>>18340768
Lol what?

>>18340759
The fact you're asking advice on such an inane subject on 4fuckingchan tells me that you are already, in general, doomed. Good luck with your indecisive life.

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Dunno about girls, but it's really hard for a guy to 'just be friends.'
It's much easier and less draining to cut off contact.
You probably hurt him, a lot, and you'd do well to think about how he feels.

>>18340748
Ending a relationship can be difficult for both parties involved, obviously. And one thing that is often done, in good faith, is the whole "still friends" deal. He agreed to it but what else could he have done. He wouldn't have turned you down at that moment. So he made this empty promise. From the sound of it, he really cared for you and when he found out you didn't want a relationship he had to cut you off. The reason being because it's too much (like the guy above me said, it's draining). Now that you've come back, he's only reminded of the pain you left him with. He's now trying to avoid getting in too deep emotionally with you out of fear of being hurt again and reliving the pain of losing you.

>>18340748
You broke his heart ya dumbass. Now you want him to just take you back and take a chance of it happening again? He is very smart to have rejected you.
I don't want to greentext your entire open, but as an outsider reading it, it's clear that you were looking for a bigger better deal. Didn't find it, and now want what you once had. Anyone else reading it I'm sure will think just about the same, that you're a very immature idiot, whining for attention that you don't deserve. And the worst part, that truly shows your immaturity level, is wondering why is he doing this? You are blaming him for you slutting around for the past 2 years. Hah. You get what you give ya dumb cunt.

>>18340691
Talk to your doc. He/she can help you with this.
You should get yourself a vibrator and masturbate. Find your sweet spots. When it comes to intercourse, doggy style usually will hit the g spot. Unless he has a major bend in which case missionary is best.

I hate this thread already.

Op, find a man who knows how to talk to women

Tell us what you know and have tried before, and we can work from there

I just typed a 2151 words reply on my phone and lost it to bad connection...

Just date someone else and you'll forget about her soon enough after being busy in your hectic life. You're only thinking about her so much because you haven't yet found something to replace her with, be that a person or a career or a hobby.

>>18340601

I see.. but honestly, she is feeling irreplaceable. I seriously have not met anyone like her and it bugs me endlessly. I feel like if I cut contact with her.. Then I gave up and its all over. I just hate giving up I guess. I also don't know if I will EVER meet anyone like her again.

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bump before I go for a bit. I ask you guys for advice with this because I am truly in turmoil over it. If I delete this number.. there is a high chance I will NEVER see this girl or talk to her again because she never contacts me first. I am scared.

>>18340427
Yes you do, and the easiest and quickest way is to find a hobby, if you don't have one, and use that as a medium to communicate with other people. Depending if you're introverted or extroverted, try to find a good balance of online and irl interaction. For an introvert like me, I balance things like 40% irl and 60% online; it keeps me from feeling mentally worn out.

How are you supporting yourself?

>>18340455
I'm guessing 4chan doesn't count as online communication. You mean stuff like skype?

>>18340460
living with mom. i'm 24 and i feel pretty pathetic about it

Anyone?

Last bumo

So what is your question?

How much and how often do you drink, OP?

>>18340241
Ya sure let me just pull some generic advice on a person that won't even bother to explain their story.

>>18340241
I was able to quit right of the bat cold turkey. Im a head strong person who accomplishes set goals though. The shitty thing is i ended up having terrible withdrawls after 1+ year a pint of whiskey+beer everyday (<didn't think i was going to get WD's) that gave me hypoglycemia in the aftermath. Its curable but the last 3 months have been hell. Can't eat carbs, need to stay away from processed sugers, and i can't smoke cannabis. though, i need sugers through protein only (doctors said i needed carbs and sugers it only got worst, nutritionist who had it as a child and cured his told me to stay away from carbs and sugar, never been better since i quit taking the docs advice...)

I've been clean of everything for 3 months with no issues and im someone who has been high everyday for the past 8 years
Don't go cold turkey and cut your drinking my a large portion and wing it off while keeping up a good diet to ignore my shit situation.

>>18339897
I think you are old enough to find a bf and move with him from your parents to start your adult life and style your hair as you see fit.

Also why are you scared to admit your exact age? Clock ticking? Another hidden insecurity?

Every one inch of hair means plus 0.1 to attractiveness so its up to you really

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>>18339897
Guy here, but in my 20s too and live at home.
My mom gives me shit when I get a buzzcut like Aaron Hernandez tier look on the left. She prefers when I get a short and fade like right.

Its basically your hair, youre the one wearing it, and should style it for you, not your mom.
Literally just endure a 10 minute argument and go on with your day.
If she gives you a silent treatment thats really immature on her part..

>>18339858
Omegle. Any porn site with hookups like xhamster. Kik. Craiglist. Grinder (just pretend to be gay).
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>>18340000
I'm female but thanks. I totally forgot about kid for some reason.

>>18340010
*kik

>Would you like to go out on a date with me?

first you have to make a plan, learn her routine and place yourself strategically at various points during her day.
learn from her friends what she likes, what music she listens to, what hobbies she has, and proceed to study them rigorously.
always dress fancy and sharp: nothing beats a good button down vest and a smart hat.
when she's around, try to do cool things or be funny to impress her, but don't make it seem like you're doing it for her (even though you are)
approach her when she seems sad and provide a shoulder to cry on, especially when it's about her asshole boyfriend.
follow these steps and she should be falling in love with you no problem

After thinking about it for around 2 months, I literally wrote "hey, you wanna go" and it worked.

>>18339546
No, especially if you have no legit reason to.

Wipe her hard drive and install Gentoo. Thank me later

>>18339546
1)Open Internet
2)Go on /pol/
3)Leave the page on /niggerhategeneral/
4)Put pc on sleep mode

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>>18339463
You don't get girls like this by paying attention to them.
You act like you have a reason to hate them but can't voice the reason because work. If youre smiling when they walk in the room, look her way and then immediately drop your smile. If you ever have to talk to her make sure you sound like you aren't pleased about it and want to get it over with ASAP.
Then after a couple months of wondering why you don't like them they will engage you.
It works every fucking time.

>>18339485
Sounds autistic af

>>18339463
Always focus on other girls if you're not in a relationship
As for those girls, if they don't seem to respect you, act in the same way

>>18339362
Lol no one notices your hand size OP. I've never looked at another man's hands and thought about the size of his hands in relation to mine. Suppose that your worst fears came true and everyone is secretly judging you because of your hands. So what? Just focus on what you can control and don't sweat the small stuff (literally, jk lol)

>>18339362
It doesn't really matter. Not long from now you will be rotting in a casket in the ground and your whole body will be a brown disfigured mess.

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>>18339362
I know that feel bro. 5'11 and have small hands. Really freaked me out when me and my gf(female) compared hand sizes and hers wall bigger.

>>18339334
a)You're not asking for advice.

b)it's only a few, 4chan is overrepresented in the sad fucks group.

>>18339334
1) they're told they're going to be movie stars and when that doesn't happen for them they have a crisis of identity

2) social media in its current form isn't where it needs to be to enhance the experience of life. In all bar a few aspects, that is.

>>18339337
Though I wouldn't put it like that, I agree that nothing good will come from this discussion. We don't even know if it's true that young people suffer from it more than older people, apart from the obvious fact that if you've done something many times you're going to be a bit more confident about it than a total newbie.

Go find alc thread on /ck/

Well, from what I know about tolerance and the human neural circuits, it sounds like the medications you were taking for depression coupled with the alcohol and weed (which you shouldn't have been using you fucking idiot) resulted in a permanent potentiation of the circuits involved in getting your buzz. Basically you made the neurons that control tolerance of these systems to overwork themselves and your body permanently reinforced itself to protect itself and make the whole process more efficient and less taxing.
What this means if I'm right is that you're going to maintain your extremely high tolerance for good, and it will never go back to how it used to be. At best, with enough time passing, your tolerance will decrease slightly.
This is why you don't go against your doctor's orders. There are plenty of other things that could have resulted from mixing those things that won't manifest themselves for years to come, and the damage you may have done could be far worse than being unable to get drunk or high easily.

And a warning - you may not be able to feel the effects of those things unless you take large amounts, but your body does. If you're smart and you don't want to kill yourself, then don't drink to get drunk as the toxicity of the alcohol hasn't changed regardless of how much you feel your buzz.

>>18339216
list your meds bruh