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>>18373145
>Something will set me off like a headline in the paper

That's just not the real problem. It's a symptom. Find the root of your anger.

>>18373145
You go around and do what the green river killer did but only better

>Beer and drugs get rid of it
actually they enable you to be sensitive when sober. Lack of sleep and nutrition can cause anger.

Sell some dick or get face fucked for $$

>>18373070
Perhaps telemarketing? Ik you mentioned social anxiety, but it's over the phone so should be easier.
Dishwashing, unskilled manual labor like warehouse work (hit up local UPS, Fedex and Amazon) or fencing/painting, janitorial work, etc...

>>18373070

Work on a warehouse of a library putting shit in it's place. THere are low interaction shows, just work the backroom.

Also, unless a doctor said it, please don't self diagnose. I don't know you, but plenty people do that to justify their fears.

>>18373064
>drags me back in with the same charms

You are not a passive object here. Next time, don't go back.

So what's the problem? I don't understand.

>>18373072
He wants to get rid of his cuckolding fetish. It's clearly affecting his every day life.

yea better break up with her because your insecure lol gj

>>18372955
Not at all. I'm in a very similar situation and I see it like this.

Men focus on perspective partners based on attractiveness, then personality, while women are reverse. Scientifically proven. As a result, women care less about your appearance than they do of your personality. So if you are roughly a 3/10 then you must have a great personality. Feels good man you could be ugly as sin and she still wants to fuck.

My boyfriend probably feels like you on some level (getting fat, going grey, fucked up teeth, still love him tho), but I'm over here asking myself if he's still attracted to me because out sex life bombs so much and he spends so much time "alone."

How's your sex life, OP?

I also agree with >>18372982

>>18372881

Sack up, life as an ugly girl sounds like life as a pretty fucking average guy.

So you didn't get shit for valentines, it's not your fucking birthright. Holy shit.

Want to know the bright side?
There's only one fucking direction you can go when you hit rock bottom. Congrats, that's some fucking freedom. No reputation to sustain when it's already shit.

Sack up, improve life. Realise there is more in this life than just the opinions of some teenage brats.
Work on yourself, develop social skills, learn something, look for a better fucking job.

Half those cunts were going out with pedo's twice their age anyway, and the other half when after Chads who sometimes beat them. Don't bother being jealous, women have shit taste in men.
Seriously, if you were like them, you'd be pretty fucking miserable and half way to blaming ALL men because it's better than admitting you've got shit taste.

As for those guys. Well, they're such assholes an actual Meme ("Chad") was made just to fucking describe them. Fuck those cunts.

>>18372881
who cares about higschool you should care about uni now

>>18372881

Work on the future. Make better memories outside of high school that cover over them. High school is such a small portion of your life, it's not worth being hung up on it. Shit happens.

>>18372839
>is there any way to find out which one is the right one for me without experimenting?

Ask a proffesional, don't self medicate.

>>18372839
seroquel for sleeping
but all antidepressants make you fat i wouldnt reccomend them

>>18372842
Bullshit dude all a professional will do is experiment, that's the whole point of me asking

Nothing. This site will ruin you.

>>18372742
How?

Lurk more

Having some trouble meeting up with this girl due to her strict parents. What should I do? She seems really cool but she lives 45 minutes away which I don't mind driving but we can't hang out at her place and she lives in a hick town so there's not much we can do there

>>18372711
Go there, pick her up, drive somewhere else and do something together.
If you like her, what matter is being with her, not what you do.

Well, if she's from the town, shouldn't she know where "the spots" are? A lot of the time, girls just like being taken away to a spot they frequent to just get away or relax.

Snapchat. Photos get deleted after they're sent unless you screenshot.

>>18372664
are you worried about this or is she? you both would need to be for this to work, like deleting. its probable she has sexy pics she not only sent you but other guys as well. that's what women do, it makes them feel good.

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>>18372723
This is why I believe any time a girl is "afraid of sending nudes", she's lying.

They think "I'll know if he screenshots it" is the ultimate protection. It just means she isn't sending you any.

i had exactly these (one the sides of my fingers) once when i went abroad to a hot country. never figured out what they were, could just've been a reaction to the heat or a mild allergic reaction to something i ate. but they should die down within a day

>>18372644
If you squeeze them does pus come out?

don't squeeze them, they'll get more inflamed and painful. just ignore them, and maybe apply some aloe gel or something similar

>>18372633
I've never give two shits about art so I can't suggest a fucking thing to you that would be relevant. If I were me I'd go to town hall, look at the message board, see about trying out and signing up for a local sports team. Joining them and making friends with people I can bond over at least one thing about. Also I'd go to the gym to get in better shape so my hormones better regulate. Nothing in life matters anon. Stop giving a fuck about things that you don't care about and start caring about things you do. This is probably almost entirely non beneficial to you. Killing yourself isn't so bad though. I wouldn't do it but it's not like it makes a difference a thousand years from now.

>>18372643
Also, art is a meme. If you aren't a wage cuck then you have all the time to pursue it. If you are id suggest working towards getting a salary that pays at least 2 times as much so you can work half the time to focus on being a faggot.

>>18372648
Unironically this. I make films and I got to this point by getting a steady salary job so I can pay for movies instead of wagecucking.

>>18372499
>How do I become more aggressive in bed?
try just doing a few things to start out.
-when you have her on her back, bring both of her hands above her head and pin them there with one hand while you do whatever with your other.
-put her body into the position you want
-bend her over the bed and bring both her arms back and pin them to the small of her back
-alternatively, from behind wrap your dominant arm around her torso so you're sort of cradling her body with your forearm running between her breasts, and gently (G.E.N.T.L.Y) rest your hand on her throat. the point here isn't to choke her (not a fan of choking desu) but to... well let her know you're in control, dom.

>How much is too much?
in my book? anything that causes any kind of permanent harm physical or mental, or that I'm not comfortable with. I knew a couple that used to post their exploits on the internet and some of the things that the guy did to her were pretty horrific. she was a masochist to the point that she liked broken bones and she had mental problems that weren't being helped by their exploits. don't be a fucking barbarian. being dom is not being a sadist and vice versa. they are not mutually exclusive but they are not also the same.

>How do I know if I'm being excessive?
read her, have a safeword. talk about what she likes.

I can not stress enough the importance in reading your GF and her responses to things. in my book, doming is not about fear, or intimidation, or violence like so many people make it.

>>18372543
also, you don't necessarily need to do these things like, aggressively, you can dom in an understated way. also I don't know where your gf is at so again, you have to read her to figure out what is okay with her. like if you interpreted all that as being, fast aggressive movements think of the first one like this

>you start with her on her back, legs and arms wrapped around you, maybe making out, kind of taking it slow with the thrusting
>you reach back for one of her arms, still making out, still going slow, and bring it down and above her head.
>do the same with the other
>then hold them there as you give her one last kiss before kind of sitting up
>then up your intensity.

>>18372499
Think of it as a role-playing game. Both make clear in advance that what's about to happen doesn't reflect your real feelings for each other but is just a game to excite you both. Then play the role of a macho guy who only uses women for his own pleasure.

meet through friends?

Don't bother trying. The game is rigged.
Beta 4 life.

>>18372387
lulz.

>>18372225
Asians are cute. Nigga wym

You are living my dream. Now fuck off

>>18372225
send her this way
I'll fuck her, flip her over, fuck her again.. its easy cause shes so light

You're thinking about it all wrong.

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>>18372101
>where the hell is all the money at these days?
Being bourgeois.

What this world needs is a heavy dose of libertarian communism.

Completely depends where you live. You can live in San Francisco and be struggling on 100k or live in Indiana and do great on 35k

>>18372101
if your not in a hyper inflated cost of living city... 35k is enough

If you live in an elitist place, well that depends on how you want to live. 35 K in silicon valley will be livable if you are willing to commute 3 hours to work and share a room